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"The Official FAQ for The Flow"
Includes bonus tips and insights for success with women
By Dan Bacon
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As you will see as you read through each of the questions and answers in this FAQ, The Flow is not for everyone.
This is an honest Q&A page to help you work out whether or not The Flow is for you.
The following questions are real questions, from real subscribers to our e-mail newsletter.
If you are considering purchasing The Flow, I recommend that you read through this page first to be sure.
1. Will I get laid by using the techniques?
2. What immediate benefits can I expect?
3. What are the long term benefits?
4. How is it better than all the other books out there?
5. Does it teach me to get phone numbers that will actually get answered?
6. Will it allow me to get a girl who has already turned me down?
7. Will it help me become less shy?
8. Will The Flow help me develop my sense of humor?
9. Does The Flow teach you how to approach women in real-life situations?
10. Will the Flow assist with what to say, when to say it and how to say it?
11. Will the Flow help to improve my self-esteem?
12. How can you be so sure the Flow will work for me?
13. Will it help me get an ex-girlfriend back, even she's no longer attracted to me?
14. Does it teach you how to get into the right 'mental state' to approach?
15. Will the flow help me overcome the fear of approaching women?
16. I'm really very skeptical. Can you share some success stories from your readers first?
17. How much does it cost?
18. Is it going to get cheaper?
19. Is anything sent via postal mail when I purchase The Flow?
20. How much will shipping cost me?
21. Is there a money back guarantee?
22. Can I get The Flow ebook from a bookstore?
23. I don't have a credit card which makes buying over the internet difficult. How else can I get it?
24. Do you need the "Adobe" reader to use it?
25. I am a quiet person and I have problems talking to girls. Does The Flow teach me how to become a more confident, outgoing and engaging communicator so people want to talk with me?
26. Does this stuff really work in real life situations?
27. Is there anything about how to get out the 'just friends' situation with a girl?
28. How much does The Flow talk about maintaining a woman's interest and attraction?
29. What advantage will it give me over other guys?
30. What is the success rate of guy's who've read your book?
31. Will it help me start a relationship correctly, so it turns into something serious and long-term?
32. What is The Flow?
33. Would The Flow benefit someone in their mid-forties?
34. I'm 18 yrs old. Will this book help me get women my age? Or is it just for older people?
35. Does The Flow contain dialogue taken from your interactions with women?
36. How many years did you struggle yourself before you got results?
37. Does it include ice-breakers and ways to keep the conversation going?
38. Is it possible that the techniques can make a woman fall in love with me as opposed to just attracting her?
39. How difficult it is to use the techniques in real-life?
40. Does it teach you how to be able to know if the girl is interested in you?
41. Is this book about manipulating women into liking you by using tricks?
42. Does The Flow mainly focus on inner game or outer game techniques?
43. What techniques would I be learning from The Flow?
44. What can I expect to find in The Flow that is not in your previous eBook 'Become a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women
45. Can you really have more confidence around women?
46. Does it say how to approach women in shopping malls?
47. Can it be applied to everyday social interactions?
48. Do you also provide ways to get to talk to women outside of a bar of club?
1. Will I get laid by using the techniques?
Yes.
As long as you follow 4 steps of The Flow properly AND also keep moving things forward (I give you techniques for that too), then you will get to sex.
Why is it that simple?
The Flow is based on the flow of a natural, sexual courtship. It works with nature and leads you and the woman to sex. Most guys mistakenly work against nature when they try to 'get laid' (e.g. they don't do the things that attract & interest women) and then they expect women to want to have sex with them.
Guys like that only ever 'get lucky' with women a few times in their life. On the other hand, there are guys who 'know the deal' with women. You can instantly become one of those guys by reading The Flow.
The Flow will not only teach you how to get women wanting to have sex with you, but it will also point out how to tell if a woman is sexually interested in you (See page 116 of The Flow, under the section 'The 3 Stages of Interest'), how to make a move and when to make a move.
The reality is that not having control over your dating & sex life can leave you feeling frustrated and 'left out' in life, while other guys enjoy endless sex, love and relationships with women.
