In this post, I’m going to teach you how to make a woman feel intense attraction for you.

I’m not talking about a mild attraction where she “kind of” likes you; I’m talking about INTENSE attraction where she has to have you. She wants to be with you and only you. It feels good to be with you. It feels right to be with you and it really turns her on.

This powerful way of attraction that I’m going to teach you applies whether you are:

  • Meeting a woman for the first time.
  • Getting to know a woman.
  • Already deep into a long-term relationship with a woman.

The same fundamental principles of attraction apply no matter what stage of the pick up or relationship process you are at with a woman. You either know how to make her feel attracted in this way or you don’t.

What I’m about to teach you is most-likely going to blow your mind. You are never going to look at attraction the same way EVER again.

So, make sure that you read this entire post because I’m about to ask you some questions that you will most-likely answer differently when you finish reading.

Three Important Questions For You Before We Begin

Questions

  1. Does a guy have to be tall, handsome or rich to make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for him?
  2. Do you think that it’s possible for a guy who isn’t rich, tall or handsome to make beautiful women feel intense attraction for him?
  3. Is it possible for a man to make a woman feel more respect, love and attraction for him over time in a relationship, or does the spark have to die out in a relationship?

Have a think about that and now let’s get into…

The Secret to Making a Woman Feel INTENSE Attraction For You

The secret to intense attraction
The secret to making a woman feel intense attraction for you is to actively turn her on by the way that you interact with her.

Although a woman can feel attracted to a man’s physical appearance, the most intense types of attraction that a woman can feel are based on what you say and do when interacting with her.

This rule of attraction applies when you first meet a woman, are getting to know her and when in a relationship with her.

Generally speaking, you are in complete control of how much or little attraction you want to make a woman feel for you. You can make a woman feel attracted to you in more than 100 different ways during an interaction.

The more ways that you can make a woman feel attracted to you and how you’re making her feel, the more intense her attraction will be.

We men are not limited to making a woman feel attracted to us because of our looks and I’m going to show you a lot of proof of that throughout this post.

It’s Easy For Women to Initially Attract Most Men For Sex or a Relationship

Easy for attractive women to attract men for sex
For women, it’s very easy for them to initially attract men for sex or a relationship because men are mostly attracted to a woman’s physical appearance.

That is why porn exploded on the internet and continues to grow.

Man looking at porn. Initially, men are mostly attracted to the physical appearance of women

It’s also the reason why in the past, when porn was only ever in magazines and video tapes, it was all direct towards men because men feel an intense attraction to a woman’s physical appearance.

This doesn’t mean that a woman can’t feel attracted to a man’s physical appearance, but for a woman, the most important thing to her is how you make her feel when you interact with her.

Does your conversation style make her feel turned on it does it make her feel turned off?

Does interacting with you make her feel excited, attracted, in love, feel lustful and all sorts of desirable emotions, or does it make her feel turned off? Does it make her feel awkward? Does it make her feel bored?

As a man, what you need to do to make a woman feel intense attraction for you is to actively make her feel attracted to you, in many different ways while you interact with her.

An Example of a One of the Ways to Attract Women

Using humor to attract women
An example of one of the MANY ways to attract a woman during an interaction is to make her laugh.

You might have heard that women love a guy who can make them laugh. That is one of the ways to make a woman feel attracted to who you are; attracted to being around you, attracted to being with you.

If you look up the dictionary definition of attraction, it is:

Attraction (noun): A quality or feature of someone that evokes interest, liking or desire.

The dictionary definition doesn’t say that attraction is about physical appearance. It’s about qualities and features that evoke feelings of interest, liking and desire.

Making her laugh is just ONE of the ways that you can make a woman feel attracted to you. At The Modern Man, I teach guys how to make women feel attracted to them in more than 100 different ways.

Most guys are going through life not even knowing how much POWER and CONTROL they have over how much attraction women feel for them. Most guys are going through life thinking, “Am I good looking enough? Do I need to lose weight? Do I need to put on weight? Do I need to build more muscle?”

Many of these guys are completely focused on their looks as if it is the answer to success with women.

The thing is, a woman can feel attracted to a man’s appearance, but if it was the most important thing to women, the porn industry would have grown and exploded because of women wanting to look at naked men. Women would have been buying magazines with naked men and then masturbating to that.

…but, that’s just not how it works.

