Dan Bacon

Dan Bacon, founder of The Modern Man and author of The Flow

Welcome to The Modern Man!

Discover secrets that most men will never know about women

These days, women play hard to get and if a guy doesn't know what he's doing, he will often get rejected, placed in the friend zone or dumped out of a relationship.

The Modern Man approach to women stops all the games and puts you in the position of power. My proven techniques make women instantly show their interest in you, fall madly in love with you and then remain in love with you. Instead of playing hard to get, women hit on you and try to pick you up, which makes escalating to kissing and sex so easy. It's a pretty amazing experience and I've been living it for the past 10 years.

Some guys need more help with women than others, so I have created a wide range of in-depth programs to ensure that every guy gets the help he needs. My promise is simple: When you use my techniques and advice, you are guaranteed to get the results that you want with women. Success stories.


The Flow

The Flow

The revolutionary 4-step process for confidently approaching women and getting dates, getting laid and getting a girlfriend

By following the four steps of The Flow, you will effortlessly go from a conversation to a kiss and then to sex with women. If you prefer to take things slowly, you can build up to sex over a few dates instead of having sex on the first night or date - it's up to you. By using The Flow process, you can also begin a sexual relationship after being stuck in the "friend zone" with a girl for years.

The Flow is jam packed with examples of conversation, flirting and humor, as well as fundamental techniques for approaching women, building and maintaining confidence, getting a girlfriend, making new friends and having your choice with women.

If you aren't getting the results you want with women and wish you knew what to say and do to get women to like you, then read The Flow and everything will change you for you immediately. View success stories. There is nothing else like The Flow available online. This is what every single man needs to know if he wants to be successful with women.

231 page ebook.

Instant download.

Opens on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Written by Dan Bacon

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Dating Power

Dating Power

Makes women try to pick you up, which then allows you to have your choice with women

Dating Power is a professionally recorded seminar that we held for a sold out audience.

In addition to making women try to pick you up, Dating Power techniques make women:

  • Want to be approached by you.
  • Become immediately interested in you.
  • Remain interested in you.
  • Want to give you their contact details.
  • Want you to contact them.
  • Want to go on a date with you.
  • Enjoy their dates with you.
  • Want to have sex with you.
  • Want to have a relationship with you.

We developed the Dating Power techniques by taking new clients out to bars and clubs every weekend and showing them how to get women trying to pick them up. These are advanced techniques that take your success with women to the next level and beyond and give you more choice with women. When you use the Dating Power techniques, women literally begin to flood into your life.

8 hours of video.

Instant download / watch online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or watch online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenters: Dan, Ben and Stu.

Dating Power - Plus Bonuses

Bonus 1: Dating Power Presentation Slides

$97 FREE
The exact slides we used for the seminar, presented in a 257 page PDF document that also includes photos from the day. Having the slides allows you to follow along with the seminar without having to take notes. It is also useful as a quick reference guide.

Bonus 2: Dating Power Private Examples

$297 FREE

During the 3.75 hours of professionally recorded audio, Ben, Stu and I reveal how we use the Dating Power techniques to enjoy easy, consistent and natural success with women in our private life. Dating Power Private Examples includes in-depth explanations of how we get one night stands, what we say and do around women to get them trying to pick us up, how we get women to approach us and how we always ensure that we are in the position of power with a woman. You will not only learn the Dating Power techniques by watching the 8 hour, Dating Power seminar video, but you will also have loads of practical, real life examples of how we use the techniques in our own life by listening to this bonus audio recording. With all that knowledge combined, you will know exactly what to say and do the next time you meet a woman in any situation.

The audio was professionally recorded in a studio to ensure perfectly clear sound when you are listening with headphones, in your car, on your computer or with your smartphone or tablet device.

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21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend

21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend

Step by step instructions for approaching and picking up women in 21 different environments

21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend explains what to say and do to spark a woman's attraction and interest in each environment, as well as how to get her phone number and then set up a date and/or escalate to kissing and sex immediately.

7 hours of audio.

Instant download / listen online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or listen online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenters: Dan, Ben and Stu.

21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend - Plus Bonus

Bonus: 30 Day Challenge

$97 FREE

The 30 Day Challenge is a 60 page ebook with a step-by-step challenge that puts your approaching, conversation and pick up skills to the test and gets you improved results with women every step of the way. The challenges start out easy and become more advanced as you reach the final 10 days of the 30 Day Challenge.

The challenges are based on the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend, so it gets you out there trying the different ways to get yourself a girlfriend, while giving you additional tips, tests and challenges to complete to ensure that you get results.

By completing the 30 Day Challenge, you will:

  • Get at least 7 phone numbers from new women who want to go on dates with you.
  • Choose one or more of those women to be your girlfriend.
  • Make 2-3 new friends.
  • Dramatically improve your confidence, conversation skills and ability to approach and pick up women.
  • Become more attractive and appealing to women.
  • Have sex with at least 1 new woman, but likely 2-4 new women (based on feedback we've received from guys who've completed our 30 Day Challenge).