If you want to women in your life now and not if you ever 'get lucky' again, then simply use my techniques and start enjoying the life you know that you deserve.
2. What immediate benefits can I expect?
A huge sense of relief for starters!
The truth is that when you know what 'the deal is' with the dating & relationship scene, it takes a LOT of pressure off you as a man. It also allows you to start enjoying your life, instead of always feeling frustrated or 'left out' when it comes to women.
You'll also:
- Know exactly what to do from start-to-finish, to successfully get with the women you want (including what to say).
- Start dating the women you want.
- Be more appreciated, desired and loved by women.
- Receive more respect from other guys.
- Be able to attract & spark the interest of women you already know, or those you've just met.
- Feel totally confident in any social situation.
- Overcome any fears of rejection.
- Know exactly how to approach women, what to say and what to do in order to succeed.
- Get phone numbers from attractive women and be able to set up dates (what to say and do on the phone is included)
- Increase your chances of finding your ideal woman, instead of leaving your life to 'chance' and hoping that she may come along one day.
- Have the confidence and know-how to get with a new woman, if a relationship ends.
- Enjoy the pleasures of sex & intimacy with attractive women.
- Avoid rejection from women, because you'll know what to do (you'll also know how to get women chasing you more, which means they won't play as hard to get with you).
- Eliminate any insecurities or self-doubts you have when it comes to women, by using my proven confidence-building techniques.
- Never be seen as ‘just a friend’ with women you're attracted to, ever again.
- Easily create irresistible sexual tension between you and the women you meet, so you are always seen as a potential lover or boyfriend.
- Be able to confidently take action and approach a woman, when you see a great opportunity right in front of you.
- Be able to completely avoid any awkward moments or silences when you first start interacting with a woman, because you will know what to say and do.
- Feel happier about yourself because of your new, more confident personality and the great women in your life.
- Be able to go out during the day or night and either come home with a woman you've just met, or come home with a bunch of phone numbers to follow up on and set up dates.
- ...and plenty more.
3. What are the long term benefits?
You will:
- Always have your choice with women, rather than having to take whatever you can get.
- Enjoy fulfilling, sexual relationships with the types of women that you’ve always wanted.
- Have a great woman (or women) to introduce to your friends, family or workmates.
- Start living your life and stop procrastinating because you will no longer feel powerless around women.
- Feel totally comfortable, knowing that if a relationship ends, you’ll be able to easily and quickly meet another woman.
- ...and plenty more.
4. How is it better than all the other books out there?
Other books on dating:
- Are usually not written by people who can PROVE their expertize: Unlike the 1,000s of 'keyboard dating experts' out there, I have been personally coaching guys in real-life situations (like bars, shopping malls, bookstores) on how to approach women and get phone numbers (or move things towards kissing or sex the first time they meet the girl) for the past 3 years.
My reputation is on the line every weekend, because I also approach women in front of my clients in all sorts of environments...and I never fail. Neither will you if you use the techniques in The Flow.
You have to realize that anyone on this planet can give an opinion and say something like "I reckon you should do this and say that...then women will love you! Yeah, listen to me! Listen to me! " but has that person actually tried it themselves in real-life? (I have tested the techniques in The Flow 1,000s of times. I've also seen hundreds of clients use them with success right in front of me, with beautiful women of all nationalities).
- Usually only talk about what to do AFTER you've started dating a girl: Most dating books only give advice on what to do once you've already got a girl.
The Flow will take you each step of the way from approaching new women, to starting conversations, sparking interest and attraction, connecting, getting phone numbers, setting up dates.
It will also give you a number of proven techniques to keep women interested once you've started dating them.
- Focus on trying to trick women into liking you: Would you rather women like you for you, or for a bunch of manipulative tricks?
The Flow will teach you how to spark & maintain the interest of women by using techniques that are based on NATURAL attraction, which means that you can still be yourself - a new & improved version!
- Don't include actual word-for-word examples: When I was learning, I bought heaps of books to try and find examples that I could use.
9/10 books just talked about the theory (and made it all sound very complicated) whereas The Flow gets right to the point and gives you word-for-word examples, perspective shifts and insights so you can get started right away.