What’s most important to a woman is how you make her feel when you interact with her.

Yes, I know…

There ARE women out there who will ONLY ever accept a very good looking guy who has millions or billions of dollars (or euros, pounds, etc) and has a perfect gym body. Those women do exist; that is true, but the majority of women have what I call an Open Type.

An Open Type means that a woman is willing to be with all different types of guys (e.g. from different races, different shapes and sizes, different facial features, etc) as long as the guy can make her feel a lot of attraction when he interacts with her.

Hoping to Get a “Wow!” Reaction For Your Looks

Hoping to get a "Wow!" reaction for his looks
A lot of guys end up feeling very insecure about their looks and I used to think the same way before I actually worked out how to attract women.

Like I used to do, a lot of guys go through life and hope to get a “Wow!” reaction from women based on how they look. They might get a few looks from women (e.g. a woman looks at him, looks away, looks back again and then looks away, etc), but nothing other than “looking at him” happens.

The guy may think, “Okay, that girl is looking at me…she might like me, but nothing is happening here. She’s not giving me any clear signal that she wants me to approach her. Maybe I’m not good looking enough.”

He goes through life not getting the “Wow!” reaction that he has in response to a woman’s physical appearance.

The "Wow!" reaction to a woman's physical appearance

A woman can simply be walking along the street and men can be having an intense feeling of attraction for her, simply based on her looks.

They don’t even care what her personality is like. Simply based on her appearance, most men will feel more that enough attraction for her to want to be with her.

The "Wow!" reaction to a woman's physical appearance

“Ohh, look at her. I’d love to be with her. I’d love to be with her. Marriage material. I’d definitely have sex with her. I’d definitely want to at least be her boyfriend.”

…and that intense feeling of attraction is just based on her appearance.

Guys walk through the world, don’t get that “Wow!” reaction from women and then start thinking, “Well, I guess I’m not good looking enough.”

Yet, what those guys don’t realize is that to make a woman feel intense attraction, you have to ACTIVELY attract her when you interact with her.

A Really WEIRD, But True Fact of Attraction

When you make a woman feel attracted to you in many different ways (e.g. make her laugh, turn her on by being confident, make her feel girly in your presence, etc) while you interact with her, something really weird happens…

She starts to look at what might have otherwise been a negative about you (e.g. big nose, short, bald, overweight, etc) in a positive light.

Those things that you might have thought were unattractive actually become likeable, cute, adorable and sexy to her, even though they aren’t considered to be male model features.

She’s feeling attracted to how you are making her feel while interacting with her and she actually begins to like the way that you look because it is a part of you.

She feels attracted to you and therefore, begins to look at you in a more positive light.

This is one of the reasons why you will see guys who aren’t good looking, with a beautiful girlfriend or wife. You will also hear women referring to their boyfriend or husband as sexy or handsome, even though he doesn’t have a good looking face or a perfect body shape.

She likes his physical appearance because it is him and he makes her feel attracted in more important, longer-lasting ways than just mere looks. He might not have a good looking face or a great body shape, but she still finds him to be incredibly attractive, appealing, desirable and loveable.

Instead of looking at his “imperfect” physical features in a negative light, she will see them as being attractive and appealing to her because they are a part of him.

She will actually really like the way that he looks. In fact, she can even love it and come to prefer his type of appearance over what she thought she used to like or want.

This is weird, I know…

It doesn’t make much sense for guys who don’t understand attraction.

A lot of guys think that they have to look like a perfect male model with a perfect body and then they’re going to be able to make women feel
intense attraction for them, but that is not how it works.

Yes, a woman can feel attraction to a man’s physical appearance, but you are not limited to making a woman feel intense attraction for you based on your appearance.

The most powerful types of attraction that you can make a woman feel are based on what you say and do when you’re interacting with her.

When you look around, you will see that the guys who are with beautiful women, usually don’t look like perfect, plastic models. They’ve got weird quirks about them and they’ve got features that you might consider to be unattractive (e.g. big nose, short, overweight, etc), but the woman he is with finds him to be attractive.

Weird, but true.

Even though he doesn’t look like a male model, she says that he is handsome, sexy and desirable. He is her man, she loves him, she loves being around him, she loves the look of him and she loves his unique features because she’s feeling attracted to him in many different ways.

On the flip side, if you don’t make a woman feel attracted to you when you’re interacting with her, then she starts to see your quirks and features that are not considered to be physically good looking in a negative light.

She wonders why she’s not feeling attracted to you and she starts focusing on things that she doesn’t like about you. “Oh yeah…I don’t like that he’s bald” or “I don’t like that he’s got a big nose.”

However, that doesn’t mean that the same woman cannot feel intense attraction for a guy who is bald or who does have a big nose. She can feel intense attraction for him, if he makes her feel attracted in many other different ways.

Weird, but true.

As mentioned, I teach guys how to make women feel attracted to them in more than 100 different ways.

You most-likely don’t know how much power you have when it comes to attracting women. You can make a woman feel intense attraction when you interact with her.

It doesn’t have to be about your looks. You don’t have to try to use your looks to attract women.

You can use your personality, your communication style, your behavior, your body language, your attitude, etc. There are so many different things that you can do to make women feel attracted to you.

You really can.

A lot of guys go through life thinking, “I’m bald” or “I’ve got a big nose” or “I’m short” or “I don’t have the perfect body” or “My face isn’t good looking, so I can’t be attractive to women.”

Yet, what these guys fail to realize is that their surface features (e.g. being bald, having a big nose, being short, etc) can flick over to being cute, adorable, sexy, attractive, handsome and desirable if he makes her feel attracted in other ways.

The Really Cool Thing About Being a Man

The really cool thing about being a man is that you can be overweight, you can be short, you can be bald, you can have a big nose or you can have a high forehead and bent nose like me and most beautiful women can still refer to you as sexy, handsome and attractive.

Weird, but true.

When you know how to attract women while interacting with them (i.e. based on what you say and do), women then say, “Ooh, there’s something about him. I like him!” and are really drawn to you.

The more ways that you can make her feel attracted to you while interacting with her, the more INTENSE her attraction for you will be. When she is feeling intense attraction for you, it won’t even really matter to her what you look like. Of course, not ALL women will accept a guy who isn’t a perfect male model, but most will.

You might have seen other guys with beautiful women and thought, “What is she doing with him?” You might have been walking along a street and seen a guy walking along with his beautiful girlfriend or wife and he doesn’t look like anything special.

He might have been overweight, short or may not have had a perfect gym body like you’ve been told by the media or online that you MUST have to attract women. “Get the six pack abs and then you get the girl!” or “Build up your biceps and then you’ll get the girl.”

Yet, when you look at what’s going on around in you the REAL world, you realize that’s not even the case. Beautiful women are with all sorts of different looking guys.

Yes, there ARE some women who like the guys who have the perfect body. There’s nothing wrong with working out in a gym and there’s nothing wrong with having muscles, but you don’t actually NEED it to get yourself a beautiful girlfriend or a wife, or to have sex with beautiful women.

You don’t actually need it.

You can have muscles and the perfect body if you want to, but you don’t actually need it.

Some Real Life Proof That You Don’t Have to Be a Perfect Male Model to Attract Women

What I’m going to do now is show you some photos of guys who aren’t good looking, who are overweight or from a race where guys think they can’t pick up women as easily as other races, but they have a beautiful girlfriend or wife.

So, have a look at this guy….

Ugly guy marries pretty woman

Does he look like a handsome man with a perfect gym body, or does he actually look a bit overweight? How about his face: Does his look handsome, ugly, below-average looking or average looking?

How about these two guys getting married to a beautiful woman, but both guys are heavily overweight and maybe even considered to be obese….

Fat men marrying beautiful women

Most guys are going to assume, “Okay, he MUST be rich. Money is the only reason why she would want to be with him.”

Fat guy with a skinny girlfriend at the pool

Yet, that’s not always the case.

Fat guys with pretty women

Most guys in this world aren’t rich and are just getting by. Most guys have just got a normal job and earn a normal income.

How about this guy here…

Fat guy with sexy girlfriend

His girlfriend is beautiful, she’s in shape, but he is overweight. What is she doing with him when she could be with a really tall man who’s in perfect shape and who looks like a male model? What’s going on here?

How about these two guys…

Bald guy with pretty woman. She finds him attractive

These guys are BALD.

Huh?

What are those women doing with them? Isn’t being attractive about having a full head of hair? Isn’t that what they tell you on those TV commercials when they’re saying that you have to dye your hair and have a full head of hair?

