"The Truth About Overcoming Approach Anxiety..."

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An important audio message from Dan, Founder of The Modern Man


The truth is that approach anxiety holds you back from achieving success with women & with life in general.

I remember when I first started out approaching women, trying to start conversations, get phone numbers and set up dates. The idea of approaching a woman would make me tense and anxious.

In fact, my friends and I would often stand in bars for hours, trying to work up the courage to do something. Drink after drink, but still – nothing would happen.

I had a lot of anxiety about walking over and talking to a woman I didn't know, because I just didn't know what to do. Sure, you can use a conversation starter to kick things off. But, then what? What do you say next…and what if she rejects you in front of everyone?

I hated feeling like that. It was like I was watching life from behind a window. I was just an observer.

I remember seeing women everywhere; on the train, going to work, out with friends in a bar, at a sporting event or even just in a public place.

I really wanted to approach and meet those women, but every time I'd tell myself to do it, the approach anxiety would kick back in.

I realized that my approach anxiety was not only preventing me from meeting a potential girlfriend, but it was also negatively affecting my social life. For example: If I was at a party, I'd usually only stick to my friends because I didn't want to get rejected in front of everyone else.

I felt as though everyone was watching my every move and if I stuffed up, people would laugh and snigger behind my back.

What I eventually realized is that no-one actually cares about you, me or the other guy. People don't really gives much thought to you and what you're doing, because the majority of their thought is spent worrying about themselves.

If you walk over and approach a woman, MOST people will actually assume that you know her. The others will simply look at you in awe, thinking, "Wow, he's confident…I wish I could be like him."

However, I understand that even though that insight is quite eye-opening, it won't cure your approach anxiety.

What will then? Is it enough just to start approaching women? Will that unleash you and allow you to be your true, confident self once and for all?

No.

Approaching women is only one piece of the puzzle when overcoming approach anxiety.

You also need to learn how to:
  1. Have true, unwavering confidence.
  2. Start and continue conversations that are fun & interesting.
  3. Spark a strong attraction and get women interested right away.
  4. Easily move things to phone number, kissing, dates and sex.
Without those things, you will NEVER get great results with women. Most of your approaches won't go well, which will make your approach anxiety worse (or at least stay the same).

Personally, when I discovered all the techniques that I was just referring to (plus a bunch of other juicy ones), my approach anxiety withered away daily.

Eventually, after about 3 months, I was walking around with absolutely, unwavering self-confidence and it has STAYED like that ever since. Now, when I see a woman that I am attracted to, I NEVER feel approach anxiety.

The feeling I get when approaching women these days, is like how you'd feel when toasting bread in the toaster. It's simple, easy and stress free. You just do it.

Over the next few pages, I'll let you in on the actual techniques that I used to go from being Mr. Approach Anxiety and not having any women in my life, to literally having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be my girlfriend...and having the confidence of a king.


Continued on Pages 2, 3 & 4...


  • Page 2: Three ways to overcome nervousness or 'shyness' around women

    PLUS: What to say when you approach a woman in a bookstore

  • Page 3: Avoiding rejection by getting women to chase you

    PLUS: The #1 secret to attracting and dating beautiful women that gives you an 'unfair advantage' over other guys

  • Page 4: The Flow: The revolutionary 4-step process for confidently approaching women & getting dates
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