By the way...
I won't lie to you - if you have read other dating books, then you may come across things that you already know when reading The Flow.
However, you can rest assured that anything I talk about, recommend and give examples of in The Flow - I USE in my own life to enjoy success with women & dating.
All in all, The Flow is a refreshing alternative to all the wishy-washy, vague and complex books out there. It provides easy-to-use examples so you can get results immediately.
If you're not convinced by what I am saying (maybe you're still a little bit skeptical about it all), then I recommend that you check out what readers of The Flow are saying instead.
5. Does it teach me to get phone numbers that will actually get answered?
Yes.
However, let me give you some more perspective on the issue...
The reality is that (apart from being a 'normal person' who sometimes misses a call due to being busy) some women will screen calls from new phone numbers (i.e. let it go to voicemail).
If you leave a message (which I don't recommend) and you haven't followed The Flow properly, then women will be unlikely to want to call you back or speak to you again.
For example: One of the main reasons that guys don't get their calls answered is they don't develop a proper connection with the woman (Step 3 of The Flow) and only focus on using attraction techniques to spark her interest.
However, if you use the techniques in The Flow to properly connect with women as well as properly attracting them, then women will definitely be keen to hear from you again.
6. Will it allow me to get a girl who has already turned me down?
This is an interesting one and depends on why she turned you down.
If she turned you down because you were being unattractive (e.g. shy, nervous, needy, being too much of a nice guy, etc) the best way I can put it is this...
If you don't have an attractive personality (e.g. if you aren't socially confident, good at using humor and flirting, masculine/alpha male, emotionally strong, etc), then it’s like her being an overweight, unattractive woman and then expecting you to feel a sexual attraction for her.
You just wouldn’t.
You might like her as a person, but overweight women aren't as attractive to us men as fit, attractive women. Just like nervous, shy and overly nice guys aren't as attractive to women as confident, alpha male guys.
So, my advice would be to learn how to get women attracted & interested in you.
Note: This question is usually asked by guys who don't approach and meet other women. If that is you, then you need to get out there and meet more women. Stop wasting time on one girl who isn't interested anyway (there are billions of women on this planet).
Fact: She will show more interest in you if you start being attractive to women and dating other women.
7. Will it help me become less shy?
Yes.
I have recently included a bonus eBooklet with The Flow, called 'Super-Charge Your Confidence Now'. If you follow the steps in that eBooklet you are guaranteed to eliminate your shyness and become a confident, socially outgoing guy.
Personally, I used to suffer from a mild case of social anxiety, which meant I would often get nervous and shy in social situations.
Life as a shy guy is often a boring, lonely and frustrating existence. You might feel like you are never being your true self, or living the life you truly deserve.
It's your choice whether or not you want to hold yourself back in life by continuing to be a shy guy. The Flow will provide you with the exact techniques to unleash your confidence and become the guy you've always wanted to be.
8. Will The Flow help me develop my sense of humor?
Yes.
I know how bad it feels to work up the courage to actually crack a joke, only to get no laughter in return...just silence and the girl losing interest in you.
Ouch!
The Flow will provide you with tested, word-for-word examples to use in various situations (i.e. when you first meet, during the conversation, on the phone, on the date, as the dating relationship progresses) and will also teach you the most attractive form of humor that always gets a laugh from women.
The examples in The Flow are ones that I personally use in my own life. They are guaranteed to work for you, when you combine them with the body language and tonality techniques that I also provide.
9. Does The Flow teach you how to approach women in real-life situations?
Yes.
The Flow includes an approaching checklist (developed after approaching over 3,000 women), conversation starters, body language tips, humor examples, ways to keep the conversation going, how to move to a phone number, then to a date and much more.
With The Flow as your new secret weapon, you won't ever have to be stuck thinking, "She's hot...but, what do I do? What do I say? What do I say next? How do I get her phone number???"
You'll know how to do it all with ease.
Note: The Modern Man coaches and I have approached more than 10,000 women (combined between the 3 of us) and interviewed many of them about being approached. Women want you to approach them - you just need to know the right way to do it. Once you do, it's like a walk in the park - easy and enjoyable.
