• Matt

  Dan what a journey it’s been! I think I was the first South African to purchase The Flow from you (if you remember, you mentioned that in a comment). Just wanted to let you know that I applied techniques on a girl I had a huge crush on in highschool 10 years ago and was too afraid to talk to; and she is now my girlfriend, because I demonstrated masculinity, alpha and domineering traits, all thanks to your training. Thank you so much! I can’t believe how much difference the mindset of [Edited: Mindset removed. Customer referred to a very important mindset that we teach here] makes! I actually feel like a man now and it feels right, she feels comfortable being in a feminine role. Many thanks Dan! Matt

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Matt

    Thanks so much for sharing your success.

    Yes, I remember you mate! It’s so good to hear that you put the advice to use and are now enjoying the benefits.

    Enjoy your relationship and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• chris

  Hey Dan, just wanted to say thanks to you and everyone else at the Modern Man for your email advice and the Flow. The success I have been having with women since using your product has been mind blowing. My confidence is on a new level and I have become the alpha male i always wanted to be despite not thinking I could do so for the longest time. I am dating a girl for the first time in two years and it is going great. just the other night she told me how she loves how I don’t have to try and impress her and just overall enjoys how I treat her (referring to the skills taught in the flow). you guys really know what you are doing, keep up the good work! -chris

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Chris

    Thanks for sharing your success!

    About not having to worry about impressing her: Nice! Thanks for mentioning that. It’s one of the best benefits of The Modern Man approach to women. The whole thing becomes so easy and women do whatever they can to impress YOU. Of course, as you know, your new confidence and alpha male behavior is super impressive to her, because most guys just don’t understand how to be like that.

    Enjoy your new relationship and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Johnathan

  Hi Dan.
  I have been meaning to send you one of my success stories for some time now. There is one in particular that has happened recently that I would like to share with you.
  I was at a friends house party and there was a girl(my friends girlfriend’ sister) there that i’ve known for some time. I have been wanting to get with this girl for quite a while, but I never had the foggiest notion on how to approach, what say to her, or have the confidence to (due to my way below average looks, etc). Anyways, had to leave the party early unfortunately, but while I was there I merely used some of the teachings from “mastery methods&mindsets and ultimate guide to conversation”. After applying some of the simple techniques (being real, not being too nice, nervousness, etc), the following day I got a text message from an anonymous number, that eventually turned out to be the girl at the party that i’ve been after all this time. She was asking me out! I couldn’t believe what was happening! I literally thought that I was dreaming. The funny part is that I was simply just being myself! The same friendly guy! I honestly believe that it’s paramount that every decent man out there should know about the modern man. I have truly being struggling in my life. All I needed (which I obviously didn’t know) was a few simple changes and a push in the right direction. I am still taking it one step at a time and these two products alone have opened my eyes in ways I could never have imagined. I can’t wait to get hold of some of the other products and see what else my life has in store for me.
  I would like to say a monumental thank you to you guys. You have got me out of this dark, lonely hole that i’ve been hiding away in. You have completely turned my life around for the better and not just in regards to relationships with women. Everything from my new job to meeting new people. EVERYTHING! I will never be able to emphasise the impact you have had in my life. So a great big thank you again and I wish only the best for you guys.
  Sincerely,

  Jonathan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jonathan

    Thanks for sharing your success! Much appreciated.

    Wow, this is exactly the sort of success story I wish every guy would read when he arrived at our site. What you have experienced is exactly what we promise and that type of reaction is NORMAL for me, Ben and Stu and will know be for you too. However, most guys just don’t think it’s possible to make that much of a dramatic change, simply by learning a new way of thinking, behaving and being.

    The other benefits you’re experiencing, in terms of other parts of your life improving at the same time, is one of the best parts about learning what we teach. We regularly hear back from guys who’ve now been promoted at work, have made a bunch of cool new friends and are living a more enjoyable and social lifestyle as a result of what they’ve learnt and simply putting into action.

    THANK YOU for being living proof that our advice works. Enjoy the great times ahead with your new girl!

    Cheers
    Dsn

• Brent

  Dan,
  For the longest time, I had gone out with women but was way too nice to them so one after one, they lost interest. I couldn’t figure it out and thought I was doing everything right and was getting very discouraged to the point of almost giving up entirely. However, I just recently bought the Confessions of a Natural series, and it has already helped me immensely. It has only been a month, and I have already found the confidence I have needed for the longest time. Not to mention, I’ve already had sex with four new girls and am seeing one of them regularly, and I now have the ability to pick and choose which girl I want to pursue and date further. Your advice and the personal interviews have completely changed my life for the better. Thank you so much for your help, and I’m eager to see where else it takes me!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Brent

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Sounds like you’ve been having a great time! Enjoy having your CHOICE with women and the great times ahead.

    Cheers
    Dan

• walter

  I’d like to thank everyone the modern man. Without you, I probably would probably still have no clue with women. At first, I only wanted to get that one special girl who was a very close friend of mine (whom I met through facebook), but nothing more. After reading the flow and applying the techniques on other women, she began to take notice and asked me out. And during that date, I escalated to kissing then sex. And it’s all because the modern man. Right now, I’m dating casually, and I’m never nervous or afraid of rejection ever again. Again, thanks for everything!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Walter

    Thanks for sharing your success!

    Ahh, I love these ones! The old “turn a female friend into a girlfriend” situation. Nice to hear that yet another guy was able to use the advice in The Flow to quickly turn such a situation around.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• kendall jackson

  This is by far the most powerful pu advice on the web guys I suggest you check it out really good stuff in hear I have been using the techniques for a few months now and ladys are acually inviting me to there houses now I finally got the girl I been trying to get to notice me to go out to drinks and later she went home and to the hot tub with me these skills are more than pick up advice they are life communication skills thanks DAN!!!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kendall

    A hot tub success story! Nice! You even had me feeling jealous there for a second, until I realized, “Hang on…I’m 35 and my hot, 20 year old girlfriend gave me a foot massage as I watched my favorite TV show tonight.” Lol…

    …but, I’m going to have to get around to hooking up a hot tub situation soon. Haven’t had that for a few years!

    Viva la dolce vita!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Richard

  Yesterday i was on the train heading to Edinburgh, and sitting across from a cute woman who i noticed several times was checking me out by giving coy smiles and checking me out in the reflection as we went through a few tunnels. I put aside my nervousness and said internally, right i’m going to attempt to make something out of this no matter what. I followed the example in 21 great ways to get a GF (Public transport. I typed into my phone (Look i know people don’t normally talk to people on trains, but i wanted to say hi, I’m Richie) She was a bit deer in the headlights expression, but she took my phone and typed in (I’m Aileen how far are you heading?) and we started chatting. She was getting off at the next station 10 mins later and i told her it’s been great chatting to you, we should chat again, put your number in and i’ll give you a shout. An omega male was watching us and i could tell he was thinking to himself WTF?. On the way back to Glasgow i sat opposite an attractive blonde girl who i smiled at and started talking to her and got her number too. 😀 And i was aware of a woman across was watching and listening into the conversation. I am now looking forward to travelling on the train later today because there will be opportunities to talk and get more numbers.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Richard

    Beautiful! Sounds like the train ride home just got a whole lot more interesting!

    I remember when I was working in a corporate job in the city and had to commute back home on the train each night. I know exactly how you felt when you decided to finally take action and do it. Except, unlike you, I didn’t have the advice in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend! 🙂 I was still in testing and research mode!

    It’s so great to hear back from customers who use our advice and get results immediately. I love it! Enjoy the great times ahead my friend!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Matt Story

  Using the advice in these programs, I’ve had plenty of success since I first purchased the flow 2 years ago among other products. Soon there after, I got a job as a bouncer at a college bar. A buddy and I would get into competitions on how many numbers we could get during the night. As of now, I’ve lost count on how many girls I’ve met, dated, and had intimate encounters with(even while I was working mind you). These products are worth the price, and I hope any guy willing to improve their dating life make this investment. I owe a lot to Dan, Ben, and Stu. So stop wasting time and make your lives better!!!
  Cheers

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Matt

    Having sex while working? Haha, nice!

    Sounds like you’re making the most of a good situation Matt. Most guys don’t realize that even though the bouncer at their local bar or club is tall, has big muscles or a “chiseled jaw” it doesn’t mean he actually gets ANY action. The most he might get is with unattractive, absolutely drunk women, but any guy can do that.

    However, a bouncer with the confidence and skills that you know have basically has his choice with women any night of the week.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tyrone

  Hi Dan,

  I started listening to your stuff around Jan 2012. The one thing I knew I had to do was apply what I was hearing.

  All I wanted was the ability to get the girl I wanted, not to get all girls. I just practiced flirting with a couple shop staff, and people I “saw” on the street. I was not even trying to get a girl.

  One time I went out to a friend’s birthday, it was so boring, I went home early, on the train I sat next to an Indian girl listening to her itouch. I decided to be bold and asked her what type of music she like, then i showed her some music from my itouch.

  long story short, we got off the same stop, her phone was dead, but she took my number on her itouch. we started dating, she is 22 i am 32, but she is freak in bed. i dated her for 2 months before i decided i could not see myself with her in the long run. we had break up sex, she still wants sex with me, even though I don’t want it with her.

  Basically she is waiting for me to change my mind, as she said to give her a call when I am horny.

  Thanks to the teaching i received, i even have girls at work wanting me. I just don’t want to play the field, I just want one girl. But at least I have the tools to get her when I see her.

  Thanks Dan.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Tyrone

    Thanks for sharing your success!

    Cool – Another public transport success story after listening to advice and examples provided in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend!

    Yes, to get the ONE girl you truly want for a committed relationship, you may find her the next time you approach or after having sex with 5 more women. However, you WILL find her. I’ve slept with 200-250+ women (I’ve honestly lost count), have enjoyed a few amazing, deeply loving relationships (but had to break them off because each woman wanted to marry me and start a family and I’m not ready for that yet) and I am now with a girl that I just can’t find a reason to break up with! She’s everything I want in a girl, so I’m just enjoying it and going with the flow, so to speak. Love is sweet and I’m glad I ain’t missing out on it like I used to!

    I hope to hear another success story from you when you choose the girl you want for a committed relationship. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Brandon

  hey dan i have to thank u very much. i haven’t had a chance to get any of the products yet but the first one i plan to buy is the flow. ok well my story is sort of long but ill try to make it short.

  i broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years about a mouth ago. like all guys i did most of the bad things to try to get her back. ya it didn’t work. me and her still have the sexual attraction between us, but i have messed up so many times she says she needs time alone to get over it. plus she says i need to go make myself better (that’s another story but i lost myself somewhere in the years). well we talked here and there and had sex to. but one day she just said i wasn’t giving her her space we need to not see each other at all. it hurt but i started to get over it. i went out couple times, but never talk to any girls. but i found ur site a few weeks ago. and ive been reading everything i could without buying any products and i have to say it helped a lot.

  well the success story is. i meet up with my buddy’s on new years eve at this club. i didn’t have and girl to kiss at 12 but a couple of my friends did. so most of the night i just check out what girl mite be a good one to talk to. i found one and it took me awhile to go talk to her but i did. i kind of got shot down and i was like “well that didn’t work, but she wasn’t that cute anyway”. so i was hanging with my buddy’s at the bar its past 12 i had no girl to kiss. then these 2 girls come up to get drinks at the bar. i had seen them a few times coming and getting drinks. i needed a drink so i went to get one. btw this girl was beautiful, i would had never thought this would happen. but i start just bullshiting with her about the bartender taking forever. we talk for a good 5 minutes. i bought her me and her friend a shot. i made sure i didn’t leave her friend out of the conversion (tip from u). so anyway about 10 minutes into talking with her. i ask if she had came with anyone. she told me no so i said “wow so u didn’t have anyone to kiss at 12” she said no. so i said i didn’t ether and ask if she would like to kiss someone and smiled at her. she smiled back and i kiss her for a good few minutes. we hung out danced and were kissing the rest of the night. and i have to thank u cause i remembered alot of what i read on ur site all night long. like flirting, touching her being nice but trying not to put her on a pedestal.

  but it was great but i do have a question. i think i mite have lost her close to the end of the night. she kissed me bye and i got her number. but i really don’t know where to go from here. she goes to school 45 minutes away and she says she spends most of her time on school. i respect that but this girl is so dam gorgeous i want to at lease have her as a friend with benefits, maybe more letter. what do u think i should do?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Brandon

    Thanks for sharing your success so far.

    You’ll find the answer to your question in The Flow. My free advice got you the kiss and the phone number, but if you want to know EVERYTHING and have total control over this area of your life, you will need to invest in my programs.

    When you read The Flow, you’ll learn what to say to women when you approach them and how to escalate things properly. This time around, it sounds like you got a bit lucky, but if you want that type of luck every time, you will need to understand what I teach in The Flow.

    Cheers
    Dan

• bokjool

  I could actually see that something was wrong with my approach to women, but I could not figure it out. My friends had it all and they were not trying hard. I was a nice guy and I thought if I was nice I will get them (woman), but no I did not get anything. The more assertive and masculine I have become the more I get what I want. I have woman calling me now and it feels good and I choose who do I want to be with. BK

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Bokjool

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Just remember: As we always say here at The Modern Man, “There’s nothing wrong with being nice, but being too nice to women in the hope that they like you for being a good, little boy is a problem.”

    Be confident, masculine and assertive, but also ensure that you continue being a good, honest, authentic, loving man. In other words, make sure you don’t ever fall into the “beginner’s mistake” of abusing your newfound power.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jamie

  I purchased the flow 4 years ago when I was very young… I remember someone saying “That’s a lot of money for an E-Book!” Not at all. Possibly the best investment of my life. Not only did it improve my success with women but it also improved my success in life just from gaining that extra confidence. I am now in my second year training to be a doctor after showing my confidence and nailing interviews, I’ve had some great girlfriends over the last few years and I’m only single when I want to be. Good work Dan and all the best!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jamie

    Thanks for sharing your success!

    Great success story this one. I’ve often heard back from customers who say that would have paid TRIPLE the price for our products had they known how much it would change their life. It’s hard to explain to a guy who hasn’t had the experience of learning from our programs and seeing his life change, but THANK YOU for sharing it in your words.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• DC

  Hey Dan! Last night went like this. I met a chick on the street, went back to her hotel for the hot tub, then went back to her room and had sex her. Went back to the bars the next night and me and my friend pulled two hotties numbers after about 2 hours of conversation and making out with them at the bar. The next morning pulled 3 beautiful 18 year old girls numbers from the restaurant we were eating breakfast at. Just thought I would let you know.
  DC

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey DC

    Thanks for sharing your success mate!

    Nice – it sounds like you’re getting results so much easier now, compared to the comments you made when you first arrived at this site. I’m glad to hear you’re having a great time out there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jesse

  Hey dan all thanks to the flow and better than a bad boy. I managed to get a genuine babes number on the plane. Even though my openin line was do u have any panadol i never cracked under pressure when she was talking to me and stayed calm the whole time. She preety much talked my ear off the whole flight and i did preety much nothing i just listened and added in a few facial expressions. after a while i started acting bored and that made her work even harder to get my attention. Thanks dan and the modern man for everything.and now we are catching up for ollywood dancing on sunday.
  Jesse

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jesse

    Thanks for sharing your success story!

    Great to hear that you are picking up women as simply and easily as we do. When you know what mistakes to avoid and know the right things to do, attracting and hooking up with new women really is one of the most easiest things to do in life.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Alex, UK

  Hey Dan, I recently downloaded your modern relationship pack and it really made sense with regards to modern women, how to handle bad behaviour, and other techniques.
  I have been dating a girl for around six months and in the beginning everything was cool, lots of sex etc, very physical, and I would put my foot down when I wasnt happy with her behaviour etc..Now 6 months in, sex hasn’t stopped but isnt as frequent, and she can be bossy and demanding at times, and seesm comfortable at saying nasty things, your advice on retreat techniques is a good one..will try that..I wonder sometimes that I have relaxed abit to much and she has taken it for granted whereas before I was more firm? . Like if I do something she dont like, I get ultimatums like ”im going home” – ”your dumped etc” whiuhc are empty threats I know, but at the same time she says she loves me. I think your techniuques and theories in the dowload were really good and I will use them. One thing – any idea, she talks about how hot other guys are on shows and programms alot, but when I do it she gets annoyed? It’s ok most of the time as I brush it off but can get a little boring sometimes..keep up the good work though, great poducts and techniques.

  Alex, UK

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Alex

    Thanks for your positive feedback.

    It sounds like your woman has been poking you in what I call a “weak spot” to check how masculine, secure and confident you REALLY are. I provide in depth advice for this and demonstrate many examples of the tests women will put you through in the program Better Than a Bad Boy. It definitely sounds like you should watch that. Since you’re already a customer, simply contact me here, let me know what you want and I will reply and give you a private discount link.

    BTW: It should be you who is giving the ultimatums. If she ever tries to control you with the threat of a break up, encourage her to go through with it. Basic reverse psychology in action there. Works every time. If she doesn’t come running back, she’s not the girl for you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jared

  Hi Dan. It took a while but I finally made a breakthrough with your advice. Went for a rock climbing trip on the weekend with mates and met one of the girl housemates. Everything started off with friendly introductions followed with some humor and flirting whilst teaching her to climb. End result: She got touchy-feely, felt safest with me only for climbing, and gave a lousy excuse to her housemate to travel back home with me in my car alone haha. Then stopped at a nearby beach as it was getting dark, and we connected really well! It was through all that day and the day after (all she wanted was to see me according to her) that evidence of your teachings were bearing fruit. Taking the lead, creating sexual tension whilst friends were around, and just being unpredictable worked miracles! From her own words too:
  “I feel like a woman around you.”,
  “Behind all your jokes, I still see a sensitive, caring nice guy in you. I couldn’t ask for more in a guy”
  Though my learning and progression is far from over, this was one HUGE step forward and an eye opener. Thank you thus far Dan, and pass my thanks on to Ben and Stu.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jared

    Great to hear about your success! Congrats! 🙂

    Hopefully now you will realize that when you USE the advice we provide, you will then get results. Saying you “finally made a breakthrough” kind of sounds like you’ve been trying, but not getting results. However, you finally gave the advice a little try and it worked, right?

    Are you going to see her again? If so, make sure you escalate to kissing and sex. Use the techniques we provide and just do it.

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Jared

      Hi Dan. Thanks for the message. Yes, properly grasping and using your advice took some time to get the hang of. I’ve been trying your advice for some years now but there was always one important factor I was missing, being REAL around women. I think over the years, I’ve been trying just a little too hard on the step 2 of the Flow that I wasn’t being nor conversing in a natural manner. I’m sure Alpha Male Power mentioned this but the importance of accepting who you are and showing your natural side to women (and others) should come first before anything else. I believe that if you treat the advice given on your products as sort of a job and not a fun addition to your personality, some clients could take this the wrong way and not grasp the meaning of your teachings properly. I feel that’s what I’ve done anyway. Probably something interesting for you to add in future products.

      We may be seeing each other again, if she behaves of course (she knows about this already lol 😉 )

      Thanks again mate.

    • Dan Bacon

      Hey Jared

      Thanks for your comment.

      You’re welcome mate. About this part of your comment, “I’m sure Alpha Male Power mentioned this but the importance of accepting who you are and showing your natural side to women (and others) should come first before anything else.” Yes, this is something we ALWAYS say, yet 95% of guys who start learning this stuff don’t care about that right now. Most guys want to know what to say and quick techniques. It’s understandable because most guys don’t realize that confidence, masculinity and authenticity are absolutely critical to natural, easy and consistent success with women.

      Now that you’ve enjoyed using the fun techniques provided in The Flow, it’s great to hear that you’re now focussing on the more important stuff that we teach. Be a strong, authentic, masculine man and you will have your pick of women. Follow the advice in Alpha Male Power to achieve that BTW.

      Cheers
      Dan

• Guillermo

  Dan, I just got to say yall are brilliant and thank you for sharing your secrets. I been reading “the flow” quit a bit haha and listening other programs too. ^_^ It’s amazing how all things work haha. I was no good with the ladies(most was I cared to much what everybody thought of me but really it doesn’t matter,cared to much how I look in public and had lil confidences) haha Now I see the big picture. I was at a party with some mates and I saw my ex girlfriend there. I quickly started using the techniques from “the flow” and other programs ( using the three L’s technique, flirting, starting conversation, good mindsets and etc) Less than a hour, we started to make-out and had a lot of fun together! It was a awesome night! I’m still working my way up to become a natural like you. Dan,Ben and Stu, thank you!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Guillermo

    Thanks for sharing your success story mate! Much appreciated.

    Awesome to hear that you hooked up with your ex-girlfriend again. That’s what happens when you know how to make women feel intense sexual attraction. Congrats and thank you for sharing once again!

    Yes, you probably realize now that MOST guys have the issue of worrying too much about what people think of them in public places and thus feeling nervous, insecure, etc. I’m glad the advice you’ve received from us has eliminated that unnecessary insecurity for you. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• thato

  thank you modern man, at age 21 my virginity is no longer an issue and your program has helped me develop a natural flow with women. learning about confidence has made a difference. Recently one of the girls I am dating offered to take me out for lunch herself. Obviously, attracting women is no longer an issue for me.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Thato

    Thanks for sharing your success!

    Women are now taking YOU out for lunch? Haha, exactly. If only guys who visited my site knew what would happen when they put our techniques into action, they would all want to get started immediately. Congratulations on losing your virginity as well.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Rudy

  Hey Dan!

  Alright your program can work miracles! For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me. I was devastated and even more so as I went through you program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.

  I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years.

  Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls. I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy. I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number! She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt in that I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that.

  You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.

  Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life.

  Rudy

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Rudy

    Awesome. Simply awesome.

    I am so happy, appreciative and glad to see so many success stories being posted up on The Modern Man lately. Honestly, it’s guys like you who make me want to work even harder on The Modern Man. I have always been completely determined, focussed and driven to make The Modern Man succeed so we can reach out into the world and help guys avoid the pain we went through when we weren’t good with women. However, success stories like this one and like the 10 other ones I’ve seen posted up today make me want to work even harder.

    Lately, we’ve also been getting a lot of positive feedback from women who say that they are GLAD that a site like The Modern Man is here to help. It’s just awesome.

    So, thank you for sharing your success and good on you for following the advice properly. As you will see, that feeling of strength you have now gained is only going to become STRONGER from here on in. You are literally on a path now that will lead you to become strong in all areas of life, not only with women. You will soon see that success with women is EASY and SIMPLE and you will have the mental and emotional energy to do bigger and better things with your life than ever before.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Aaron

  Hey Dan!

  I’ll just like to share with you my success story.

  I bought both “The Flow” and “Better than a Bad Boy”, and it has helped me win back my ex (now girlfriend again).

  The lessons you taught has truly helped me gain perspective on how to carry myself not only as a person, but also as a MAN.

  I decided to take the slow route, to gain back trust from my girl using all the methods you’ve recommended and it so works! The best part? I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing any aspect of myself! I’m being true to who I am and while a [Edited by Dan. Customer revealed critical technique that we teach. Have to keep it a secret for our customers only].

  It was definitely a conscious decision to behave a certain way, but as time goes along, I realised it’s slowly become a part of me.

  Still, quite awhile before I reach the mastery levels, but I know I will eventually.

  Thanks a lot Dan!

  And to anyone who is second guessing themselves if they should invest in any of the programs here, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Aaron

    Thanks so much for sharing your success. I really do appreciate it.

