Hey - it's Dan Bacon here and I really am going to help you if you read through all of this article.
As a man, if you don't know how to approach women, you will always miss out on great opportunities to meet your perfect woman and then enjoy a sexual, loving relationship. Heck, you might have even seen your perfect woman last week, but the opportunity slipped through your fingers because you didn't know what you are about to learn on my site.
I will teach you the following basics on this page:
- How to approach women.
- How I overcame my fear of approaching women.
- What to say when you approach women.
1. How to Approach Women
The best way to approach a woman is to use a natural, direct style. There's no need to put on an overly-confident act, try to extra funny or try to impress the woman. What most guys don't realize is that a man who can be himself and talk to a woman with relaxed confidence, is much more impressive than any crazy trick or pick up line that you might hear about on amateur websites.
Essentially, you need to walk over and allow a woman to experience your confidence. Since women are mostly attracted to a guy's confidence, the more of that you allow her to experience, the more she will be attracted to you. Naturally, if you aren't confident and instead force her to experience your nervousness or insecurity, then she will find it difficult to feel much attraction for you.
2. How I Overcame My Fear of Approaching Women
For years, I was afraid to approach women because I felt like I would be interrupting their day/night and they would get upset or annoyed at me. I didn't feel like I have much to offer a woman, because I am just an ordinary guy. I don't look like the guys in the movies, I don't have much money and I'm just an average height, so I figured that most women wouldn't be that impressed by me.
Based on those insecurities, I steered clear of women because I assumed that they would simply reject me. Man, was I wrong! As I later discovered, women actually WANT you to approach them. When a man approaches a woman in a confident, easy-going way, it does two main POSITIVE things for her:
- Increases her self-esteem: If a woman doesn't get approached by guys, she starts to think she is ugly and that men just don't like her. Fact: Beautiful women usually only get approached by drunk or sleazy guys, which doesn't count as a real approach in the woman's mind. Women feel the luckiest when they get approached by a confident guy who is easy-going and who obviously believes in himself. In other words, a good guy alpha male.
- Gives her another opportunity to find the perfect guy for her: Most women don't approach women. It's just not how things work in the dating scene. Sure, some women will approach a guy on certain occasions, but 99% of the time it up to us men to approach a woman and start the conversation.
So, don't ever think you are doing a bad thing when you approach women. You are literally doing the woman a FAVOR by approaching.
3. What to Say When You Approach Women
When I first started and want to learn how to approach women, I wasted a LOT of time with crappy pick up lines and conversation starters supplied by amateur sites online. Most advice that you read on websites has NOT been tested, so be careful who you listen to.
My advice has been tested by me and the guys at The Modern Man, our 1,000s of clients (that we've coached in person or via phone coaching) and by our 1,000s of customers from all over the world. So, you can rest assured that the approaching techniques you learn here at The Modern Man WILL work.
On that note, let me give you one of our MOST TESTED conversation starters for approaching women. In a bar environment, or at a party or social event of some sort, simply approach a woman and say, "Hey, I thought I'd come over and be social and say hi - I'm Dan, what's your name?"
As you can see, this is a natural, non-sleazy way to approach women. It also makes a woman WANT to talk to you. If she doesn't respond to this conversation starter, she is being unsocial in a social environment - and nobody wants to be seen as one of those people.
Want to Learn More About How to Approach Women?
We have all of the answers to your questions about how to approach women. If you'd like to learn all of our tested techniques for success with women and dating, make sure that you watch the video below and let me explain exactly how I can help you with your specific problems regarding women.