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Mastery Methods & Mindsets

Mastery Methods and Mindsets

Takes your confidence and skills with women the mastery level

Mastery Methods & Mindsets gives you new ways of thinking (Mindsets) that instantly eliminate your feelings of approach anxiety, self-doubt and fear around attractive women. The program also provides you with challenging and different ways of approaching women (Methods) that push you outside your comfort zone and make you more confident and present in your interactions with women and people in general.

When you use the techniques and advice in the program, you will notice instant and dramatic improvements to your confidence. When you interact with a woman, you will notice that she immediately feels a deep, uncontrollable attraction to you as a person. Women will react in completely different way to you than they ever have before. The quality of women you can attract will increase significantly. If you could previously attract and pick up women who you rate as 7/10, you will immediately be able to attract and pick up women you rate as being 9/10 or 10/10.

Your confidence will go through the roof and you will not only feel fully confident, calm and in control around very attractive women, but you will be full of self-esteem and confidence when in any social situation in general. No more feeling nervous, anxious or doubting yourself around attractive women or when in social situations - all of that rapidly disappears.

7.5 hours of audio.

Instant download / listen online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or listen online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenters: Dan, Ben and Stu.

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The Ultimate Guide to Conversation

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation

Teaches you how to talk your way into sex, love and relationships with women

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation provides you with 100s of tested examples of what to say to start a conversation, keep a conversation going and keep it interesting when talking to a woman. By using our tested conversation techniques, you will effortlessly make women fall in love with you during a simple conversation. You will feel confident talking to any woman you meet and will never run out of things to say. Women will try to keep conversations going with you because they will enjoy talking to you so much. Your conversations will lead to kissing, sex, love and relationships naturally and easily.

10 hours of audio.

Instant download / listen online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or listen online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenters: Dan, Ben and Stu.

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation - Plus Bonus

Bonus: 72 Conversation Starters

$29 FREE
This quick reference guide includes all the conversation starters that we demonstrated and explained in The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, as well as some bonus conversation starters that are only found in this guide.

The conversation starter examples are for many different situations, such as: Approaching women in shopping malls, in bars and nightclubs, on the street, supermarket/grocery store, approaching women who are walking their dog, when standing in front of or behind women who are lining up to buy tickets at the cinema, etc.

The conversation starters also cover very specific situations you will encounter and what to say for each of them. For example: When a woman makes eye contact with you in a bar and then warmly smiles at you before looking away, when you see two women but only one of them is talking to a guy and the other woman is not included in the conversation, when a woman is reading a book or playing with her smartphone on public transport, etc.

This quick reference guide also includes our exclusive Conversation Starter Formula, which allows you to instantly come up with something interesting to say to a woman in any situation.

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Confessions of a Natural

Confessions of a Natural: Interview Series

Professionally recorded interviews with four different guys who are naturally confident and successful with women

The Confessions of a Natural interview series uncovers the dating techniques of the Naturals (guys who are naturally good with women). Ben, Stu and I interview four of our friends who are naturally good with women and get them to explain why they are so confident, how they get women trying to pick them up, how they make new friends, what they say when talking to women and why it is so easy for them to get laid and get a girlfriend.

These are the secrets that Naturals usually keep private so they can continue to have an advantage over other guys. Not anymore. In these tell all interviews, the Naturals reveal everything that they say and do around women to get exactly what they want. While listening to these interviews, it will all begin to make sense for you. You will no longer be one of the guys who wonders, "How did he get with her?" when you see an average looking guy with a beautiful woman, because you will know exactly what the Naturals say and do to have their choice of women. This collection of interviews is priceless and will dramatically improve your success with women to levels you may not even be able to imagine right now.

  • Interview 1: Mark the Master
  • Interview 2: Ash - Mr. Alpha Male
  • Interview 3: Andrew the Funny Guy
  • Interview 4: Rick the Popular Guy
7 hours of audio.

Instant download / listen online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or listen online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenters: Dan, Ben and Stu.

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Better Than a Bad Boy

Better Than a Bad Boy

Transforms you into what women refer to as a real man

Better Than a Bad Boy transforms you into the type of man that women desperately want to be with and never want to leave. The real man approach to life prevents you from becoming clingy or insecure in a relationship and gives you powerful type of confidence that other people respect and admire. As a real man, you have purpose in life and go after your life goals and dreams with unrelenting confidence and determination. Women love you for who you are as a man and other guys simply pale in comparison to you and her feelings for you.

10.9 hours of video.

Instant download / watch online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or watch online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenter: Dan

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Alpha Male Power

Alpha Male Power

Gives you the confidence, drive and emotional toughness of an alpha male

Alpha Male Power connects you to a powerful type of confidence that only true alpha males have and use in their life. Without connecting to this power, you will always feel nervous and unsure of yourself around beautiful women, alpha males or the "cool crowd."

Fact: Women are more attracted to alpha males than any other type of guy. By not being an alpha male, you are limiting your attractiveness to women and missing out on being with higher quality women. By thinking, behaving and taking action like a lower-ranking male, you will naturally experience nervousness, anxiety and fear in social situations. You will usually be overlooked for promotions, picked on or made fun of by bad boys and rejected by confident women. As an alpha male, people automatically show you respect and women automatically feel attracted to you. You don't feel nervous or unsure of yourself and you are able to take action when you see a great opportunity in front of you. Being an alpha male is a much easier, more fulfilling and more effective way to live your life as a man.

