The Right Way to Talk to Women

How many times have you stopped to imagine all the ways your dating and sex life with women could be better? If you’re like most guys, you probably think about it every day. One of the biggest questions I get is, “What is the right way to talk to women?” or "How can I show interest when talking to a woman, without coming across as needy, desperate or sleazy?"

The right way to talk to women is like you would talk to your male friends, but you also need to include a very important ingredient called flirting. Flirting allows you and a woman to show sexual interest in each other during a conversation, without ever actually having say it.

By the way, who am I and how can I help you understand the right way to talk to women? My name is Dan Bacon and I’ve been studying the subject of success with women for 5 years.

Before discovering what women wanted and how to be successful at dating and relationships, I was the guy who:

• Wished I knew the right way to talk to women, so they would show immediate interest in me.
• Wished I had the courage to ask out the prettiest girl in a room.
• Wished my best female friend would notice me as a dating material.
• Wished I could walk up to a hot woman in a bar and get her phone number.
• Wished I knew what to say to a woman to keep her interested in me.
• Wished I didn't get embarrassed and stumble on my words when trying to talk to women in person, on dates and on the phone.

Now I don't "Wish" I could do things like that - I can do them. Today, I know of ways to talk to women that immediately make them fall in love with you, want to have sex with you and want to be in a relationship with you.

One of the best ways to talk to a woman is like you are judging her and deciding whether or not you like HER, instead of hoping that she likes you. Most guys think that to be successful with women they have to be rich or have model looks. This leads them to feel like they’ll never be ‘good enough’ for the beautiful women they really want.

Think about it! How much time have you wasted, trimming and styling your hair into some perfect design, picking out new clothes and practicing loads of charming pick up lines to get a woman's attention? Hopefully it's not more time than you've spent on dates or in the bedroom with women!

The right way to talk to women is not about using flattery and dressing to fit a certain mold - it’s about being willing to present who you really are, while also including the magic ingredient of flirting. Here is a very simple trick that can work the next time you approach a woman to talk to her.

• Don't try to impress her with information about your job, car or other traits you think are of interest women.
• Remember that less is often more in conversations with women. Ask a question to get the ball rolling and let her carry the burden of thinking about what to say.
• Offer fun and interesting responses to what she's saying and pay attention.
• Use every opportunity to turn what is being said into a flirtatious conversation. For example: She says, “I’m tired…” and you reply, “Wow, you move fast...we’ve only been talking for a couple of minutes and you’re already hinting at going to bed with me...I like it...”

If you’d like to learn more ways to talk to women, then I'd like to officially welcome to The Modern Man: Your start-to-finish guide for success with women and dating!

If your current conversation style is not getting you the sex, love and attention that you deserve from women, let us teach you the right way to talk to women. By using our techniques, you will see your results with women change immediately...

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	Article by Dan Bacon. Founder and lead dating coach for TheModernMan.com
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