    We get so many success stories via E-MAIL, but I definitely prefer it when guys post it up on the site so others can see.

    Enjoy the relationship with your girlfriend. YOU truly do deserve it. As you will experience, your confidence, emotional strength and attractiveness to her will GROW over time. She will gain more and more respect for you as a man, which you will also feel about yourself also.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Lavon

  The products at The Modern Man are the REAL deal and have changed the game dramatically for me! Thanks to Dan and the techniques in the Flow and Dating Power, my results with women are off the charts! I never had serious girl problems but I knew there were definitely gaps in my “game” where I could improve. Implenting the formula from the Flow and now understanding HOW women enjoy being talked to, I find myself being a much better gentleman and overall person. Major props to Dan and the team at The Modern Man for changing my life.

  Cheers!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Lavon

    Awesome. Thanks for sharing that.

    I particularly like this part of your success story, “I find myself being a much better gentleman and overall person.” Great to hear. A lot of guys are initially skeptical about learning how to become successful with women because they think it might involve using tricks and deceiving women in some way. However, as you and 1,000s of our customers know, our advice is light years ahead of the junk strewn across the web on those tacky “seduction” sites. The Modern Man approach is about being a real man, a good man. It’s about being authentic, confident, masculine and forward-moving in life.

    Enjoy the great times ahead Lavon!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dave

  Hi Dan,

  I wanted to share my experience with you guys so far.

  I found Modern Man last summer when I was driving up to a coffee shop while watching a beautiful girl getting out of her car. She saw me checking her out and I parked and got in line inside. She was directly in front of me and started giving me all the signs to start interacting with her. I didn’t know what to say, or even continue a conversation. I froze, said hi and smiled and left feeling frustrated. I went home that day and found The Modern Man. It started with The Flow, and now I own all your products.

  I don’t want to sit here and say how immediately I was getting laid to try and make myself look good. I really needed a lot of work. So I took it one step at a time. Firstly I new that I had a SOLID foundation of being a great person. I treat people well and am a great guy. Secondly, I needed better communication skills. I based a lot of this on your TI technique. I really began improving interactions not with just women, but with everyone. I found that I’m good at this. It came fairly naturally and quickly. So I built on these “new found” communication skills and began interacting with new people everywhere. Soon I was much more comfortable in my own skin because everyone I have found so far is open to friendly conversation.

  I began to realize, women are easier to approach. I am now getting more phone numbers easily. More women are involved in my life, which means more opportunities. I am now in control of who I like and decide to move forward with intimately. My desperation has depleted dramatically and my standards are continuously rising. My life and confidence (or ability to be myself around others) has increased exponentially in the last 10 months and funny enough I appreciate women a lot more. I foresee continued growth as I seek a level of comfort that you guys at the Modern Man are able to enjoy.

  I was a little intimidated at first because I knew that I would eventually have to interact with beautiful women. Now, it seems I just be myself, talk with everyone, and women tend to seek out my attention. More importantly, I’m aware of it now. It may not have been the fastest method, but it works for me and I’m comfortable doing it.

  I still have goals to reach and skills to refine, but it would not have been for all your invaluable advice and knowledge. Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! I’m so grateful.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Dave

    Thanks for sharing your success story.

    Man, I wish every guy who came to this site could get a glimpse of what you’ve experienced so far. Many guys go through life thinking that ONE DAY they might wake up and everything will be magically better. Women will like them, they will feel confident and everything will be just right.

    However, as you now know, life doesn’t work that way. When it comes to improving your knowledge and skills with women and then becoming successful: It is a process that you need to go through. Our advice guides a man to success with women in the fastest way possible. Some guys arrive at our site being better with women than others. Some arrive with absolutely no skills with women. One thing happens every time though: When a guy follows the advice and uses the techniques, he GETS RESULTS with women; he experiences what you and 100s of other guys are talking about on this page.

    Dave, let me tell you: It only gets BETTER from there. The level you are at now is close to being a natural. Soon enough, it will be so simple for you that you will begin to emanate a power and presence around women and people. Women will start saying, “There’s something about him…I like him!” and people will say that you’re cool, charismatic, etc.

    After the work you’ve put in, you deserve the best of success. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Brent

  So I bought all of the Modern Man products recently, and I’ve been using them quite a bit and it’s unbelievable how much it has transformed me. Not only can I be myself and not worry about “acceptance,” but I have earned much more respect from guys and girls alike. I’m 19 and look relatively young, but this stuff works like magic. For example, I’m on tour right now with a fellow Australian band called LongReef. After one of the shows, I had a 20 year old girl come up to me and I could tell she was very attracted to me, so I talked to her a bit and then ended up going back to her place and having sex with her. She said that I was “amazing” in bed, and after the first night she literally begged me to have sex with her again. This is only one girl, but I have 5 other girls that are all in love with me and want to go out and have sex with me basically on demand. It’s a great feeling, and I never would have encountered it if it weren’t for you and the Modern Man. Thanks Dan!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Brent

    Getting laid like a rockstar! Nice!

    Enjoy the great times ahead.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Anthony

  My names Anthony i’m 19 years old and used to be the shy guy who didn’t have the balls to go up and talk to girls at all and when I do I had no idea how to speak to them. Honestly I had no idea how to speak properly to anyone new I would always try to copy what my friends do and found out the hard way that it was the wrong move. The Modern Man products work not just with making you the man most women desire, but making you the man that everyone wants to be around. I used three products to help transform myself these 3 products are:
  The Flow
  The Ultimate Guide to Conversation
  and Better then a bad boy.
  In this economy the price for the last two are pretty expensive especially at my age but let me tell you it was the best purchase I have ever made and it has made my life more enjoyable. Rather than just hanging out with a girl and hoping she sleeps with me I have the confidence to enjoy every aspect of our time together and escalating to that last step has never been easier. If your looking to get with women, lose that social awkwardness, and get the confidence and knowledge to do what you truly want in life then I recommend you use products from the Modern Man. My only regret is that I didn’t use this sooner thanks Dan Ben and Stu!!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Anthony

    Man, that’s like music to my ears! Simple awesome! Thanks for sharing such a COOL success story.

    Some guys are a bit amazed at our prices BEFORE they get them, but once they begin using the advice in their lives, they realize how priceless it is. On behalf of Ben and Stu, we are very honored to have been able to help you so much.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women! You deserve it.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Marco Pereira

  Hi Dan, Ben and Stu

  Thanks for all the effort you have been done all this years, a true remarkable mark you have made in the history of man kind. Thanks to you I know better about myself and about women and am enjoying my love life! You are a great!

  Thanks, really thanks!!!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Marco

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    I appreciate that you’ve mentioned The Modern Man’s impact on the world. When we started out, I discussed this with Ben and Stu and asked them, “Do you understand the wider, positive implications we will have on the world if we achieve this?” We talked about how many guys experience depression, loneliness and costly divorces, etc when all that can be avoided. We talked about how much women would benefit if we helped men become what women really wanted.

    It only motivates me MORE when I hear from guys like you. Not that I need any extra motivation – I work non-stop on The Modern Man. It’s an exciting mission and I’m proud to be making such a positive difference in the world.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Grant

  I recently bought the flow after watching and learning about the modern man. I’ve been studying since January and my confidence levels have increased ten fold! I’m a 19 years old disabled man in college and working. The only one in my friend group attracting older women between 21-30 years old! May have a date with a 21 year old friend! You’re the best Dan!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Grant

    Thanks for posting up your success. Much appreciated.

    Good on you mate. Guys in your situation often just sit around making excuses, but you are showing them how it’s done. I hope to hear about more of your success in the future.

    Cheers
    Dan

• John

  Dear Dan,

  My success story is that I was miserable at picking up girls and whenever I tried, I always get stuck in the friend zone. That really made me lose it. I found your site in hope of my solution and it really works! I have bought your ” The Flow” product and I improved so much! I couldnt believe it would work for me before I tried it but it did. Eversince I bought “The Flow” I’ve had plenty of girls hitting on me. I always liked this girl in my class and I got her to be my girlfriend. So I am very happy to have found your website.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey John

    Thanks for sharing your success. Much appreciated.

    Enjoy your new relationship with your girlfriend! You deserve it.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kaleb

  Amazing! This is the only word to describe Alpha Male Power.

  I emailed you guys the other day telling you that I still have approach anxiety and hesitate. Well I watched Alpha Male Power and today I stopped women in the street who were walking towards me and things went really well. In the past I feared them walking off and not stopping. I had a couple of other “firsts for me moments” during the day too, but the most important thing is that it felt like nothing mattered to me. Nothing the women or other people thinking of me matters. Other guys in the “pick up” community who I know, who have had more success than me, still self analyse and ask themselves “why did she give me that bad response?”. I got none of that after listening to Alpha Male Power!!! I did start to question myself towards the end of the day saying ” Na, this can’t be… it’s too good to be true” but like Dan says at the very end of the program ” you have to go through the transformation”. What Dan said relaxed me and reassured that it is OK and normal for it to take a few days or weeks for it to become who I am (without having to think about it.) I have bought 6 other programs in the past, but this is the one I believe will change my life. I already feel different, which I never felt after the other programs. I feel that everything I have learned from the other programs will come naturally while I interact with women and live my life, but I can’t praise this program enough for the instant powerful feeling it gave me. Thanks Kaleb

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Kaleb

    Awesome is the only word to describe your success story!

    It’s great to hear that you are CONFIDENT in the understanding that it is OKAY to make a few mistakes as you try the techniques out. You paid attention during the program and now know that it is a transformation PROCESS that happens very quickly, but some guys are going to make some mistakes that will slow them down a bit. However, if you keep pushing forward and using the techniques and mindsets that confidence you are now feeling will become x10 and it will then begin to become natural and automatic to be so confident and alpha.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Don

  Hey Dan!

  I’m an older guy (59) who was interested in having a relationship with a much younger chick (20).
  After I became single again, hitting the social scene was a shock to my system. Lost in a world of older divorcees and totally frustrated with them, I started your video sessions for a few tips to get myself kick-started and figure out how to get what I really wanted.
  I found success on an internet site which promotes older men dating younger women. Once I hit my “target audience” it was just a matter of time before I struck gold.

  Even though the age difference was huge, I found and identified the perfect woman from your guide on types of women. She’s an awesome girlfriend and life is great again!

  It’s really an advantage to pick “from the top of the tree” instead of settling for those rotten apples laying on the ground.
  If you want to meet a quality women, you will have to work on it and have the confidence and skills to attract her to you.

  Thanks again Dan and the gang!

  Cheers!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Don

    Thanks for posting up your success story. Much appreciated.

    I love this part of your comment because it really sums up what guys achieve when they use our advice, “It’s really an advantage to pick “from the top of the tree” instead of settling for those rotten apples laying on the ground.”

    When guys use our advice, many women begin showing interest in them and they get to have their choice with women. Then, the more they learn from us and improve their skills, the higher up the tree (as you put it) they get to pick from.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Archy

  Hey Dan,
  Just want to say on behalf of everyone who has followed you at the modern man,thanks for not ignoring guys questions. You’re no doubt a busy bloke, but to give your time in helping guys you have never met mean’s a lot to us, and you really are someone others can look up to cause you’re a great bloke “off the field”

  I just have a quick one before I get back to what I was doing… with women walking in malls or market places ( where women are genuinely busy) do you still get a lot of women keep walking on by when you try to stop them? I get it a lot, even though my skills are improving. Should I just look at it as being normal and not worry about it because it happens to everyone, or do I need to work on my skills to get the success rate up?

  Cheers mate,
  Archy

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Archy

    Thanks mate. It’s always nice to hear that the hard work I put in to reply to the 1,000s of comments is appreciated.

    About your question: Yes, some women won’t stop because THEY are nervous and anxious. If you’re doing it right, her not stopping has nothing to do with you.

    BTW: We talk about how to approach women in shopping malls in this program: http://store.themodernman.com/in/e8ead2

    Cheers
    Dan

• Walter

  I have to say, Better than a bad boy has been an awesome experience. Much more than learning how to become attractive to women, this program has taught me how to live out my life in a much effective way. It’s given me insight as to how becoming a strong person can lead to success in life. I used to be a person who gave up easily, can’t control his emotions, and crumble in the face of rejection and tests put up by women. Just a while back at work, I made a rookie mistake and my boss looked at me condescendingly and, in front of all my work-mates, asked me: “So what do you think my opinion of you is right now?” I looked him in the eye and used those “unimpressed looks” that Dan was talking about in his program. Then smirked at him, as if saying “Yeah right, you’ll see.” A week later, our team performed the best. Never had that condescending vibe from him ever since.
  A while after that, A female co-worker of mine e-mailed me on my personal e-mail asking me out “just to get to know each other.” Too bad she’s a single mom though. I don’t ever want to have to deal with those sort of women. 😛

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Walter

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    It sounds like you’re beginning to experience the life of a man whom people respect and look up to. Just make sure that you don’t push the assertiveness too far to the point where it comes aggressive. Aggressive behavior around a boss or in most situations is not the solution. Remember what I said in the program about the “undertone.”

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Cameron

  Hey Dan!

  At first I was unsure about learning from The Modern Man. Eventually, after a failed relationship (in which I felt “whipped”) and continuous failure with women, my frustration made me realize that I needed a little help. I decided to take a leap of faith and learn from the guys at The Modern Man. Now, I can definitely say that learning from you guys was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

  The programs you guys provide are extremely detailed yet very easy for men to relate to and understand. The material is geared towards women, but becoming good with women is only one of the benefits one gains from learning from these guys. Better Than a Bad Boy, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, and of course The Flow have improved all areas of my life, including my work, happiness, relationships, and of course my ability with women.

  After learning from Dan, Ben and Stu a few months ago I feel dripping with confidence! I can chat and attract any woman I meet, my occasional depression has been replaced by an excitement for life, and all my social anxiety has disappeared. People can see my masculinity and confidence, and treat me better. I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date!

  My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me. I could write way more about how my life has turned around, but it would get too long!

  Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Cameron

    Mate, thanks a lot for sharing your success.

    Your success story is exactly the type of thing we promise to guys when they arrive at the site. I am sincerely grateful for guys who actually come back and post up about their success. It’s also nice to hear that despite the large amount of advice we have, it’s still all so easy to understand and to put into practice for guys.

    This part of your success story was great, “I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date!” It’s a great problem to have! 🙂 I enjoyed that “problem” for many years and slept with more than 250 women and now I’m enjoying a committed, passionate and deeply loving relationship with my ideal woman.

    Enjoy the great times ahead Cameron. It only gets better from there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• N

  I purchased Flow and also listened to many free videos. I was recently divorced and while looking forward to new relationship, I did not want to make any mistakes (or make only few mistakes) this time. Again, was not sure what mistakes I might have made first time around. ‘The flow’ helped me see my past mistakes (also what I did right) and why I screwed up. Long story short, I have a shortlist of some 8-10 beautiful attractive women to choose from at this time and all of them are ‘keen’ on me. Thank you team.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey N

    Mate, that is music to my ears.

    Having your choice with women has got to be one of the best feelings as a man. Most guys go through life having to take whatever they can get, but you’re now one of the top 3% of guys in the world who have their choice. If you’ve gotten that far already (8-10 women to choose from), things are going to get pretty damn amazing for you soon.

    Thanks for sharing your success story and enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tarun

  Hey Dan thanks for making such helpful product.
  I used to think that girls like nice guys and so I was being overly nice and wimpy instead of nice but also strong and confident.
  I was awful with girls, I couldn’t even say hi to them I was very afraid of girls, approaching them was my nightmare but now after using the flow, mastery methods and mindsets and dating power and using it in my life I now enjoy my life with many girls in it. Girls like me and I have lost my virginity just because of you, stu and ben’s products.
  Cheers

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Tarun

    Congratulations on your success and thank you for sharing it.

    Yes, as you’ve pointed out there, women aren’t interested in wimpy nice guys, but they are interested in confident nice guys. Good to hear that you’ve lost your virginity. I’m sure that has been a huge relief for you.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Arjun

  Hi Dan,

  It finally feels good to be on this side of the line.Earlier I used to read all the comments about guys getting girlfriends when they followed you and I used to think when will I be like them.
  I finally got my old friend to date me after such a long time of me just being in the friend-zone.She was a bit reluctant at first but seeing my newly found confidence and alpha-male attitude,she said she too started to see me as someone else.Hope I continue the good run.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Arjun

    I like how you’ve said that, “It finally feels good to be on this side of the line” because it really is a line that you cross. You go from not knowing what to do or not being able to do what you know you should do (to be successful with women), to women naturally liking you and wanting to be with you. It’s a beautiful transition.

    About you continuing the good run: For sure. It only gets better from there Arjun. As long as you continue to use our advice and don’t slip back into your old ways, then you are set for life. Some guys get an initial boost, but then stop following our advice BEFORE they’ve transitioned into becoming a natural at it and they slip back into their old ways. Keep going and it only gets better!

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Congrats on the friend-zone transition. I did that a couple of years into my journey and the sex was amazing. Turns out, at that point, I was a bit too good for her and was getting better girls, but it was still awesome. I hope it’s awesome for you too.

• Mark

  Hey Dan,

  You have truly opened up my eyes and I have seen and experienced what’ it’s like to cross over from being an absolute fail with women to having most girls want me. I am starting to reach the point now where I can attract most girls that take my fancy. I currently have a beautiful girlfriend who constantly tries to impress me and also wants to move in with me. She’s awesome! Your programs helped me to gain so much confidence that I no longer feel nervous around people and I know how to handle them. Most people actually want to be my friend which is an amazing feeling! Just wanted to say thank you because it has really changed my life.

  Cheers!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Mark

    Mate, I’ve just replied to 20 other comments with guys asking me things like, “Will this work for me?” and “I’m not sure if you can help me, because I think my problems are different…” I wish guys would just read this page and realize what is ahead of them when they learn what they simply do not know about women, being a man and enjoying love, friendships and a great life.

    Thanks for sharing your success Mark. You are truly an inspiration to other guys out there. I hope that through guys like yourself and my work, we can really change the world here. It’s my mission to help free guys from the shackles of insecurity and confusion and guide them to confidence, strength and success with women and relationships.

    Enjoy the great times ahead Mark. You deserve all the best from here on in!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Taylor

  Guys, I can’t stress enough how well Modern Man’s products work. I started to use M.M. while I was living in Spain to talk to the beautiful women we all hear about. It turns out, no matter where you are in the world, M.M. works flawlessly. 10/10 Thanks

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Taylor

    Thanks so much for sharing your success. Much appreciated.

    Yes, I too enjoyed some women in Spain. The first two girls I approached didn’t understand a word of English, but they did everything they could (including trying to communicate via a translation app on their phone) to keep talking to me. It was a great night that lead to me hooking up with the hottest of the two.

    Awesome to hear that you’ve been enjoying the life. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• JOSEPH

  Hey, what’s up Dan, just wanted to say that I have experienced some tremendous progress after reading the Flow and watching DP. Just about every chic at my work place is into me, this was so awesome for me at first. My only problem is that I want women from outside places such us malls, supermarkets, public means of transport or the streets (this is because I meet with extremely hot chicks after work. I know DP explains on how to interact with chicks in bar environments and maybe classes or rather a place that you are in one setting, but at the moment I am not in the position to go to a bar or enroll in a class or something. I’ve had sex with around one new woman every month, but I want to start picking up women in many different places. How should I go about this?

  Joseph… (From Kenya).

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Joseph

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Great to hear that you’ve been enjoying a lot of new sex and have women at work who are keen on you. If you want our specific advice on what to say and do in different environments, listen to 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: http://store.themodernman.com/in/e8ead2 In that program, we go into specific detail on what to say and do in 21 different places that you can meet women and get yourself a girlfriend. We explain how to get a phone number, kiss or sex and have the woman wanting to see you again asap.

    Enjoy the program and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Will

  Hi Dan,

  I first learned about your material in my search for better information regarding women and dating. I went through college with moderate success with women, but I never had the confidence to approach the “hottest” girls who would even give me positive signals that I should approach and escalate with them. At one point, I was hanging out and having dinners with a beautiful girl who would even come by herself to parties at my house and flirt with me the entire night. She gave me every signal that I should pursue her, but I felt like I was being fake and didn’t want to reveal my inner wuss by messing it up with her or getting rejected. I also felt that there was something wrong with how I was going about this because I had fantasies of waking up with her in bed and being my girlfriend, yet I hadn’t even gotten physical. Therefore, I did nothing and this “relationship” fizzled. I later learned that she had had many sexual encounters with other popular guys around my campus. Other experiences like this left me frustrated and somewhat angry.
  I read the flow and watched Alpha Male Power about 6 months ago. With the knowledge and empowerment from these products, I began consciously to implement the concepts into my life. I still haven’t fully mastered them, but they have made a huge difference. A few months ago I met a beautiful, smart girl on vacation in Miami. She was showing me positive signals, and I decided to pursue her during the trip using the concepts I learned from your material. The knowledge and inner confidence from your products allowed me to become intimate with her on the trip and because we happen to live close to one another, start a happy, committed relationship. I thank you for helping me reverse the habits I learned from ineffective role models in order to become a more attractive, happy man.

  Sincerely,

  Will

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Will

    Excellent! Good on you man.

    That’s so cool to hear. I can remember going through that in the early days when I was trying to work all this out. I’d get a girl all interested and then chicken out because I didn’t want to stuff it up and get rejected. I was telling a friend of mine about all these girls I was “meeting” and he said, “Well…why haven’t you slept with any of them? Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” and it was a key moment in the journey, where I realized that nothing would happen unless I built the confidence to actually push through all the way.

    When I made those breakthroughs, everything started to fall into place and I had more women coming over to my house for sex than I had time for. It’s so awesome to now hear from guys like you who’ve put my advice into action and have experienced how easy it is to go from a conversation, to sex and into a relationship with a woman.

    Good on you. Congrats on putting the advice into action! Enjoy all the love, companionship, affection and great times with your new girlfriend. Thanks for sharing your success on the site!

    Cheers
    Dan

• KG

  I just wanted drop by and thank you. I initially bought your products to pick up girls but in return I learned how to be a ‘real’ man. I am now able to handle any stituation and talk to girls with no hesitation. In fact while on holiday I used your technique to meet this beautiful Latin girl and was able to create some great memories with her. Your videos are definitely worth every penny.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey KG

    Thanks for your positive feedback and for sharing your success. Much appreciated.

    Yes, as you now know, being successful with women includes a lot more than just knowing what to say to pick them up. However, it’s hard to explain that to guys when they first get to the site! 🙂 So, thank you for spelling it out in your own way.

    Awesome to hear that you hooked up with a hottie while on holidays. Nice! Enjoy the great times ahead my friend! It only gets better from there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Majid

  Hi Dan

  Well first of all THANK YOU!. I never thought I was going to say what im going to say but here it comes! in 4 or 5 years I was not seeing any girl! Today 6 months after buying the “better than bad boy” I have to many Girls! I really dont know what to do, Ive gotten to many Girls and I dont wanna break their heart. Most of them keep calling me daily and I keep ignoring because im not interested anymore. And when I tell them some stupid story of how we are not ment to be together, they keep crying everytime, every single one of them! I have what you Call a Luxury problem these days!. Even 2 of my co-workers who I happend to not be interested in keep asking me out for dates! and believe me im not attractive im just standard! Never been good with Girls, But hey what you teached me have made Complete different, even all my friends now come to me for advise or tells me what to Write when they are texting some chicks, even they get laid sometimes because of me! Its really crazy!And if you happend to know how I can turn Down this womens in a Nice way without the tears and all that stuff I would be for ever gratefull! But anyway im happier than I was
  Thanks Dan!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Majid

    Haha! You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your success.