10. Will the Flow assist with what to say, when to say it and how to say it?
Yes.
I know that this is huge struggle for a lot of guys and one of the most common questions we get, "What should I say to her?"
To help with that, The Flow includes 10 of my best conversation starters, plenty of word-for-word examples of things to say and it also teaches you where to take a conversation to keep a woman engaged and interested.
11. Will the Flow help to improve my self-esteem?
Yes.
There are many, many concepts you'll learn in The Flow that will do that for you.
Then, if you want to take things to the max, then you must read and apply the very powerful techniques in the limited edition ebooklet 'Super-Charge Your Confidence Now', which currently comes free with The Flow.
I know from personal experience that life with low-self esteem sucks and it's up to you to decide whether you deserve better or not. Thanks to the internet, you can now have all the solutions (that took me years to develop) in a matter of minutes by downloading The Flow.
12. How can you be so sure the Flow will work for me?
If you apply the techniques, they are guaranteed to work for you.
I am able to be so sure that it will work for you, because I have personally coached hundreds of clients (of various nationalities, ages, physical appearance, etc) for the past 3 years and I've developed the techniques so they work for everyone.
The reality is that what you will learn in The Flow will make women more attracted & interested in you, no matter who you are.
That is a fact.
However, I will point out that the techniques won't do you much good if you don't use them. I realize that there are guys who will read my book and then say, "Yeah, that makes sense" but then won't use the knowledge in their interactions with women.
It disappoints me to think that some guys will do that to themselves, but I guess some guys just don't want it (success with women) as much as others.
If you are willing to use the techniques and examples, then you can expect to see results fast.
The best thing for you to do, is check out some recent success stories here and decide whether or not you think it could work for you.
13. Will it help me get an ex-girlfriend back, even she's no longer attracted to me?
Tell me...
If you lost attraction for your ex-girlfriend (e.g. she became obese, she started behaving like a man, etc), would she be able to get you back?
By looking at it in that way, you should be able to come up with the answer yourself.
The truth is, I can't guarantee that you'll be able to get your ex-girlfriend back, as it really depends on how much you damaged her attraction for you and how genuinely interested she is in you.
Your best option is to start dating other women (which The Flow will teach you how to do) and use the techniques to become a more attractive guy (e.g. more confident, masculine, funny, flirtatious, etc).
If she wants to be with you, she'll get back in touch. However, if she doesn't contact you, then you can give it a shot - but there are no guarantees she'll want you back.
As I pointed out immediately: Would you take her back if you weren't attracted to her anymore?
By the way...
There are billions of women on this planet. 100's of millions who'd want to be with you.
14. Does it teach you how to get into the right 'mental state' to approach?
Yes.
I'm currently offering the eBooklet 'Super-Charge Your Confidence Now' as a free bonus with The Flow. It includes step-by-step techniques that are guaranteed to get you into the right mental state if you use them properly.
Without the right techniques, the fact is that you will probably always struggle to get into the right state to approach. Using my tested and proven techniques, you will discover a newfound confidence that will stay with you wherever you go.
15. Will the flow help me overcome the fear of approaching women?
Yes.
I know this is a huge problem for 9 out of 10 guys, so I have included heaps of advice and techniques on the subject.
The advice and techniques were originally developed as I personally learned how to overcome my own huge fear of approaching women (especially beautiful women). I then tweaked and tested the techniques for the next 3 years as I coached hundreds of clients on how to approach women during our live, weekend courses.
What I've ended up with are techniques that work for every guy, no matter how experienced or inexperienced he is with women.
The fact is that you can overcome any fears of approaching women that you may have. However, if you don't decide to learn then you may spend the rest of your life being held back and missing out on many great opportunities with your ideal women.
I can assure you - The Flow (and the recent bonus eBooklet 'Super-Charge Your Confidence Now') has tested and proven solutions that you can use right away.
16. I'm really very skeptical. Can you share some success stories from your readers first?
Sure thing.
I understand that you may be skeptical. It may seem like we make a lot of bold claims about what you can achieve, but here is the proof: Recent success stories of readers
17. How much does it cost?
You get a total of $169.80 worth of products, for only $37.
