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The Modern Man: Our Story

Find out why Dan, Ben and Stu decided to master this area of their lives.

...and how thousands of men just like you have used their advice to achieve lasting success with women and dating!

Introduction

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The Modern Man launched in November 2005 in Melbourne, Australia.

Thousands of men from all across the world have already taken the advice of The Modern Man Coaches and learnt how to achieve accelerated success with women and dating.

The number of rapid success stories is growing daily.

Could you be next to learn exactly how to completely master this area of your life, once and for all?

Here's a brief look into the individual journeys that Dan, Ben and Stu travelled before mastering the area of meeting, attracting and dating women...


Dan

Modern Man seminar: Dan talking about how to attract women and move things forward without rejection
Dan’s story begins back in 2003, when he and his girlfriend of four years ended their relationship.

Although Dan was doing quite well with a management career, he struggled to get back into the dating scene, due to confidence issues and a lack of ability to approach women and start conversations.

When out on the town, he did what most guys who lacked confidence would do: Have a few drinks to try and boost the confidence.

But, even if he did manage to work up the courage to approach a woman and start a conversation – he had no idea how to continue it in an interesting way!

Women would give him the old, “Umm, I have to go dance” or, “I have to go to the bathroom – bye!”

Frustrated, Dan started to seriously research things like confidence, socializing, flirting, attraction, evolutionary psychology and masculinity.

Keen to get a handle on 'women and dating' as soon as possible, Dan diligently went to bars, clubs and lounges to meet women at least 2 nights every weekend.

During the first 1.5 years of learning how to be a natural with women, Dan would have approached over 500 women.

However, despite his enthusiasm, he wasn't having much luck in the way of 'results.'

His journey was just beginning…


Ben

Modern Man seminar: Ben talking about how to be an alpha male
Meanwhile, on the other side of town Ben was experiencing a similar situation.

Ben had been single for a while after a relationship break-up and although a confident guy, he had no idea how to proactively meet and attract women.

He’d often go out to bars and just stand or sit there, waiting for something to happen.

Nothing ever did.

Correction – there was one time when a girl approached him after being dared to do so by her friends!

Nothing eventuated from the chance encounter. In other words, he didn’t ‘get lucky’.

One day, a friend of Ben’s sent him an e-mail with a whole heap of notes, written by guys who were actually good with women.

It included things like: How to approach women and start conversations, how to be confident, how to attract women, how to make an interaction fun & enjoyable, tips on flirting body language and more.

Ben’s eyes almost popped out his head.

He read the notes over and over.

Eventually, he began trying some of the ‘techniques’ in real-life situations like bars, clubs and parties.

Some of the things worked and some didn’t.

His journey was also just beginning…


Stu

Modern Man seminar: Stu talking about how to be confident
Stu (the third Amigo) has a slightly different story.

Whereas, Dan and Ben had to learn how to make this area of their life natural and easy, Stu is what most would call a true -natural.

Stu had never really struggled to attract women, so it begs the questions: Why then, did he gravitate towards this area?

Simply put, although Stu had always found it easy to attract women, he often found it hard to keep a woman interested.

Some girls would just ‘turn on a dime’ with him overnight and suddenly lose interest.

He was curious as to what it meant.

The search began…

One night, after trawling across the internet for a few hours and searching for tips on body language, he came across a forum.

Stu’s daring and ‘in your face’ posts were immediately noticed by a friend of Dan’s, who was the leader of a secret club in Melbourne.

A meeting was organized.


The Meeting of Minds

Recent photo: Hanging out at a restaurant with some friends after another successful seminar!
It was now April 2005.

Around the same time as Stu met with Dan’s friend, Ben made a late-night phone call to Dan.

Things were starting to align…

At the time, Dan and Ben didn’t really know each other and had only met briefly once or twice at that ‘secret club’ in Melbourne.

Ben was calling to ask if he could lend the DVD's (about meeting and attracting women) that Dan mentioned he’d been watching recently.

A discussion began.

Dan revealed to Ben that he had ‘cracked the code’ – in terms of meeting, attracting and dating women - about 9 months prior.

He mentioned that he had started to map out a ‘tell all’ book for guys who wanted to do the same, which he eventually finished in January 2006 and titled The Flow.

Ben had also been making huge strides and mentioned how easy it - meeting, attracting and dating women - had become for him lately.

Meanwhile, Stu had met with Dan’s friend.

The purpose of that meeting was to see Stu in action with women. Dan’s friend, who had been learning and practicing the art of meeting and attracting women with Dan each weekend, thought he might be able to show Stu a thing or two.

Three hours later, Stu left the venue with the hottest woman in there.

Dan’s friend called him to tell him what happened, “This guy is amazing…you’ve got to meet him.”

About a week later Dan called Ben, Stu and a couple of other potential coaches to arrange a meeting.


"Now That We've Mastered Our Own Dating Lives, Let's Help Other Guys Achieve it Faster Than We Did!"

Modern Man seminar: How to Naturally Attract Women
By now, Dan, Ben and Stu had all reached the point where meeting, attracting and dating women was easy and natural.

Any of them were able to go out on any night and meet attractive women, and then move things toward a dating relationship without any fuss.

Better yet, they were doing it without using any tacky 'seduction tricks' or false behaviour. Instead, they did it like 'naturals' do...easily.

6 months later, The Modern Man was launched.

The first seminar was held on the 10th December 2005, in Melbourne.

Attracting over 40 men from all across Victoria, the first event was a huge success. Some of the subjects covered included:
  • How to build and maintain true confidence.
  • How to approach women and spark their immediate interest.
  • The ins and outs of starting & continuing fun & interesting conversations.
  • How to attract women like a natural.
  • How to flirt and use flirting body language, so women see you as a potential lover rather than just a friend.
  • How to be an alpha male who attracts women and commands respect from people.
  • The art of 'social vibing', where your interactions with women flow smoothly from one stage to the next.
  • The fail-safe, 4-step process of meeting women and moving things forward towards a successful dating relationship.
  • And much more...

Fast Forward to Today

A typical night on the town ;)
Thousands of men have used the advice of The Modern Man to connect with the dating lifestyles they had only ever dreamed of in the past.

How about you?

Are you ready to take serious action towards mastering this area of your life?

Would you like to start dating the women you’ve always wanted to?

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