"Alpha Male Behavior – Sometimes Old School is New School..."

Discover what the caveman can teach you about dating in the modern world
Alpha male behavior is often associated with caveman tendencies. You see a beautiful woman, throw her over your shoulder and take her back to your cave and never let her go.

It doesn’t sound like such a bad idea to me. However, in the real world you simply can’t throw a random woman over your shoulder and take off with her. The cops would get involved quite quickly.

Despite that, modern men can learn a lot from caveman behaviors. Though the scenario decried above would obviously not get you the results you want, there is one part of it that is true. Women do want to be with man who they see as macho and assertive; men with confidence who are able to take command of any situation.

If you need to develop your alpha male behavior, go stand in front of a mirror and start with these tips to change your posture, body language, facial expressions and style.
  • Take a good look at yourself: Take stock of the image that you present to the world. How confident do you look, move and gesture? This helps you see yourself the way women do, and see what works and what needs improvement.

  • Stand up straight and proud: If you tend to slump, decide to stand up straighter, but don’t overdo it. A key alpha male behavior is to display relaxed confidence.

    Let your alpha male behavior show up as confidence in your body language by walking with a strong authoritative stride.

  • Make confident, relaxed eye contact: Not being afraid to make confident, relaxed eye contact with anyone is another important alpha male behavior.

  • Dress for success: Ever heard the expression “You only feel as good as you look”? It’s true for men and women. If you don’t take any pride any your physical appearance, you can’t expect to attract women. Find a style that suits your build and budget and that makes you feel confident and you naturally feel more alpha and in control.

Now that you’ve worked on some aspects of alpha male behavior that you can do at home, it’s time to learn those alpha male tips into the dating world.

The next time you’re out in public, use these alpha male behaviors to approach and meet the women you really want to be with:
  • Don’t hesitate: There are a lot of things that you should understandably fear in life: Snakebites, rabid dogs and floods...but not dating. A rejection is not the end of the world. If you approach a woman confidently and are not rude or annoying to her, she is likely to show you the same respect. The men who get rejected the most are the ones who expect it to happen.

  • Have purpose: The cavemen would not kill a boar to just look at the meat. Likewise, you shouldn’t approach a woman if you have no idea what to do next. Simply ask for her phone number or ask if she wants join you for a drink/coffee. Whatever you do, just don’t stand there frozen, with nothing to say.

  • Stop rambling: The grunts of cavemen don’t work anymore, but there’s a lesson to learn within them. Alpha males ten get to the point and go after what they want, without babbling on and on.

You don’t want to talk nonstop at a woman and not get to asking her out, or moving things forward. Nervous guys tend to stumble and ramble all over themselves when talking to beautiful women. Get a few topics ready in your head before you approach her to avoid this mistake.

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