The price is in Australian dollars. You can use this Currency Converter to work out how much that will be for you in your currency.
Note: When you purchase, our credit card processing system will work that out automatically for you. So, you don't need to do anything extra - it's all taken care of for you.
The Flow Pack |
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Value |
- The Flow
- Instant download.
- 130-page eBook.
- Step-by-step guide for approaching women & getting dates.
- Includes proven techniques for: Approaching women, starting conversations, getting women interested, getting phone numbers, kissing, body language, touch and plenty more.
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$69.95 |
- Super-Charge Your Confidence Now
- Instant download.
- 17-page eBooklet.
- Proven techniques for building and maintaining confidence.
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$29.95 |
- Attraction 101
- Instant download.
- 16-page eBooklet.
- How to have women want you as a lover or boyfriend, rather than just a friend.
- Includes what to say and do to get women interested in you.
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$29.95 |
- Being the Man
- Instant download.
- 17-minutes of MP3 audio.
- Audio clip taken from a recent seminar.
- A deeper look at masculinity and being an alpha male.
- Key techniques for sparking deep, sexual attraction in women.
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$39.95 |
| Total value |
$169.80 |
| Limited time price |
Only $37 |
18. Is it going to get cheaper?
No.
I feel that offering $169.80 worth of high-quality educational products (that took me years to work out), for only $37 is a great deal.
For the small amount of $37 you can achieve all of this and more:
- Have a great woman to introduce to your friends, family or workmates.
- No longer feel 'left out' when your friends are dating women, because you will also have beautiful, intelligent and interesting women in your life.
- Know exactly what to do from start-to-finish, to successfully get with the women you want.
- Enjoy fulfilling, sexual relationships with the types of women that you’ve always wanted.
- Be able to confidently take action and approach a woman, when you see a great opportunity right in front of you.
- Avoid rejection when you approach women, because you know exactly what to do through all the stages of an interaction with a woman.
- Eliminate any insecurities or self-doubts you have when it comes to women, by using my proven confidence-building techniques.
- Be a lover or boyfriend to women that you're interested in, instead of being seen as 'just a friend' and missing out on your chance.
- Create irresistible sexual tension between you and the women you meet, so you are always seen as a potential lover or boyfriend.
- Feel happier about yourself and be more respected and admired by others, because of your new, more confident personality and the great women in your life.
- Avoid any awkward moments or silences when you first start interacting with a woman, because you will know what to say and do.
If you are not willing to invest in our high-quality learning products, then success with women may not be for you. Feel free to continue enjoying our free tips and I wish you all the best.
19. Is anything sent via postal mail when I purchase The Flow?
No.
All materials are downloaded, which ensures your privacy.
Also, nothing will ever be sent in the mail referring to your purchase of The Flow.
20. How much will shipping cost me?
There are absolutely no shipping costs, because The Flow is downloaded.
Being able to download it means that you can get The Flow & bonuses right now - regardless of what time of day or night it is for you.
You will get immediate access to the download page after your purchase.
21. Is there a money-back guarantee?
Yes.
Read The Flow and use the techniques in real-life situations. If they don't work for you, send me an e-mail or use our contact us form within 30 days to request a 'no-hassle' refund.
22. Can I get The Flow ebook from a bookstore?
No.
The Flow is only available from The Modern Man.
You can download it right now and start learning immediately.
If you prefer reading off paper, please feel free to print out a copy of The Flow for yourself.
23. I don't have a credit card which makes buying over the internet difficult. How else can I get it?
Here are your other payment options.
24. Do you need the "Adobe" reader to use it?
Yes.
You can download the latest version of Adobe Acrobat Reader here for free.
25. I am a quiet person and I have problems talking to girls. Does The Flow teach me how to become a more confident, outgoing and engaging communicator so people want to talk with me?
Yes.
The Flow covers all areas of communication including words, tonality, expression, context and body language.
By using the techniques, you will not only attract & interest women, but people will be more interested in you as a person.
