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First Date Questions
"Discover the missing ingredients that might be preventing your dates from moving towards kissing, sex and relationships..."
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An important audio message from Dan, Founder of The Modern Man
Looking for some first date questions? Want to know more about making conversation on first dates?
Today I'm going to share a technique that will lead your dates with women to kissing, sex and relationships better than any first date question ever could…
If you want women to avoid the "Let's just be friends" comment and instead, have women see you as a potential lover or boyfriend, then you must use this technique.
Without it, your dates will most likely just see you as a boring 'nice guy' or friend type that they have no sexual interest in.
By the way: Being seen as 'just a friend' by women is something that I can definitely relate to.
I used to suck at first dates.
Big time.
One of my main problems was that I just didn't know what to say to keep a conversation interesting, or to keep it going. This meant that women would often lose interest in me very quickly.
To add to that, the first date would include a whole lot of those 'awkward silences' that I just didn't know how to fix.
I rarely got a second date because women wouldn't return my calls after the date. If I did manage to get a second date, the woman would usually only be coming along to be nice, or because she had no other options.
I hated that.
Needless to say, it was a very frustrating part of my life – especially after all the effort I had to go through to get a date in the first place!
I knew there was a missing piece, but I just didn't know what is was.
Initially, I thought I needed some more first date questions to ask. To be honest, I even got to the point where I would print out a list of questions (3 pages worth!) and study them prior to the date.
At one stage, I remember waiting in the car 30 minutes before a date and just practicing all the first date questions over and over, telling myself to be calm and that the date would go fine.
But, it didn't.
I just ended up asking the questions at the wrong time, talking about myself too much and covering all the boring topics like work, family and the weather.
I had it all wrong.
Little did I know that I didn't need more first date questions. Instead, I needed to spark sexual attraction and interest so the woman would actually be attracted to me, more than in just a 'friendly' way.
How is that done?
By FLIRTING.
Flirting (if you don't know) is the indirect advertising of sexual interest.
It is how adults communicate with each other in a sexual way, without coming straight out and saying, "I want to have sex with you. Do you want to have sex with me?"
Flirting is ABSOLUTELY essential and if you don't use it, no amount of first date questions will ever save you.
These days when I go on dates, they always lead to kissing, sex and or relationships.
So, before we get to the next pages (which are full of amazing insights and techniques that you can use right away), I'm going to share an example of flirting on a first date.
The example is based around 'who should pay' for the dinner bill, the drinks, the movie tickets, etc.
It's is the age-old question, isn't it?
Everyone has their opinions. Some say you should DEFINITELY go 50/50, others say wait for a minute to see if she pays - that way you get to work out if she's a gold-digger.
Funny stuff.
Here's what I do...
If we go to get a quiet drink a lounge bar, I'll pay for the first round.
Women almost always offer to get the second round and if they don't, I playfully say something like, "Geez, you're rude aren't you? My drink has been empty for 5 minutes...didn't your mother teach you any manners?"
If you are smiling and being playful, then she will know that you are flirting. That comment always seems to get them laughing and up to the bar to buy the next round.
If we go out to have something to eat and I actually like the woman, I'll often pay for the meal.
When the bill arrives, I might say something like, "Well, if we catch up another time - you can get the bill...except, if there is a next time - we're going to the most expensive place in town, so make sure you bring all of your credit cards."
Again, that is flirting.
Flirting is absolutely essential if you want a woman to take a sexual interest in you. If your conversation is too platonic and 'safe' then you'll have a hard time getting a second date.
Over the next few pages, I'm going to share the techniques that I used to go from not having any women in my life, to literally having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be my girlfriend.
Continued on Pages 2, 3 & 4...
- Page 2: Three ways to overcome nervousness or 'shyness' around women
PLUS: What to say when you approach a woman in a bookstore
- Page 3: Avoiding rejection by getting women to chase you
PLUS: The #1 secret to attracting and dating beautiful women that gives you an 'unfair advantage' over other guys
- Page 4: The complete process for starting a conversation, getting a phone number, calling up, setting up a date, having the first date run perfectly, keeping a woman interested and more.
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