How to Use Cocky and Funny CorrectlyWomen love a bit of cockiness in a man, but how much is too much? What is the perfect combination of cocky funny to use?
When I first discovered the cocky funny approach, I thought it was the 'magic bullet' for success with women & dating. I hoped that if I said a few cocky and funny lines to women, then ALL of my problems with women would be fixed.
The reality is that being cocky and funny is one of the quickest ways to get a woman attracted and interested in you when you first start speaking to her. It's also a great way of maintaining a woman's interest. However, to experience the full power of cocky and funny, you will need to understand how to use it in combination with a number of other techniques that I have discovered, which I will share with you now.
Who am I am why you should listen to me when it comes to topic of cocky and funny and success with women? My name is Dan Bacon and I started using the cocky funny approach about 5 years ago. By using cocky and funny and a heap of newer techniques I've developed, I quickly went from being hopeless with women (couldn't get a girlfriend for years!) to having so many women wanting to be with me that I simply did not have the time to date, have sex and enjoy relationships with all of them.
Ever since starting this web site 3 years a go, I have been teaching guys how to meet women using cocky and funny (and 100's of other techniques) in bar environments – during live, weekend courses. I know more about the cocky and funny approach to women than anyone else online and if you try my training you are guaranteed to get results with women.
Here's what you're about to learn from me through this site:
- How to achieve the right balance between cocky and funny, so you don't come across as too cocky or arrogant.
- The times when it is inappropriate to use cocky and funny.
- Loads of cocky and funny lines that have been tested and proven to work.
- How to use subtle versions of cocky and funny during a conversation, then build it up so a woman is laughing uncontrollably and doesn't want to stop talking to you.
- How to get women chasing you and trying to pick you up, by using my secret cocky and funny tricks that have only ever been taught at my live seminars and weekend courses. You can now watch my best ever seminar here.
- What to say to a woman so she begins to fall in love with you during the first few minutes of meeting her.
The right balance you need to achieve between cocky and funny is not so much about using certain percentage of cocky and a certain percentage of funny (e.g. 40% cocky and 60% funny). The right balance is in understanding that you need to be playfully cocky, rather than being arrogantly cocky.
For example: Imagine that you're at a coffee shop like Starbucks and you and a woman line up at the counter at the same time. Instead of just letting her in front like a standard nice guy would, you can say the following in a playful way with a CHEEKY SMILE, “Alright, you can go in front...as long as you buy me 5 café lattes and some of that chocolate cake there...”
See how it works?
You're not being an asshole to her by being too cocky, yet you ARE showing the cocky and funny attitude that women find IRRESISTIBLE in a man. Approaching it in this way will ensure that you always achieve the right balance and avoid going too far and insulting the woman.
When I made the simple adjustment to being playfully cocky, I also began to realize that cocky and funny was not about making women feel bad about themselves, or bringing them down in any way (as I'd been led to believe by other, inexperienced guys online who 'try' to teach this stuff).
Using cocky and funny is about showing women that you're not a pushover, your not desperate to get laid and you're actually a cool, easy going guy who she can talk to and get to know. Cocky and funny also allows a woman to quickly begin imagining having sex with you and introducing you to her friends and family as her cool new boyfriend.
Next, let's move on to understanding when it is inappropriate to use cocky and funny. When I was inexperienced at using the cocky funny approach, I sometimes took it too far...and one time it happened to be at work! I was working in a corporate office at the time and replied to a female colleague's e-mail in an overly cocky way (which I thought was cocky and funny at the time!).
She immediately forwarded the e-mail to my manager and 15 minutes later, he tapped me on the shoulder and asked to speak to me in his office. I got into a bit of trouble that day and it really annoyed me, because I didn't know what I was doing wrong with the whole cocky funny approach. The online 'dating guru' I was learning from just didn't give enough information on the topic.
Now, after 5 years of experience using cocky and funny with women, I know that when you are playfully cocky, rather than arrogantly cocky – it will pretty much always achieve the desired result for you. It's also important to point out that there are times when you need to tone down the cocky and funny attitude, like when you're starting to get to know a woman and connect with her. If you keep being cocky and funny during serious, intimate moments, she will eventually get frustrated or see you as a bit of a clown.
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|Article by: Dan Bacon, founder and lead dating coach for TheModernMan.com|
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