Some guys (including myself as I was discovering the techniques) report better results with study, promotions at work, better relationships with family & friends and more respect from people in general.
26. Does this stuff really work in real life situations?
Yes.
That's where all the techniques, concepts and methods in The Flow come from! :)
I have been coaching guys on how to approach women in real-life situations (like bars, bookstores and shopping malls) for the past 3 years and it always works.
Readers of The Flow have also been using it and you can check out some recent success stories here.
Unlike other advice out there on the millions of online dating sites, all of my advice comes from real-life experience. You can save time by avoiding all the mistakes I made along the way and achieve success with women now, not in 10 years time.
27. Is there anything about how to get out the 'just friends' situation with a girl?
Yes.
When a woman says that she just wants to be friends with you, she actually means "I am not sexually attracted to you, please understand that..."
The good news is that you can change the way she sees you.
The Flow will teach you how to easily spark and maintain a powerful sexual attraction in a woman, so she sees you as a lover or boyfriend, rather than a just a friend.
28. How much does The Flow talk about maintaining a woman's interest and attraction?
All of the techniques in The Flow work to spark & maintain a woman's interest and attraction for you.
You will immediately stand out from other guys, because you won't be making all the obvious and subtle mistakes that they make around women.
29. What advantage will it give me over other guys?
The reality is that most guys do not know this stuff (I estimate that 8/10 guys don't 'get' what's really going on between men and women).
I can tell within a few seconds of watching a guy interact with women if he knows the deal or not. So can women...and as you would have seen in your own life - the best women go for the guys who all the other women want.
When you start using the techniques, you will have an immediate advantage over other guys because you won't be making all the mistakes that they are.
What you learn from The Flow will last you a lifetime. It will not only help you with women, but it all areas of your life. You'll just have to try it and see.
However, if you are having trouble imagining what advantages you will have over other guys, then check out some of the recent success stories from readers of The Flow to see what's possible.
30. What is the success rate of guy's who've read your book?
I only know how successful guys are with using the techniques if they contact me to tell me. So, I am not going to lie to you and say that everyone succeeds.
Instead, I can point you to some of the recent success stories I've received so you can see for yourself.
31. Will it help me start a relationship correctly, so it turns into something serious and long-term?
Yes.
The Flow tells you all the things you need to do and all the things you need to avoid to kick a dating relationship off correctly, so it has the potential to last.
There are many subtle and obvious mistakes that guys make when first dating a girl, which ruin the chance for a serious relationship.
For example: A common mistake is that a guy will start dating a girl and will give her too many compliments too early, or want to see her too often. I'll explain what you should do instead in The Flow.
The Flow will allow you to maintain the interest of any woman, while also ensuring that you have control over the relationship.
32. What is The Flow?
The Flow is a 4-step process that you can use to approach women you don't know, or women that you already know.
By following the process you will go from starting an interaction, sparking the woman's attraction & interest, connecting with her and then moving things to a phone number, kissing, date and sex.
From there, you can use the techniques and methods provided in The Flow to continue things towards a dating relationship and beyond.
Under each of the 4 steps of The Flow, I go into great detail about all the subtle and not-so-subtle things that need to take place in order for a natural, sexual courtship to occur.
By following The Flow, you will never feel lost or stuck with what to do next. It's all laid out for you in plain, easy-to-understand English, with step-by-step instructions.
Unlike other books, I don't turn the whole process of meeting and dating a woman into a big, complicated mess. Once you know how to use The Flow, you will see how easy it really is to meet and date the women you've always wanted.
33. Would The Flow benefit someone in their mid-forties?
Yes.
For the last 3 years (on weekends), I've coached guys from ages 18 to 49 in real-life situations (e.g. bars, bookstores, shopping malls) and taught them how to approach women and get phone numbers.
Regardless of the guy's age, nationality, or appearance, he is able to get the same results as any other guy.
Why?
Just like we men are attracted to certain things about women (e.g. a woman's physical body), women are attracted to certain things about men regardless of age (e.g. confidence, humor, great conversation, flirting, alpha male traits, etc).
By using the techniques in The Flow, women will be attracted to you and want to be with you. There's no doubt about that.
