Most guys are aware of the common saying that “Nice guys finish last” and if you happen to be a nice guy, you’ve probably learned this lesson the hard way in your dating life with women!
When someone says that nice guys finish last, it usually means that women avoid dating them and choose other guys first. The truth is that a woman would rather date a bad boy or jerk over a nice guy, even though those guys wouldn’t treat her as well. Why?
Women are attracted to the strength in men (e.g. confidence, masculinity) and turned off by the weakness (e.g. nervousness, anxiety, self-doubt). Since most nice guys tend to be nervous, anxious around women, they end up getting rejected.
However, that doesn’t mean that a woman wants a BAD man. She just wants a confident, masculine man and if no good confident, masculine men are available, she will settle for a jerk or asshole, just so she gets to feel the exciting emotion of attraction.
Think about it…
You jerk off to sluts and whores (i.e. bad girls) when you watch porn, right? However, for a girlfriend or wife, you probably want a beautiful, intelligent, down to Earth, loyal, good girl, right? So, why do you jerk off to sluts? Attraction.
You give in to your feelings of attraction. If you could have sex with strippers and pornstars in real life, you probably would, right?
The difference for women is that they can hook up with bad boys, experience the attraction and then break up with him later. However, for a nice guy who dreams of sleeping with very sexy women, he usually only has access to porn to fulfil his needs.
Being Nice to Women is Fine, But it’s Not the Answer to Success With Women
There’s nothing wrong with being nice to women, but you also have to be sexually attractive to them.
Being nice to a woman doesn’t want to make her take her panties off, but sexual attraction does. When a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will see your good behavior as being charming. However, if she only sees you as a friend, she will usually see your good behavior as being suspicious and even manipulative.
She knows that nice guys think they will be rewarded with sex for being a good boy, but that’s just not how it works for her. A woman has sex with men whom she is sexually attracted to, not with guys who’ve been as nice as pie to her for months.
Are You the Type of Nice Guy Who Will Finish Last With Women?
Do any of the following apply to you?
- You’re usually the one giving the most when in a relationship.
- You tell a woman that you’ve missed her when you’ve been apart, even though she never says it to you.
- Women often say to you, “Let’s just be friends” after you begin dating them, or if you ask them out…and you just don’t know why.
- You’ve been told before that you’re too sensitive or too nice by women, usually right before a woman rejects you or dumps you.
- You’ve been told that you are boring and predictable by women, or you just have a feeling that you are.
- You tend to allow a woman to take the lead in the relationship and make the major decisions for the both of you.
- You often feel shy or nervous in social situations, especially around attractive women or the cool crowd.
- You are intimidated by confident, beautiful women and feel like you need to impress them.
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