What’s going on here? Why would a woman want to be with a guy who is bald?

You’ve got to have a full head of hair to attract women…right?

How about this guy…

Asian guy marrying pretty white girl

He’s Asian. Hang on…an Asian guy with a white girl…that can’t be possible. Yes, it is possible and it’s actually very normal and common these days.

Here’s a fat Asian guy with a young, pretty white girlfriend…

Fat Asian guy with pretty girlfriend

How is that possible?

…and now, here are some black guys with white women. What’s going on here?

Black guys with white women

Here’s a white guy with a black woman. What’s going on here? Here’s an Asian guy with a black woman. How is that possible? What’s going on? How could she feel attracted to him?

White man marrying a black woman. Asian guy marrying a black woman

How about this guy with his big ears…

Guy with big ears with beautiful girlfriend

What’s going on there? Why is she with him?

How about this guy…

Guy with a weird nose with a beautiful girlfriend

Look at his nose. He doesn’t look like a typical, good looking guy. He has that weird looking nose, but he’s got a beautiful looking girl. Why is she with him when she could be with a guy who has a male model looking face? What’s going on?

I mean, have a look at this guy…

Ugly guy with hot cheerleader girlfriend

What’s going on here? This girl is a young, pretty woman and she’s with that guy who doesn’t look handsome. How is that possible?

Is it actually possible that she’s not concerned about his looks now? She feels attracted to him in OTHER ways (no, not money) and she actually sees his physical appearance now about being attractive to her.

Now that she feels a lot of attraction for him for OTHER reasons, she looks at what otherwise would have been negatives about him (e.g. nerdy smile, big eyebrows, nerdy clothes, etc) in a more positive light.

What do you think?

Is it possible that when a woman feels attraction for a guy for OTHER reasons (no, not money), that she stops focusing on what she might have been going around saying that she wants in a guy? For example: “I want a tall, handsome, perfect man with loads of money.”

Asian guy with white girlfriend

Is it possible that a woman can feel attracted to a guy for OTHER reasons and then actually like his physical appearance because it is him?

How is this possible?

She is attracted to him, she is into him and because of that, she actually looks at his physical appearance in a positive light and even sees it as attractive or handsome?

Everyday couples

What is going on here? Why are these women (and many others that you’ve witnessed in your life) not with perfect male models with loads of money? Why is it possible for these guys to have these women? What is going on?

The Truth About Attracting Women

It’s actually possible to attract women in ways other than looks, money, social status, being tall, having a big dick, etc.

Not all women will accept a guy who doesn’t look like a perfect male model with a perfect body, but most women will.

Most women are more flexible with what they feel attracted to and place less importance on a guy’s physical appearance, if he’s able to make them feel enough attraction for other reasons.

Before interacting with a guy, a woman will judge him on his physical appearance because she has to make an assessment based on something. However, when a guy interacts with her, his surface features (e.g. having a big nose, being a bit thin, being overweight, having an unappealing face, etc) can flick over to being likeable if he can make her feel enough attraction for other reasons.

This is why it’s so important for you to be able to attract women when you interact with them. Your ability to attract women determines the quality of woman that you can have access to and it determines a lot of the desire she will have to stay in a relationship with you.

If you’re unable to make women feel attracted to you when you meet them, you won’t have your choice with women. In a relationship, if you’re unable to make a woman feel increasingly attracted to you over time, the spark will die out.

For the single guys watching this video: If you are afraid of interacting with women and you hide away in the background, you are literally wasting your precious lifetime. You deserve so much better than what you are allowing yourself to experience with women.

A lot of guys waste their life hoping that women will someday, suddenly like them for looking good or for achieving a certain financial status in life. Wasted years tick away and nothing really ever changes.

To be clear…

There is nothing wrong with a guy working out a gym and building muscle. Likewise, there is nothing wrong with a guy putting in a lot of hard work to be successful in life.

You can do those things if you want to, but you can still make a beautiful woman feel INTENSE attraction for you even if you don’t have those things.

There are guys out there who don’t have a job, have never worked out in a gym in their entire life, are skinny or overweight, but they still have a beautiful girlfriend or wife. They can still make women feel intense attraction for them, or at least enough attraction to begin a relationship.

Your Ability to Attract Women

Throughout your life, your ability to attract women is going to be critical to your success at picking up women and being able to keep a relationship together.