34. I'm 18 yrs old. Will this book help me get women my age? Or is it just for older people?
Yes.
The techniques in The Flow work regardless of your age. Once you know how to use this stuff - you're set for life!
35. Does The Flow contain dialogue taken from your interactions with women?
Yes.
I include plenty of word-for-word examples, plus explanations so you know why I say specific things to women in certain situations.
36. How many years did you struggle yourself before you got results?
It took me longer than it will take you, because I didn't have The Flow as my 'how to guide' when I approached or interacted with women :)
I had to learn everything the hard way by physically going out there and approaching 1,000s of women. I got rejected more times than I can count, before I started to discover the techniques that you can now learn in the time it takes you to read The Flow.
For me, it took 2 years to start getting the results I was after (i.e. dating and having sex with beautiful women). However, I often get e-mails from readers within weeks (sometimes days) telling me what they've already achieved by using the techniques from The Flow.
Here are some recent success stories so you can see for yourself.
37. Does it include ice-breakers and ways to keep the conversation going?
Yes.
The Flow includes 10 of my best ice-breakers plus a 'conversation starter creation tool' that you can use to come up with your own ice-breakers for any situation.
Here's why most guys struggle to keep conversations going:
- They think they need to impress women during conversation: While you should be an 'impressive guy' (e.g. confident, funny, interesting to talk to) it is the woman who needs to be impressing you during conversation.
The fact is that if you try to impress women in order to pick them up, they will almost always play harder to get. So, why make it more difficult for yourself?
Just like you can tell when a person is trying really hard to get your approval or interest, a woman can see that as well.
Women want a guy who is a challenge, who is funny and interesting to talk to. You can learn all of that in The Flow.
- A woman loses interest if the guy isn't being attractive: If you don't include flirting and humor, or speak with confidence when you're talking to women then most won't want to continue talking to you.
If you want to learn how to break the ice with a woman and be able to keep the conversation going (as well as keep it interesting), then check out The Flow.
I provide word-for-word examples, so you can get started right away.
38. Is it possible that the techniques can make a woman fall in love with me as opposed to just attracting her?
Yes.
Attracting a woman is just the beginning. In order for a woman to fall in love with you, she must also have a deeper connection with you. I explain how you can do that in The Flow.
By the way...
The techniques in The Flow will allow you to maintain the interest of women as you begin dating her and seeing her more often, so she has time to get to the point of falling in love with you (how long it takes depends on you and the woman and the dynamic between you).
39. How difficult it is to use the techniques in real-life?
I guess that's almost like asking, "How difficult is it to hold a hammer and hit a nail into a piece of wood?"
If you've never done it before, you'll probably be a bit nervous and take your time with it. You may even mess it up the first time. Then, once you've done it a few times it will be easy and straightforward.
The way it works is like this: The faster you start applying the techniques in real-life situations, the faster you'll get the results you want.
Here are some recent success stories from readers of The Flow (some of these readers e-mailed me within days after reading The Flow, although most readers e-mail their success story after about a month or so).
40. Does it teach you how to be able to know if the girl is interested in you?
Yes.
I've developed a system called 'The 3 Stages of Interest' which shows you how a woman's conversation, body language and actions will change as she becomes more and more interested in you.
You can use this system from a distance, while interacting with her in person and while dating to know if she's interested.
It's a great confidence-booster when you know what to look for, because you can stop second-guessing yourself and enjoy the experience with her instead.
41. Is this book about manipulating women into liking you by using tricks?
Not at all.
In fact, it's the opposite.
Most 'dating experts' offer tricks because they have not personally achieved success with women & dating in their own lives. They still think that women have all the power in the dating & relationship scene, so they try to use sneaky tricks...which don't work anyway.
When you use the techniques and methods in The Flow (which are all based on natural attraction and my years of real-life experience and success with women), you will see that it is we men who have the power in the dating & relationship scene.
This is your opportunity to experience the dating life you've always dreamed of.
Whether or not think you deserve it, is entirely up to you.
42. Does The Flow mainly focus on inner game or outer game techniques?
Both.
It's a nice blend of the two actually.
