Instead of trying to impress her, focus on being an impressive guy by being your real self during conversations, on dates and in life. Then, when you talk to a woman you find attractive, she will have more reason to want to escalate to kissing, sex and a relationship with you. However, if you’re an unimpressive guy who is afraid to be his real self when talking to her, she will have more reason to want to end the interaction as soon as possible.
A lot of guys want to know how to impress a woman, in the hope that she might be so kind as to give him a chance. However, the real secret to winning a woman’s heart and making her want to have sex with you as soon as possible, is to create a dynamic where she is trying to impress you. As you may have noticed, the guys who are naturally good with women seem to get that reaction from women all the time. You can enjoy the same type of easy success too.
However, before you get into learning how to get women trying to impress you, let’s start by making you a more impressive guy. If you don’t have that base, getting women trying to impress you is going to be all the more difficult.
Which Life Skill is the Most Impressive to Women?
There is no one skill you can have that’s going to impress every woman you ever meet. However, there are certain life skills that many women find impressive and contrary to popular belief, it has nothing to do with what you own and everything to do with who you are.
The bottom line is, women want a well-rounded guy, so the skills that impress women are those that demonstrate just how well-rounded you are as a guy/man. Skills that impress your mates aren’t necessarily going to impress a woman. Other guys might find your ability to down a bottle of beer in less than five seconds really impressive, but chances are she won’t. However, she will find your popularity with your mates impressive because that demonstrates social skills, which indicates to her that you would be living and will continue to live a better life than a guy who hardly has any friends or none at all.
“In less enlightened times, the best way to impress women was to own a hot car. But women wised up and realized it was better to buy their own hot cars so they wouldn’t have to ride around with jerks” – Scott Adams
Being an impressive guy is not about flashy cars or flashy anything else for that matter, because flashy and impressive are not necessarily one and the same. The skills you have that led to being in a financially secure position are far more likely to impress a woman than simply being able to flash your cash. This is why you always see beautiful, intelligent women in relationships with men who are not rich or tall, dark and handsome. If a man shows the potential of being a better man and having a good life, it will impress the woman and she will go along for the ride. A lot of guys mistakenly think that they need to have a car, house, amazing job, nice clothes and a whole lot of other material things before a woman will be impressed. However, the fact is that women are more impressed by who you are as a person, rather than what you have.
Skills That Impress a Woman
Women like a guy who can engage in an interesting two-way conversation and it’s through the course of a relaxed conversation that the real you can be discovered … along with your many impressive life skills. Of course, your skills don’t need to be extraordinary to be impressive, they just need to be a part of what “being you” is all about. For example:
1. Being a Good Talker
The most important life skill to have in terms of impressing women is your communication skills. You might be the greatest guy on Earth, but if you can’t articulate who you are and what you’re about, she might not hang around long enough to find out. A lot of guys meet women and mess up the opportunity because they are afraid to express their true self in front of the woman. Instead of talking freely and about anything he wants, a guy who struggles to connect with women will become emotionally guarded and have polite, straightforward conversations that lead nowhere. Before he knows it, the woman has left to “go to the bathroom” or has said, “Nice to have met you. Bye!”
2. Not Being Afraid to Get Dirty or Bruised
A lot of modern men have become so clean, neat and tidy that a little scuff on their pants or bruise on their arm can make them react in the same way a woman would. While we are not saying you should wear dirty clothes or be reckless, women definitely aren’t impressed by wimpy guys who could easily be mistaken for not liking women at all, if you know what I mean. If you want to know how to impress a woman, you should start by being more of a man than you’ve ever been before. Nothing impresses a woman faster than a guy who isn’t afraid to get a bit dirty or even get an occasional cut or bruise.
A good way to toughen up a bit is to play sports. However, when it comes to what impresses a woman, not all sports are equal in her eyes and the more testosterone-fueled the activity, the more impressive it becomes. Highly physical, high-intensity sports such as martial-arts, football, soccer, rugby, sailing and rock climbing demonstrate strength, power and endurance – all “manly” qualities and much more impressive than less physical sports such as golf, archery or bowling from a woman’s point of view. On another level, the social life and camaraderie that tends to grow around involvement in the majority of sports can also impress a woman. Having a wide circle of friends and an active social life marks you out as someone who knows how to have fun and doesn’t take sport or life too seriously.
3. Speaking Another Language
Being able to speak another language is one of those skills that may be a big part of your everyday life or it may be a skill that actually serves very little practical purpose, but a lot of women find it impressive. Of course, it is not the answer to success with women nor is it mandatory, but it is an example of another thing about you that can add to how impressive you are as a guy.
You may be bilingual because of your upbringing; because of your job; because you studied languages at university, or because you’ve travelled extensively and learned along the way. Whatever the reason for learning, being able to speak another language demonstrates that you have a good educational background or that you’re a “man of the world,” either way, you’re going to spark a woman’s interest. However, telling her that you are bilingual is far less impressive that simply waiting for an appropriate moment to show her by using your skill without flaunting it first. As mentioned upfront, the key to impressing a woman is to impress her without trying to impress her.
If you don’t know any other languages, there can be a whole host of things that are impressive about you. Take some time to think about what makes you unique. Maybe you’re great at fixing computers, maybe you’re great at organizing house parties – it can be anything.
4. Being Able to Handle the Handy Work
You don’t need to be a skilled tradesman or a DIY expert to impress a woman with your handyman skills, but having the right tools for the job is a good start. Being able to handle general repair and maintenance tasks around the house or knowing your way around a car engine makes you, in her eyes, a man who can be relied upon to take care of her. Even if certain tasks are beyond your capabilities, just by being able to diagnose problems and understand what needs to be fixed, you demonstrate “handyman” skills that impress!
5. Being Skilful in the Bedroom
If you want to know how to impress a woman more than any other way, then you need to take some time to improve your bedroom skills. However, trying to impress her by telling her about your skills before you get to the bedroom will not impress her at all. This is definitely a skill that you should allow her to discover for herself when the time is right, but it’s perhaps the most important skill of all to put some dedicated practice into as, after all, you want this skill to leave the most lasting impression!