Conversation Starters for Shy People

Do you become shy or nervous around women you like? Learn my conversation starters for shy people and break through to the dating success that you deserve!

I’m glad you arrived at my site looking for conversation starters for shy people. Everyone has seen a shy guy standing there alone in a room full of women. Instead of waking up to a beautiful woman and introducing himself, the shy guy:

• Hangs back in the corner and waits for something to happen.
• Looks around, but tries his best not to make eye contact with a woman.
• Shows a secret longing and desperate in his eyes if he does make eye contact with a woman.
• Watches in frustration as the girl he wants flirts and laughs and hooks up with some other guy.
• Wishes he knew some conversation starters for shy people that would help him chat to women, instead of missing out over and over again.

You want to know the one thing that’s worse than watching a shy guy in this situation? It’s being one of those shy guys! I used to be a shy guy and I know how it feels to have trouble approaching women, not being able to keep a woman's interest and having no clue how to keep conversations going and keep them interesting.

After years of observation and thinking about it over and over, I realized that my problems with dating had nothing to do with looks or money - the two traits I had always been told mattered the most. I found out that women like to be challenged.

A guy who is exciting, fun and a little bit spontaneous will pretty much always get the girl. I knew I had a bit to learn. The first stop was to find some conversation starters for shy people. I didn’t really feel comfortable using ‘over the top’ confident conversation starters, so I started with the easy ones.

Conversation Starters For Shy People

• Make a statement, followed by a question: Questions naturally require a response, so a woman will often feel obligated to respond to what you have said. However, not all women respond to a question on it's own. To ensure that you get a response, give the question some context first by making a statement and sharing what you think about what you're going to ask.
  
  For example: “Hey, those cocktails look fantastic...what do they put on those?”
• Be honest: When you’re honest, it gives a woman no room to reject you or be mean to you, like she will to other guys who put on an act or persona to try and impress her. One of my favorite conversation starters is to walk over and say:
  
  “Hey, I thought I’d come over, be social and say hi. I’m Dan, what’s your name?”
  
  This conversation starter puts a bit of pressure on her to 'be social'. No-one wants to be seen as mean and unsocial to the cool, social people in a social environment. Using this conversation starter automatically makes you look like one of the cool people who is being social and making sure everyone is having a good time. This conversation start also helps to get the conversation going because a woman will reply with her name. (Learn how to continue the conversation further here).

So, there are two of my favorite conversation starters for shy people. If you want to learn what to say next, click below and continue learning. Not only will I give you my very best conversation starters for shy people, but I’ll teach you how to get rid of your shyness and make women start chasing you and wanting to be your girlfriend.

My name is Dan Bacon, founder of The Modern Man. My start-to-finish dating system will teach you everything you need to know to overcome your shyness and achieve what you want with women and your social life. You won't be one of the shy people anymore - you'll be having fun, experiecing love and having sex with the types of women you really want to be with.

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	Article by: Dan Bacon, founder and lead dating coach for TheModernMan.com
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