    What you are experiencing now is the life I lived for so long before committing to my current girlfriend. Most other guys will not believe that women are crying to you about how much they want to be with you, but I do. I experienced that for years, with high quality women.

    As for turning them down in a nice way: Simply tell the girl what you genuinely like about her (e.g. her nature, personality, hair, cuteness, etc) and then tell her what you genuinely feel about being in a relationship with her (e.g. “I’m not looking for a relationship right now, but I am open to us hanging out sometimes”), which basically means that she will become your lover (if you want that). However, that will bring on more crying, but personally I think it is worth it for both you and the woman because you get to experience that kind of love with loss. It’s exciting for the woman and it will help her grow as a woman and become stronger. Just make sure that you’re good to her and have her best interests at heart.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andrew

  Hi Dan,
  I had to share with everyone that you’re products have significantly changed my life- not just my love life, but my professional one as well. I feel like I have an entirely new outlook on the world, and life is just naturally more enjoyable for me. Incredible things have been happening for me since I’ve started living my life as an alpha male. I got a huge promotion work, I’ve become much more well-respected in my group of friends, and I’ve had amazing success with women. On top of meeting new woman, I’ve also hooked up with a really hot girl who I’ve been friend-zoned with for 7 years! She came right out and said that she has seen a huge change in me. She couldn’t tell me what the change was, only that she has found herself really attracted to me lately. She certainly demonstrated her appreciation for the “new me” the other night…
  Anyway, for all of that (and for everything to come in the future) I want to sincerely thank you.
  One more thing- To anyone thinking of trying out one (or all) of these products, I would absolutely encourage you to do so. You won’t be disappointed!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Andrew

    That’s just awesome. Truly awesome.

    I’m literally speechless with this one. I don’t know what to say other than just to sit back, smile and say, “That’s so frikken cool. I put 10 hours a day, 6 days a week of my time and energy into The Modern Man and it’s more than worth it when I get to hear back from you guys like this. It’s just so damn cool to be able to help so many guys achieve their true potential with women and in life.”

    Good on you Andrew! You deserve all the success you’ve achieved so far and more. Believe me, it only gets better from there. About the friend zone turn around – very cool. I know how good that would have been. I turned a friend zone situation around after 5 years (I ran into her again and had changed, just like you had done) and all that built up sexual tension resulted in amazing sex. I’m sure it was the same for you.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Byron

  Hi Dan

  I want to take this opportunity to thank you for saving my marriage. It was dead in the water and my wife had already began going on dates with a new guy that she knows from work. But I put your advice into action from the Get Your Ex Back system and boy did it work.

  My wife came crawling back to me, crying and apologising. I am now in the position of power in the relationship and we are more in love than ever before. Your tips on sex where a huge eye opener for me as well. I would rarely get her to orgasm before but now it is happening more often every time we have sex.

  You are doing great things for the men of this world Dan and you deserve a lot of credit. Had I known what your program would do for me I would have happily paid double the price.

  I’ll be a loyal fan of yours for life.

  Best regards, Bryon

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Byron

    Wow, thanks so much for your kind words.

    It sounds pretty soppy to say, but it truly does warm my heart to know that I’ve helped save a marriage. I think it’s such a shame that marriages are falling apart these days. We don’t get taught how to have a perfect relationship in school, university or any other place. So, I’m glad to be able to provide that all-important education for guys here at The Modern Man.

    I wish you the very best for the future with your wonderful wife. Thanks again for sharing your success and enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Sean

  Hi Dan,

  I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend. I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow! I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did. The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew. I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me. However I had to let 3 of them down gently and I’m now in a new relationship with a lovely girl of my choosing. I’m very positive about the future – and still learning. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made. Thanks again!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Sean

    What an awesome job I have! Guys like you make me love what I do. Every day, I can’t wait to get started and continue working on things for The Modern Man. Success story after success story – it’s just awesome.

    Yes, the natural and easy success you’ve been experiencing is how it should be. It’s just that most guys (including me before I worked all this stuff out) just don’t know what they are doing wrong. What we teach here is not taught on TV, movies or even special documentaries.

    Congratulations on your success so far, but also congratulations on deciding to invest in yourself and your future by learning from us.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• alex

  hey Dan,

  I have been working on everything you have taught me and I think its finally starting to come together. I have visited my ex a couple times now and she seems so in love again. She now compliments me about how much more masculine I am and treats me so much better.I am so happy ,thank you. We are better than ever and I feel like (with your help) I’m learning to keep the dominant role and stay in control of my emotions. Now that I am more aware my role in the relationship we have a deeper connection and are on the way to an Amazing relationship.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Alex

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Mate, it’s truly awesome to hear back from guys who’ve gotten their ex back by understanding how to be the guy she really wanted all along. It’s just awesome because that’s the whole reason I got started on this journey in the first place (for those reading along with the comments, my girlfriend dumped me and I was lost for years before I decided to improve my skills with women: http://www.themodernman.com/why_women_cheat.html).

    Enjoy your rekindled relationship with her Alex. Just make sure you keep applying the methods and principles taught in the program. She will test you to see if you’re really the new man you’ve been lately and when you keep passing those tests, she will naturally surrender and fully open her heart back up to you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tosin

  What’ up Dan,
  Long time. Just wanted to pop back in after a long hiatus. I have numerous success stories to share but just want relay one that I believe would highlight some of the key points you always emphasize to guys.
  Well I have a new girl in life(still considering whether to make her my steady girlfriend). Just met her a few weeks back and what do you know she is crazy about me- again! Lol. The key message I want to pass over other guys reading this is the importance of being a man on purpose and developing a really strong character devoid of insecurity. Just finished spending the night with her and if I had a dollar for the number of times she asked me what I have done to her to make her so crazy about me. Apparently I told her sometime last week that I would not able to see her for close to week cause I had to focus on some school work, needless to say she told me she found that super attractive especially when she found out that I have a deep love for what I am studying and wish to excel at it globally. Says she never seen a guy with the kind of focus and determination that I do, and that she finds it so attractive for some weird reason she can’t explain it. Also she says I have a very relaxed confidence and absolutely not afraid to be myself and I seem not be intimidated by people even if am not the tallest of guys. She just keeps kissing and grabbing me at every opportunity. Just as you do, I hardly ever call or text her, she does all of that.
  Well just thought I should put that out there so other guys would read and be motivated to put your advise into action.

  P.S What up been up to these days, Dan?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Tosin

    Good to hear from you as always.

    This part of your comment (“…and if I had a dollar for the number of times she asked me what I have done to her to make her so crazy about me”) made me laugh because women used to always say that to me. They’d say things like, “What have you done to me? I’ve never felt this way” and “Have you put some sort of spell on me or something?” However, as you’ve been experiencing Tosin, women never say it in a bad way. They are so excited to be feeling that way and they say it with a huge smile on their face. They dream of loving a guy that much.

    As for what I’ve been up to lately: Well, I’m in a committed relationship now with a beautiful woman who also said, “What have you done to me? I’ve never felt this way before” Recently, a friend asked me to count how many women I’d slept with over the years (including any lucky action I got when I was hopeless with women) and it came to more than 250. So, after having sex with that many women, it feels right for me to settle down now with one girl for lifetime, or at least for a long time. I’m enjoying that side of things now, as I continue on with my mission here at The Modern Man.

    Note: For those reading along with the comments. If you don’t have much purpose in life, listen to what Tosin said above. Being a man of purpose makes you like a 9/10 to a woman. You make yourself a 10/10 by having other characteristics, which I discuss and provide lessons about in this program: http://store.themodernman.com/in/2cf8a89

    Cheers
    Dan

• Clint

  Dan

  I was a neutral guy who lost my ability to create a spark. I have chosen the wrong women most of my life. I now choose quality women because your videos I’ve purchased have taught me how to raise my self esteem. In America, men are taught to be good little boys around women and to not directly show their attraction to women. That’s been my major problem. Better Than A Bad Boy taught me to revive the ability to express my interest in women directly. Last week for the first time since I was a kid, I was my real self around a group of men and women that I’m friends with. I also got a phone number after a 45 minute conversation with an attractive woman. I feel like I am a confident man now that I have the skills. The change also happened in just a couple of months. This stuff really works. Thanks Dan.

  Clint

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Clint

    Awesome. It’s so good to hear that you’ve not only realized that women don’t want you to be a “good little boy” around them, but you’ve been behaving like a man and they have been loving you for it.

    What you’ve just experienced is exactly what I talk about in Better Than a Bad Boy. When you think, behave and act like a man, success with women is just natural and expected.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dipanjan Acharyya

  Hey Dan,
I am just an average guy with average looks. I used to be tired of seeing successful relationships all around me yet I couldn’t get one. “The Flow” helped me a lot in turning me around. in just a week after reading it, I got attracted to a girl and this time made sure she had the same feelings. fast forward six months, I am in a new country with a new life but she is coming here to live just for me.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Dipanjan

    Thanks for sharing your success so far.

    Enjoy your relationship with her and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• S.

  Hey Dan,
  I can’t tell you how much the Flow really helped me reach my self-actualized potential in terms of women. So far I’ve been approaching women at school and I’ve been getting numbers and dates with ease. I’ve already had sex with 13 women in the past year and girls are always wanting to hook me up with their friends because I’m such a “warm and good guy”. I didn’t know that the Flow would also help me get women friends some extremely hot girls.
  Now, I turn down beautiful women a lot. Before I went through the Flow process when approaching, I would always get caught up in beauty and looks saying “oh she wouldn’t go out with me because she’s too hot for me”. Now, disqualifiers tend to run on the personality side. She can fit my physical criteria but if we aren’t connecting on a deeper level, I don’t feel fulfilled.
  Now I think I’m about to have my first proper relationship ever at the age of 21 and I feel great! Thanks a lot with helping us out Dan. Your product is worth all the money in the world!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey S

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Man, it seems like you’ve been busy having a LOT of sex. Nice one. Good to hear that you’re now looking to begin a real relationship and enjoy the deeper, more intimate side of things.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Lean

  I purchased your ‘Flow’ and have found to be immensely beneficial. In less than 3 months I have multiple dates and quality of dating has also improved. It is amazing what a man can say to a woman and instead of being flagged as ‘obscene’, I see them lap it up… without exception. Well, there are few who act awkward but then I would not have wanted to do much with them and above stuff acts as good tests to eliminate those worthy of rejection. Keep up your good work.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Lean

    Welcome.

    You’re now experiencing a world that most other guys only daydream of before falling asleep at night. You see that it is men, not women, who have the power in the dating and relationship scene. When you approach it correctly, you as the man have your choice of women and women feel lucky to be chosen by you.

    Enjoy the great times ahead Lean! It sounds like you’ve understood things very well initially and are on the right path.

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. About some women acting awkward. Look at it from a more loving perspective. Understand that not all women are confident, not all women have high self-esteem and not all women have the best social skills. Instead of seeing it as a bad thing if a woman is unable to handle the situation, feel love and understanding for her as a fellow human being. She doesn’t know what you know, so don’t expect her to have the level of confidence or social skills that you do.

• Brandon

  Hey Dan,
  Thanks for everything that you guys at the Modern Man provide. This stuff is not only great for improving your life with women, it will improve your life in many other areas as well.
When I bought my first Modern Man product (The Flow), I was frustrated and very skeptical. I actually didn’t apply the information. It wasn’t until after talking to Dan that I saw just what I was about to miss out on. For that, I thank you Dan. When you apply this information, it will change your life in so many ways that these products are worth 100 times what they cost. After properly applying the information and internalizing it, the difference between me and and the man I was is night and day. I am now on a career path and I am excelling in many areas in my life at a faster rate than I have ever progressed. The Flow and Alpha Male Power had such a profound impact on me, that I went on to purchase ALL of the Modern Man products within 3 months of my first purchase(except for Get Your Ex Back). They are all great products and you learn valuable nuggets of gold from each and every one of them. Guys, do yourselves a favor and get these products. The skills you learn are definitely transferable into any area of life you choose.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Brandon

    Thanks for sharing your success so far.

    It’s always good to hear that guys are experiencing the BONUS benefits that come with learning how to be successful with women. It’s hard to explain that to guys when they first arrive at the site because most guys don’t even think it’s possible to improve their skills with women, so if we said that improving your skills with women will ALSO improve your career options, get you loads more friends, make you happier, more confident in life, etc – I don’t think anyone would believe it!

    Enjoy the great times ahead Brandon. It only gets better from there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tyron

  Hey Dan,
  First thing the flow wow I loved it I’m in the process of buying more products, when I have money saved. Anyway, I brought the flow about 3 months ago took my time reading it. Two weeks ago a friend and I went out for the first time in ages, I was excited and confident for the first time in years.
  We went to a bar that had pool tables so we started playing. About 15 minutes later 4 beautiful girls started playing next to us. There was a bit of looking back for forth until I walked over and said. Ok you guys keep looking at me do yous need some tips? (Mind you I can’t play pool to save my life) they laughed and they were surprised by my approach. One of them said yeah sure why not, We ended up playing pool for most of the night. I even had one of the girls buying me drinks  all I said was alight so argh your shout this round and she did it.
  Sure enough my friend and I went back to there place for the night. I’ve learnt in the flow that you just need to treat people as if they are already your friends. I wasn’t even trying to pick up the night it just happened.
  Thank you sooo much Dan.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Tyron

    Beautiful.

    That’s how it supposed to go. Just a natural flow, from one stage to the next. As long as you keep the same mindset (just relax, be easy-going, have a good time, treat them like friends, while ALSO using the attraction techniques from The Flow), it will always be as easy as that.

    Your story reminded me of one of my early experiences when I was out with my friend and we met two Russian girls and had a similar interaction, then ended up taking both of them back to my friend’s place to “watch a movie.” 10 minutes into the movie and my friend and I were already devouring our respective girl. Great night and I’m sure your night was just as enjoyable.

    Enjoy the great times ahead! It only gets better from there.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ryan

  Hey guys

  I bought a few of your programs last year and it has completely changed my life. I have a wonderful fiance now and we’re set to be married in February next year. The relationship is just brilliant and unlike my past relationships that ended up with me being insecure, protective and messing everything up one way or another, this time the love is strong and growing. I have your Better than a bad boy program to thank for that. It helped me discover my purpose in life and have the courage and strength to not only approach my now fiance but to pull the whole thing off like it was the most natural thing in the world.

  I hope that The Modern Man becomes more and more popular because you guys are the real deal and I recommend you guys to anyone who asks or who I see that is need of some help with the ladies.

  Ryan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Ryan

    Thanks for sharing your success. Much appreciated.

    Congratulations on your wedding plans! I’m so proud to have been able to help you approach and keep the perfect woman for you. Most of the credit needs to go to you though, because you are the one who put the techniques and principles into action in your life. Well done.

    Enjoy the great times ahead and may your marriage last a lifetime!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Thanks for recommending your friends to us also. Every little bit helps. We’re trying to get the word out, but it’s very difficult these days because the internet is flooded with junk “dating advice” sites.

• Vince

  I bought several cheap ebooks from other sites before eventually stumbling across The Modern Man. I have to admit — I was a bit put off by the prices initially but I can now say that it has been the best investment of my life.

  Your advice is what I was searching for all along. It is what has made me confident as well as taught me precisely what to say and do around women and that has resulted in me getting my first ever girlfriend.

  Knowing what I do now about the quality and lifetime value of your programs — I would have paid double. It is definitely worth every penny.

  Thanks guys!

  One very happy customer!
  Vince

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Vince

    Yes, as the old saying goes, “You get what you pay for.”

    Most people don’t realize it, but those cheap ebooks and “WOW! Magic fix all ebook!!” sites are run by people who are not successful with women. In 99% of cases, you will find that the person who “wrote the book” has simply copied random things from the internet, packaged it all up on a nice looking website and then sold it to unsuspecting people for a cheap price.

    These days, there are literally MILLIONS of “dating advice” sites, but there are not millions of dating gurus like myself. Most sites are simply put together by scammers, copycats and those looking to make a quick buck. They are not run by guys who are truly successful with women in their own life.

    I’m glad you stumbled across us (believe me, I’m doing my best to try to get the word out there on the internet, but it’s difficult amongst all the noise of the fake sites selling rubbish). I’m also glad you decided to learn from us and are now enjoying your first relationship.

    Enjoy the love, intimacy and great times ahead with your new girlfriend!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Frank

  When I first got to your site I was thinking how the heck do these guys do it? I mean I had approached hundreds of women at university and at shopping malls and was getting horribly rejected. It wasn’t until I read your Flow book that it all clicked. The pick up techiques I’d been using from the internet were all tacky and sneaky stuff but your flow approach is just all natural real and like I’m talking to a friend or something.

  Anyway to cut a long story short I got laid about 2 months ago with a girl at uni and then scored a kiss with another girl at a dorm room party. Last week I just started going steady with a girl I met who works at a take away store in town. I started chatting with her and used the flow approach to get her number and Facebook details and we then went straight a date after that and had sex on the second date.

  I’d like to express my sincere thanks to you fellas. You sure know your stuff. I was a bit nervous to try it all at the start but once I let go off my past as you talk about in the flow and just went with your style of thinking, it all just clicked into place.

  Frank

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Frank

    Thanks for sharing your success so far. Much appreciated.

    Mate, I’m proud to hear that you’ve gotten yourself a girlfriend and are enjoying the life now. You deserve a lot of credit for putting yourself on the line and approaching women like you were, before you found The Modern Man.

    I’m glad you pointed out the difference between our advice and the junk found online on the millions of “dating advice” sites run by who knows who. Quite simply, The Modern Man approach to women works. As long as you use the techniques and follow the advice we provide, it will work. It’s as simple as that.

    Enjoy your new relationship and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Adeyemi

  Hello Dan,
  Thanks for the advice you provided in the Flow, I used some of the techniques you provided and I got two numbers from two different girls in a day. The best I’ve ever achieved. Thanks again mate.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Adeyemi

    Excellent results mate. Enjoy your choice with women and the great times ahead! It just gets better and better from there.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Sid

  How’s it going Dan?

  Man, have I got a success story to tell you. So me and and a few of my friends went to a small town in Washington for performance gig. After performing, we decided to go to a popular club in the area and just have a good time. Once we got there I immediately used the [Edited: Customer revealed an important technique from The Flow] technique and thought to myself : “Man, this is place is great! We’re gonna have some fun tonight!” I could feel my confidence going through the roof. We all were dancing it up having a good time. It was as if we took the club over because girls were positioning themselves near us so they could gain our attention. A couple of girls even made out with each other. At one point, a hot brunette grabbed my ass. When I turned around and saw that she was smiling at me, I jokingly said “You know, if you wanted grab my ass you could’ve at Least bought me a drink. I’m not that easy you know she laughs and then walks away. I thought to myself “oh well it’s her loss” and started dancing some more. After receiving a lap dance from another girl, the hot brunette comes up to me and decides to give me a lap dance of her own. She began to moan as she was grinding on me and she informed me that she wasn’t wearing underwear. We had sex at the college apartments after throwing an after party. And out of the blue, she asked “So why did you choose me?” I just laughed it off and said come here and give here a kiss. The next night I had sex with another girl that I met at a wine tasting event simply by using the flow. I was kinda mad at her the next morning though because she ripped my favorite shirt. Lol. Dan I can’t thank you enough for doing what you do! Will purchase another one your products soon.

  Cheers

  Sid.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Sid

    Cool!

    Sounds like you’re getting laid like a rockstar. I can tell that you really understand how to use The Flow in a natural way. Even though it’s awesome that you’re already pulling one night stands and having women ask you why you chose them over other women, you’ll find that it just gets even BETTER from there.

    Based on your results, the next program for you should be Better Than a Bad Boy or Alpha Male Power. You’ll love either of those.

    Thanks for sharing your success on the site and enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• David

  I have been single most of my life, and while I understand complex concepts, women was the one area in life where I just had no clue. There was obviously many attempts most which failed and it made no sense at all. I stumbled upon The Morden Man after trying many others and for some reason it just made sense to try it out, even though it was the first option where I had to pay money to get the information, something which I usually avoid on the internet.

  I started with Dating Power, 2 years ago, which included the flow. It was a brialliant starter product, it opened a whole new world to me. Soon after this I decided I wanted to learn ballroom/latin dancing, and it was here where I started my adventure meeting many women, instead of going to bars which is still not something I am crazy about. You don’t have to guess, the advice just worked. I had multiple ladies falling in love with me every time I go out dancing. Dating power also slowly changed the way I was at work and with friends, and people told me regurly they don’t what it was, but I changed, for the better 🙂

  Recently I acquired Better than a Bad boy product, I truely wanted it, even though I was already going great with women, and again, it was worth it. It does more than help you with women, it teaches you things that make all aspects of life better. With advice from this product, I am for the 1st time in a relationshop longer than a few dates, and I can tell by the look on my girlfriend every time she come over, she is still madly in love with me, and I am not even trying to convince her, I just enjoy the time together with her, and somehow she falls deeper and deeper in love with me still!

  Short story, the products are amazing, and it teaches guys things, that all men should know. I believe the things I learned in both products, are essential to enjoying life to the fullest.

  David

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey David

    You’ve made my day!

    I was already having a great day (my girlfriend and I just got two kittens, so it’s been a funny, happy day for us), but logging onto the site to check the comments and seeing this just puts the icing on the cake. When I see these sorts of success stories coming in, I know that I’ve done the right thing by investing the last 8 years of my life into The Modern Man.

    Enjoy your new relationship with your lovely girlfriend! You deserve it! Believe me, the confidence you feel and the how much women love and adore you just gets stronger and stronger from there. Enjoy!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. I appreciate that you’ve pointed out using The Modern Man approach in places other than bars. Some guys don’t understand that when they get to our site; the techniques and approach apply to anywhere you will meet a woman. Good on you for doing what you enjoy (dancing) and finding the women that turn you on and satisfy you (emotionally, socially, etc) the most.

• Gideon

  l met a beautiful lady at a train station walking towards me wearing an interesting ladies boot, so l approach her with smile and she responded with a smile.then l said l loved your boot and that they look sexy.she then replied by saying thank you. then l said it would have cost her so much probably £3. Although the value is around £95. she was shock and she looked at me and said you must be joking and then smiled.l then commented on her hair style saying am impress by the combination with her dress sense. she then giggle and replied that am the first person that very day to comment on her dress sense.she then asked if my wife, mother or sister is into fashion, which l replied her by saying none,sensing that she wants to find out if am married, l then
  told her am not married but have so many beautiful ladies with scattering of brains hanging all around, but am yet to find the perfect one for me. l then said it is nice chatting with her but l have to go now so l can attend to a business Appointment. l brought out my phone gave it to her,she then type her number. l then told her am a very busy person but hopefully l will try and make out time so that we can hangout sometime. she then replied me saying that would be great,that she looking forward to me calling her to set up a date.
  From
  Gideon

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Gideon

    Thanks for sharing your success and congratulations.

    As you’ve experienced, all it takes is the confidence to start the conversation, the knowledge of what to say and then how to get a number…and you’ve got yourself a new girl. Congratulations on taking action and approaching a woman you found attractive. Most guys go through life too afraid to approach women they find attractive, so you’re currently one of the rare ones that is enjoying his choice with women.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Evan

  Hi Dan

  I want to check in here and tell you that I got my ex girlfriend back with your system.

  I was very skeptical coming into this because everyone was promising to help but I knew in my heart and mind that you were the guy to trust. I’m extremely delighted to have chosen the right system but nothing can describe how happy I am to have my girlfriend back.

  I won’t go into what I did to get her back because I don’t want to spill the beans on your system but the best part about it is that she apologized to me for breaking up with me and basically fell right back into my arms even though for months prior she was telling me to get lost! It was your dialogue examples that really made the difference as well as other methods which I just won’t say here out of respect to keeping your system a secret.

  So thank you. I am over the moon right now. My girlfriend is sleeping over at my place tonight and all is back to normal!

  Regards
  Evan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Evan

    Fantastic!

    Enjoy your rekindled relationship with her. You will find that the relationship is better than ever. Just make sure you follow the advice provided in Step 7 of the system, to ensure that the love, respect and attraction between you deepens on a daily basis, until you get to a point where it would be absolutely unthinkable to consider breaking it off. It sounds like you’re already on that path, so congratulations for following the advice properly.

    Enjoy!!!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dylan Rellinger

  One of the biggest things that I’ve acheived success in is the fact that I’ve been making more women attracted to me. The mentality that I adopted was from the Alpha Male Power. I just started doing what I thought was the way that things should be done, having confidence in it, and believing that it was the best way. I wasn’t being a dick, but standing firm and unwavering in what I thought was right (whether it was or not) was attractive to women. I’ve been enjoying the fact that I didn’t have to give up what I wanted to try to get “approval” by women. They like me because of my confidence and belief in myself.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Dylan

    Great to hear of your success so far.

    Just make sure you don’t get carried away with “doing whatever you want.” The key to true success with women is to be a good guy alpha male. Be a loving, thoughtful guy, but also strong and assertive.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Bradley

  Hi Dan

  Your dating power program is what did it for me. I had read the flow and had success approaching women and getting numbers and sometimes having sexual encounters, but dating power is what took everything to another level.

  I’m now in a relationship with a model that I met simply by attending a modelling event with a friend and going around talking to random women. They welcomed me into conversations because of who I have become since learning from you Ben and Stu here at themodern man.

  I salute you fellas! You guys deserve a lot of credit for the quality of advice you provide. It really does work. I know you guys know that already but I thought it was worth a mention here for anyone who happens to read my comment!!

  Bradley

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Bradley

    Brilliant! What more can I say? You’re living the dream.

    Thanks for posting up your success. I really appreciate it.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Chris U.K

  Hi Dan
  I Recently Purchased Better Than A Bad Boy Program.I tried a few of the techniques in this program and can i just say how well they worked (and might i add i’m only 2 Videos into the program :)).
  I went out in a group of friends on Saturday night 4 boys and 3 girls (all single btw) after using some techniques i noticed a massive change in how all 3 women were responding to me in the group everything from cheeky smiles/glances to playing/twirling with their hair. The biggest Accomplishment i can give here is i even noticed at one point how random women were seemingly moving towards us in one bar,(Despite the fact that in this bar it was full of Metrosexual men or Pretty boys )
  This is without a doubt the best amount of Money i have ever spent.After Being Dumped by the woman i thought was the one after 14 months together.Your Program has opened my eyes And has almost destroyed the fears i have had about getting back into the game ,My Confidence has been kicked up a notch.
  Thanks again.
  Chris.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Chris

    Best comment I’ve replied to all night. You rock! I’m so happy to hear from guys who learn and then put the advice into action.

    I’ve just spent the last 2 hours replying to comments from guys asking things like, “Will this work for me?” Man, I wish they would just read the comments on THIS page and realize that this is REAL.

    Enjoy the great times ahead Chris! You deserve it.

    Cheers
    Dan

• George

  Dan, when you say that you used to be hopeless with women, are you referring to the fact that this was before you had experienced your first girlfriend? specifically what did you mean by hopeless? did you struggle with approaching and talking to women, escalating with them? because I saw you said that you had a girlfriend that cheated on you in one of your bios about you being hopeless with women before, I don’t see how you were hopeless back then because you still were able to get that girl to be your girlfriend, just asking because sometimes I feel maybe I wasn’t destined to have a girlfriend due to me not having had one yet, I feel that maybe I just wasn’t born with the confidence, charisma, skills, conversation skills in order to get a girlfriend, seems most guys are instinctively naturals with women, but i’m trying to use you as an inspiring success story, how hopeless were you? were you a guy that used to be a frustrated virgin who had never had a girlfriend before to now having harems of women? because I want to believe that if you can do it, then so can I, I would love to read some other inspiring success stories of guys who were late bloomers, like didn’t get their first girlfriend until age 25 or older, and use that as motivation to push me forward

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey George

    Thanks for your question.

    About you still being a virgin and wanting to see inspiring stories of Modern Man customers who’ve lost their virginity: I just did a search on this page and saw two comments from former virgins. There are plenty more posted up around the site (guys don’t always post their success stories on this exact page. I wish they did though!).

    About my past: I explain it here: http://www.themodernman.com/why-learn-from-me.html Basically, I was nervous and doubted myself around women. As for the girlfriend I had who dumped me: I got lucky with her – I didn’t pick her up using my nervousness or lack of skills. Her and I happened to randomly meet when were both a little drunk at a party. She later realized her mistake of getting into a relationship with me and then cheated on me and dumped me the next day. Here’s the audio explaining what happened: http://www.themodernman.com/why_women_cheat.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• JL

  Dan
  All your stuff works period. I’ve used your products since 2012. I got the flow, dating power and better than a bad boy. For anybody considering this stuff. BUY. IT.

  This happened to ME today.
  I joined a new gym. While standing at the counter doing the paper work I staggered my stance. Bored really. Decided to use the T.I. technique just cause. And two incredibly hot chicks went out of their way to say hi to me. Individually. One by one. At different times. I was shocked because I wasn’t trying to approach or pick up. I thought they were talking to the guy who worked there. I figured they knew him. But no. They made it clear. They were talking to me. When I said hi. Smiled. And WAS FUNNY. I had to practically chase them off to take my gym card mug shot.

  The techniques just work. I was just practicing in a vaccum. And that’s been happening a lot lately. Women literally fall all over me. I mean, I’m using my body right. I got my cocky little smirk just right. I’m looking them in the eye just right. I approach. I’m funny. The escalations just fall into place.

  Success has been this. Had a hot girlfriend. We broke up. Got a new hot girlfriend. Then we broke up too. Went back to the first girlfriend. She moved away. Then I moved away with ANOTHER hot older woman. Now I’ve moved back, and joined a new gym.

  My point is this. Beautiful women are everywhere, waiting, HOPING to meet a man who understands the stuff you teach.
  Thanks a million Dan, Ben, & Stu

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey JL

    Thanks for sharing your success story! Much appreciated.

    You put that in an interesting way with “I’ve was just practicing in a vacuum.” If I correctly understand what you mean (correct me if I am wrong), you focussed on practicing while using Modern Man techniques only, right? That’s when you got the results you speak of?

    No one has ever explained it that way, so I’m interested to hear more.

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Congrats on your success so far. It sounds like it is beginning to flow nice and smoothly for you with women.

• JL

  Oh, I only use The Modern Man techniques on women.
  Period. I mean for once in life, when someone says something works, it REALLY does.

  By practicing in a vaccum, I just meant I was practicing the Modern Man techniques I could when I thought no women were around. I was practicing body language: standing right, holding my head right. Turning the transaction of signing up for a gym membership into a friendly interaction. That sort of thing.

  I mean, the women who went out of their way to speak to me, walked in behind me. I didn’t see them at first. I didn’t know they were there. They couldn’t see my face. So, it had nothing to do with my looks- just the tone of my voice, how I stood, how I joked with the guy signing me up for a membership.

  That’s the sort of thing I’m working on now. Little things like body language and eye contact, and vibing and escalations because I’ve worked out approaching. I’m a pretty funny guy, flirting is fun. I LIKE interacting with women. I like being around them. So, the anxiety to just walk up to a pretty girl is just gone. Sometimes, girls just give me their numbers or just start hugging me before I can get to those escalations or start hinting they want me to kiss them like after a few minutes. So, I’m working on exactly how fast I can do all those things. Just get better and better.
  I went from being horrible with women. I never knew where I was with them. Whether they were closed, open, or interested. I was blind to their signals of interest. Didn’t know how to escalate. I got the flow. Had sex. Got girlfriends. Hot girlfriends. I just know that getting girls is easy now. This wasn’t something I was born knowing how to do, though. So, I just keep practicing. I want it to be on auto pilot. So, even when hot girls are not around, I practice your techniques like conversation. In a vaccum. 

  • Dan Bacon

    Awesome. I wish other guys would do it that way too. There’d be so much more efficiency in guys going from zero to their own hero.

    Enjoy the great times ahead! Believe me, it only gets better from there. You’ll find that your power and understanding of what it means to be a man will deepen and your results with be even more incredible (and unbelievable to those who don’t understand it).

    Cheers
    Dan

• Manny

  Hey Dan

  I am very impressed with your Alpha Male Power programme. I am based in London where every second guy seems to be an alpha and I was always being picked on at work and rudely rejected by women.

  After watching your programme and going through the exercises I felt a distinct change in how I thought felt and moved when I walked around in public. It built over 1 week and all of a sudden I noticed that guys would get out of my way when I walked down the street even tho I am not being aggressive. They can sense it.

  I had a crush on a woman at work and she has rudely rejected me at a bar after work when we drank with colleagues, but after I went through the alpha transformations, she started hitting on ME.

  I came to your site feeling a bit skeptical because I’d bought some other advice online and it didn’t do a thing for me, but you are the real deal Dan.

  The woman from work and I will be going out for a date on Wednesday. She was hitting on me and I simply said to her ‘You want me and you know it’ and she became shy and then I said ‘Don’t worry about what happened in the past. You and I should go for a drink’ and we both had a laugh together. It would have been awkward except for the fact that I used the different types of presence that you explain in Alpha Male Power. She just melted, smiled, laughed and said ‘You’re baaaad’ and said ‘Okay let’s do it’

  I am truly amazed at the power that I have gained by simply watching your programme and following your advice. I will be getting more of your programmes in the coming weeks now that I know this is the real thing.

  Manny

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Manny

    Thanks for your positive feedback and for sharing your success.

    Welcome to the exciting world of an alpha male! Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Paul

  I regret not getting started earlier guys!

  I bought your Dating Power videos and got laid the 1st w/end I went out to party. Pulled a tall hot blonde who was with a group of her friends, both guys and girls in the group.

  3 months later now and I have myself a pretty girlfriend and couldn’t be happier.

  You guys rock. I’m sure The Modern Man will continue rising in popularity online. I’m glad I got in early before other guys found out about this stuff.

  Rock on guys!

  Paul

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Paul

    Awesome! Enjoy the great times ahead with your new girlfriend!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Aiden

  Hey Dan, Ben and Stu

  I just returned home from the mall and I have 3 new phone numbers in less than an hour! This really is easy as you guys say in your programs. I doubted that when I first arrived at your site and I was a bit skeptical about it all but that scepticism has been entirely eliminated now that I have learned from you guys and have used your techniques on women. I would have paid double the price if I knew your stuff was this good.

  Today the second girl I got a number from said to me that she was glad that I approached and that guys rarely approach her. I was shocked because she was really pretty and I assumed that she’d get approached every day and would feel annoyed by me approaching. It is a mind blower to know that she instead liked that I approached her. It’s just like you say in your programs that girls do want to be approached and the hot ones rarely get approached properly like I did today.

  I am very excited for the future now compared to how freaken depressed I was a couple of months ago before finding your site. I’m gonna call the girls tomorrow and hook something up because the second girl also said that she hopes I call. To me that is almost like I am living in a dream because women never said that kind of thing to me before. Words can’t express how happy I am today!!!

  Peace out
  Aiden

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Aiden

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    If I was just starting out, I would read a success story like yours and think, “No, that is impossible!” because it really was impossible for me before. Yet, you are using our proven approach and that is simply the results guys get when they do it properly. You deserve a lot of the credit here Aiden because you have learned from us and then put the advice into action correctly. You should truly give yourself credit for that.

    Now that you’ve got the approach to phone number nailed, please ensure that you CONTINUE using our techniques properly when you call and set up a date. If you do, the girls will happily (and in most cases, EAGERLY) meet up with you for a date.

    Enjoy the great times ahead and thanks again for stopping by to post up something about your success so far.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Phil

  Hey dan! Hey you wanted a success story? Well guess what IVE GOT IT (them)!! The first one was in class. Remember how i was saying that I was not good with comebacks and not in the Alpha mindset during class? Well I was late to class one day because of court, we had a test that day so I was the last one to take the test because I was late, when I walked in the class everyone was in the class going over some lecture and someone asked me what I got. I said an 81%. Then some guy yelled out LOSER! in front of the whole class. I know he was really just kidding and there was not harm meant by it but I still wanted to have something good to comeback with. I guess I was in the Alpha mindset because I thought to myself that I know for sure my GPA is higher than his because I have heard some of his test scores and mine have always been higher. So I said “yeah that isn’t what I would have liked to sore, I wanted a little higher, but me and you can compare GPAs of you want…..” and the whole class went oooohhhhh and looked at him, then he said “no thats ok” because he knew he was going to lose! haha it was pretty awesome!
  Now on to women, I have approach one 18 year old girl and got a number, i felt like i created some good sexual tension between us, I will see when we hang out and ill let you know. I also ran into a girl I used to date like 2 years ago, I broke it off with her because I never really liked the way she acted, have talked to you about her before. So i approached her and she seems to be a lot nicer and more pleasant to talk to so me and her are going to catch up.
  Now best for last.

  I went to a concert tonight. I was supposed to bring a friend, she said that she really wanted to go but at the last minute she couldn’t so i just went by myself. I approached some girls and the interaction went pretty good but i didn’t create as much sexual tension as I wanted. So i saw a different group of 2 girls and one guy, I was talking to one girl and she said that she doesn’t look her best because her makeup was smeared because of the concert then I said “lets see how good you really look” and turned her around to look at her ass. She knew what I was doing so she gave me a little dance then I gave her a nice slap on the ass. Her friend was getting jealous i could tell because She was getting closer to me and kept looking at us talking. So I created a little more sexual tension with those two girls.
  Then finally at the end of the concert I saw a girl who fit my type of girl exactly. She was really the kind of girl that I am looking for as far as looks go. And she ended up being really cool as well. So I had to give her a go. I asked her how the concert was for her. She looked at me with a huge smile and we talked about past concerts, and bands that we like, the security guard was trying to get us out of the building so he directed us to the exit. I remembered how you said that touching a girl is a good way to create sexual tension so I was commenting on how short she was and said “you know, you would make a really good arm rest” and put my arm on her shoulder, she giggled, then I said “and even better a chin rest” then I moved her to the front of me and put her ass in my croch and rested my chin on her head, she grabbed my arms and put them around her waist. After that I started tickling her and was calling her a trouble maker. We finally left and she saw her friends but you could tell she didn’t really want to talk to them so we made very sort conversation then kept walking. I set her on top of this small rock because I said that I wanted to make her taller, when she was standing on the rock we made out a little. Finally I said, “hey why don’t we go for a little cruz” she said ok. So then we cruzed up the street I said that I had to get something to drink so I stopped at a gas station to buy something to drink and condoms. Later we drove and I parked somewhere. I grabbed her and set her on my lap, we started making out and i was taking off her shirt when she said, “wait, maybe we shouldn’t be doing this, I’m on my period” I said ok we will leave your pants on, then kept going taking her shirt off, we were making out and I had her shirt off and was having plenty of fun with that, later I put her hand on my dick with my pants still up then I pulled them down and she started giving me a hand job and i laid her head on my stomach and she started going down on me. I remembered what you said about how am i going to be the type of guy who grabs her head really makes her go for it or not, so I grabbed her hair pretty tight and then had a lot of fun!! I guess i really created a lot of sexual tension with this girl, because our conversation was not really that long before she put my hands around her waist, maybe like 5 mins or less. I guess you were right about my age really not being a problem this girl was 18! I didn’t know if you wanted all these details but here they are haha!! I understand if you can’t post this because of the details but here is your success story dude!! thanks again man I owe you!!
  Phil

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Phil

    Nice success story mate.

    No, the details are great – it helps other guys get the picture of what actually goes on. You pulled off some pretty advanced moves that night.

    Make sure you maintain that frame of mind now by reminding yourself, “I’m already there. I’ve made it. It’s easy for me now.”

    Enjoy the great times ahead mate!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Michael

  Hey guys

  I’ll keep this brief…

  I got your Conversation program a month ago. I used the advice to approach and talk to women at my local shopping mall while I was out shopping. The second woman I spoke to is now my girlfriend.

  Enough said.

  Michael

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Michael

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Although brief, your success story speaks volumes. Thanks so much for letting other guys know what happened.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with your new girlfriend!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ned H

  Dan, Ben and Stu

  I found your site about 3 months prior after getting dumped by my fiance. It was a horrible experience and really shook me up.

  It wasn’t until I found your website that I finally discovered what I had been doing wrong in my attempts to get her back. Well I got your program for getting the ex back and I also decided to get your dating power program to sharpen up my skills with women in general.

  Watching the programs was a lot of fun and I found myself saying OMG so many times as I realized where I had been going wrong all along. Anyhow on to my success story for you guys – I am now back with my fiance now and things seem really good. I said what you recommend to say to her via text and on the phone and she agreed to meet up with me. I then said what you recommend to say at the meet up and we ended up embracing and then kissing.

  We have postponed the engagement for now and are just boyfriend and girlfriend. We have agreed to give this another year and see how we feel then.

  I have decided to get your relationship program and the better than a bad boy program too so I can really learn a lot about being a man in the relationship.

  This has been the best investment I’ve ever made in myself and I feel blessed to have found your website. You guys are doing a great service for the men of this world.

  If you’re ever in Canada, drop me a line so we can catch up for a beer!

  Ned H

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Ned

    Thanks for sharing your success story.

    Congratulations on getting back together with your fiancé.

    About getting Better Than a Bad Boy to learn more: Good choice. BTABB will teach you about being a man of purpose (i.e. going after something HUGE in life and rising to your true potential as a man, instead of hiding behind a woman or useless hobbies because you are afraid to step up and be the man you can be). When you become and be that type of man, it is a big part of what it takes to keep a woman interested in a long term relationship. The rest (of what it takes) is discussed in Better Than a Bad Boy and The Modern Relationship in more detail.

    Thanks again for sharing your success and congrats.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Hayden

  Bought your Flow book 2 weeks ago Dan, brilliant!!!!

  Got laid on the second night I went out approaching. The first night I only got phone numbers, but Night 2 was a beauty. I’m back in the game!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Hayden

    Man, seeing success stories like this makes me wish that a site like The Modern Man was around when I was hopeless with women! Good on you man! That is awesome.

    Enjoy the great times ahead! It only gets better from there.

    Cheers
    Dan

• JM

  Your Dating Power video seminar is the best collection of techniques for pick up that I’ve been able to find online.

  I’ve bought plenty of stuff from the seduction community but none of it worked for me consistently. Someone suggested to me that I go natural and then I started looking for the dating gurus that teach natural game. A few people mentioned you guys so I checked out your site.

  Out of everything that I have bought to learn how to pick up women Dating Power is by far the best.

  After having sex with a string of women during the last three months I have chosen a sexy girl for my girlfriend and we are now in an exclusive relationship.

  That is what I was looking for all along and your advice showed me how to make it happen. The best thing about your style of pick up is that you don’t teach guys to be something that they are not. I finally felt like I could be myself and be appreciated for that by women. I didn’t use any tricks to get my girlfriend but just your natural method of confidence and using the dating power approach to pick up.

  I am now recommending you guys to other guys that I know from the seduction community who are still struggling to get results.

  JM

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey JM

    Wow, that’s a great testimonial – thanks for the kind words man!

    Your story is actually a pretty common one that we’ve heard here at The Modern Man over the years. I’d estimate that around 150 guys have e-mailed me (note: Please don’t e-mail success stories. Please post them up on the site! 🙂 ) and said the same sort of thing (i.e. they used to learn tricks and lame methods from pick up artists and seduction “experts” and after getting no results for years, they decided to learn a more natural and authentic approach).

    I’m glad you found us JM and congratulations on your success. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Thanks for recommending your friends to us also. Much appreciated!

• Matt

  Dan,

  Just wanted to touch base, update you and say a huge thanks.

  As you know i was going through alot of sh*t with my ex gf and all the bullsh*t that entailed. I didn’t try your ex back program but instead went for your advice on picking up new women.

  Well, after NYE i got invited on a holiday by a mate who is a retired 35yo wall street trader and a bunch of other mates from all over the globe. We all trade heavily in the markets.

  Anyway, long story short, we were staying at a condo on the beach. Man, the European women we met and hooked up with…incredible. I applied your advice and tactics, bedded 4 women in 2 weeks, a kiwi model, 2 russians and a swede. I thought about you oneday and my ex gf and said “I made the right choice not going back to my ex, look at the gorgeous women here we are hooking up with.” And i mean 10/10’s

  So thanks for your videos and mate, there is no way im interested getting back to my ex gf, 39 yo single mum who is now with a single father in his 40’s when we are hooking up with smokin hot, intelligent and classy europeans.

  Have been invited to an italian mates penthouse in Monaco for a month in May during Cannes Film Festival, it’s gonna be epic and will def purchase The Flow to hone my skills..

  Cheers,

  Matt

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Matt

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Awesome – it sounds like you’ve been having a great time!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. It sounds like you still feel a bit of resentment towards your ex right now. What you should aim for is to be successful with women and happy in your own life, but also respectful to her. Love her for who she is and understand that what happened in the past happened for various reasons. When you reach the point where you can love her and accept what happened, it will be a great day for both of you.

• Brent

  Hey Dan,

  I have been living by your program for about a year now, bought all your products. And to no surprise they work insanely well. At any given time I have at least 5 girls that always want to sleep with me and fight for my attention.

  My only problem is, at this stage in my life I don’t want a committed relationship since I’m 20. So even if I like a girl, I won’t commit to her. Some girls get frustrated and leave and that’s fine. I can’t really explain it but now that I am in the position of power I am not deeply attracted to the sexy girls I am dating. How do you look for a deep attraction in a girl and will I know it when I see it? Or am I looking for some feeling that is strictly mental and not a “deep connection”? I have a lot in common with these girls and really enjoy being with them but I wouldn’t marry them. Maybe my standards are too high?

  Brent

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Brent

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    About your question: That’s just normal. You have your choice with women, are young and don’t yet feel like settling down. I enjoyed many amazing relationships with women over the years, but was never ready to settle down, so I always had to break it off. My ex-girlfriends asked me to marry them, start a family with them or at least just stay with them for life. However, I didn’t want that back then, so I stuck to my guns.

    Then, when I got to 35 years old, I finally started to feel ready to settle down and that’s when I met my current girlfriend. As I type this, we are 1.5 years into our relationship and just a week ago, we both started talking about starting a family together. For the first time in my life, I am actually open to it. I feel like I am ready.

    So, for you Brent – don’t go rushing into marriage or kids until you are ready. Just share true love with women, be good to women and enjoy yourself. You will make women cry when you break up with them, but it’s for the best. It would be wrong of you to marry a girl now and start a family, only to split it up a few years later.

    Be patient and following your gut instinct: http://www.themodernman.com/success/successful_thinking/trusting_your_gut_instinct.html

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. It’s not because your standards are too high. Until you feel ready to settle down, it won’t matter if the woman is a beautiful catwalk model – you still won’t want to settle down.