If you’re currently single and you’re unable to make beautiful women feel intense attraction for you, it doesn’t mean that you can’t develop that skill. Likewise, if you’re currently in a relationship and the spark has died, it doesn’t mean that you can’t start behaving and talking to her in an attractive way and get that spark back.

Generally speaking, the amount of attraction that a woman feels for you is completely within your control. Most of what a woman feels attracted to is how a man behaves and talks to her, when he interacts with her.

Once you know how to make a woman feel intense attraction for you during an interaction, you realize how much power and control you have
over your success with women.

You realize that you don’t need to be afraid to walk over and talk to women because you can make them feel attracted. You also realize that you don’t need to worry about losing your girlfriend or your wife because you can maintain her attraction and you can build on it
over time.

Take Ben from The Modern Man as an example. Ben, Stu and I are the coaches at The Modern Man.

Ben, Stu and Dan - The Modern Man coaches

As you can see, Ben doesn’t look like anything special. In the past, he was a confident guy (unlike me who was nervous around attractive women and had to learn how to be confident), but even though he was confident, he didn’t know what to say or do around women to make them feel attracted enough to want to be with him.

Ben never really got anywhere with women and was always the single guy while all of his friends were hooking up with women, having relationships and having a great time. Yet, what Ben did was focus on discovering how to attract women and when he did that, women began flooding into his life.

When I first met Ben, he used to always say to me, “Give me 10 minutes alone with a girl and she’s mine” and then later on that turned into, “Give me 5 minutes” and then “Give me a minute” and then, “Just let me interact with her.”

Ben has confidence in himself and so do I and does Stu. Yet, how do we do it? How do we have that confidence in ourselves where we can talk to a woman and interact with her and we know that we’re going to be able to make her feel attracted?

The reason why I’ve been able to make so many beautiful women intense attraction for me is because I’ve focussed on attracting women when I interact with them. I know that the most important and powerful ways of attracting women happen when you’re actually interacting with them.

“It’s Not Fair! Women Have it So Easy…”

When a guy doesn’t know how to attract women, it can feel like women have it so easy because all they’ve got to do is look good and they’ll get attention.

However, when a guy knows how to attract a woman by the way that he interacts with her, he suddenly realizes that he is the lucky one. He can be overweight, short, have a big nose, etc and he can still make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for him.

We men are lucky that women can feel intense attraction for us based on how we interact with them.

When you know how to attract women during interactions, you have your choice with women because most of the women that you meet feel attracted to you. It’s really up to you how much or how little attraction you want women to feel for you when you interact with them.

You can decide to set off several attraction triggers during a simple conversation and make her feel a lot of attraction for you. In a relationship, you can make your woman feel increasing amounts of attraction for you over time.

The spark doesn’t have to die between you and her. You can make her feel attracted to you by the way that you interact with her.

If the way that you interact with her turns her off and doesn’t make her feel more love, respect and attraction for you, then of course the spark is going to die out. However, if the way that you interact with her, communicate with her and behave around her makes her feel more love, respect and attraction for you, then the spark isn’t going to die out.

The spark doesn’t have to die out in a relationship. You can actually make a woman feel more and more attracted to you over time.

She can fall more in love, feel more respect and feel more attraction for you over time, to the point where it doesn’t make any sense to want to break up with you. You are her man.

How Did I Work Out the Secrets of Attraction?

So, how did I work out all of these attraction techniques? How did I work out how to be successful with women?

Well, in the past, I wasn’t successful with women.

I was the nervous guy, I was too nice to women and would talk to them and quickly run out of things to say. If I was talking to an attractive woman, I almost always couldn’t keep the conversation going or keep it interesting.

I would start talking to an attractive woman and she might give me a chance initially because I dressed well and was appearing to be decent, but then I’d lose her interest because I didn’t even know how to make her feel attracted.

I didn’t know how to make a woman feel attracted to me while interacting with her. I didn’t even know that it was important to make a woman feel attracted during an interaction, other than just being a likeable, nice guy.

I was hoping to be chosen by her for looking good enough, because that’s how I selected women. It was a case of me thinking, “Okay, I’ve got these fashionable clothes on…I’ve styled my hair in a cool way…can I get a chance with you?”

…but, it just wasn’t working.

