Nice Guys Finish Last: Is it True?

Listen to the 4 audio clips on the right to hear how nice guys who used to finish last are now at the front of the line with women!

Most guys are aware of the common saying “Nice guys finish last...” and if you happen to be a nice guy, you’ve probably learned this lesson the hard way in your dating life with women!

When someone says that nice guys finish last, it usually means that women avoid dating them and choose other guys first. The truth is that a woman would rather date a bad boy or jerk over a nice guy, even though those guys wouldn’t treat her as well. Why?

The bad boys and jerks make women FEEL an intense variety of desirable emotions, whereas a nice guy generally only makes them feel boring, predictable and 'sweet' emotions. So, women get bored very quickly around nice guys and that's why they usually finish last. Unsure if you meet the criteria of a nice guy? Review these warning signs and avoid being a nice guy who finishes last with women:


  • You're usually the one giving the most when in a relationship.
  • You tell a woman that you've ‘missed her’ when you’ve been apart.
  • Women often say to you, “Let’s just be friends...” after you begin dating them, or if you ask them out...and you don't know why!
  • You’ve been told you are too sensitive or too nice by women right before they turn you down.
  • You’ve been told you are boring and predictable by women, or you just have a feeling that you are.
  • You tend to allow a woman to take the lead in the relationship and make the major decisions.
  • You’re sometimes shy or nervous in social situations.
  • You are intimidated by confident, beautiful women and feel like you need to impress them.

Can you relate to any of the above warning signs? If so, I’m sorry to tell you that you fit into the Nice Guys Finish Last category! There is hope for you however - you don’t have to remain a nice guy that sucks with women.

In a matter of HOURS, you can learn all of the techniques to captivate a woman’s attention, get her chasing you and literally begging to be your girlfriend. Consider my friend Mitch, a former “extreme nice guy”...

Mitch almost never had a date and when he did it was unbearable to watch. Mitch would constantly compliment the woman he was dating, shower her with expensive gifts, pay for everything and allow her to take control over what that they did and where they went.

After all his care and giving to the woman Mitch would still end up facing the pain and humiliation of being dumped, after only a few dates. Not only did Mitch get dumped, but he never was able to get the relationship to an intimate level. He learned the hard way that nice guys finish last when it comes to dating. Swallowing his pride, Mitch turned to me for some advice. After seeing how crushed he was by a recent break up, I taught him my start-to-finish system for success with women.

Over the past 2 months, he has transformed himself and his dating life and is almost unrecognizable from the lonely nice guy he used to be. He called me a couple of weeks ago, telling me about the 3 women he is dating and having sex with at the moment.

The best part is, he’s not even taking them out for expensive dinners. He meets them for coffee, then they head to his place for sex on either the first or second date. He has gotten rid of the Nice Guys Finish Last curse and is now among the top 1% of guys in the world. I say that because 99% of guys don’t know the dating secrets you are about to discover.

Remember, your dating life is in your hands. If you want to change your dating life and get rid of the Nice Guys Finish Last curse, I can show you how right now.

My name is Dan Bacon, founder of The Modern Man system and I can’t wait to teach you everything I know! Don’t spend another wasted day unhappy with your ability to attract & date beautiful women. Kill the Nice Guys Finish Last curse and join the secret dating world of the guys who are becoming successful with women overnight!

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Testimonials
“Hey dan, you are a bloody legend! before i would used to go out on the town and wouldnt know what to do or say to a woman. i would be the nice bloke and say the old "what do you do?". or i would look at a gorgous woman and say to myself " she wouldnt talk to me". ive already kissed one girl last weekend and im meeting up with another tomorrow! this is fanatastic stuff and it works almost like magic - thanks!!”
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Noah, Texas
“This is awesome guys! I was reading your book last week (I've had it for a month now) and something just clicked. I finially realised why nice guys finish last with women: Because they are BORING! Haha...now when I talk to girls they are laughing and having fun thanks to the techniques you teach. I look forward to a lot of success with this - thanks!”
Ryan, Sydney, Australia