The Flow - New Edition

Old edition: 127 pages / 43,792 words.
New edition: 231 pages / 80,088 words.

You need a lot of help when it comes to picking up women, right? Don’t worry, most guys are clueless when it comes to how to pick up a woman. You are not alone with this.

I used to have the same problem: I would see a beautiful woman, freeze up and think, “What do I do? How do I pick her up? What should I say to her?” Then, another guy would talk to her or she would leave the venue and my opportunity with her would be gone. It was frustrating. I didn’t know where to start on my journey of learning how to pick up a woman, so I just went out approaching every weekend. Eventually, I worked it all out. Here are some introductory articles for you to help you out with the areas that you need to improve.

Which of the following do you need help with?

How to Pick Up a Woman: Common Mistakes

Some of the common mistakes guys make when trying to pick up a woman:

  • Thinking that women have all the power in terms of choosing who gets with who.
  • Trying too hard to impress women.
  • Putting on the nice guy act, because they don’t want to seem sleazy or too pushy.
  • Trying to buy a woman’s attention with gifts or offers of expensive dinners.
  • Having a boring conversation about work (or study, depending on their stage in life).
  • Not including any flirting to create a sexual vibe.
  • Getting nervous or shy and turning women off as a result.

Do you make any of those mistakes? If so, you’ve got to learn the right way to do it. You can become an expert at picking up women, but if you don’t learn from an expert like me, you will likely continue making additional mistakes that cause you to be rejected.

Nervous - Dan

Look at how nervous I was in the beginning. This girl actually really liked me and even gave me her phone number, but I screwed up the date because I was too nervous around her. I felt as though she was out of my league. Women like this forced me to become stronger by building more confidence and becoming more of a man.

Dan - confident

…then, I became confident and this is what happened.

How Does My System Work?

I developed the perfect system for picking up women that I used to have sex with more than 250 women (before recently settling down) and have now taught to 1,000s of guys across the world.

The way my system works: You get a woman so attracted and interested in you, that she feels COMPELLED to show you (or even TELL you) that she is interested. Then, we you see that she is interested, you move it forward to a phone number, kiss or sex. One of the amazing things about my system for picking up women is that it usually results in the woman trying to pick YOU up. In fact, once you start using my techniques that I’m about to share with you, it will no longer be about “how to pick up a woman” for you. Instead, you will begin wondering how to date multiple women at once because you will have a LOT of women who want to be with you.

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About Me

Dan Bacon

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good guy, women just weren't interested. I couldn't work it out!

When I discovered the controversial secrets about women that I now teach here at The Modern Man, women began flooding into my life and I've been having an AMAZING time ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to achieve instant success with women (view success stories) and I would love to help YOU too. If you are sick and tired of not getting results with women and would like to try something that is absolutely guaranteed to work for you, then get started here.

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Success Stories


"Any guy who isn't learning from The Modern Man is missing out big time. I've been getting laid like crazy's funny how easy it is once you get it." Ricky


"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio


"I was surprised at how quickly I got results because I was always the typical nice guy who girls saw only as the friend. This has been the most exciting year of my life. There's no better feeling than to have control over this area of one's life." Ajay


"I've had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your techniques are gold and have worked every time I've used them. I'll be getting more of your programs soon to boost my game further." Jason


"Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I've ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don't hate the playa! Hahaaa..." Tyrone


"I wasted years trying to get the answers for free online until I finally decided to bite the bullet and pay to learn from the experts. I got your Dating Power program and have been having endless sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends. I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me!" Josh


"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron


"Initially I was a little put off by your prices, but I decided to give it a go anyway since you guys offered a guarantee. To say that I am happy with my purchase is an understatement. I turned my female friend of 3 years into my girlfriend with a simple conversation and a couple of your attraction techniques. Amazing!" Richard


"I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book. I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested. I'm on fire!" Frankie


"My parents were quite worried that I still didn't have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try. I experienced more success with girls in three months that I've had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren...!" Wei


"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


"Best pick up advice online. TMM are the real deal. Got several women on the go now." Andy


"After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help. I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before. I've become a better . . .