So, like most guys, I assume that I mustn’t be good looking enough. That went on for a long time (years) and I ended up losing a lot of confidence in myself until one night when I attended some after work drinks with my coworkers / colleagues.

The same, old thing happened again: I talked to some women (after having a few drinks to feel confident enough) and they either rejected my attempts to talk to them or quickly lost interest when I began asking them all the standard questions like, “So, what do you do for a living?” and then, “Oh, okay and how long have you worked there?”

I went home alone as usual and my older sister (who I was sharing a rented house with at the time) asked, “So…Dan, did you pick up tonight?” She was asking me in a sarcastic way because she knew that the answer was almost certainly going to be, “No” and it was.

After hearing me say “No” once again, she said, “Oh, don’t worry…you’ve just got to wait for the right girl to come along. Maybe you’re meeting the wrong girls.”

I explained the situation further, hoping that she would have some sort of female insight to help me understand what I was doing wrong, but she didn’t. I said, “I’m talking to women and it just doesn’t seem to be going anywhere. It seems like there’s nothing really to talk about and it gets boring very quickly.”

Once again, she said, “Oh, you’re probably just meeting the wrong girls. Wait and the right girl will come along.”

That is the point where EVERYTHING changed for me. I said (in a candid, loving way that only a brother can say to his sister), “Bullshit! No! I’ve seen other guys who’ve got a beautiful women…they’ve got a beautiful girlfriend or wife or they have multiple women in their life.

Why can’t I have a girl? Why aren’t women interested in me? Why am I talking to women and it’s not going anywhere? What is going on here? What is wrong? What am I missing?”

Of course, back then, I didn’t know what I was missing.

I didn’t even know that a guy had to actively make a woman feel attracted to him while he interacted with her.

I was going through life with the peacock bird mentality.

Peacock mating dance

Look at the peacock bird. He has to attract a female bird by looking all colorful and pretty. “Please choose me! Look at my feathers. Am I pretty enough for you?”

Based on what I’d seen in the media and overheard women say about handsome, good looking men, I thought that it was all about looks.

I thought that I had to get chosen based on how I looked and then try to impress the girl by talking about my job and about what I wanted to do in the future…and then hopefully, I’d be able to get a chance with her.

Yet, that was obviously wrong and trying to be chosen for your looks or career credentials doesn’t get you anywhere…and you would know that as well if you’ve been trying it.

Dan Bacon - home alone...once again

I was sick of being left out of all the love, sex and relationships that everyone else was enjoying. I knew I deserved better than to be rejected by pretty much every woman I spoke to.

I knew that I was missing a key piece to the puzzle of attracting women, but I just didn’t know what it was.

So, I made a promise to myself…

I made a promise to work this stuff out no matter what

I said to myself, “I’m going to go out and approach women every weekend until I work this stuff out. Until I work out how to start a conversation with a woman and get her attracted to me; to who I am…to like me for me, to love me for me, to want me for me.

I’m going to make that happen.”

Luckily, around that time, I made a new friend and he was hopeless with women as well. We made an agreement together and said, “Let’s go out there and approach women every weekend and get this worked out.”

Initially, it was horrible because neither of us knew what we were doing. I would walk up to women and try to start talking to them and they would either give me a “Get away from us” type of reaction with their body language or they would rapidly lose interest in talking to me within 10 seconds to 2 minutes.

I would always run out of things to say, the conversation would become boring and I couldn’t keep the interaction going or keep the conversation interesting enough.

I would then either have to leave because it felt so awkward and even unnecessary to be talking to them or the women would say something, “Um…can you leave us alone now?” or “Sorry, but we’re having a girl’s night” or “I’m going to bathroom. Bye!” and she wouldn’t come back.

It was the same thing over and over again, but I persisted and I stuck to my promise of continuing to approach women until I worked this stuff out.

Eventually I started to work out how to make women feel attracted to me.

Dan Bacon - Living the playboy lifestyle

I started to work out how to make women feel INTENSE attraction for me. I made women feel attracted to who I was (i.e. my personality, vibe, etc), how I was talking to them and how I was using my body language during the interaction.

Dan Bacon - Living the playboy lifestyle

I was attracting women in 5, 10 and then even 15 different ways within minutes of meeting them.

Dan Bacon - Living the playboy lifestyle

I worked out how to kiss women within 10 minutes of meeting them, then within 5 minutes and then almost immediately. I worked out how to take women home for sex from a bar or nightclub.

