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"Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women?"
...and what do women REALLY mean when they say, "I just want a nice guy"?
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Have you ever heard woman say, “I just want a nice guy”...?
and then watched in disappointment and she did the OPPOSITE by dating a bad boy, a jerk...or a guy who didn't treat her well?
What's going on there?! Are women telling LIES when they claim to want a 'nice' guy?
No.
When a woman says, "I just want a nice guy" she really does mean it. However, most well-meaning guys confuse 'nice guy' with being really, really nice to a woman.
...and that's where the problems begin.
You see, when a woman refers to a nice guy she isn't referring to a guy who:
- Is nervous around women.
- Is shy in social situations.
- Is intimidated by women and feels like he needs to impress them.
- Doesn't know what to say to women (usually linked into trying to impress women).
- Is too nice to women, like he would be to his grandmother.
- Calls women too often, not allowing them to miss him.
- Tells women that he has 'feelings' for them too early.
- Behaves submissively or weakly around women.
- Tends to accepts a woman's demands, just so she will spend time with him or continue talking to him.
- Becomes a 'doormat' for women and puts his own needs aside.
- Listens to all of woman's problems and discusses them in the way her girlfriends would.
- Gives away his power to women, and allows women to become the 'boss'.
- Always seems to ask women what they want to do, instead of being a man and taking the lead.
FACT: When used in combination, those things KILL the attraction that women feel for you.
So what are women referring to when they talk about a 'nice guy'? It means a guy who:
- Is confident around women.
- Is confident around other guys.
- Knows how to flirt.
- Knows how to behave like a 'challenge'.
- Takes on the masculine role in an interaction, on a date or in a relationship.
- Respects and likes women, but also gives plenty of time and attention to his life and what he's achieving/trying to achieve.
- Uses humor in an attractive way.
- Confidently makes conversation in an interesting way with women.
If you can relate to the nice guy traits mentioned above, then today is the day to stop making those mistakes...and transform yourself into the man that every woman is desperately looking for.
Over the next few pages, I'm going to let you in on the actual techniques that I used to go from being a nice guy who finished last with women, to literally having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be my girlfriend.
You too can use these techniques, to go from being an 'nice guy' who women ignore to a 'good guy who always gets the girl'.
You don't have to become a bad boy or jerk to succeed with women. It's easier than that...
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