• Adam

  Finished watching Alpha Male Power and I loved it. I mainly bought it to be seated in a better position amongst friends, since I felt that The Flow has already taken care of the issues I had with women. It is really working out for me and I wanted to thank you!
  Just a little problem I’m having is with presence. Sometimes I’m in my head, trying and thinking “presence” rather than being it. And sometimes it even gets to the point where I did not even listen to the person talking to me. I’m a relaxed-confident type of guy and have not had this issue before, but now that I think about presence, it does not come natural as it used to. I’m just overanalyzing things because I’ve been really excited to take things I’ve learned into action.
  Other than that, the modern man has had a huge impact in my life and I thank you for that!

  Adam

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Adam

    Thanks for your positive feedback and sharing your success so far.

    About your question on presence: That’s simple my friend. You are simply going through the 3rd stage of learning when it comes to presence. Here are the 4 Stages of Learning:

    1. Unconscious incompetence: You don’t even know that you’re doing it wrong.
    2. Conscious incompetence: You know what you’re doing wrong.
    3. Conscious competence: You can do it correctly, but you have to think about it while doing it.
    4. Unconscious competence: You can do it correctly without thinking about it.

    To speed up the process of getting to the 4th stage of learning, simply say to yourself, “I’m already there. I’ve got this nailed” and then focus on the times that you DO get it right. Don’t focus on the times when you mess up (which is completely natural during the 3rd stage).

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women and in life!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Russell

  Before finding this site I was an overly nice guy who didn’t understand how to spark attraction in women. I thought being a nice guy, who was smart, fit, had lots of friends, and dressed well would be enough to get women. I eventually found out this was not true. These programs have done so much to show me the importance and the way to be open, fun, edgy, and flirtatious in my interactions with women, whereas previously I was reserved / matter of fact.

  This has drastically changed the way women react to me. I originally found this site because I had one woman in mind that I wanted. With the knowledge and skills I gained here, I was able to get her. I have had a few other women and a long term girlfriend since. The best part is that I didn’t have to turn into some bad boy a-hole. I could still be a good guy at heart, I just had to bring out some of the edginess I was suppressing. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed my time learning with the modern man, thanks guys.

  Russell

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Russell

    Thanks for sharing your success!

    I’m glad you pointed out the fact that women are loving you for YOU and that you didn’t have to become something that you’re not. Some guys who visit my site feel as though they couldn’t enjoy the success that other guys are experiencing, because they’ll need to become some sort of bad boy, player or pick up artist. When, in fact, it’s just about becoming a stronger man and adding more appeal to your existing personality.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andy

  When i realised just how bad i was with women and wanted to change i didn’t know where to start so i looked at a lot of PUA stuff and wasn’t really comfortable with it because it just seemed like a scam and was tricking women into bed and wouldn’t really help me in social life. Then I came across The Modern Man and The Flow.

  i bought it thinking it was cheap and if it turned out to be sh*t then i wouldn’t have wasted much! BEST MONEY I HAVE EVER SPENT!!!!!!! read it a couple of times that week to get it to sink in properly then went out on a saturday night with my mate just for a few drinks not really thinking about the The Flow and we got chatting to a couple girls, woke up the next morning in bed with one of them! this was the first time i had chatted up a girl on a night out let alone taken her home! currently working my way through alpha male power and better than a bad boy and life is defiantly getting better for me in social,work and sex life cheers dan stu and ben!!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Andy

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Yes, as you now know, our advice is nothing like the amateur stuff found on 99% of sites online. We spent years testing and developing our advice before making it available in our programs. Now, guys like you can come along and walk right into success.

    Andy, thanks for your positive feedback and enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jason

  Dan, I started out being the typical nice guy, omega male. Then I read the Flow, and watched Alpha Male Power. Ever since then, my life has literally done a 180. I was promoted at work into a leadership position, and then I lead the leaders just because I am allowed to, and I have multiple girls that are super keen on me at my job, and I literally don’t try. I just flirt with them and use presence and other alpha mindsets. Girls literally get nervous around me, blush, and don’t know what to say. It is a huge change. Now I am going through Better Than a Bad Boy and I am going to go after my life’s purpose. The Modern Man is not only about making you successful with women, it is also about making you a success in your life, and it will have you feeling like a king and being treated better than you ever have before by girls.

  Thank you so much Dan, Ben, and Stu!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jason

    Great success story mate!

    That actually sounds a lot like what happened to me (including getting promoted at work, etc). Amazing stuff.

    I look forward to hearing more about your success (with your purpose and with women) in future.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tosin

  Hey man. How you doing? Taught I should hit you up. Its been a while. Still reaping benefits from the the great advice you give. It still amazes me how much your stuff really works. I mean just the level of respect I get from other guys around is pretty great stuff. I keep learning new stuff about women through applying what you teach. One that has really been eye opening for me the last couple of months is realizing how most women get when they are around a guy they are really attracted to, its quite unbelievable, lol. Am talking about very good looking women that most guys believe are untouchable. They just turn into little nervous girls when an alpha male turns up in town. Its so adorable! I mean every once in a while a have a girls saying ‘Yes Sir” to me, always trying to please me, not wanting to get me upset, if you don’t respond to their texts or return their calls they think you are unhappy with them, even trying to win your friends over so you have a good impression of her as good girlfriend material. Don’t know if this usually happen to you but, sometimes when a girl cooks and brings food over for me, she keeps asking if I liked it even days after. Sometimes I tease them by telling them I haven’t tasted the food and it drives them crazy not knowing exactly what am thinking(Other times I just say “Thanks, you are such a good girl”. I also observe that women also have games they play when they want a guy to fully commit to them and stay exclusive with them in the committed relationship(correct me if am wrong on this).
  Bottom line man, you doing a great job there keep it up.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Tosin

    Good to hear from you as always.

    About women getting nervous around you: Yes, it is cute. I remember when I first started noticing that – it helped me build even more confidence in myself and what I was discovering (this was before I wrote The Flow). As years went on (i.e. around the time of making Better Than a Bad Boy), it had gotten to the point where you are talking about now – women going out of their way to please you.

    Great to hear that you’re still enjoying the good times of being a bachelor. When you’re ready to settle down, I will probably be at the point where I’ll be making a program about deep love in a long-term relationship. All the best in the meantime!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Michael

  I’ve been using The Flow for coming up on a year now and also been using Better Than a Bad Boy for about 2 months. It was interesting because with The Flow I was picking up plenty of women and having sex with them but the Better Than a Bad Boy program took me to a new level like you said it would do.

  I have now 4 women that are my lovers plus one is more of my girlfriend than just a lover…but she knows that other women see me too because she has seen stuff in the bathroom like hair clips and ladies lip balm and so on. I am starting to think that I will stop and choose a woman soon to have a relationship with.

  I am 29…do you think I should stop now?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Michael

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Great to hear of your transition to the mastery level after using the techniques from Better Than a Bad Boy. (For those reading along with the comments, go to these two pages for more info: 4 New Mastery Level Video Programs and What is Your Skill Level With Women?).

    About your question: The right time to settle down depends on you. It really is different for everyone. You will know when you are ready to settle down. Trust your gut instinct: http://www.themodernman.com/success/successful_thinking/trusting_your_gut_instinct.html Over the past 11+ years of being with many women, I always knew that I wasn’t truly ready to settle down. Even though I had amazing relationships, I secretly knew that I really didn’t want to settle down. Yet, when I met my current girlfriend, all that changed. After about 6 months of being together, I knew that her and I were ready to settle down for life.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Alan

  I am a college student and was struggling to break out of my shell. I read your book,”The Flow” last year and things have changed for me so much. I have been sleeping with various women on campus and have been giving a few tips to my friends also.

  Your book changed my outlook on myself and what is possible with women. I still have a ways to go to get to your level and I am hoping I can afford more of your programs in future so I can learn the stuff I don’t yet know! Thanks for your help Dan.

  Sincerely,

  Alan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Alan

    Great to hear about the fun you’re now having at college.

    Man, I wish I knew this stuff when I was your age! Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Reggie

  Dan, Ben and Stu your wonderful advice saved my marriage. A friend of mine from work referred me to you after he got your Dating Power programme and started picking up incredibly beautiful women on weekends and showing me the photographs on Monday mornings at work.

  Anyway, I watched your Modern Relationship and Better Than a Bad Boy programme and have to tell you that the sex life between my wife and I has never been so strong. Its like we are in the early stages of our relationship again. All the flirting and cuddling and kissing is right back like it was ten years ago. She mentioned to me that she was thinking of talking to me about a separation for the last two years but didn’t have the guts to bring it up. When she told me that my heart sank and I couldn’t eat or sleep properly for a week. Anyway the advice you have provided has saved my marriage so I thought I’d get on here and thank you for all you do. You’re doing a wonderful job for men and ought to be congratulated.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Reggie

    Thanks for sharing your success mate – much appreciated.

    It really is cool to know that our efforts to transform guys into real men also improves and even saves marriages. I hate seeing couples get divorced. The man and woman loved each other so much in past, but because the man was unable to guide both of them into deeper feelings of love, respect and attraction – the temptations of the modern dating world began pulling them apart. Love doesn’t die when it is taken care of and I’m glad that you know how to take care of your love and relationship with her now.

    Congrats on using the advice to bring the spark back into your marriage. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tyrone

  I had been on your newsletter for approx six months. I took a chance and bought your book. It was an unusual move for me cos I don’t usually buy stuff from the net but you seemed like the real deal so I thought why not.

  By the time I’d read 1/4 way through I was thinking how stupid I was for not getting it and reading it earlier.

  Dan I used your advice and found a girlfriend in 8 days…YES I WAS COUNTING! LOL!

  She is beautiful and we are in a very happy and passionate relationship. I want to thank you for your help. You really are changin lives here. The thing that changed things for me was your confidence advice in the flow and the examples of what to say. I would always run out of things to say when I talked to girls I was crushin on but having your examples to use let me cruise through the talking and get to the lovin

  A fan for life

  T Rizzy

  • Dan Bacon

    T Rizzy?

    Nice! I think Tyrone is a cool enough name to have, but T Rizzy turns it up a notch!

    About your rapid success: Awesome – thanks for sharing man. I hope your words help inspire other guys to get started and experience easy success with women.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with your new girlfriend!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Paul

  Hey guys

  I just returned home from a hot brunette’s apartment. It is 11:30am and I just had the most amazing night of sex in my life.

  I read your Flow book two weeks prior to tonight and everything is clicking into place for me. I pulled a one night stand with the brunette last night but by all accounts it looks like the beginning of a passionate relationship. She has texted me three times since left saying that she misses me.

  I couldn’t be happier with my purchase of your book Dan. It really is gold and I feel lucky to have found your website.

  Now for some breakfast! I’m starving, hahaha!!

  Paul

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Paul

    This is why I work so hard on The Modern Man. It never gets old hearing from guys like you, or from guys who’ve used my advice to get their ex back, fix their marriage, etc.

    I have best job in the world. Thanks for sharing your success story and enjoy your new relationship with the brunette!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Amrish NZ

  Hey Dan

  I have some great news, I have a success story to tell.
  Its a bit long but do bear with me 🙂

  It all started from just showing up to a Korean Cultural meetup group from the meetup.com

  All I did was be myself, didn’t worry about what to say or what people thought of me especially if there were some silences in the conversation.
  I sat next to the girl that I found attractive, but unlike any other guy who doesn’t know the techniques like you guys teach at TMM.
  I made an effort to get to know 50% of the group that was sitting closest to me & not fully focus on the girl sitting next to me the whole time, as I would come off as a desperate guy trying to pick her up.

  I flirted with her by teasing her about one of her step sisters she told me about, which she said is horrible & I immediately threw a funny one at her by saying that, when her sister enters a room at her house, everything goes gloomy & then a huge thunder storm comes out of nowhere & all you can hear is crashing thunder & lightning floods the whole house. I had to project my voice very loud as we were in a noisy Korean restaurant, I use that technique, “Speak past the person to the person you’re trying to talk to.” I even teased her about that fact she’s a very busy girl during her studying years & that only now she can take a breather since things calm down on her side. My response,”You must have been a pretty busy girl. You’re probably fell asleep on your books half the time. lol

  She had a huge smile on her face & even her cheeks went more red when I flirted with her plus I connected with her since both of us had pretty much the same exact interests which clicked in my brain that this girl is what I’m looking for & I felt attraction for her more when the conversation progressed since she was showing off a bit of her feminine side to me. I knew she was attracted to me & regardless of the conversation, I always asked myself, do I really like her? Is she what I’m looking for?

  She even asked me how my food was & I honestly told her that I loved it & asked her as well, especially at the end of the dinner when she asked me if I’m coming to karaoke with her & the group & she was very happy like a little girl when I said,”Yeah, why not? I never tried it before.” She even told me its a lot of fun. 🙂

  After dinner, we went to have some fun at the Korean Karaoke bar with the same group that had dinner with us, although some people left before we did the Karaoke.
  Like in TMM, I loosened up & even volunteered to sing first with a partner, Psy’s Gangnamstyle(Korean song).
  We pretty much had fun doing this for roughly a hour & a half plus the girl whom I’m attracted to, impressed me with her singing ability & I gave her a high five for that after she sang twice & when others high fived her 🙂

  At the end of the karaoke session, we all parted ways & it was just myself, the organizer & the red head girl in question.
  I joked about how terrible I am at singing & she said in a girly way,”Aw it shouldn’t matter, it was meant to be fun” 🙂
  I told her I know & I was only joking
  I asked her if she really is a dental assistant & she said yes & asked me if I floss & I said no.
  She threw one at me & said that if I don’t floss, I’ll end up getting fillings myself. 😛
  My response, “yeah I’m really bad,” lol I did tell her I brush my teeth twice a day in a easy going way.

  Just when the 3 of us were gonna part ways, I told her.”I had a lot of fun tonight, which should catch up sometime.”
  Her: “Yeah we should definitely catch up” 🙂
  I took out my smart phone & told her to put in her number & she did it without hesitation, though it was funny she had to do it again, as she forgot to put her name in my phone by accident lol

  After I got her number I said goodbye to her & thanked the organizer for a great night out & I ended the night off with a success!

  TMM products are definitely very powerful once used in real life 🙂

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Amrish

    Great to hear a success story from you mate! Congratulations.

    It sounds like you really are becoming quite confident and women are opening up to you as a result. Please come back and tell us if you end up hooking up with her!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. I saw the photos of her that you sent via e-mail…hot!

• Michael

  Dan,

  A year and a half ago I took a chance and bought “Better Than A Bad Boy” one night because I had hit rock bottom in my life with women and felt desperate for something–anything–that could get this area of my life on track.

  From the very first time I started watching that program, I felt a powerful shift happening within me. I finally began to realize valuable truths about myself, about what a ‘real man’ is, and about what women are looking for in a relationship thanks to your program. And, to make a long story short, I ended up having my first-ever threesome just two weeks later while trying out your principles. Most importantly, those principles have become a part of who I now am.

  I still have a long way to go, but I’m genuinely excited for the journey of self-improvement, adventure and great times with women ahead. Thank you for the simple, clear, unmistakably true insight you provide in your program. I can’t wait to learn more.

  Sincerely,
  Michael

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Michael

    Brilliant success story mate and congratulations! I know the valuable truths you are referring to (discussed in Alpha Male Power). So good to hear that they resonated with you.

    Threesome? Nice! I haven’t had a threesome in a couple of years (now that I’m in a committed relationship), but reading your comment brought all those memories back. Ahhh, good times. I can’t some of the stuff I used to get up to. Lol…

    Believe me Michael, it only gets better from where you are now. I look forward to hearing about more of your success as you progress on your way to mastery. As you would know, working on this area of your life is exciting and very rewarding. When you have that mindset, nothing can stop you – it’s a fast ride all the way to mastery…and that’s when the real fun begins with women. You’ll go from having threesomes like you did to hooking up with women you would’ve never imagined could have liked you in the past. Saying that reminds me of the night I picked up my first catwalk model. Seeing her get up from the bed and walk to my bathroom naked was an amazing moment. I kicked back in bed, smiled and said to myself, “Hah! This is awesome! I’m hooking up with catwalk models now…so frikken awesome.” To be honest, I am way more impressed by my girlfriend’s hot body and still get a kick out of seeing her walking around naked. Love women so much…

    Anyway, thanks again for sharing your success. It sounds like you really do understand what we teach and are enjoying all the fun benefits as a result. Enjoy the great times ahead Michael! Please come back and post up about more of your success in future!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Justin

  I read your book The Flow because I wanted to know how to seduce a female coworker of mine. Well I said what you recommended to say, we went out on a date and she is now my girlfriend. I am still amazed at how easy it was in the end – thanks a lot! Your book is full of amazing tips that I have since implemented to improve relationships with friends and even make some new friends. It is well worth the money and I feel lucky to have stumbled across your website.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Justin

    Cool – great success story. Thanks for sharing.

    There’s nothing better for me than hearing from guys who put the advice into action as advised. Some guys are a bit more natural at this than others and can afford to experiment by messing around with the structure of The Flow for example (e.g. going straight to the last step of The Flow and then back-tracking later on), but for beginners – they must follow the advice properly until they are getting consistent results or easy results like you did.

    Congratulations and thank you for taking the time to share your success. I wish you the best of happiness, passion and love with your new girlfriend.

    Cheers
    Dan

• O.H

  I have only had your conversation product for a month and I’ve already got 3 phone numbers and a kiss by using what I have learned.

  The phone numbers and kissing a girl is a huge deal for me because I am still a virgin at 24 years old. One of the girls I got a number from is cooking me dinner this weekend so I am hoping to get laid that night!!

  I can’t thank you guys enough. Your techniques are natural and easy to use even for a newbie like me.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey O.H

    Thanks for sharing your success and congrats!

    Three phone numbers in a month – that’s impressive for a total beginner. Nice work.

    Have fun at your place with your new girl. I’m sure you will be losing your virginity sometime soon with her or one of the other girls who are keen on you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Bruno

  Great insights guys.

  I’d always struggled to try and put what I learn into practice, but hearing you guys explain how you do things in real life situations with women has made all the difference. I got that from the Dating power stories audio that comes with Dating power.

  I am now getting great results and have been able to kiss one girl at a local bar in my town and this week I’m going on a first date with another girl I met at the mall. It was nerve wracking to give it a go at first but I trusted you guys and used the advice and it definitely does work.

  I am only getting started with this but I can see it all beginning to happen for me now. Women are reacting differently to me in a big way and it is all because of the approach of your’s that I am using.

  My only regret is in wishing that I had found you guys earlier. I hid myself in my house most weekend because I knew that I couldn’t get good reactions from women. But now I am out there and living it up!! I can’t wait to see what happens on this date coming up.

  Bruno

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Bruno

    Ahh, nice to hear someone mention Dating Power Stories! It is literally our most overlooked product by newcomers to the site, but it’s one of the most popular with existing customers. There is so much solid gold advice in there – it’s priceless.

    About your success: Cool, getting kisses and dates already. Nice work. Well, that is to be expected though. When a guy uses our advice that is what happens. Believe me Bruno, it only gets better from there.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andrew

  I was surprised at how easily this worked because I haven’t had much success with women over the last couple of years. I used some of your conversation examples from The Flow on the female bartender at my local bar on Sat night, then she gave me her phone number in front of everyone. She came over to my place for dinner on Wednesday and then stayed the night!

  Your stuff really does work and I’ll be checking out more of your products now for sure.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Andrew

    Sex with the hot female bartender – niiiiiiice.

    I wrote an article about that a while ago: http://www.themodernman.com/pick_up_female_bartenders.html

    Nice to hear that you guys are following my advice and getting girls to come over to your place for dinner as a first date. It makes the escalation process to sex so much easier. Congrats!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Sam

  Hello Dan, Let me start off by saying that I am by no means a bad looking guy, and I am extremely social, but yet I have just never been good with picking up women. I finished reading your book on friday evening and would have normally just stayed in for the night because all my friends were busy.

  It turned out that it was my older cousins birthday that night, so I decided to go out and try the material, feeling like I knew what my previous problems were at this point. I was slightly nervous cause I knew everyone would be much older than me but I decided that your book was right; I had to at least try otherwise nothing would surely happen.

  So I get to the bar and its packed. There is no chair for me at their table so I calmly go and find one. I get stuck at the very end of the table, and keep in mind I know NOBODY down there. So we do the usual hand shakes and intros (the guys at that end). I then decide to go and get a drink at the bar.

  There is an opening next to a beautiful blonde, so I take it. Now normally I wouldnt have said anything. She was texting and looking completely uninterested in everyone but after reading your book I decided I needed to go for it. I asked her if there were any specials going on. Without turning to me she said “no, its the weekend” (obviously thinking I was just another cheesy guy looking to pick her up).

  So I said “are you sure, normally friday nights they have orange juice on sale”. She then turns to me with a puzzled look on her face so I just gave her a grin. I then said “what are you drinking there, it looks horrible”. And she laughed and said it was really good (cant remember what it was now).

  She then held out her hand for me to shake and said “hi im Nicole”. I gave her a knock (closed fist) instead and said “nice to meet you Nicole, im Shanequa”. LOL. She laughed pretty hard and said “ok Shanequa, so what do you do?” I then said “I have two part time jobs as a male dancer and whale hunter”.

  She laughed really hard again. Now after this point I got a little more serious with my answers cause I didnt want to over do it. I got her number about 5 minutes later and said “nice meeting you, im going to get back to my friends”. I NEVER would have done this in the past, and would have overstayed my welcome by a long shot im sure.

  Needless to say all of this I gathered out of your book, and I normally never act like this, but quite honestly it felt natural once I started doing it. This was within 5 minutes of getting to the bar. Later that night I had 2 gorgeous 30 year olds (im 23) hanging all over me.

  Because of time restraints I cannot tell you the rest of the night right now, but honestly Dan it was the best and most eye-opening night of my life. I was “the man” in a group of people that were 5-10 years older than me, and got 3 phone numbers of EXTREMELY interested and gorgeous women in one night.

  Yeh I know, not breaking any records, but for me thats more than I had gotten in about the previous 6 months! So to wrap it up THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. The info I got from your ebook is seriously priceless. It would have been worth thousands of dollars.

  You have honestly changed my dating life from me chasing women around to them fighting for my attention. I still obviously have much more to learn but I am fully 100% confident after last night and it felt very natural to do, while also feeling fantastic to be in that situation.

  At the end of the night my cousin even said “when did my little cousin turn into such a stud?” in front of everyone. It was an amazing night Dan, and I can’t wait to get out there more! For the first time in my life I WANT TO go up and meet gorgeous girls because I feel that I can interest and attract them because I can be “the man” while allowing them to be the woman, which is obviously what they want and what turns them on.

  Keep in touch and sorry for the novel…but in case you can’t tell I am stoked.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Sam

    No problems about the novel. If it is a success story, I am happy to read it all. Thanks for sharing!

    It’s like music to my ears when I hear from guys who are using my techniques properly. Also, hats off to you for immediately making up your OWN variations of my flirting examples! Fantastic. …and calling yourself Shanequa – what a classic. This is the sort of conversation that women LOVE because it’s fun. Of course, your conversation should not be like that all the time. As you pointed out Sam, “Now after this point I got a little more serious with my answers cause I didnt want to over do it.” Exactly, there is a point in any fun and flirtatious conversation where you should stop and be a bit more serious. Otherwise, it stops being funny and starts becoming goofy.

    Another great thing you did was to not treat the conversation with the hot blonde as your massive opportunity to SCORE. When in the presence of a beautiful woman, most men behave in very nervous and sometimes weird ways. Suddenly, their conversation style changes to become nicer, more polite and more accommodating to hopefully make the beautiful woman like them. They also become more willing to put up with ALMOST ANYTHING the woman dishes out, as long as she keeps talking to them. What most guys don’t know is that beautiful women see this as PATHETIC behavior and feel almost ZERO attraction for it. In fact, it KILLS their attraction and interest in a guy. In your case Sam, you demonstrated that you were willing to potentially RUIN the interaction by being having a joke and a bit of fun with the situation, rather than eagerly trying to lock in your opportunity to potentially date her or get her number. This is VERY INTERESTING to attractive, sought-after women.

    Nice work Sam!

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women – it only gets better from there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Darren

  I was searching a long time to find the solution to my problems with women and I knew instantly that this stuff was it.

  Since I started applying the techniques and mindsets you teach, I’ve gotten a lot more confidence with not just women but all the other areas of my life. I now I ask more for what I want and I usually get it. Like last night at the club I started talking to a beautiful girl near the bar and 10 minutes later I said “We should talk again, give me your number” and gave her my phone. She put the number in and said “Cool, call me…I’d like to catch up sometime”

  The mindsets aspect is amazing, because I never understood positive thinking until you talked about negative dialogue going on in your head. Well, I’ve been able to improve on that a lot. It wasn’t that I never heard it before to be positive, but the way you guys explained it in such great detail while still being easy to understand is a really a rare thing…

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Darren

    Thanks for your kind words – much appreciated.

    Congratulations on your success so far. It’s funny how easy the whole “picking up women” thing becomes when you actually know what you’re doing. It’s great to hear that the very different way that we approach the topic of “positive thinking” has been having a great effect on you.

    Enjoy your catch up with the hot girl from the bar!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Patrick

  I recently got dumped after dating a girl for over 6 months.

  It left me devastated; partly because she suddenly left me for reasons that I could not understand (I now understand that was because I stopped ‘maintaining interest’ and lost my unpredictability/mysteriousness) Luckily, it did not kill my confidence, so there was no problem there. The problem was more to do with my inability to flirt/create sexual tension, and thus I often ended up being seen as ‘the friend.’ My above relationship happened more because of lucky chance than my ability with women.

  I decided not get your ex back program because I wanted to try to have my choice with women this time. After reading your book, I have learnt some of the more important flirting/attraction techniques; (as well as boosted my already decent confidence levels) and thus have managed to attract a number of ladies =) I now have beautiful girlfriend, and I could say I have another 3 in the pipeline/waiting list :p It was absolutely wonderful to be able to CHOOSE a girl this time, rather than relying on luck! Thanks

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Patrick

    Congratulations my friend.

    Being able to choose the women you date and have sex with, instead of accepting whatever you can get: Priceless.

    Enjoy love, passion and fun times with your new girlfriend! Make this one the best relationship you ever have.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jack P

  Before I got your 21 Ways program, I was not good socially. I would try to be nice to girls, and approach very few of them. I would always let other people take the lead in social situations, and later when they would be with the girl, I found I would sit in the background. Now, I understand how I should treat girls, make them laugh, lead them, etc. And my social dating life have all picked up to the point where I’ve slept with a good amount of women and it is fun (not difficult or scary) to approach and meet women now. During the month or two that I have been learning from you, I have also made a heap of new friends now that I’m getting invited to house parties, using the tips you guys have given me. This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around, so I wanted to post up a comment here and say thanks.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jack

    Great to hear that you’ve made a bunch of new friends and have been hooking up with plenty of women too.

    Keep going mate – it only gets better from there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Doug

  Get this – a female friend of mine who only ever saw me as a friend is now sleeping at my house twice a week. She came on to me one night, while I was using your attraction techniques from Dating Power (the only program I have at this stage but I plan to get Better Than a Bad Boy next).

  I also got the phone number of a sexy waitress the first night I went out since getting Dating Power, but I haven’t called her yet because I’m enjoying having sex and hanging out with my female friend turned girlfriend.

  You guys deserve a lot more credit for what you do. I was searching around online for months for stumbling across TMM. I knew right away that you guys were the legit ones. Your advice really does work…it’s scary how well it works.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Doug

    Thanks for sharing your success.

    Nice work – turning a female friend into your girlfriend – a very exciting experience. I’ve done it before and the sex was amazing because of all the built up tension.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Better Than a Bad Boy will be great for you if you want to become more of a man than you already are right now. It’s about becoming stronger, mentally and emotionally. It explains how to stop feeling insecure in relationships and in everyday life. If you enjoyed Dating Power, you’ll love Better Than a Bad Boy. They are both truly awesome programs in their own right. The success stories all over this site really put a stamp on that statement. Thanks for sharing your success story – much appreciated.

• Will

  When i found your audio program I thought “Okay here’s something to take me in the right direction”. I’m not interested in just sleeping with a lot of girls even though I now see that I can, so I have gotten a girlfriend. We have been together 2 months and she is absolutely stunning. Easily the best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Will

    Thanks for sharing your success story.

    Congrats and enjoy your new relationship! We are honored to have been able to help you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Christopher

  This is the best investment I’ve ever made in myself. I’ve already dated three women in the first three weeks after beginning to learn from your advice programs and am now getting quite serious with one girl who is ‘the pick of the bunch’. I can’t thank you guys enough.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Christopher

    Congratulations and thank you for coming back to share your success.

    Enjoy the relationship with your new girl and the even greater times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Bill

  I was at a movie theater with my friend recently. We saw some girls and I was able to walk up to them, start a conversation and it just so happened we were going to the same movie. Perfect!

  We hung out with them after the Movie and was able to take them back to my place for some wine and some clean fun. I have never been happier or more optimistic about my life and my future with women.

  I saw your success story page a month before I decided to give this a go. I was skeptical that it could work for a guy like me but it did. The girl I had sex with was so sweet and innocent…it was like having sex with some of the girls I usually masturbate over when looking at porn sites except this time it was real!!!

  My friend and me are going to get some more of your products now and really amp this up. We’re pumped and looking forward to the future.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Bill

    Awesome success story!

    That’s the first success story I’ve heard from a guy who picked up at the MOVIES! Lol…fantastic.

    It sounds like you’re now on the fast track to success. Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Lawrence

  Hi Dan, I joined the MM about 3 years ago. I have most of your stuff and it truly is second to none, by far. My story is about my very first try at using one of your techniques from The Flow, the all important ‘humour’ and how gob smacked I was at how it worked instantly. (I’ve made this as short as I can Dan)
  I was flying back to my job from Heathrow Airport and went to check in desk. The pretty girl there weighed my suitcases and told me that I was overweight and that she would have to charge me. I then said to her with a semi serious look on my face; ‘Do you know I have lost seven stone in the past three months because I was so overweight and you say that to me and now I feel terrible about myself again, you should be ashamed of yourself talking to people like that’. Well she just couldn’t stop laughing and completely forgot about charging me for excess baggage. (I don’t know where this came from but I seemed to have the confidence to say it from reading The Flow, I would never have dreamt of saying this before) Then on top of that the very same girl was at the departure lounge check-out and when she saw me in the queue she ushered me forward to the front. I was so amazed that I could hardly speak and disappeared onto the aeroplane and never stopped thinking all the way back about just how powerful your stuff is, and I’ve never looked back since. Keep up the amazing work Dan, take care, Lawrence.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Lawrence

    Cool success story!

    As you would know, that is just a TASTE of what you experience when you use our techniques. Just to point out for guys reading along and wondering if what Lawrence said was RUDE; he said it in a semi-serious way and would have been smiling (I assume). That’s the way it’s done. You’re joking with her, but you’re also being half-serious. She feels an initial shock because she worries that you might be serious and then when she realizes that you’re joking, she laughs and has a lot of respect for you because you have the confidence and social intelligence to joke around like that.

    I’d love to hear about more of your success Lawrence. Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Rudi

  I’ve been told by some women that I’m quite good looking, but for some reason I always ended up being their best friend (or emotional tampon as some people like to call it). I could never understand why this was happening to me. I honestly thought that my good looks is what sets me aside from the rest of the men. But I was SO SO wrong.

  It was only when I started watching the clips from Dating Power that I realised where I made my mistakes and that good looks is so overrated. This weekend, I got the opportunity to try out what I’ve learned. When I got there, there was a handful of women (9’s and 10’s) that didn’t really look like they were having fun. I decided to start a little innocent flirting with a 10 called Amelia (what a goddess!!!)

  She and her hot blonde friend eventually started fighting right in front of me, because they were both trying so hard to get me to pick one of them.

  This was truly a site to see. At the end of the night, about 30 guys approached her but she just shot them of in a matter of seconds! I was the only guy able to walk of with her number! (which she forced me to take by the way)…

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Rudi

    Thanks for sharing your success story mate – much appreciated.

    Getting women to fight amongst themselves is priceless. You know that you’ve got “dating power” when you can talk to women and watch them compete for you. As you have now experienced, it is a priceless power to behold as a man. From now on, you will have your choice of women.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Peter

  I watched Dating Power 2 months ago and everything has changed for me now. At the start I was a little apprehensive to use your advice, but when I did I was amazed to see that it worked right away and that built my confidence immediately.

  A few weeks ago I met a girl at the grocery store, we chatted for a few mins and I took down her number. Now she is the hottest girl I’ve ever had sex with, but that’s not the point I want to tell you guys…what I want to tell you the most is that she already loves me. She calls me every 2 days and wants to see me and tomorrow she’s coming over to cook me dinner…just like you said would happen if I asked her to treat me that way.

  The Modern Man has really helped me change and become the guy I knew I could be. You have made it all so simple to use and everything just works.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Peter

    Cool – another Dating Power success story! That’s two in one day!

    Yes, the speed at which she fell in love with you is actually NORMAL when you use our approach to women. In fact, if you decide to break up with her later on and continue learning more from us, you will actually get even better at making women fall in love with you so quickly. At my level, it happens almost instantly with most women. For my current girlfriend, it happened on the first night when we went back to my place and were getting to know each other on the balcony. Being good with women makes life so much easier.

    On behalf of Ben and Stu, we are honored to have helped you Peter. However, the real praise should go to YOU because you actually USED the techniques. You should be proud of yourself for having the courage and wisdom to actually try the techniques in real life so quickly. We’ve heard success stories from customers who bought some of our programs, love what they learned, but didn’t try it out for MONTHS or a YEAR, only to then find out that it WORKS right away. They then explain how much they regret not trying it out earlier.

    Enjoy the relationship with your new girlfriend Peter. You deserve it and all the great times ahead for you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Carl

  I’ve always been a very shy type of guy, so it was not easy for me to believe that I could do what you teach. I procrastinated about getting started with this for at least seven months until I got rejected by yet another girl who I really liked. She said that she was not looking for a boyfriend right now and I knew that she was lying because she began a relationship with a guy from work shortly after.

  After going through that crappy experience and having a good hard think about why women didn’t like me, I decided to read your Flow ebook and to also watch Dating Power. I couldn’t believe how quickly things changed for me when I tried some of your conversation and flirting examples. Your whole dating power system is simple and practical and your methods are not harmful to women: They are honest, real and powerful.

  It is now around five weeks since I got The Flow and Dating Power and I am excited to let you know that I have found myself a girlfriend. I met her while having drinks at a bar in the city with my coworkers. I used the confidence building system from Dating Power and I am no longer shy, I am no longer lonely and I have told a few of my friends about your website and what you guys do.

  I plan to get your Modern Relationship program soon too, but for now I am just enjoying everything about my new girlfriend. I told my friends about you guys because they were saying WTF! Your GF is HOT, how did you get her??? I told them to Google ‘The Modern Man’ and they are now they are all learning from you guys too.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Carl

    Lol, that’s three Dating Power success stories in a row. Very cool.

    Congratulations on overcoming your shyness and getting yourself a hot girlfriend. Also, thank you so much for referring your friends to us as well. The Modern Man isn’t something that most guys are comfortable telling their friends about, so it’s always nice to hear that people are being referred to us.

    Enjoy your relationship with your girlfriend and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Brian

  I’ve been using the 30 day challenge for two weeks now…I’m halfway there and have scored to 2 numbers. In the beginning I thought I wasn’t getting anywhere because the challenges were pretty easy, but now I see why they are set up like that…by the time I got to Day 9 I was getting phone numbers.

  I’m going on a date tomorrow night with one of the girls and just wanted to let you guys know and say thanks!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Brian

    Congrats and thanks for sharing your success so far!

    Enjoy the date with your new girl and the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• José

  Hello. I just want to show a brief note, that in very little weeks (2-3) from getting and reading/listening your products and letting them settle, not even trying hard at all and in the middle of finals, I am already literally grabbing numbers like candys to any woman I find attractive at day in the middle of the street and in front of people feeling no nerveous, but confident to see that the ones who get nerveous are them by me aproaching.

  This is just a note and I don’t even consider it a success story worth mention (which already speaks for the capabilities of your products), but just for people to know. I already have in 3 days 6 girls ready to date with me and I am starting to date an american girl which turns me on like crazy. I think it will be close to impossible to take care of them all when I fully apply everything, with more free time, and everything internalized.
  (It is true that I’ve gotten fake numbers, or facebook requests that have not been accepted, but it’s part of the game).

  The point is that I’m aware I’ve not even used a 5% of what you teach, but I’m already miles away in understanding and chances even than the naturals I know, because I act on clear full knowledge. It works allowing your natural self to automatically do the work, and as you have the right info, you only get better and better. You stop from wasting your life with fake info, and getting all confused. Each time spent, is skill gained and a handfull of good girls ready to have a date with you.
  I mean, guys out there, think in detail about what I am saying. Barely doing nothing I am already at the best dating stage of my life. Plain and Simple.

  I’ll not post up here any little more success stories until I accumulate big ones (things that you don’t even think of when you come about wanting to have a better life with women), but I just wanted to make notice with this simple thing, which is already something everybody finds like impossible, with your products it’s got simple like snap a finger.

  Thanks for your time, task, support, and energy. Wish you well.

  José.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey José

    Thanks for posting up your success so far.

    Congratulations on putting the advice into action so well. I believe that you’ve already gotten six women interested in you within three days, but I know that some guys reading your comment won’t.

    As you now know, it is simple and easy to rapidly get multiple women interested in you and wanting to hook up with you.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• H

  Hi Dan

  I got my girlfriend back!! She had become jealous due to [Edited: Customer revealed important technique from Get Your Ex Back: Super System] so she messaged me on Fb and on my phone. We met at a coffee shop close by my home and kissed afterward. Following that she announced that she regretted breaking up and wanted to give it another chance.

  Props to you bro!!

  H

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey H

    Congratulations mate.

    Just make sure you follow Step 7 of the system properly from now on. Make sure the relationship dynamic is correct, so the attraction, respect and love continues to grow from there.

    Enjoy the love and great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jason

  Hey Dan!

  I just wanted to leave a comment and say how much your courses have changed my life. I am a real man now, as well as an alpha male. Confidence and masculinity are truly part of my natural personality. When I started out with your site, I thought that I might just be an unfixable case, so to speak. However, I tried anyway, and I can honestly say that it has made all the difference.

  Now I have women drooling over me. It feels a bit arrogant saying that, but there is no other way to put it. I can’t tell you how many girls at my workplace have a crush on me or are in love with me. For example, this blonde started working there and instantly she fell in love with me. Tons of other guys try to get with her or get her to like them, and when I walk in the door all she does is stare. This is honestly my default response from most girls. The thing is though, I don’t even try. It just happens. They end up feeling so much attraction, respect, and love for me that they just can’t help it. All of my friends keep telling me to right a book…if only they knew! They ask me how I do it, and at this point it’s just natural. I don’t think about it, it just happens. So I can’t thank you, Ben, or Stu enough. You guys have truly made a life-changing difference in me. The person I was a year ago is a completely different guy from the man I am today. Thank you!

  Also, my ex-girlfriend wants to get back together. It just happened naturally. I knew she was jealous because I had been flirting with one of her friends at work, and it wasn’t to make her jealous…I’m just a flirtatious guy now thanks to you guys, and she was talking to me about all the guys that like her and she doesn’t know what to do. She was testing me to see if I’d get upset, because we had been to the meet-up and stuff, and I just gave her my advice on it (because she asked) and I knew what she was doing – she wanted to see if I’d get upset. That worked wonders for us getting back together.

  One of the reasons you listed in the Get Your Ex Back Supersystem as to why she may have broken up with you, is that she may still be in love with another guy. That is true for her, she knows it is over and everything, and she needs to move on, but she was with him for two years and he honestly pales in comparison to me. I know that for a fact. I told her that if she wants to get back together with me, she has to make her mind up and move on completely from him. Now she is on a cruise in the Bahamas and she is faced with the decision of choosing between me and him. I pushed her away with strength and confidence, and had her feeling jealous to the point where she couldn’t take it anymore, she started flirting with other guys and I just laughed. She then called me on the phone chewing me out and admitted that during our relationship she loved me when she found out that I was on a date with another girl. She said everything was over because we just couldn’t make it work, and I said “thanks! I loved you too! No hard feelings! I wish you the best!” And she couldn’t let me go. Then the day before she left for our cruise she came over because I had been in the hospital, (all good now) to check on me because she was worried and wanted to come up to see me. She came the next day to my house, and we ended up doing everything but having sex.

  Can that reason of her still having unresolved issues with her other ex-boyfriend be overcome? If so, I honestly think I have already overcome them.

  Thanks so much for everything you guys do! I can’t thank you enough!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jason

    Thanks for sharing your success story – much appreciated.

    This part says it all, “The thing is though, I don’t even try. It just happens. They end up feeling so much attraction, respect, and love for me that they just can’t help it.” Exactly. That’s hard for many guys to imagine or believe, but that is what happens when you approach your life and interactions with women in The Modern Man way.

    “Also, my ex-girlfriend wants to get back together. It just happened naturally.” Beautiful. It’s funny though, because you refer to it as happening naturally even though you’re using Modern Man techniques. Why? The techniques and approach to women have become natural for you now. Great to hear.

    About your current situation with your ex: Don’t worry about any “what ifs” in terms of what she is thinking or feeling. Just continue being the confident, masculine man that makes other guys pale in comparison. She will feel a growing respect and attraction for you and will then follow her heart and just be with you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• George

  Hi Dan, I would like to thank you because you are sharing your experience and your knowledge here in the ‘’Modern Man’’. I think you are very charismatic and blessing. I am planning to purchase your book ‘’The Flow’’ and definitely I will check out and the other products. My problem with women’s it is weird because I am tall and good looking guy, but I am not confident enough to approach women’s. Here in Europe women’s are not so easy, but although that isn’t my biggest problem. Always, when I am in a bar/club and I receive sighs of interest from a beautiful woman (they send me glances, smiles and staring at me) immediately I became nervous and anxious, and I don’t have the courage to go straight and approach her. Then, my awkward behavior, cause of my insecurity, produces negative impressions to the girls and they lose their initial interest. That always happens to me!

  I am very sensitive and nice guy and I don’t want to be rejected. That is my problem, in fact I think I am very insecure with women’s but not generally in my life, I am very successful, I have a good job, I have many friends and I have a normal social life. When I am in friendly environments, in the parties for instance, actually I am not nerd I am absolutely sociable, but when I realize that a beautiful girl really wants me, something magical happens to me and loose instantly my confidence because of the fear of rejection! That is my problem!!! In these situations I am always thinking “o my God what I am doing now, how to get her phone number, and if she reject me? Maybe she only wants to play with me, maybe she don’t really likes me. Maybe she pretends that she likes me because she wants to increase her confidence rejecting me!’’ All these crazy thoughts make me nervous and anxious in these situations and don’t let me live my life! Most commonly, the girls they subconscious receive my insecurity and they lose their initial interest. Maybe sounds weird but is absolutely truth!

  I hope the products of ‘’The Modern Man’’ to help me and one day to increase my confidence with women’s, because that is my problem.

  With Respect
  George

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey George

    Thanks for your positive feedback.

    No, your explanation of the problem is not weird. It’s actually very common for a guy to think and feel that way around women he likes.

    I hope that you do get The Flow because it contains proven solutions to fix the problems you are experiencing. You will laugh at how easy it is to attract and pick up women when you use my methods.

    Good to have you around at the site George. I look forward to helping you succeed with women.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Michael

  Hi Dan

  I got your Ex Back program and have used it to get my ex back. All that is fine now (thank you!) but there is a new problem that I’m confused about.

  There’s a girl at work who is asking me to break up with my girlfriend to be with her. She’s very beautiful so I don’t know what to do. I’m at a crossroads in my life and wondering whether I should keep my girlfriend or have this new girl. I will admit that I even kissed her after work at a function we had. I’m not sure what to do. My girlfriend and I are very happy now but I am feeling very confused about this.

  Any advice?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Michael

    Thanks for sharing your success and congrats on getting your ex back.

    That’s a difficult decision to make, but essentially you’ve got to ask yourself:

    – Can I see myself with my current girlfriend in 20 years time?
    – Which of these two women make me the happiest? Which of these two women do I want to make happy?
    – Which of these two women would make me feel the proudest as a man?
    – Which of these two women do I really love? Does love count for me, or do I want to just have fun for now?
    – Which of these two women do I feel most compatible with?

    Let me know how you go! You’re in a good spot – at least you have the choice now.

    Cheers
    Dan

• SJ

  Hey Dan, just wanted to share my recent success with you….. I was introduced to a woman via mutual friend….. She pursued me relentlessly on Facebook, so I set a date…. It went very well & she wanted to set a 2nd, which we did…. However prior to the 2nd date she calls me with her address & asks if a fancy joining her for a glass of wine….. Let’s just say we barely touched the wine that night!! We then had our 2nd then 3rd dates with me staying over each time, but then she went weird on me…. However this didn’t diminish me & have since set up dates & slept with 4 other gorgeous ladies, either locally or online… I’m learning to be less needy & available, but just being me & authentic. The more I read the Flow, the more I learn & apply it. Thankyou mate, wish this material was available in my 20’s, but non the less I’m grateful now… All the best SJ

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey SJ

    Awesome to hear about your success!

    5 new women since reading The Flow? Priceless. Mate, it makes me so happy to be helping guys like you. I know exactly how cool it is to go from NO WOMEN to CHOICE WITH WOMEN.

    Enjoy the great times ahead! It only gets better from there.

    Cheers
    Dan

• K Singh

  Hi Dan,

  Hope you are doing awesome.

  I bought your Get you Ex back system few months and used it to success first time but want to know what to do at the second time.

  Here is my story:
  Few months ago i got together with my ex , after she dumped me (Using all the steps given in the “Get Your Ex Back: Super System “).
  But my own insecurities and the involvement of another guy (who she likes and had a brief relationship ) resulted in she breaking up with me very strongly few days back. Now she knows what all i did last time to get her back and doesnt want any contact whatsoever.

  What should I do NOW as she knows that despite I saying that we should be friends, I might try for a relationship reconciliation attempt! :(?
  Are there any DIFFERENT things which i should do THIS time?

  Can you please help and suggest me Dan.

  Thanks,
  K. Singh.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey K

    Congratulations on getting your ex back.

    Now that your insecurities have driven her away after a couple of months of being back together, she will be blocking out any feelings of attraction or respect to help herself move on. What you need to do now is go to Plan B from the system. You must kick Plan B into full gear as quickly as possible. It will almost certainly get her to contact you, at which point you need to let her know that you still love her and will give her space if she wants. At that point, she will feel as if she doesn’t want you having any more space because of what you’ve been doing (i.e. with Plan B). Make it happen the second time my friend! Good luck and make sure you really put Plan B into full swing right away.

    Cheers
    Dan

• MP

  Hi Dan

  I’m making a quick comment here because I want other men to know the value of your work.

  I bought The Flow almost a year ago now and I’ve experienced a lifestyle with women that I once thought impossible.

  I’m talking about four women in my life at once and none of them are willing to let me go even though they know full well that I am with the others.

  Recently I met another woman when at Starbucks near by place and we exchanged numbers. I called her up that night and we have planned to meet up this Friday night for drinks after we both finish work.

  I have just one word to describe the techniques you provide in The Flow and that is incredible.

  It’s incredible that you have been able to decode women and then share that with us men. Before I found your site I was the typical nice guy who wished that just one woman would like me, but they rarely did.

  My one wish with this comment is that a guy like me sees this and give The Modern Man a try. The little bit of money I investment in your book has saved me from another year of feeling lonely and pissed off about women not being into me.

  Alright Dan, I’ll sign off here, but I just want you to know that you are doing a great service for men by being so professional with your site and advice. Everything I have tried from The Flow has worked and anything I haven’t yet tried I am sure will work too.

  All the best
  MP

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey MP

    Wow, thanks for the kind words mate.

    It’s an honor to be working on The Modern Man and helping guys like you. I don’t want to do anything else in life (career wise) than just make sure that every guy who can’t have his choice with women, stops and learns how.

    I’m sure you would agree when I say that it’s EASY.

    Thanks for supporting my work by purchasing my book and congratulations on your success so far! Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Gary

  Hiya Dan

  I got my ex back! It was actually a lot easier than I was thinking it would be. Your methods are brilliant!

  I was lead to believe by friends that once a girl broke up with you that that was it but now that I’ve done it I can see what you see about attraction and relationships and love.

  Me and my girlfriend are now planning on moving in together and things are really good, so my thanks to you for the brilliant program and advice.

  Gary

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Gary

    Thanks so much for coming back to post up your success story! I really appreciate it.

    Yes, as you now know – love is more powerful than most people realize. The love that you and her once shared NEVER went away – it was simply pushed into the background by the negative emotions she was feelings.

    Congrats on your success and enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Chris Peterson

  I finished reading “The Flow” 2 days after I had purchased it. On the third day, I went out into the town to put what I learned in action. It works so well! I talked to two girls, and they both wanted me! What I attempted was wayyy out of my comfort zone, and not what I usually would do, but I put that passed me and just gave it a go. Worked like a charm. The first girl I talked to was definitely interested, so much so that I felt taking her home was absolutely possible, but after talking for a little I decided i didn’t want her. YES, I chose. Then moved onto the next girl, who was also much more beautiful. Put the techniques I read about in the book to use, and now she is my girlfriend. It was literally so easy after you know the right things to do. Before this book I would have NEVER talked to her. Before this book I wouldn’t have even tried because I mean seriously, she seemed way out of my league. Buy this book. It is absolutely worth it.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Chris

    Thanks for sharing your success story! I’m honored to have been able to show you the way.

    Now you know how truly it is to attract women and get a girlfriend. Congrats and enjoy the great times ahead with her!

    Cheers
    Dan

• B

  Many thanks for all your advice. Prior to reading and watching your stuff I definitely had the wrong mindset and I kept doing the same wrong things. Since following your advice, my wife now totally respects me and loves being with me. She keeps testing me but thanks to your heads up I deal with it the right way every time. I was also made a team leader at work last year and even my manager who is an older woman is feeling threatened by how successful and strong I am.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey B

    Fantastic news! Congratulations!!!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Matty

  Hi dan 5 months after me and my wife broke up we are now back together and so happy , I’ll be honest with you I thought after I went through your programmes that they would be of no use to me I couldn’t have been more wrong , certain parts of the programme i couldn’t reeally use but the majority was so helpful , it got me in the right mindset and helped me through the toughest part of the break up and showed me how to be a man that my wife would want and in all fairness it just felt natural to be this way so many many thanks to you and the team at modern man because without you it would have been impossible for me to get my wife back in my arms so if any of you guys are in liverpool England any time don’t hesitate to contact me because I would like to take you guys out for a drink again thank you thank you thank you you don’t realise how much you have helped me I am eternally greatful thanks again from the happiest man in Liverpool Matty PS thank you again

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Matty

    Fantastic news!

    Congrats on getting your wife back. It is men like you that make me want to work even harder to get the message out there. Love doesn’t die! You can rekindle the love. It really is possible and quite easy when approached properly.

    Thank you for sharing your success and being an inspiration to other men who might stumble across this comment one day. I am honored to have been able to help.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Pranav

  I am 25 and was a virgin about 24 hours ago
  Dan Bacon you have helped me so much, I discovered you about 2.5 years ago and I have also copied and pasted the email I sent you not too long after I purchased The Flow.
  Here’s my story:
  The flow opened the world up to me in a way I had previously not thought possible with women. Then Dating Power gave me the tools I needed to have a successful date. But that still wasn’t enough my mindsets were all messed up.
  As luck would have it being a loyal customer I was given the gift of Better than a Bad Boy followed by 21 Ways to get a Girlfriend. I had decided to buy Mastery Methods and Mindsets not too long after that. Better than a Bad Boy and Mastery Methods and Mindsets proved to be the impetus to my success.
  Last year I made a lot of changes in my life, I made the best of a new set of friends, joined salsa classes which I attended regularly and went out almost every weekend for the sole purpose of getting over my social anxiety. Slowly I was able to do it without booze as well.
  I had started having a lot of success with how women and people in general were reacting to me. I could breeze through interviews, co-workers were all impressed by my personality and getting new numbers was so god damn easy. But it was the follow through to the bedroom that was always the kicker.
  Then about a month ago I met someone online and it went really well within the first 2 days. She was instantly turned and I was almost instinctual in what I said to her to get her turned on. After many long phone conversations and 3 Skype dates she was begging me to come visit her (she lives about 6 hours away from me)
  Last night I was nervous as all get out and we tried and failed 3 times. On the 3rd time I came forward and said I was a virgin. To my surprise she blamed herself and cried because she thought it was her fault that I didn’t feel I could be honest with her. She was so impressed by me that she thought I could do no wrong, to top things off I did not lose my cool and calmed her down and we decided to go for a walk and just talk about ourselves. When we got back I decided to tell her we should lie next to each other naked. I got her all turned on again and this time so was I. What followed was just epic! I fucked her 3 times over 5 hours! She orgasmed so many times! I lost count after the first 6 times. Turns out I’m good at it! She called me today and said she still had trouble walking hahaha!
  Mate that experience told me a lot about myself too, as I am surer now of how I want to go about getting to the bedroom. I know myself better as a man and feel like a fucking porn star at the moment. I told my mates and got several excited texts back and a few phone calls. Best weekend ever Dan thank you so much for creating this brilliant company.

  Here’s my original email from when I was starting out on my journey from August 2 years ago

  Hey Dan,
  I bought your book, The Flow, around March this year after almost a year of reading up what the Modern Man was about and whether it was worth spending my money into another “pick up artist” self help book.
  Clearly I was wrong in my interpretation, and what pushed into getting it was that I had a near fatal car crash in February this year. That was my moment, which I realised that enough was enough! I couldn’t wait around for the right woman and after my experiences this year that wasn’t my goal. My new goal is to become a confident Alpha Male, with the choice of any woman I want, to be the one with the power in the relationship.
  I am the age you were (24) when you’d made the decision that you’d had enough and were fed up with your luck with women. However, (and I’d appreciated if you didn’t publish this) I’ve never been with a woman because I am crippled by my shyness and I’ve developed over the years a total anxiety of the approach, which all started in my 20’s.
  When I first started reading The Flow it was a real eye opener and I started using the techniques, however, I live in a small country town. You know a place where most couple come to settle down. So the options are relatively thin on the ground. So I used the techniques a little bit when I went home to where my parents live on the Central Coast (NSW) and I was getting results and my confidence went up…like wow did it go up!
  About 5 weeks a go I had a small breakthrough when my mate and me went out to Newcastle at the clubs there. He suggested that you go up there and just chat to a girl (just like your books says) and the challenged was to find out what high school she went to.
  So I went up to two girls and said “Hey I’m doing a little survey (with a cheeky smile) and I was wondering what school you two went to?” They responded positively and flirted a bit and played a little hard to get because they wanted me to guess where they were from. After three failed tries and a few laughs they told me. So I invited them over to our table and they said, “why don’t you two come here?” I said I’d think about it and I went back to my mate (who was only a small fraction better than me with women), and I said hey we’re in! I could tell he was stalling and because he wanted to finish his drink (still had a half a glass) before going over.
  He took too long and they left, which didn’t really bother me because I saw the really hot group of women I really wanted to talk to. My confidence was up and I was feeling good. So I went over and (this might have been my mistake) I said the same thing. However the girl in the group I wanted to talk to responded most positively to this. She was the most attractive out of the lot and we were chatting for a good 5 minutes. I found out what school all her friends went to but my focus was on one girl and I think it made it obvious to her two friends who I was interested in and I think they may have gotten a little annoyed.
  If all three were talking to me that would have been much better but I did not know how to engage all of them. I got too focussed on the one girl and all I really found out about her was that she was an accountant and that she’d been doing it for 7 years. Anyhow they left but I didn’t feel too bad about it because it was another little success, which I’ve added to my notes. The mistake I made there was that I didn’t flirt because I too “punch drunk” and anxious by her hotness
  The thing is I still have a massive approach anxiety and I figured hey maybe I missed something so I’ve started reading The Flow again. I decided to do this after reading about they 51 year old dude named Ken who read it three times and had a crazy good reaction to the women he talked to.
  I think considering my skill level, I believe The Flow is for men who want to refine their technique or men who’ve at least been with women. Considering my goals, which I mentioned above, I’m deciding whether Dating Power would be the go for me or whether Methods and Mindsets would be better? Or perhaps give The Flow a few more reads and keep up a consistent level of practice?
  I can now see how other guys (natural or otherwise) do it and I can predict their next move. It’s just my anxiety gets the better of me and I’m far too timid in social situations. I don’t know where to go beyond “how was your night?” I want the power and I want the confidence and I want women fawning all over me. I want her to feel as lucky I do (if not more so) to have the her in my life.
  Please help me Dan!

  Regards
  Pranav, Australia NSW
  PS My name is pronounced Pra-no and if I send you a success email after I figured this all out then feel free to post both this one (all of it) and the success one side-by-side because I want to help any other man who is in my position.
  PPS How often should I go out to keep up the practice?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Pranav

    You are the man.

    It’s you and guys like you who inspire me to work so hard on The Modern Man. The transformation you have experienced is what it’s all about.

    Welcome to your new life of success with women.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. About your question: As often as you feel like it. The mindset from where you are now is, “I’ve got this. It’s easy for me now” and then just talk to women with that confidence and don’t lose confidence when they test you.

• Mark

  Well Dan you’ve done it again

  what a great program better than a bad boy is. your knowledge astounds me. i am half way through the program and its changed me already. I’ve always been strong but just lack the skils in this area regarding women. And now thanks to taking your training courses the flow, dating power, modern relationship, alpha male power and better than a bad boy i feel empowered and have real choice with women. Women even openly admit their feelings for me. It is quite remarkable.

  Like you said in dating power if you get the right information then its so much easier. congratulations to you and all at the modernman guys you are the experts from a very happy customer.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Mark

    Thanks mate!

    Great to hear about your success! Women openly admitting their feelings for you? Awesome – that tells me that you’re doing it right.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Christian

  Hi Dan how are you?

  I have been talking to many women in the supermarket and going out and enjoying myself. I’ve been to horse races and adult classes and met some nice woman there and find now that I believe in myself even more now.

  And to know that I just have to go through the flow and decide if I want to see her again is great. It has given me the confidence and a structure to follow that is leading to dates and sex.

  I have mainly been chatting to women in supermarkets and not one has responded in a bad way which is amazing. I also have it in my head now to always have a go when I see a half chance to speak to a woman.

  I tell myself that I should do it and have fun and you just never know just like you said Dan. It is working really well and I thought I would let you know because I’ve been having the time of my life lately.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Christian

    Good on you for actually taking the step that 95% of guys never take: Approaching women that you find attractive, rather than sitting around taking whatever gets thrown at you.

    Soon enough, you will meet the right girl, she will be very attractive and she will be yours.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Robert

  just in the few things i have downloaded and listened to thus far, and being a man married for the past 16 plus years, i applied your techniques to home, and what a difference… Now i am not looking to date, or pickup girlfriends on the side, i am an honest married man, i wanted to see if i can re-kindle my marriage and it did. but at the same time, I also noticed when using these techniques work, i have allot of influence, though have to be careful, i need to dial back the power of this at work… I feel like i am the Piper playing my flute and all the rats are following me out of the city… simply amazing… now i do practice with people i run into where ever i go, and its just amazes me the sheer power of what you teach…

  Thank you,
  Robert

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Robert

    Good to hear from you.

    Ahh…there’s nothing better for me to hear back from men who actually put the advice into action in real life. What you’re experiencing at work now is what I experienced when I got promoted 3 times within 6 months. People at work not only like you, but they also respect you…and that is what leads to so much influence and power. Good on you for putting the advice into action!

    As for your marriage: Awesome. A lot of men don’t realize that they have the power to rekindle their marriage or relationship with a woman. If the spark has died, it can be relit if the man simply changes what he says and does around her. It’s simply about saying and doing the things that make a woman feel more love, respect and attraction…and that is something that any man can do.

    So, congratulations Robert. It’s an honor to have been able to help you. No doubt you have a lot of great times ahead of you! Enjoy!!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jason

  Dan,

  I have a question. I’ve been working on applying all the stuff from your courses. I have all but three (modern relationship, coaching calls, and ways to get a girlfriend) so I have a lot to do. But I’ve been really applying eye contact. Like you suggest in Dating Power to have relaxed eye contact.

  It works so well. For example today, I was a work, and I was asked a girl to hand me something and I never really talk to her, but I made relaxed but confident eye contact with her and she kind of blushed for a second. Like it wasn’t a full on blush but I got that impression you know? And it was kind of obvious that she was at least attracted to me on some level.

  Anyway, what I have to ask is why does something that simple cause girls to feel so good? Do most guys not normally make eye contact?

  It’s so simple and easy.

  And it’s not just that girl, there have been other women attracted to me simply from eye contact.

  By the way, your courses are killer. I’m so much more confident and it just feels easy. When I see an attractive girl I actually think that I could get her.

  -Jason

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jason

    Good to hear from you.

    Why something that works is that the way YOU are doing it is making her feel girly. When you make a woman feel girly/feminine in response to your masculinity, it makes her feel sexually attracted to you. It turns her on.

    Check out this video and article for an example of it and a more in-depth explanation: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/can-you-convince-a-woman-to-like-you.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jake

  Hey Dan I bought the flow and I was curious in the beginning of the start an interaction chapter you Give body language examples! Is that the type of body language you have before you approach or before and during the interaction?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jake

    Good to hear from you.

    That is an example of how to use your body language to get into the right mood for approaching women. When you begin interacting with women, your body language will naturally come across in the right way if you use confidence techniques from the book. You simply need to believe in yourself (using the techniques from the book to help you) and your body language will come across confident, relaxed, easy-going and attractive.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Matt

  This isn’t a success story in the same sense as the others are, but it’s a success story nonetheless. I’ve only just finished reading The Flow, and I haven’t yet had the chance to go out and put it to the test. However I wanted to leave this message as a gesture of personal gratitude to Dan and the others who helped to create this book and The Modern Man.
  I have lived for more than two whole decades filled with hatred, sadness and a crippling fear of living. It made me throw away my teen years and most of my 20’s for nothing. Life had left me a thoroughly defeated person through years of poor treatment and self inflicted negativity. I didn’t see any way that things could ever get better.
  Then, a few weeks ago, I discovered The Modern Man. I happened to stumble across one of the articles, and it really struck a nerve by how accurately it described me as a person. But it offered answers and help, and so I couldn’t help but be intrigued. So I began researching the site, watching the videos, reading the testimonials, and so forth. Initially I was very skeptical of this site, considering how unbelievable some of the claims seemed to me. However, as I kept digging, my doubts began to change into feelings of hope, something I hadn’t felt in years.
  Eventually I broke down and bought The Flow. Reading this book has been one of the most emotionally difficult and transformative things I’ve ever done. When I first began reading this book, it put me face to face with how inadequate I was, and made me painfully aware of the fact that I had not been living my life, but was running and hiding from it. I came face to face with the darkest parts of myself that I had tried repressing for so long. Everything negative inside of me threatened to reach up and tear me apart. And it almost succeeded.
  But as I kept reading, and kept seeing the encouragement, I reached a breaking point, and something within me just snapped. I told myself, “No! You need to stop doing this to yourself! NOW.” I found a fighting spirit inside of myself that I never realized I had, and I used it that day to, almost literally, kill the negative mindsets that had been keeping me prisoner for the majority of my life. I launched myself into a furious tirade against all the negative bullshit I had been inflicting upon myself, and vowed to never allow that part of myself to ever be in control again.
  I say in no uncertain terms that reading this book has literally saved my life.
  This is not a magic cure-all spell book that will instantly make people successful in life or fix all your problems. Nothing like that exists. But this book was the push I needed to finally decide to fight back against the parts of myself that were destroying my ability to live. Even though the book’s main purpose is to help you become more successful with women, it can do so much more, if you allow it to.
  These last few days have been like a rebirth. Things feel possible to me that never used to before. I look at women now not with a sense of shame in myself, but instead as normal, everyday attainable people who I am capable of attracting. You know, women aren’t like these little magical fairy creatures who you need to be afraid of and cautious around, lest you risk scaring them off back into the mystical forest where they came from. They’re just PEOPLE! LOL
  However, I’d be lying to say that I don’t still have some doubts and insecurities. I still feel a little nervous sometimes about the idea of going out there to meet other people. But it’s nothing like it used to be. Really, the largest obstacles I still face right now involve becoming more comfortable with placing myself in social situations with the intention of meeting people (something I’ve never done), and also regarding certain elements of my living situation, which are both consequences of having run away from life for so long. As a result of those behaviors, I don’t have many life experiences to share or talk about, I don’t possess an active sense of adventure, and I don’t have any way of inviting women to my place, since it isn’t really “my” place.
  Now that I have the clarity to see these problems in the context of what I’ve learned in The Flow, I’m really regretting how much I’ve screwed myself over all these years by not making a life for myself. These problems are going to be very apparent to women once I start talking to them, and it’s going to make implementing the advice I’ve learned much, much harder. And to be honest, it has me a little scared about my ability to succeed.
  So, if you guys have any other advice and/or products that might be able to help me in this area of my life, I would be very willing and grateful to have your recommendations. I have a lot of faith in your abilities to help me be a better person, and I know you won’t let me down.
  Thank you all so much for what you’ve done here with The Modern Man. You’ve given me my life back, and I’ll never forget it.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Matt

    Thanks for that mate – much appreciated.

    Welcome to The Modern Man! Your life is going to get better and better each day from now on as long as you use the advice and techniques that you’ve been learning.

    About your question on what other products will help you:
    http://store.themodernman.com/better_than_a_bad_boy.html (Will give you purpose in life)
    http://store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html (Will make your life fun)

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women! I look forward to hearing a success story from you sometime soon!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andrew

  Hi Dan

  Just thought I’d fire in here to success stories and post some stuff about how I am doing so far. I’m reading the flow over and over again to get it in my mind, while also starting to practice in the field with the material.

  I’m also starting to listen to the conversation examples, which is all awesome stuff; trying to fix my mindset as I have an awful tendency to live in the past and not be in the moment. A thing that is really helping as well is I am noting down all the things I am doing, what I have achieved, what I need to still work on etc like you said to do.

  So couple of examples below of playful banter:

  So the other day I was in at the physiotherapy to get some exercises for my knee. I was ushered in by a good looking fit female physio. As soon as I walked in the door I looked over, seen one of those hanging plastic skeletons and said “oh so that’s your last patient then?” She burst out laughing and said that’s what you get for being cheeky! Telling she loved it! I didn’t take it too much further as there was other physios floating about and didn’t want to embarrass her lol but had a bit more banter behind the examination curtain plus had a good look into her eyes a couple of times! I could tell she was a bit moved as she started opening up to me, speaking in a softer tone, and telling me little things about what she experiences day to day in there, and little stories about this and that, so I would say more of an interaction rather than a mundane transaction,

  The next one was at work, I was talking to a girl that works there, I’m not that interested in her sexually but the opportunity arose to have a bit of banter. We were all outside at break and the wind was blowing her hair about and she swept her hand through her hair and said my hair’s all over the place, I stopped for a minute, stood and looked at her head (with a smirk) and said “Yeah I think you really need to do something with that hair!” She looked at me with a big grin growing across her face and made a little giggly laugh. Later on at the next break she was coming back into work behind me and she said she had just been to the hairdresser to get an appointment. I said “oh so you took my advice then?” with a smirk!”

  I’m taking this process a bit at a time as I have a huge change to make to my confidence and outlook but these kind of things help me build on my success and give me a platform to take it to the next level, while affirming what I am doing and that my path of progress is the right one.

  All the best for now

  Andrew

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Andrew

    Great to hear of your progress mate. Good on you for actually using the advice and adapting it to the situations you encounter.

    The skeleton example was perfect. Would have been even better if you chatted to her as you were leaving and then went for a number or got her to add you to Facebook. “Hey, skeleton lady…I’m heading out now, but it was good meeting you. Would you like to talk again sometime outside of work?” and if she says, “Yes” give her your phone to put the number in.

    If she says something like, “Oh, I’m not supposed to give out my phone number here” just say, “Okay, add me to Facebook then” and add in, “How do I find you on Facebook?”

    About the hair example: You could have also been a bit more charming and said, “Don’t worry – you always look great, even when your hair is messed up by the wind.” See: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-be-charming.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Alan

  I have learned a lot from your Better Than a Bad Boy program.

  Being a man of purpose is so important. We have so many distractions and so many things to take us away from our true vision, that finding focused and determined people is RARE. So when people meet these men (or women), I have found that they stick to them like glue. Ever since exercising masculine discipline and purpose of direction I notice I have more friends than ever. I spent two years of my college career with my ladder on the wrong side of the wall, now I am so glad that I have a chance to turn it all around again.

  I started working out, I started to build my own business in my spare time, I started to take my school work more seriously, I started to take myself less seriously, I started to be less up tight, I started to actually enjoy life and decrease anxiety. I started to live for ME. Not for other people.

  Ever since I actually started living with purpose and direction and acting like an alpha male, things have gotten so much better for me. I have a lot more people who are interested in me. I have a lot of women who want me to talk to them. I have friends’ girlfriends giving me “that look” when I am in their presence. It is just an incredibly good way to live. Every day I wake up and look at it as a new challenge to be a self-actualized male and I look forward to what it will bring.

  Thank you so much Dan. You really are changing lives.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Alan

    Awesome!!

    You deserve all the success you are experiencing now.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Pranav

  Dan,
  How are you mate!!? Guess what? My confidence is so strong now that becoming a problem lol! Seriously though, my level of confidence has reached borderline arrogance and it’s a little off-putting in an environment where most of the people I work with are female. My female friends and random hotties I meet are LOVING it!
  But what should I do now, at work, so I don’t alienate my co-workers?
  My boss suggested give positive reinforcement when I get advice or help from them.
  Is this because they need my approval because of my level confidence?

  Cheers
  Pranav

  PS Sorry about the SUPER-long first success story mate hahaha! Have a good one 😀

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Pranav

    Yes, your boss is right.

    At your level of confidence, you need to actively make people feel good around you by giving them compliments and thanking them for little things.

    Try to ease back a little bit so you don’t actually become arrogant.

    Remember: Be confident, but be a good guy who loves and appreciates other people. Don’t become a confident guy who looks down on others.

    Cheers
    Dan

• José Manuel

  Hello Dan

  It’s been a long journey of mine which started more than one year ago.
  My journey started out of a break up that ripped my heart and shacked all my life.
  Your advice, support and programs soon became the center of my life and because it is so solid and accurate, it helped me to get back on track during all the painful recovery process.
  Now I’m happy to say that it is in my true nature awakened a true sense of natural masculinity that keeps going.
  In the dating scene I’m able to take numbers, attract, pull, a and go on dates with almost any time I go out, and it feels so good.
  Now having a purpose is a clear priority in my life and I am digging deeper into mine, and I realize how vitally important is to work on my passions and dreams, whereas when you introduced how important being a man of purpose it is, I was so years behind I almost couldn’t grasp on it. I can see how I’ve progressed years ahead and the best is that I have the emotional and mental resourcess that I know will allow me not to fall so harsh again and instead aproach life with joy and with the right mindset to overcome future difficulties life throws at me.
  I decided not to focus on getting my ex back because she lives in u.s.a and i live in spain. Tut the abundance of woman I’m enjoying keep me with a high sense of worthiness and gratefulness not because of them, but because I was able to turn back the hardest situation I experienced into a transformation journey of success, passion, purpose, and joy that has only started and as you say, just keeps getting better and better. Around me I see all those guys fooled by the lies of media and sociaty whereas I breath this sense of freedom because I understand and the results just keep getting better and more frequent as genuine proof of that.
  For all that, I want to thank you, and I’m happy to see that you have taken the engagement path with a great woman that you love.

  One question if you will: given my situation, would you keep trying here and there to get in touch with your ex? I don’t need her but I appreciate how meaningul it’s been for my personal growth and don’t close doors to something happen if our paths cross. Given that I already choosed the system, do you think it’s okay to call her and ask to skype just to chat and bring in my true, genuine, “new me”, and keep contact that way? (I already used the one last time thing but as it’s in distance and it’s been such a long time I think more of reaching to provoque an interaction and just let my real “natural cool self” do the job by default).

  I’ll see you at the top, Mr. Bacon 😉

  THANK YOU

  – José

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey José

    Great to hear of your progress! Well done.

    About contacting your overseas ex via Skype from time to time show her the new, improved version of you – YES.

    Watch this: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-accept-a-friendship-with-your-ex.html

    When you respark some of her feelings via Skype and by using some of the techniques from Get Your Ex Back Super System, she will most likely be open to catching up with you if you visit her country. You could then catch up for a drink and lead things to sex.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Zombor

  Hi Dan

  Your Flow book is extremely well collected, well reasoned and well explained (worth every penny).

  It made me understand that things don’t work how they work because women are assholes, but because thats just the nature of female behaviour, or programming if you will.

  After a lot of trying, I actually gave up on women, simply got tired of it and I felt I have no more energy. Certainly I was doing everything wrong, and its not the “doing” itself, its the place where I was coming from when I approached them.

  A lot of dating experts say “don’t be needy”. The reason for being needy and desperate, and how to get out of it is probably worth another book. How to be not needy, when you have no tools, you have no patterns of behaviour other than being needy. Like tell a mosquito not to suck blood, but eat bread instead. There is a lot of ego thing going on being needy, one’s personality is not grounded, its like an egg with no shell, everything hurts and thats where you need to start from. What I missed from many dating advices is getting down to the roots of needyness and despair. Telling “don’t be needy” is just not how it works. It takes a lot of character building first to get out of it and what I especially like about your book is that you actually offer something in exchange to release from the cramp of needyness.

  I have never found anyone explaining so well, how to turn the whole game around.

  Thanks for writing this book man, I feel lucky to have found it.

  Zombor

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Zombor

    Thanks for much for your positive review of The Flow.

    I’m glad to have been able to have made such a difference for you. Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Adam Thiry

  Alright Dan, I just started reading the flow book that I purchased and keep your fingers crossed for me man, I am going to forget everything I have ever tried in the past and treat these suggestions like my bible. I am 28 and never have had a girlfriend, so my skills are rock bottom lol. So wish me luck man, I will follow this to the letter, I can not get any worse after all

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Adam

    Awesome – great to have you onboard here at The Modern Man.

    All you need to do is learn the techniques and begin to try them and you will see how differently women respond to you. It just gets easier and easier the more you use the techniques.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• paul

  Dan thank you very much man for the modern relationship and the flow. Ever since i purchased them i tell you man im now somebody probably, the person i would never have been.

  I can now get phone numbers from 60 per cent of the girls I talk to. Approaching women is now like a walk in the park as you said. i used and the technics and mastered them Its so liberating to know that I now have that power you talked about. sorry I have generalized but I now have so much genuine confidence but taking things to the next level like meeting again has not been easy because I already had two relationships before that wanted my attention.

  Big up to your programmes. I have a situation Dan. Im sorry its a bit long. I want to give you details as much as i can for you to advice me correctly. When i purchased the modern relationship i was already im a relationship with an amazing girlfriend ,beautiful, probably because i wasnt that clueless with woman naturally before.

  She is so much in love with me but one day during the early days of our relationship ,about 6 weeks,she set up a meeting with her ex behind my back. Instinctively i new something was wrong and i walked to the place where we used to hang out and i caught her red handed with him. I walked up to them greeted them and there was awkward silence. She did not introduce me and i got mad and she said she was breaking up with him.

  I left them and she called out that she wanted to see me. Later about 20 min She came and tried to explain but i walked away and i said it was over because none of her explanations made sense to me. Setting up a meeting for break up. That day and during the night She called countless times and sent countless texts saying she wasnt cheating and she couldnt live without me. I ignored all that but I wanted to understand so the following day we met she said some things along the lines of ‘someone had told me that the best way to move on from someone is to tell him face to face’and i forgave her and decided to move on with her.

  Since then my trust started to waver upto now. Another day when she was waiting for me another ex stopped by and she entertained him and i saw it again and i said i wanted a break,man she cries. Our relationship and sex life started to feel boring to me and we decided to make things up and i told her something concerning some people who want me to get laid and how im turning them down. And she said her ex again(third one ,the one who took her virginity)is nagging her. I want your help man this relationship is now too stressful for me because I may find myself making up things of her seeing people in my mind whenever we are not together.

  On Monday were together and her phone rang and she said ‘helo’ three consecutive times before hanging up without giving the other person a chance to talk. We are getting into the seventh month. I know I have my shortcomings as well but she is the one who knows better Do you advice me to continue? Why? How do i leave her without hurting her because we are now so attached coz i was being a man with what you teach? Im 22 and She is 19.

  Ps. When i met her i was in an early distant relationship with another girl somewhere but both parties never caught me. We are not yet that attached with this distant one because of the distance but we are in love and we kissed once.no sex yet.she is 17

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Paul

    I’m glad you’re enjoying The Flow and The Modern Relationship.

    About your situation: She may not be ready for a serious relationship at this point in her life. It’s a tough situation that you’re in because if you leave her, no doubt her ex’s will swarm and begin hooking up with her.

    So, you need to decide whether you are going to be with her for life, or if this is just another young relationship that you will have.

    If you want to be with her for life, you need to give her an ultimatum (e.g. based on what you’ve done so far, I’m going to ask you to steer clear of your ex’s and block them out of your life, or we are finished).

    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-keep-your-relationship-strong.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/5_stages_of_a_relationship.html

    If you think that she will just be another girlfriend, I’d recommend that you begin hooking up with other women on the side, because it’s only a matter of time before your girlfriend might say, “I have something to tell you. Don’t get angry, but I’ve been seeing my ex” or something similar.

    http://www.themodernman.com/dating/dating-multiple-women.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• James

  Dude, I’ve used all the techniques in Better than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power, and parts of the Flow. I approached a hot woman at work who seemed on the surface to be the bitchy masculine type. I knew from Better than a Bad Boy these types are the easiest to have. I remained the confident alpha male and began to look up and down her body while tilting my head back and to the side and finishing with a grin. She came on to me quickly. She said I seem ‘real’, unlike the other men she has dated who put on a fake facade. At first she tried to be in control and dominate me, but that melted away because I remained the man. She started to slowly relax into the feminine role, something she has ever done. I’m now making the big decisions and letting her relax. I am passing her tests. It’s all about the way I interact with women that determines their attraction level to me. I am having sex now no later than the second date.

  Now only has your products helped me be better with women but it’s also improved other aspects of my life. The confidence and self esteem I lost for 20 years has finally resurfaced with the mindsets you teach. It’s nice being a ‘real man’. I owe that to you guys!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey James

    Awesome!

    You are the perfect example of what happens when a man realizes how easy women are to pick up and then (most importantly), acts on that wisdom.

    You are now “the man” and women are going to want you as long as you continue being the man. It really is as easy as you have discovered it to be.

    Thank you for posting up your success story and being an inspiration to other men.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women and in life! It only gets better from there.

    Cheers
    Dan

• M.Y

  Getting my ex back was a bit more complicated than other guys because of her abused past, but your system definitely worked for me.

  We were spending 1 day & evening a weekend together recently having deep love making. She then rang tonight saying we were falling into our old pattern and maybe we should break up again, but I changed her mind based on my newfound confidence and understanding of how to really connect with a woman’s mind.

  Anyway she ended up saying she loved me multiple times and wants to be with me & address our niggles was the outcome.

  In conclusion I wanted to thank you Dan as all your advice including the mistakes that guys make etc. has really helped me a lot. Thank you Dan, you’re making a lot of couples very happy with your programmes.

  Kind regards
  M.Y

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey M.Y

    Awesome to hear mate! Congrats on getting your ex back.

    It sounds like you’ve done a really good job of improving your ability to connect with her and attract her. Well done!

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ziyad Khan

  Hi Dan, thanks for all your advice in helping me with my choice of women like you did. I have had women approach me and hit on me instead of the other way around lately and it is all thanks to your book and techniques. Thanks for all your help Dan in just 6 weeks since I emailed you.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Ziyad

    Thanks for sharing more of your success!

    Sounds like you’re having a great time. It only gets better from there! Enjoy!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ziyad Khan

  Thanks Dan for your advice on how to get beautiful women attracted to me. I have never had problems talking to women and having girlfriends but your book has also helped me get out of the friend zone and not get back into it ever again. You are the best!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Ziyad

    Thanks for sharing your success!!

    Enjoy your relationship with her! I’m sure you deserve it.

    Cheers
    Dan

• 狄仁鵬

  I’ve been reading your book the Flow after noticing that I was being cornered into the “friend zone in several of my relationships”. For about a semester, I scoured the internet for any tips or tricks that I could use to get a girlfriend. Naturally, none of these sources worked. However, when I found the Modern Man, I was intrigued by the use of mindsets to change your perspective on the sexual courtship of women. I decided to buy the Flow, and read through it like a math book, taking copious notes after each page. I was extremely excited and felt very powerful with all of this newly acquired information, but when I attempted to approach women at my school, I could not surmount my approach anxiety. After beating myself up over these consistent failures, I finally decided that I was going to not fake my confidence, but simply be confident and never look back at my insecure self. That evening, at a school dance, I asked four of the hottest women in the school out to dance, and because of my confident mindset, they each said yes and had a good fun time. I finally understand what it means to be confident, and how it feels to be able to choose my women.
  Thank you Dan,
  I owe this to you

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey 狄仁鵬

    Mate, you are a perfect example of what happens when the advice is used, rather than just understood. Well done!

    Congratulations and enjoy the great times ahead with women! 🙂

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jaques

  Hello Dan mate – bought your book and within two days (of application) things have done a complete ‘180’ (in a good way). I can’t thank you enough. I’ll spread The Modern Man word in England.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jaques

    Welcome to The Modern Man!

    Great to hear of your instant success. You deserve all the credit for actually applying the advice. Well done! Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Wayne

  Hey Dan, this stuff is absolute mint mate, bought your book 2 days ago, built my confidence up, used today for 1st time WOW. Did myself a test before met up with ex.

  1st woman-bus pulls up, me pretended to run for it.
  me-hey what’s happenin
  her-hi
  me-going far
  her-she told me where she was going, what about you
  me-hear, there, maybe all the way
  her-got a smile & laughter
  me-got to go (a little disappointment in tone), see you around (with a small smile)
  her-yeah sure
  She was about late 50’s

  2nd women (clothes store assistants)-hey whats goin on,
  behind desk- not much at moment
  other woman-i’m just starting, she’s been here since early
  me-if I have all them, I’ll risk temptation with all that (I spotted the sweets)
  both-laughing, giggling, 1 of them says me too
  me-temptation comes in a lot of forms
  both-laughter
  me-have to go, things to do ( a little disappointment in tone again).

  Another one, I get of bus, she sitting on her own
  me-hey what’s happenin
  her-hi, just waiting for me friend
  me-you look a bit young to be out of school
  her-i’m 17, how old did you think was 11 (a little smile)
  me-no, just a little bit older than that
  her-laughter
  me-got to go, maybe we’ll see each other again.

  What I tried was the different age groups and see how I was like with them, can’t believe how easy it is

  Next the big 1, EX
  me-hey what’s going on
  her-hi how you doing Wayne
  me-asked about the breakup
  her-told me nothing between us, we’ll can still friends
  me-so your telling me there’s no spark
  her-yeah
  then I turned it around
  me-well we should’ve split on Bonfire Night then
  her-why
  me-I would buy sparkles (bang broke the ice again)
  her-laughter
  me-come with me
  her-no
  me-I’m taking you somewhere
  her-where we going
  me-that’s for me know, no stopping at work to see you mates
  We get stopped about 2 minutes later, surveyors for an electric company not men, WOMEN- blonde & 2 dark
  blonde ask her who pays your bills, ex says her parents comes to me.
  blonde-how do you pay your bills-direct debit, cash and other ways of paying
  me-have a guess
  blonde-you look like direct debit sort of person
  me-maybe, so you like double d’s
  blonde-aw’ don’t do that
  me-do what
  blonde-answer like that
  me-right you got me, or have you
  blonde-no, you more like a cash person
  me-what can I say, you got me on this one, but you were right the first time
  blonde-obviously your a MR
  me-am I, hadn’t notice
  blonde-you could be a DR, Lord
  me-first time I ever been called a Lord
  blonde-first name
  me-so I told me first name
  blonde-surname
  me-have a guess
  blonde-she said something like Edward
  me-you close, but might want go a little further in, it doesn’t start with a vowel
  she gets to letter, but I let her go past
  me-aw’ you’ve gone past it
  she gets to letter again
  me-hey she got
  blonde-you not going to make me go through again
  me-could do
  blonde-oh no
  me-give a name that’s common
  blonde-Jonson
  me-you getting close
  blonde-how close
  me-got a few letters, but more Welsh
  blonde-Jensen
  me-gone a bit too many, Tom and I day Welsh
  she got it straight away
  I did the same thing with my mobile, if there was one number that went in twice together, before she guest it, me-you’ll have to double it
  As she was my details into her tablet, I went over to talk the 2 dark women (like 4/5yards away) knowing the blonde will have to follow me to get my signature
  Started chatting away, blonde comes over
  blonde-can I get your signature now Wayne
  me-I suppose so, got to keep the boss happy
  one dark woman said to her, you fell for the double d one
  me-hey, hey you can’t say you wouldn’t of fall it I bet
  all 3-laughing
  I get hug from the blonde, she even said that’s the most fun she’d had all day
  My ex was there watching all this- laughing, going bright red. I did say to her a few times-Don’t you start laughing, this has nothing to do with (jokingly way)
  I felt more comfortable & confident talking to my ex, just after that one interaction with the 3 women above
  As we’re walking up to the supermarket (have sliding doors and barriers, had a game using them) I won a few let her win one, then after here to the park – let her win, pretending that I didn’t know way
  me-come on, on the swings
  her-no don’t like the swings
  me-come on, on the swings
  her-no, just said don’t like them
  me-come on, naughty girl, one swing
  her-one swing
  she was on that swing for longer than one
  me-should get you some pink handcuffs
  her-why
  me-to stop you sliding off it
  while we’re leaving the park, she even mentioned the blonde
  me-we should catch up again soon
  her-yeah, I’ll contact you
  me-cool
  While I was talking to the blonde, I felt a bad vibe, not from me, from other blokes just walking past and one side of my brain was telling me-you shouldn’t be saying that to her, but the other side said-keep on going, keep on going, keep ongoing

  I’ve lost count with how women I’ve spoken to today, some with kids, even a Spanish woman, who didn’t understand a lot of English, used my hands

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Wayne

    Wow, nice work man! You seem like you’re almost a natural with this stuff already.

    Awesome to hear that you were able to turn your ex’s attraction around and get a spark back between you. From here, just keep believing in yourself and actively making your ex feel attracted and then go through the rest of the reconciliation process and you will be back together.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Antony

  Hi Dan.

  I think that you are the best coach in regard to dating and relationships. I read your Blog every day. Three months now I have started to have a platonic romantic flirt with a woman. The flirt is platonic because she always gives me mixed signals of interest. Actually, she was in the same workplace with me and recently she left the job. All this time and during the flirt with this woman I tried to follow your advices, especially I tried to look and act confident and not like a needy guy. But, when I asked her to go out for a drink, she politely send me an unclear response. I got mad because she genuinely tried to extract my sympathy and attention and after that she almost rejected to hang out with me.

  Ok, after that, my initial thoughts were hmm “she is trying to boost her ego and her self – confidence, playing with me and my emotions”. I ignored her completely, and she started again to send me messages, through facebook, pretending that she is still interested, and that she want to have contact with me. Always, she start a ‘briefly’ conversation with me and after some minutes (3 or 4) she always stop the conversation, always finding silly excuses. Why she is doing this to me? She wants to breaks my nerves, she has emotions for me and low self esteem and thus she react in this way, or she has mental issues? I don’t know, I am completely confused. Please Dan, you are the most responsible to give me your opinnion about all that.

  God Bless You

  Antony

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Antony

    Thanks for the compliment. Much appreciated.

    It sounds like you’re not making her feel enough attraction and are making this mistake:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/do-you-make-this-mistake-with-women.html

    To fix that mistake and actually get her to feel sexually attracted and want to be with you, the answers can only be found in my eBook The Flow or the audio version The Flow on Audio:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-on-audio.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Matthew

  Hi Dan,

  My ex gf broke up with me three months ago and I have purchased Get your ex back super system. I watched all the videos. Me and her have met up. I was expecting for a lunch only, but it turns out we have spent a whole day together. We had dinner together and she ended up visiting my pet at my house. But she didn’t stay long because of my parents. I sent her back home afterwards, and I apologised about the break up, and said ‘I do love her, I do have feelings and I do miss her, but I accepted the breakup.’ She then hugged me for long, and she looked up to me with watery eyes. I kissed her for one sec afterwards. I wasn’t expecting she will let me kiss. She then went back to her living places and I went to catch a public transport. We did message few times afterwards, but only few lines of conversations. I asked her if she is free to meet up again, she said early next month. She needs to go to school and work at the same time. She is pretty busy I guess. I was wondering what I should do next. She replies me if I ask her a question such as about meeting up. If I share some interesting stuff that I saw on the web to her. She wont reply. This is confusing me and wondering what I should do. Thank you so much.

  Matthew

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Matthew

    Great work so far! Well done and congrats!!!

    About what to do from here: Make her jealous, worried and anxious by using the Facebook Photo Fun method. She will then want to see you sooner.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Bill

  What do you recommend to attract or creat a spark in a woman you already know?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Bill

    The best programs for that situation are Better Than a Bad Boy or The Flow:
    http://store.themodernman.com/better_than_a_bad_boy.html
    http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html

    Here’s some free advice for you too:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-date-a-friend.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/do-you-make-this-mistake-with-women.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Deep

  HI Dan,
  My colleague keeps asking me stupid question “How am i looking? and i tell her that she is looking beautiful. She also complains about people checking her out and all i do is try to calm her down.After Reading The Flow i realised that she was just playing with me and i shouldn’t take her seriously( at least not all the time), but i don’t know what exactly i should be doing or saying. Please help me and tell what would you have done in this situation.
  Waiting for your reply.
  Thank You for writing the wonderful book The Flow.
  -Deep

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Deep

    Great to hear of your progress in understanding her real reasons for saying it.

    As for what you should do next: Go through the rest of The Flow with her! 🙂

    If you are unsure about getting her to meet up with you for a date, just arrange what I call a Half Date (don’t call it that when you suggest it to her). More info on the Half Date here:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone-with-a-woman.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/secret_weapon_first_dates.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kev

  Hi Dan,
  I will try to be short with this. My gf dumped me in a way I don’t want to describe here. I adm an honest and straight-forward guy and I really am my true self all the time. I was so devastated that I was reading all I could find to get a hold on the situation and then you have it. The no contact rule! I was sceptical first but gave it a try. She contacted me a few times and even reminded me about the event I was interested in going to and she would also be going. I IGNORED her since this way week 2 of NC. This was so not like me and I think she felt that I’m putting on an act. After NC we bumped into each other a few times and everything seemed fine but apart from these encounters I could not get to her. But she would not want to talk to me at all. This was really crap. Then I found your videos on youtube and they are truly golden. The things you advice seem natural and honest (like you can say you love her, not playing games etc). I understood that forgiveness is the first thing I need to work on. Following other advice I would not know it. Actually I got to talk to her by asking her a favour and arranging a meetup although she was very reluctant. I know what I did wrong I will apologize and ask her if she can let this go for her own sake as you said. Hope this works and actually I have good feelings about it.

  Thank you Dan! even for a sensible guy it’s really tough not to get confused in a situation like this and I’m really glad I found your channel even after the stupid NC I did

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kev

    I’m glad to have been able to help.

    There’s a lot of dumb advice out there about getting an ex back. 99% of the people giving the advice can’t even attract women by choice (i.e. they’ve only ever gotten lucky), so they have no frikken idea and are ruining the chances of getting an ex back for 1,000s of guys across the world.

    Don’t worry – I will be making a lot of ex back videos next year so guys can find me. It’s my duty as someone who actually knows how to get a woman back for real. Stay tuned…

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jon

  What are the chances that the techniques described in “The Flow” will work for men who are short in stature. I am 5’5, 47, divorced with 2 kids. not bad looking. I have met tons of women through online dating in the past year using recent pics of myself but I never get a second date? I’m not overly nervous when we meet and we have a free flowing conversation. She doesn’t seem bored and doesn’t try to bail from date.
  But I usually get a message the next day that says she’s not attracted to me !!!
  What in the hell is going on here?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jon

    Online dating is the WORST option for short guys. Here’s why: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/meeting-women-online.html

    You need to talk to women in person. See:
    http://www.themodernman.com/dating/do-women-like-short-men.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/8-personality-traits-that-naturally-attract-women.html

    Yes, The Flow will work for you because it’s not about hiding behind an online dating profile. It’s about getting laid the easy way – talk to a woman in person, attract her instantly, get her details to call and set up a date or kiss her and have sex with her the same day/night you meet her.

    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dan Bacon

  Comments are now closed.

  If you have a success story to share, please send it to me here https://store.themodernman.com/contact_us.html and I will post it up on this page.

  I look forward to reading your success story! 😀

  Cheers
  Dan

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