Women love a bit of cockiness in a man, but how much is too much? What is the perfect combination of cocky funny to use?
When I first discovered the cocky funny approach, I thought it was the magic bullet for success with women & dating. I hoped that if I said a few cocky and funny lines to women, then ALL of my problems with women would be fixed. After trying the technique out on women, I found that being cocky and funny is a quick way to get a woman attracted and interested in you when you first start speaking to her, but it's not the answer to success with women. You see, women are impressed that you have the balls to be a bit cocky, but that is only one out of many things they are looking for when interacting with a guy. You might be able to say a few cocky and funny lines, but will you buckle under pressure when she tests you by acting disinterested? Will your face appear tense and have a look on it like you've been rejected when she acts as though she is offended by your comments?
When I first started using cocky and funny, I went OVERBOARD with it at times to the point where a friend of mine, named Mark (from our Confessions of a Natural interview series), would refer to me as Dangerous Dan. He is a natural with women and rarely uses any cocky and funny, so he would just sit back and laugh when I almost attacked women with my aggressive cocky and funny style. Needless to say, when I was behaving like that, I rarely got anywhere with women. It was only when I learned to relax, be confident and enjoy the moment that I started to get results. Instead of trying to be super cocky, I would just throw in some playfully arrogant comments or jokes while chatting to women. When I did that, I got phone numbers, got laid and got myself a girlfriend.
Achieving the Right Balance of Cocky and Funny
The right balance you need to achieve between cocky and funny is not so much about using certain percentage of cocky and a certain percentage of funny (e.g. 40% cocky and 60% funny). The right balance is in understanding that you need to be playfully arrogant, rather than being arrogantly cocky. For example: Imagine that you're at a coffee shop like Starbucks and you and a woman line up at the counter at the same time. Instead of just letting her in front like a standard nice guy would, you can say the following in a playful way with a CHEEKY SMILE, “Alright, you can go in front...as long as you buy me 5 café lattes and some of that chocolate cake there...”
See how it works?
You're not being an asshole to her by being too cocky, yet you ARE showing the playfully arrogant and funny attitude that women find IRRESISTIBLE in a man. Approaching it in this way will ensure that you always achieve the right balance and avoid going too far and insulting the woman. When I made the simple adjustment to being playfully arrogant instead of a cocky asshole, I also began to realize that cocky and funny was not about making women feel bad about themselves, or bringing them down in any way (as I'd been led to believe by other, inexperienced guys online who 'try' to teach this stuff). Using cocky and funny is about showing women that you're not a pushover, you're not desperate to get laid and you're actually a cool guy whom she can talk to and get to know.
When using the cocky and funny method, don't fall into the trap of thinking that it is the ultimate solution for success with women. It's just one out of many techniques that you can use to improve your success with women. If you want to learn my best techniques, don't leave my site. Click around and keep learning. Unlike 99% of the dating "gurus" you will find online, I am actually successful with women and have actually helped 1,000s of other guys become successful with women. If you're interested to learn from me, I'd love to help you right now.
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is Dan Bacon and I am expert When it comes to topic of cocky and funny because, unlike all the amateur "dating gurus" who aren't even successful with women, I have gone beyond the initial "cocky and funny" routines, to create and label my own type of humor that I call Playfully Arrogant Humor. You see, women don't want you to be overly cocky to the point where you're an asshole, but they LOVE it when you are arrogant in a playful way. Being playfully arrogant ensures that you are still likeable and you don't cause unnecessary negative tension between you and women.
Here are some of the many things I can teach you about the cocky and funny method, which other dating "gurus" simply can't:
- The times when it is inappropriate to use cocky and funny .vs when you should just flirt and joke around.
- Loads of TESTED cocky and funny lines that are easy to use and proven to work.
- How to use different types of of cocky and funny during a conversation, then build it up so a woman is laughing uncontrollably and doesn't want to stop talking to you.
- How to get women chasing you and trying to pick you up by using cocky and funny mixed with another powerful technique that I invented.