4 Failsafe Conversation Topics To Use When Talking to Women

What should you talk about during the initial conversations that you have with a woman prior to dating and having a sexual relationship with her? After much practice, testing and research, Ben, Stu and I have identified 4 conversation topics that almost every woman enjoys talking about.

Those topics of conversation are:

  1. Pets
  2. Travel
  3. Movies
  4. Food

An example of a travel related conversation topic is, “If you could click your fingers and be in the ideal holiday location right now, where would it be?” That type of question gets her feeling great around you. She immediately searches for her dream holiday destination and feels excited. When talking to women, you want them to feel a wide range of emotions rather than just feeling like she is having a polite, friendly conversation with you.

In The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, we provide examples of how to use each of the four conversation topics when talking to a woman that you’ve just met or already know. When you use these four topics in the way we advice, you will never run out of things to say when getting to know a woman.

When you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, you will also hear us demonstrate many more interesting and exciting conversation topics and conversation styles that we use when talking to women that get women excited to be talking to us.

What Women Like to Talk About With Other Women

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? What do they talk about? When asked these questions, some men will take a GUESS and suggest topics such as:

  • Hollywood celebrity gossip
  • Shoes
  • Clothes and fashion
  • Make-up
  • Relationships
  • Men

…and they would be correct. Well, kind of.

While it’s true that many women enjoy talking about the topics listed above, men who believe that women only want to talk about such things have a very shallow view of women and will struggle to connect with them. These men will also worry that what they talk about with women won’t be good enough.

Another important point to make about the conversation topics listed above, is that women tend to talk about those things amongst OTHER WOMEN. It’s not the kind of thing that you should be actively TRYING to talk to women about. Why? When a woman talks to a man, she isn’t looking to have the same kind of conversation she has with her girlfriends. She is looking for something different.
…and most guys have NO IDEA what that is.

Not knowing how to talk to women in an interesting way, some guys choose not to talk to women at ALL. Other guys decide that they will just wait and hope to get lucky by meeting a woman who will immediately be interested in talking about the things he finds interesting…but, finding such a woman is like finding a needle in a haystack.

Why? Until you’ve started dating a woman, she usually won’t be interested in talking about the kinds of things you chat about with your male friends. For example: Sports, the sciences, cars, politics, philosophy, computer games, career, finances, investing and so on.

Why is that?

Why do women only become interested in talking about subjects that YOU LIKE (or that men typically like to talk about) after you’ve begun dating? It’s simple. Initially, a woman wants to see if you’re the kind of guy who can make her laugh and FEEL GOOD during her conversations with you.

If her initial conversations with you are boring, she assumes that the relationship will end up being boring too, so there’s no point in starting one with you. When you can make a great first impression on a woman by making her feel attracted to you during a conversation, the door opens to sex, love and a relationship with her…

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Discover the Secret to Success With Women

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Welcome to The Modern Man!

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good, honest guy, women just weren't interested.

When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.

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"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


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Case study

Hey Dan.. I just wanted to take the chance to thank you and share my success story with you. I hope you don't kill me though when you read some parts of my journey. Well I've known about you and have had you in my e-mail list for about 4 years now and I've been reading your stuff and I always wanted to get your products though I was still on a primary school kids allowance (I was in high school at the time).Until that one day when an e-mail poped up with a special offer on the flow.I went crazy and bought the flow immediately. And then I kept it on my phone without even touching it and decided to go P.U.A. YESS A FUCKING PICK UP ARTIST...what a waste of my bloody time I tell you.You know I've always been obsessed about being a natural with women and being a dating coach.So on this so called pua journey of mine I had a lot of stupid shit happen until one night I decided to go back to the Flow and finally read it .Well I'm half way through it and.......... I've got a girlfriend, yes I thought I'd be sleeping with every bombshell on planet earth when I got my dating game right though nah...I fucked around and got me a good women lol. Well you did say that many of us will be starting at different levels and you were right.I started getting attention from women just after getting my mind sets right and today I'm at a point where I can be in an interaction with a woman and actually have her wanting me to take it to the next level. I'm having so much fun with this mindset stuff sometimes I'll flash a grin and just sit back and start repeating in my head..."I am a man..a strong sexually aware man and women want me "...did that once and she started doing touching on me under the table lol good times.and the vocal exercises have been helping with my mindset.I just twisted the exercise a bit for a two in one benefit though that's a story for another day😉 Though what I wanted to highlight the most was how you actually helped me take attraction to the next level. Now I've always been practicing cocky and funyness throughout my life without knowing it because I'm the type of guy from a young age who liked cracking jokes and being cocky and making sexual jokes .And that's what I did throughout my life even with girls I tried to date and since I started reading the Flow I now see why it never worked in the long run.I could use my natural self to spark attraction very easily and that where my downfall was.I would just keep doing the same thing throughout the interaction with a woman just because it got her attention instead of shifting into the 3rd phase and developing an emotional connection. And that's how I always ended up as the funny guy with jokes and nothing more.oh though now Dan thanks to you I'm the MAN!!!.....and my girl knows if she messes up I can have any women,like really I now know and believe that.Now I can finally focus on other parts of life. Thanks Dan


"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron