Dating Power is an advanced, start-to-finish guide from approach to kissing and sex on the first night, or to the first phone call, date, bedroom and into a relationship.

The advanced techniques work by getting a woman to chase you and try to pick you up during an interaction, rather than you trying to pick her up.

Recorded in front of a live audience, the 8 hour Dating Power seminar also includes important body language demonstrations and audience questions.

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“The Dating power product is gold and the personal examples of Dan, Ben and Stu [Edit: Customer is referring to the audio bonus that comes with Dating Power where Dan, Ben and Stu shared 28, uncensored stories of how they’ve been using Dating Power techniques to enjoy their choice of women] are absolutely PURE GOLD. Amazing!

I’m already seeing results by dating the kinds of women that I previously couldn’t even get past a minute of conversation with.

Now women are keeping conversations going with ME and trying to pick ME up. I am seeing what you guys explain about having the power. It is UNREAL to say the least.

There are many things in Dating power that helped me which I can’t state here otherwise this email would be too long to read. Just wanted to say thanks and tell you what I have been experiencing! Thanks, SJ”

“Hey Dan,

I wanted to follow up a few months after getting some of your programs.

I watched Dating Power, Mastery Methods and Mindsets, and Confessions of a Natural: Interview Series.

Dating Power and the confessions series really outlined how to uniquely apply the concepts from all other courses.

I’m an average guy and through what you teach, I now have my pick of who I date.

Recently I began dating a Brazilian-German woman who looks like a runway model.

Using what I learned has made her melt like butter on a hot waffle.

You weren’t kidding about how happy a woman becomes by relaxing into her own femininity. She had tears in her eyes just when I hugged her.

Your programs teach us men how to become better and make women happier. Everyone benefits. I want to thank you guys forever! You have changed my life so much. Jeremy”

“I got your Dating Power program a couple of months ago and have been having sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends.

I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me! Josh”

“I regret not getting started earlier guys!

I bought your Dating Power videos and got laid the 1st w/end I went out to party. Pulled a tall hot blonde who was with a group of her friends, both guys and girls in the group.

3 months later now and I have an amazing girlfriend and couldn’t be happier.

You guys rock. I’m sure The Modern Man will continue rising in popularity online. I’m glad I got in early before other guys found out about this stuff.

Rock on guys! Paul”

“Your Dating Power video seminar is the best collection of techniques for pick up that I’ve ever been able to find.

I’ve bought plenty of stuff from the seduction community but none of it worked for me consistently.

Someone suggested to me that I go natural and then I started looking for the dating gurus that teach natural game. A few people mentioned you guys so I checked out your site.

Out of everything that I have bought to learn how to pick up women Dating Power is by far the best.

After having sex with a string of women during the last three months I have chosen a sexy girl for my girlfriend and we are now in an exclusive relationship.

That is what I was looking for all along and your advice showed me how to make it happen.

The best thing about your style of pick up is that you don’t teach guys to be something that they are not.

I finally felt like I could be myself and be appreciated by women for that.

It was such a freeing feeling. The awkardness I used to feel when talking to women just disappeared.

I am now recommending you guys to other guys that I know from the seduction community who are still unable to get results. JM”

“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.

I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.

Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.

So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.

I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.

I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.

I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.

I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.

So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.

I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.

I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”

“Dan – All your stuff works period. I’ve used your products for the past few years. I got the flow, dating power and better than a bad boy. For anybody considering this stuff. BUY. IT.

This happened to ME today.

I joined a new gym. While standing at the counter doing the paper work I staggered my stance. Bored really. Decided to use the T.I. technique just cause. And two incredibly hot chicks went out of their way to say hi to me. Individually. One by one. At different times.

I was shocked because I wasn’t trying to approach or pick up. I thought they were talking to the guy who worked there. I figured they knew him. But no. They made it clear. They were talking to me. When I said hi. Smiled. I had to practically chase them off to take my gym card mug shot.

The techniques just work. I was just practicing in a vacuum. And that’s been happening a lot lately. Women literally fall all over me. I mean, I’m using my body right. I got my confident smirk just right. I’m looking them in the eye just right. I approach. I’m funny. The escalations just fall into place.

Success has been this. Had a hot girlfriend. We broke up. Got a new hot girlfriend. Then we broke up too. Went back to the first girlfriend. She moved away. Then I moved away with ANOTHER hot older woman. Now I’ve moved back, and joined a new gym.

My point is this. Beautiful women are everywhere, waiting, HOPING to meet a man who understands what the modern man teach. Most guys don’t know this and I am thankful for that because it means no competition, lol! But I do hope more guys know so you guys can become successful. I am just enjoying myself while they don’t, lol! Ryan”

“Hi Dan

I had read the flow and did have some success approaching women and getting numbers and sometimes having sexual encounters, but dating power is what took everything to another level for me.

It helped fill in some missing gaps I had about body language and how to stand confidently when talking to a woman. All those things and the advice on sticking in the interaction longer really helped me.

I’m now in a relationship with a model that I met simply by attending a modelling event with a friend and going around talking to random women.

Most of them literally welcomed me into conversations because of who I have become since learning from you, Ben and Stu. They sensed my confidence and coolness. It was like I was living a totally different life.

I salute you fellas! You guys deserve a lot of credit for the quality of advice you provide. It has been life changing for me. Brad”

“I have been single most of my life, and while I understand complex concepts, women was the one area in life where I just had no clue.

There was obviously many attempts most which failed and it made no sense at all.

I stumbled upon The Modern Man after trying many others and for some reason it just made sense to try it out, even though it was the first option where I had to pay money to get the information, something which I usually avoid on the internet.

I started with Dating Power, 2 years ago and it was a brilliant starter product, it opened a whole new world to me.

Soon after this I decided I wanted to learn ballroom/latin dancing, and it was here where I started my adventure meeting many women, instead of going to bars which is still not something I am crazy about. You don’t have to guess, the advice just worked.

I had multiple ladies falling in love with me every time I would go out dancing.

Dating power also slowly changed the way I was at work and with friends, and people have regularly told me that they don’t what it is, but I have changed for the better.

Recently I acquired Better than a Bad boy product, I truly wanted it, even though I was already going great with women, and again, it was worth it.

It does more than help you with women, it teaches you things that make all aspects of life better.

With advice from this product, I am for the 1st time in a relationship longer than a few dates, and I can tell by the look on my girlfriend every time she comes over, she is still madly in love with me, and I am not even trying to convince her, I just enjoy the time together with her, and somehow she falls deeper and deeper in love with me still!

Short story, the products are amazing, and it teaches guys things, that all men should know.

I believe the things I learned in both products, are essential to enjoying your dating life to the fullest. David”

“Hi Dan,

I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend.

I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow!

I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did.

The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew.

I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me. There was 1 out of the 4 who was perfect for me, so I had to let 3 of them down gently by saying I wasn’t available and I’m now in a relationship with the girl I liked the most.

Even though I am still learning, I am very positive about the future. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made in the past that’s for sure. Thanks again! Sean”

“This is the best investment I’ve ever made in myself. I’d already dated 3 women within a few weeks after watching this and am now getting quite serious with one woman who was the pick of the bunch. Can’t thank you guys enough – great work. Christopher”

“I have been studying the dating power seminar and have achieved great results in less than a month!!! I met a cool girl last week, followed your steps and techniques, and now have a new relationship.

My ex-girlfriend whom I am friends with, all of a sudden notices a good change in me, and wants to catch up with me on the weekend. Both girls are paying for stuff and can’t get enough of me it seems.

Thanks Dan, Ben, and Stu, your teachings on approaching, flirting, and then taking the lead have led me to impressive results. Eric”

“I watched Dating Power 2 months ago and everything has changed for me.

At the start I was a little apprehensive to use your stuff, but when I did I was amazed to see that it worked right away and that built my confidence immediately.

A few weeks ago I met a girl at the grocery store, we chatted for a few mins and I took down her number.

She is the hottest girl I’ve ever had sex with, but that’s not the point I want to tell you guys…what I want to tell you the most is that I think she already loves me.

She calls me every 2 days and wants to see me and tomorrow she’s coming over to cook me dinner – just like you said would happen if I asked.

You’ve really helped me change and become the guy I knew I could be with women. Thanks! Peter”

“Informative knowledge that is innovative, dynamic and unlike anything else I’ve seen before.

The guys are brilliant in their insights into interacting with women with knowledge that can help every guy out there. Justin”

“I really liked the content and the delivery style as it didn’t seem canned and cheesy, rather more practical and real.

I liked the inner game concepts taught by Dan. I liked the Body Language demonstrations and knowledge from Ben. Also liked the Transaction/Interaction concept delivered by Stu. You guys are the best in the world at this for sure. Ian”

Excellent. Dan, Ben and Stu are obviously very dedicated. They excellent communicators and thoroughly knowledgeable, in particular with their ability to communicate at a level to help beginners.

Of particular benefit has been their discussion of presence and breaking difficult concepts to simple examples while emphasizing adaptation. FANTASTIC SEMINAR! John N”

“When you said that success with women begins with the right information, you blew away any doubt that success is possible for me.
Also, learning to ‘love women for who they are’ is something that I’ve never heard or thought of before and I thank you for teaching it as I know it will make an immense difference. HM”

“I wasn’t sure what to anticipate from the seminar, I half expected to hear a live version of the Modern Man E-book. What I received however, was far from it.

After that one day, I feel like the flood gates have opened and the women who’ve been waiting patiently are now pouring into my life. What’s more, I can even see the turning points in other people’s interactions and know exactly where they will end based on the guy’s behavior.

Without giving away too much, the biggest thing to help me was the section on ‘Loving women for who they are’.

Without knowing it, I’d been suppressing all the behavior in me that creates success and thinking I was some sort of gentleman for doing it.

I have also been blown away by the reactions I get from women when I use the ‘Power Moves’ from the seminar.

In all honesty I was afraid that being ‘The Man” meant I would have to be the one to take control and make decisions. But from the moment I took their words to heart and put their teaching into practice, I haven’t EVER looked back.

I don’t just feel in control with women, I feel in control in every area of my life now.

I used to go out with my mates and watch them get up and dance with strangers and feel frozen. Or spend my whole night trying to talk myself into going over and talking to this one girl I couldn’t stop staring at but end leaving and feeling angry at myself for the rest of the week. Now…things have changed.

That’s another thing, I was surprised by the magnitude of the results compared to how simple and tangible the things we were taught to do were. Everything they taught was pure and uncomplicated.

They teach you how to be yourself, and that’s not something a person can fully understand until they’ve come out of the seminar.
Best way to sum it up, it’s like that saying: “Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. Jack D”

“Hey Dan,

A lot has happened since the seminar. I have gone out with a few girls since, and have currently got a girlfriend. Let me give you the info…

About three weeks after the seminar I picked up a girl at a nightclub and ended up having a one-night stand with her. That’s as far as it went, as I very soon found out that she had emotional problems which I decided were not worth getting involved in.

After that hiccup, I went out with three more girls and did not really get anywhere with them but did see common traits in each of these girls which made me feel more comfortable, as I could at least see patterns in their behavior which gave me confidence in dealing with other girls.

One of the things at the seminar which really helped me was Ben’s explanation of being present i.e. being focused on a girl, paying attention to what she says and how she says it with her body language. I made an effort to look at the signals that she was giving out, and instead of getting frustrated with not understanding what these signals meant, I stored them in the memory bank and kept an eye out for similar signals with other girls that I talked to.

Slowly but surely I could see what signals or words a girl would use to either continue or terminate a conversation.

Now let me tell you about how I met my current girlfriend…

I was at the “Mind, body and spirit” section of the Borders bookshop at Jam factory, and I noticed her looking at a book I had seen earlier. I made a casual remark about the book to her, established rapport, and from there we just hit it off really well.

We had a coffee afterwards, and then planned to meet up for a date. We went on about 3 dates together before things got intimate, and we have been together since then. It all seems a bit too easy now, but only time will tell.

I am still going out with my mates to the nightclubs, acting as their wingman for women that they are interested in, and it gives me good practice in talking/flirting with girls. As always, I am still learning about the different signals they give off and how to read them. Cheers Jim”

“Hey guys

Firstly, following the seminar my confidence in approaching women improved a little – and then improved dramatically as I put your teachings into practice.

I was able to speak with women very easily, and see amazing success – from having never been able to approach women I went to being able to approach, flirt with and usually take it a bit further any time I wanted to literally in the space of a couple of weeks.

So, very quickly finding myself dating several different women at any given time.

Now I’ve settled on one – gorgeous ex-model, originally from South America (Still has the accent – I love the imports!) and within two months we were living together and haven’t looked back.

What did work? There is far too much to list, but the single most important thing I learned – and practiced – was attitude. How to appear and act as an alpha male, and how to literally not attach value to the outcome of any situation.

But, the best thing wasn’t actually in dating – the boosted confidence and ability to present myself well has got me in a new (and significantly higher paying) job, which I love.

All I can say is thanks! (And I can’t say it enough!) Rick”


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Dating Power + The Flow

Dating Power + The Flow

  1. Dating Power – 8 hours of video.
      Dating Power Private Examples: Dan, Ben and Stu share 28 uncensored, personal stories of how they’ve used the Dating Power techniques to enjoy mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up, women make it obvious that they like you, women want you so much that they have sex with you on the first night or date and they chase you during the dating phase). 3 hours, 46 mins of video. $297 value.
      Dating Power Presentation Slides: 261-page ebook with all the presentation slides from the Dating Power seminar. Helps you remember what you’ve learned from the seminar and strengthens your understanding of key concepts and advice. $97 value.
  2. The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
  3. The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.

Total price: $591
Pack price: Only $427
You save: $164 (27% discount)

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Dating Mastery Pack (All Dating Products)

Dating Mastery Pack

Gives you all of our dating lessons, advice and techniques that result in you experiencing the mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up when you talk to them, women chase you when you begin dating, you always have bulletproof confidence, you always know what to say and do, you experience your choice of high quality women).

These 11 products are the culmination of Dan, Ben, and Stu’s more than 10,000 hours of mastery level dating experiences with women, as well as many years of experimentation, testing, trial and error and development prior to then.

You don’t have to go through many years of trial and error, testing and hard work all on your own to hopefully figure out the secrets we discovered about women and dating that result in the mastery level of success.

You can learn it all from us right now and begin enjoying the mastery level success with women, where women try to pick you up, chase you during the dating phase and hope that you give them a chance.

That’s what women really want when it comes to dating.

Women love to experience the excitement of truly wanting a guy, trying to impress him, hoping to get a chance with him and then being lucky enough to get that chance.

When you make a woman feel that way, she then loves and appreciates you so much more.

If that sound appealing to you, then welcome to the mastery level of success with women and dating.

Enjoy the amazing times ahead for you with women!

  1. The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
  2. The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
  3. 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend – 7 hours of audio.
      30 Day Challenge: How to date, have sex and get into a relationship with an attractive woman in 30 days or less, or quickly have casual sex with multiple attractive women. 108-page ebook. $97 value.
  4. Coaching Call Breakthroughs – 7 hours of video.
  5. Confessions of a Natural Interviews – 7 hours of audio.
  6. The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – 10 hours of audio.
      72 Conversation Starters: Quick reference guide with all of the conversation starters from The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, plus exclusive conversation starters that are only found in this bonus guide. 40-page ebook. $97 value.
  7. Text Attraction – 14 hours, 24 mins of video.
      1200 Text Examples: Quick reference guide with all texts from the Text Attraction program, so you can easily find any text you need right away when texting live with a woman. 535-page eBook. $297 value.
  8. Dating Power – 8 hours of video.
      Dating Power Private Examples: Dan, Ben and Stu share 28 uncensored, personal stories of how they’ve used the Dating Power techniques to enjoy mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up, women make it obvious that they like you, women want you so much that they have sex with you on the first night or date and they chase you during the dating phase). 3 hours, 46 mins of video. $297 value.
      Dating Power Presentation Slides: 261-page ebook with all the presentation slides from the Dating Power seminar. Helps you remember what you’ve learned from the seminar and strengthens your understanding of key concepts and advice. $97 value.
  9. Better Than a Bad Boy – 10 hours, 50 mins of video.
  10. Alpha Male Power – 5 hours, 33 mins of video.
  11. Mastery Methods & Mindsets – 7 hours, 35 mins of audio.

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