The recent eBooklet 'Super-Charge Your Confidence Now' (which currently comes free with The Flow) is focused entirely on inner game if you're really keen to get that area sorted.
43. What techniques would I be learning from The Flow?
Techniques for:
- Approaching women.
- Starting conversations.
- Keeping conversations going.
- Keeping conversations interesting.
- Avoiding rejection.
- Using humor to attract women.
- Having unstoppable social confidence.
- Attracting women and having them become interested in you immediately.
- Making women see you in a sexual way, rather than just a friend.
- Building positive momentum in this area of your life.
- Being an alpha male.
- Being the bad boy that women love, while still being a good guy.
- Adding more fun & adventure to your life and to your dates & relationships with women.
- Being more sexually attractive to women.
- Knowing when a woman is interested in you.
- Knowing when to make a move.
- Taking things to a sexual level with a woman (otherwise known as 'escalating').
- Improving your fashion sense, or sense of style.
- Building stronger social skills.
- Connecting with women on levels of general rapport and deep rapport.
- Creating chemistry between you and the women you meet.
- Creating sexual tension between you and the women you meet.
- Meeting women in different environments.
- Overcoming any insecurities, self-doubts or worries you have when it comes to women.
- Getting phone numbers.
- Setting up dates.
- Dating women.
- Getting a girlfriend.
- Mastering your dating life.
- ...and more!
When you apply what you learn from The Flow, you will be able to:
- Successfully meet women in all sorts of environments and easily walk away with phone numbers.
- Enjoy fun & interesting conversations and connect with women in ways you never thought possible.
- Attract women so much that they show you more obvious signs of interest.
- Set up dates that go smoothly and lead to kissing and sex.
- Have women chasing you, rather than the other way around.
- Experience a dating lifestyle that most guys will only ever dream of.
- Feel comfortable, knowing that if a relationship ends, you’ll be able to meet another woman easily and efficiently.
44. What can I expect to find in The Flow that is not in your previous eBook 'Become a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women?
The Flow is a new & improved version of my original eBook 'Become a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women'. (no longer available)
I rewrote it after coaching clients in real-life situations for 3 years. During that time I made a lot of new and exciting discoveries and developed more powerful techniques that are designed to work for any guy.
The Flow now comes with 4 additional bonuses: 2 seminar audio clips and 2 brand new eBooklets.
If you already have Become a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women, I'll give you a free upgrade.
Simply forward the e-mail you would have received when you purchased it to (contact a*t the modern man .com ...typing it that way to avoid spambots picking up the email address) and I will reply with the download link for The Flow & bonuses.
45. Can you really have more confidence around women?
Yes.
You can have more confidence with anything in life.
There is an actual process that you can follow to build confidence. Personally, I had to read over 15 books and listen to about 10 audio programs to finally piece together the secrets to unstoppable confidence.
Also, after coaching hundreds of guys in real-life (on weekend courses) over the past 3 years, I assure you - I know how to teach confidence.
By using the confidence boosting techniques found in the bonus eBooklet that currently comes free with The Flow (called 'Super-Charge Your Confidence Now') you are guaranteed to become more confident with women and in life.
46. Does it say how to approach women in shopping malls?
Yes.
You can use the conversation starters and approaching techniques I offer for street approaches and supermarket approaches. They work in pretty much all areas of a shopping mall too.
47. Can it be applied to everyday social interactions?
Yes.
When you start using the techniques, you will find that your interactions with women & people improve in many ways. Personally, when I started applying the techniques I went from being a shy guy, to being a socially confident and outgoing guy.
I've received heaps of e-mails from readers reporting all sorts of benefits in their personal lives. You can check out some recent success stories here
48. Do you also provide ways to get to talk to women outside of a bar of club?
Yes.
The Flow includes word-for-word examples for places like: Bookstores, supermarkets, take-away stores, on the street, bars and clubs.
I also provide a 4-step conversation starter creation tool, so you can quickly come up with your own conversation starters for any environment you find yourself in.
Plus, I also talk about the different ways you need to adjust your energy, approach and conversation depending on what environment you are meeting women in.
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