"How to Be Cocky and Funny Around Women"

Women love a bit of cockiness in a man, but how much is too much? What is the perfect combination of cocky funny to use?
When I first discovered the cocky funny approach, I thought it was the 'magic bullet' for success with women & dating.

I hoped that if I said a few cocky and funny lines to women, then ALL of my problems with women would be fixed. The reality is that being cocky and funny is one of the best ways to get a woman attracted & interested in you right away. It's also a great way of maintaining a woman's interest.

However, to experience it's full power and get the rewards you want (beautiful women), you really need to understand how to use it in combination with a number of other techniques I have discovered, which I will share with you over the next few pages.

Who am I am why you should listen to me?

My name is Dan Bacon and I started using the cocky funny approach 5 years ago. I went from being crap with women (couldn't get laid to save my life!) to literally having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be with me.

Ever since I started The Modern Man 3 years a go, I have been teaching guys how to meet women using cocky and funny (and 100's of other techniques) in bar environments – during live, weekend courses. I know more about the cocky and funny approach to women than anyone else, so let's just say that you've managed to find the right article on the topic!

Here's what you're about to learn from me through this site:
  • How to achieve the right balance between cocky and funny.
  • How to avoid 'crossing the line', or going too far with it.
  • When it's not appropriate to use cocky and funny.
  • An example of cocky and funny, including what to say (page 2.)
  • The exact cocky lines to use around women that cause them to feel intense, sexual attraction for you.
So, firstly – the right balance you need to achieve between cocky and funny is not so much about using certain percentage of cocky and a certain percentage of funny. The right balance is simply in understanding that you need to be playfully cocky, rather than being arrogantly cocky.

For example: You’re at a coffee shop like Starbucks and you and the woman go to line up at the same time. Instead of just letting her in front like a standard gentleman, say with a CHEEKY SMILE, “Alright, you can go in front...as long as you buy me 5 café lattes and some of that chocolate cake...”

See how it works?

You're not being an asshole, but you ARE showing a little bit of the playful cockiness that women find IRRESISTIBLE. Approaching it that way will ensure that you always achieve the right balance and avoid crossing the line, or going too far.

When I discovered that simple adjustment, I also began to realize that cocky and funny was not about making women feel bad about themselves, or bringing them down in any way (as I'd been led to believe by other, inexperienced guys online who 'try' to teach this stuff).

It's about displaying the right amount of cocky confidence to make women feel the highly-desirable emotions associated with sexual tension. In other words, getting women to see you as someone they'd LOVE to have sex with.

Next, let's move on to understanding when it's inappropriate to use cocky and funny. When I was inexperienced at using the cocky funny approach, I once took it too far in an work environment.

I was working in a corporate office and crossed the line by replying to a female colleague's e-mail in an overly cocky way (which I thought was cocky and funny at the time!).

She immediately forwarded the e-mail to my manager and 15 minutes later, he tapped me on the shoulder and asked to speak to me in his office. I got into a bit of trouble that day and it really annoyed me, because I didn't know what I was doing wrong with the whole cocky funny approach.

After 5 years of experience, I now know that if you are playfully cocky, rather than arrogantly cocky – it will pretty much always achieve the desired effect for you.

It's important to point out that there are times when you need to tone the cocky and funny approach down, like when you're starting to get to know a woman and connect with her. If you keep being cocky and funny during serious, intimate moments, she will eventually get frustrated or see you as a bit of a clown.

Now, before we get into some more juicy stuff on the next page (including a cocky and funny line that I love to say to women) – I want to point out that I you won't find better examples of the cocky funny approach anywhere online.


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