Dan Bacon - Living the playboy lifestyle

I worked out how to get sex on the first date (at my place or hers), even if I had met the woman during the day in a shopping mall or cafe and only gotten her number after talking with her for a few minutes.

I worked out how to have multiple women in my life at a time. I worked out how to be confident. I worked out what to say and do around women to have my choice of women.

After enjoying that lifestyle for about a year and a half, I decided to write down everything that I’d discovered and put it into what eventually became my book, The Flow. The Flow is the natural process that you need to go through when you meet a woman, to make her feel attracted to you and want to be with you.

So, if you want to learn how to attract women into wanting to date you or have sex with you (e.g. a woman from work that you have a crush on, meeting women in bars or clubs, meeting women at university, through friends, etc), then at least make sure that you read my book The Flow.

I have a lot of powerful, life-changing programs at The Modern Man and all of them include unique ways of attracting women, becoming more confident and becoming a more attractive man overall.

However, if you’re starting out and you want to learn how to attract women and have your choice with women, then make sure that you at least read my book The Flow and experience what it’s like to be able to attract women.

Experience what it’s like to make a woman feel more and more attracted to you, the more she interacts with you. You can actually have that power and control over your interacts with women.

When it comes to relationships, if you want to learn how to make your woman feel an increasing amount of attraction for you in a relationship, then I have two programs for you.

The first program is The Modern Relationship, where you will learn how to create and maintain the ideal type of relationship dynamic that always creates more sexual tension between you and your woman.

The second program is Better Than a Bad Boy, which is about being the sort of man that a woman not only desperately wants to be with (when you meet her), but stay with when in a relationship.

The respect, love and attraction that she feels for you, deepens over time rather than fading away. It’s also about having purpose in life and being what women refer to as a real man.

Women are often found asking, “Where are all the real men?” and a lot of guys think that bad boys are the most attractive type of guy to women, but the most attractive, desirable type of man is a real man. That is what women are REALLY looking for and hoping to meet and be with when in a relationship.

I’ve Done it and You Can Too

Over the more than 10 years that I enjoyed the playboy lifestyle of having many women in my life, dating (and having sex) with multiple women at once and really enjoying myself, I had many girlfriends who wanted to settle down with me and marry me.

Yet, I was never ready for that until I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago.

Dan Bacon at a nightclub with girlfriend
As you can see, she’s a very sexy woman and I picked her up even though I don’t have a gym body. I don’t have the big muscles that are apparently “required” to pick up hot, sexy women.

When I met her, there were plenty of tall guys in the club with muscles and good looking faces, but I was the guy who interacted with her and made her feel intense attraction.

Dan Bacon with girlfriend at Jan Juc beach, Victoria

Throughout our relationship, her attraction love and respect for me has increased over time, rather than fading away. Recently, her and I got engaged and we’re now planning to start a family.

Dan Bacon - now engaged to be married

I don’t want to talk a lot about myself here, but the reason I’m telling you this is that I want you to know that you CAN make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you by the way that you interact with her.

You don’t have to look like a perfect male model to make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you.

What I want you to know is that the most powerful and important ways to attract women happen when you interact with them.

It’s about:

  • What you say and do when you’re interacting with her.
  • How your behavior makes her feel.
  • How your conversation style makes her feel.

Some women will only accept a super good looking guy with loads of money, but most women have an Open Type and they can feel attracted to all different types of guys, as long as the guy makes her feel attracted in other ways.

What Do You Think Now?

Let’s go back to the questions I asked you at the start of the post.

Do you think that it’s possible for YOU to make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you?

Or…

Do you feel like you can’t make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you because you’re not good looking enough, you’re not super rich with millions or billions of dollars (or euros, pounds, etc), you don’t have an amazing job or you’re not tall enough?

Do you think that, because of things, you cannot make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you?

If you think that you can’t make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you, then read through the article again and look at the photo evidence I am providing.

Attraction works differently than most guys realize. When you look up attraction in the dictionary, it doesn’t say, “The feeling that a woman gets in response to a guy’s physical appearance.”

Attraction is about features and qualities that evoke feelings of interest, liking and desire. A woman can feel attracted to a man for many different reasons; it’s not just about looks.