The type of alpha male approach that we teach here is the Good Guy Alpha Male approach. It's not about being arrogant, bossing everyone around or being a jerk. It's about being a good guy, but also being assertive, very confident and very powerful in life. We often hear back from customers who've gotten promoted at work, in addition to having sex with new women and getting a girlfriend.

5.5 hours of video.

Instant download / watch online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or watch online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenter: Dan

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Coaching Call Breakthroughs

Coaching Call Breakthroughs

Ensures that you avoid all the common mistakes that guys make when trying to improve their success with women, so you can succeed with women the first time you try

Coaching Call Breakthroughs is a collection of three coaching calls between me (Dan Bacon) and clients who needed help to fix common problems and issues like approach anxiety, lack of confidence, running out of things to say during a conversation, not being able to spark instant and lasting attraction in women, etc. I regularly stop the audio and expand with video to provide you with additional examples of what to say and do to fix each problem area. You also get to hear examples of how guys are using The Modern Man techniques in real life to get phone numbers, get invited to parties just by talking to random women, get laid, etc.

By listening to these coaching sessions, you will save yourself a lot of time and heartache by avoiding the common mistakes that other guys make. Not every guy needs to listen to Coaching Call Breakthroughs, but if you're the sort of guy who needs a lot of help in this area, you will really benefit a lot from it. For you, there may just be three or four final mistakes that you're making when interacting with women (e.g. being too nice, getting nervous when talking to an attractive woman, losing confidence if the conversation goes silent, running out of things to say, not approaching women at all because you fear being rejected, not escalating to a kiss when you have the opportunity to do so, etc) that are causing women to lose interest or reject you. By watching Coaching Call Breakthroughs, you will quickly identify those areas and be provided with ready to use solutions to fix them.

7 hours of video.

Instant download / watch online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or watch online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenter: Dan

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The Modern Relationship

The Modern Relationship

Teaches you how to keep a relationship passionate, loving and exciting in today's world

The Modern Relationship explains how to create and maintain the ideal type of relationship dynamic for today's world, where you are in the position of power and your woman continually tries to impress you and maintain your interest. Her attraction, love and respect for you deepens rather than fading away, which allows you to avoid becoming another break up or divorce statistic or ending up in a loveless relationship.

The Modern Relationship includes footage from a live seminar that I (Dan Bacon) presented about being in a relationship in the modern world and having to deal with challenges such as a high divorce rate, ex-boyfriends getting in contact with your girlfriend (or wife) via Facebook and how to keep it all under control and maintain a happy, loving and passionate relationship that never gets boring or stale.

1.45 hours of video.

Instant download / watch online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or watch online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenter: Dan

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Get Your Ex Back: Super System

Get Your Ex Back: Super System

Step by step instructions on how to get your ex back

Get Your Ex Back: Super System guides you and your ex girlfriend, wife or fiancé back into a loving, committed relationship. It makes you more attractive and appealing to her than you were before. She feels new and powerful feelings for you and getting back together becomes her idea. It is a 7 step system and by the 7th step, you are back together in a new, improved and more loving and sexually passionate relationship.

10 hours of video.

Instant download / watch online.

Plays on smartphones, tablets, PCs and MACs.

30 money back guarantee.

Lifetime access to redownload or watch online.

50% discounts on additional product purchases after you become a customer.

Presenter: Dan

Get Your Ex Back: Super System - Plus Bonuses

Bonus 1: Facebook, Phone and Text Message Examples

$137 FREE

  • A quick reference guide that ensures you have all the Facebook, phone and text messages examples from the Get Your Ex Back: Super System available when you are communicating with your ex.
  • Provides additional tips and reminders surrounding each example, so you can quickly scan it while communicating with her.
  • Explains how to get her eagerly WANTING to meet up with you, even if she starts out being challenging or uninterested on the phone.
  • Provides examples of what to say to make her HAPPY to be talking to you on the phone.
  • Reminds you of key points from the Get Your Ex Back: Super System by providing a quick reference "DO's and DON'Ts" list regarding communication via Facebook, phone, text and e-mail.
  • Includes bonus examples of communicating with her via Facebook, phone, text and e-mail.

Bonus 2: Ultimate Make Up Sex

$297 FREE

  • Explains how to give her the type of sex that will completely change her mind about the break up.
  • Teaches you my best, simple ways to make a woman orgasm (my women orgasm about 95% of the time we have sex).
  • Gives you alpha male insights on how to touch a woman during sex in a way that makes her feel incredible, deep attraction and lust for you.
  • Shows you how to tap into a part of her sexual mind that she has likely hidden from you all along. Once you access this part of her, she will love you deeper than she ever has before and other guys will simply pale in comparison to you when it comes to the sexual experience.
  • Includes my personal favorite techniques and "moves" in the bedroom that have left some of my girlfriends crying in absolute joy and pleading with me to never leave them.

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