How to Talk to Women

"What the Hell Do I Say to a Woman to Spark and Maintain Her Interest??"
An important audio message from Dan, Founder of The Modern Man


So, you want some tips on how to talk to women?

When it comes to subject of talking to women, a lot of guys struggle with what to say after the initial "Hello".

This happens for a number of reasons. However, usually it's because the guy:
  1. Mistakenly thinks he has to impress women when he talks to them

    The fact is that women hate it when you try to impress them during a conversation, as it shows that you feel unworthy of her.

  2. Resorts to boring conversations based around the usual questions, "So, what do you do?", "What do you study?" or "Where are you from?"

    Boring conversations don't attract and interest women. Your biggest tip on how to talk to women is to include humor and flirting (I'll teach you how to do that on the next pages).

  3. Hides behind safe and polite conversation, fearing that any flirting or slightly 'risky' conversation may end up delivering him a slap on the face.

    Women aren't attracted to guys who put on the 'super nice guy' act. Not only is it perceived as being weak, women know that it's an act.

    Flirting during conversation is an absolute essential if you want to attract and interest a woman. Without it, she will likely see you as "Just a friend".
  4. Is afraid to express himself in fear of being judged by the woman, or humiliated in front of others.

    Women are most attracted to alpha males who can express themselves, their opinions and their feelings in a masculine way. An example of this is at the bottom of the article.
I can totally understand why guys make these mistakes, as I used to be very much the same.

I remember when I had NO IDEA how to talk to women. Even though I really, really wanted to make interesting conversation with women, it would always end up sounding boring and common.

One of the frustrating things was that the conversations would usually die with 15 seconds to a couple of minutes.

Then I'd end up kicking myself for days, because actually approaching a woman and starting a conversation used to be a big deal for me (that was before I discovered the approaching, conversation & confidence techniques that I'll share with you over the next few pages).

Women would literally turn away and ignore me, or just walk off saying, "I have to go to the bathroom" only to never return!

What I eventually discovered was some amazing conversation techniques that allowed me to immediately change my success with women. Suddenly, I knew how to talk to women in a way that sparked AND maintained their interest.

The added bonus was that I didn't achieve this by using tacky pick up lines. The techniques simply allowed me to talk in ways that women found attractive.

One of the techniques I've discovered is to 'talk from your perspective' and then ask a question to help the woman into conversation with you.

This means that instead of saying, "Do you like the beach?" you would first talk from your perspective by saying, "I love the beach…I've managed to get there twice this summer with some friends…ate too much ice-cream both times…how about you, did you get to the beach much this summer?"

If you want to continue learning how to talk to women and using humor and flirting to attract and interest women, then simply enter your name and e-mail below.

Over the next few pages I'm going to share the techniques that I used to go from not having any women in my life, to literally having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be my girlfriend.


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