Yes, of course, there ARE women who will only ever accept a tall, handsome, perfect male model with loads of money. That is true, but the majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that they’re open to being with all different types of guys as the guy makes her feel enough attraction in other ways.

You may not be able to believe that right now. You may not be ready to accept it, but I promise you one thing…

If you don’t accept it right now or if you don’t understand it right now, you’re going to see it all around you in the world from now on.

You’re going to see a guy walking along with a beautiful woman and you will notice that he doesn’t look like anything special.

You’re going to see a guy in a social situation who doesn’t look like anything special, isn’t rich or isn’t high status in society, but beautiful women are going to be attracted to him.

There will be nothing really special about his appearance at all. He will look like an average or even below-average looking guy or he will be overweight, be shorter than you or be from a race that you think can’t attract women from other races very well, but women will be into him like nothing else.

The women will feel intense attraction for him and want to be with him.

That is the reality that you live in.

It is real and it is all around you, but you probably haven’t understood it until now. Hopefully, now that I’ve explained it clearly in this post, you won’t go and waste your life thinking that you’re not good enough for attractive women. You are. You really are.

In terms of relationships…

Do you think that it’s possible to make a woman feel increasing amounts of attraction for you over time?

Do you think that it’s possible to be one of those couples that you see who are 30-40 years into a relationship, but are still extremely happy together? They are attracted to each other, they are still in love and they still have the “spark” between them.

Do you think that it’s possible?

Of course it is.

For the single guys reading this…

If you want to make a woman feel intense attraction for you when you meet her, then you at least read my book The Flow and if you want to learn even more advanced and mastery level techniques later on, then I have all of my other programs for you as well.

For the guys who are already in a relationship…

If you want to make your woman feel a renewed feeling of attraction for you and then deepen that over time, I recommend that you watch The Modern Relationship and if you want to deepen your education and learn more about being the sort of man that women desperately want to be with, then I recommend that you watch Better Than a Bad Boy

Better Than a Bad Boy is about being what women refer to as a real man. When a woman is with a real man, she does not want to leave him. She feels intense attraction, respect and love for him and that grows over time rather than fading away.

Would You Like to Unlock More Secrets of Attraction?

I hope you’ve enjoyed this post and if you want to learn more, what you’ve discovered in this post is just a tiny bit of what I can teach you. If you’ve enjoyed what you’ve been learning so far, you are going to be AMAZED at what you learn in my programs.

Our techniques, methods and mindsets have come from all of our successful experience with women and from taking guys out for many years into bars, clubs and shopping malls and showing them how to approach women.

Our advice also comes from running seminars for many years, coaching guys on the phone and from replying to all of the comments all over the site for many years to help guys who need a quick question answered.

The techniques that we teach in our programs are exclusive to The Modern Man and no-one else can explain what we understand in the way that we understand it.

What Ben, Stu and I say and do when we’re interacting with women is why we’ve been able to make so many women feel intense attraction for us for so many years. When you know how to make women feel intense attraction for you when you’re interacting with them, it’s just so easy to attract a woman for sex or a relationship.

Ben, Stu and I have spent a long time creating all of our programs to put all of the advice, techniques, methods, mindsets and insights into structured formats that you can learn and start using in your life right now.

You don’t have to waste YEARS of your life and put in loads of hard work to try to work all of this stuff out on your own. You can learn what we’ve worked out over many years in a matter of HOURS.

For you, it’s all available in a program. All you need to do is download it and then upload it into your brain, start using the techniques and you will instantly having the sort of success that we’ve been experiencing with women all this time.

When you interact with a woman for the first time, you’re able to make her feel INTENSE attraction for you. When you’re in a relationship, you’re able to deepen her attraction over time to the point where she doesn’t want to leave you.

You can have that power and control over your ability to attract women.

Your ability to attract women determines the quality of woman that you can have access to and the desire that she’s going to have to stay with you in a relationship.

You CAN make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you and you CAN make her feel more and more attracted to you over time. You really can do it.

Stop wasting your life being without women

I hope that if you do want to learn how to do it, you get started. You don’t go and waste more of your life thinking that you can’t do it, “Oh, I’m not good looking enough” or “I’m not good enough.”

Yes you are.

You can make a beautiful woman feel intense attraction for you while she is talking to you. You can really do it.

In a relationship, you can make a woman feel more and more attraction for you over time. You can do it.

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