How to Approach Women: Get Sex, Love and Relationships Now

Without knowing how to approach women, you'll miss out on great opportunities to find a girlfriend and enjoy sexual, loving relationships. Here's how to approach women in a natural, non-sleazy way that will get you results now, not next year.

In this article, I'm going to talk to you about:

How to Approach Women

The best way to approach a woman is to use a natural, direct style. There's no need to put on an overly-confident act, try to extra funny or try to impress the woman. What most guys don't realize is that a man who can be himself and talk to a woman with relaxed confidence, is much more impressive than any crazy trick or pick up line that you might hear about on amateur websites.

How I Overcame My Fear of Approaching Women

For years, I was afraid to approach women because I felt like I'd be interrupting their day/night. I didn't feel like I had much to offer a woman, because I am just an ordinary guy. I don't look like the guys in the movies, I don't have much money and I'm just an average height.

So, I steered clear of women because I thought I'd just be rejected. Boy was I wrong! The truth is that women WANT YOU to approach them. When a man approaches a woman it does two main POSITIVE things for her:

  1. Increases her self-esteem: If a woman doesn't get approached, she starts to think she is ugly and that guys just don't like her. Fact: Beautiful women usually only get approach by drunk or sleazy guys, which doesn't count as an approach in the woman's mind.
  2. Gives her an opportunity to find a boyfriend: Women don't approach women. It's just not how things work in the dating scene. Sure, some women will approach a guy on certain occasions, but 99% of the time it us up to us men to take action, approach a woman and start a conversation.

So, don't ever think you are doing a bad thing when you approach women. You are literally doing the woman a FAVOR by approaching.

What to Say When You Approach Women

When I first started and want to learn how to approach women, I wasted a LOT of time with crappy pick up lines and conversation starters supplied by amateur sites online. Most advice that you read on websites has NOT been tested, so be careful who you listen to.

Our advice has been tested by us, our clients (that we've coached in person. We've been coaching guys for the last 3 years) and by our customers from all over the world. So, you can rest assured that the approaching techniques you learn here at The Modern Man WILL work.

On that note, let me give you one of our MOST TESTED conversation starters for approaching women. In a bar environment, or at a party or social event of some sort, simply approach a woman and say, "Hey, I thought I'd come over and be social and say hi - I'm Dan, what's your name?"

As you can see, this is a natural, non-sleazy way to approach women. It also makes a woman WANT to talk to you. If she doesn't respond to this conversation starter, she is being unsocial in a social environment - and nobody wants to be seen as one of those people.

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