How to pick up a woman

Learning how to pick up women is one of the most exciting, rewarding things that you will ever do as a man.

Using techniques to make women feel attracted to you and then having your choice of women is just awesome. Instead of being alone on a Saturday night and masturbating before you go to bed, you have a real woman with you who is either sucking you off or spreading her legs wide to get as much of you inside of her as she can.

It’s good….real good.

I Used to Be Hopeless at Picking Up Women

I’ve now slept with more than 250 women and have taught 1,000s of guys how to use my advanced attraction techniques, but it wasn’t always this good.

In the past, I would see a beautiful woman, freeze up and think, “What do I do? How do I pick her up? What should I say to her?” Then, another guy would talk to her or she would leave the venue and my opportunity with her would be gone. It was frustrating. I didn’t know where to start on my journey of learning how to pick up a woman, so I just went out approaching every weekend.

Eventually, I worked out how to pick up a woman. When I got to that point, I knew:

  • How to be confident enough to approach.
  • What to say when you first meet the woman.
  • How to keep the conversation going and keep it interesting.
  • How to make her feel sexually attracted.
  • How to know if she is interested in having sex that night.
  • How to get a phone number.
  • How to move in for a first kiss.
  • How to have sex on the first night.

When I gained those skills, women began to flood into my life. I got to the point where I had too many options with women and it was around that time that I began to think about starting this website, to my knowledge with other guys.

How to Pick Up a Woman: Common Mistakes

Picking up women is easy when you know what you’re doing. However, if you are just trying to fumble your way through it, you will rarely get the results you want (i.e. a very attractive woman).

Some of the common mistakes guys make when trying to pick up a woman:

  • Thinking that women have all the power in terms of choosing who gets with who.
  • Trying too hard to impress women.
  • Putting on the nice guy act, because they don’t want to seem sleazy or too pushy.
  • Trying to buy a woman’s attention with gifts or offers of expensive dinners.
  • Having a boring conversation about work (or study, depending on their stage in life).
  • Not including any flirting to create a sexual vibe.
  • Getting nervous or shy and turning women off as a result.

Do you make any of those mistakes? If so, you’ve got to learn the right way to do it. You can become an expert at picking up women, but if you don’t learn from an expert like me, you will likely continue making additional mistakes that cause you to be rejected.

How Does My System Work?

The way my system works: You get a woman so attracted and interested in you, that she feels COMPELLED to show you (or even TELL you) that she is interested. Then, we you see that she is interested, you move it forward to a phone number, kiss or sex by using my rejection-proof techniques.

One of the amazing things about my system for picking up women is that it usually results in the woman trying to pick YOU up. She can’t stop herself from feeling that way because you are turning her on so much, without even coming across as sleazy. It’s really cool how it works.

Once you start using my techniques, it will no longer be about “how to pick up a woman” for you. Instead, you will begin wondering how to date multiple women at once or which women you should reject because you will have a LOT of women who want to be with you at once.

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About Author


Welcome to The Modern Man!

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good, honest guy, women just weren't interested.

When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.

If you are sick and tired of not getting results with women and would like to try something that is absolutely guaranteed to work for you, then get started here

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Success Stories


"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


"Best pick up advice online. TMM are the real deal. Got several women on the go now." Andy


"My parents were quite worried that I still didn't have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try. I experienced more success with girls in three months that I've had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren...!" Wei

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I finished reading "The Flow" 2 days after I had purchased it. On the third day, I went out into the town to put what I learned in action. It works so well! I talked to two girls, and they both wanted me! What I attempted was wayyy out of my comfort zone, and not what I usually would do, but I put that passed me and just gave it a go. Worked like a charm. The first girl I talked to was definitely interested, so much so that I felt taking her home was absolutely possible, but after talking for a little I decided i didn't want her. YES, I chose. Then moved onto the next girl, who was also much more beautiful. Put the techniques I read about in the book to use, and now she is my girlfriend. It was literally so easy after you know the right things to do. Before this book I would have NEVER talked to her. Before this book I wouldn't have even tried because I mean seriously, she seemed way out of my league. Buy this book. It is absolutely worth it.


"After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help. I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before. I've become a better man than I was before which has not only helped my marriage, but my standing at work where I have recently been promoted. I can't thank Dan and his team enough." Dave


"I've had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your techniques are gold and have worked every time I've used them. I'll be getting more of your programs soon to boost my game further." Jason


"I was surprised at how quickly I got results because I was always the typical nice guy who girls saw only as the friend. This has been the most exciting year of my life. There's no better feeling than to have control over this area of one's life." Ajay


"I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book. I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested. I'm on fire!" Frankie


"Any guy who isn't learning from The Modern Man is missing out big time. I've been getting laid like crazy's funny how easy it is once you get it." Ricky


"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron


"Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I've ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don't hate the playa! Hahaaa..." Tyrone


"I wasted years trying to get the answers for free online until I finally decided to bite the bullet and pay to learn from the experts. I got your Dating Power program and have been having endless sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends. I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me!" Josh


"Initially I was a little put off by your prices, but I decided to give it a go anyway since you guys offered a guarantee. To say that I am happy with my purchase is an understatement. I turned my female friend of 3 years into my girlfriend with a simple conversation and a couple of your attraction techniques. Amazing!" Richard


"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio