"Conversing With Confidence"

Confidently talk to a woman all the way to the bedroom...
Talking your way into the bedroom with a woman requires conversing with confidence. When it comes to first impressions with women, you are what you say.

Every guy has stuffed up a first impression at some point with a woman. Making an inappropriate statement, appearing nervous, looking a little too long at her cleavage or using a cheesy pick up line that just didn’t impress her at all.

When it comes to speaking to women, men tend to play it one of three ways:
  1. Too politically correct.
  2. Completely over the top and crude.
  3. Cool, confident and real.
Obviously, 1 and 2 will often kill your chances of getting a second date (or even a first). Number 3 is about conversing with confidence, while also being your true, cool self.

To illustrate how male to female conversations usually work, review the following examples, going from least to most successful.

Scenario One
  • The approach: You walk up to a beautiful woman you see at the store and say “Hello” in a slightly nervous, hesitant way.

  • What she does: She offers you a greeting back if she’s in a good mood. If not she may just stare back at you waiting for you to get to the point and leave.

  • The result: You get rejected, in worst case scenarios she may even try to humiliate you in public and bring attention to her turning you down. Bottom line, there were no signs of conversing with confidence in your approach.

Scenario Two
  • The approach: You approach a woman and after greeting her, ask her a question.

  • What she does: She responds and you begin a short interaction. For this approach to work the question asked has to be appropriate for the social situation you are in. Such as asking her what isle an item is on at the supermarket, or what type of drink she is holding at a bar.

  • The result: You have a quick conversation and ask for her number, and she may be willing to give it to you. If you do call however, you will likely see the woman has already started to lose interest and isn’t interested in pursuing anything further. Her interest dimmed as time passed because your conversation was too short.

Scenario Three
  • The approach: You greet the woman, ask her a simple question and break the ice with a funny conversation starter.

  • What she does: She begins to laugh and relax. Now she is more open to conversation and you begin a longer, more involved discussion, not even noticing how much time is passing. You take care to add in conversation topics that you are passionate about and smoothly avoid any awkward lulls in the conversation.

  • The result: As a result of conversing with confidence, you now have her eager to give you her phone number and see you again.

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