Why Do 'Nice Guys' Finish Last With Women?
...and are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy instead of a bad boy, or jerk?When asked what she wants in a man, a woman will often say, “I just want a nice guy...someone who cares and who listens” but she will then do the OPPOSITE and date a bad boy, a jerk...or a guy who doesn't treat her well. What's going on there?!
Are women LYING when they claim to want a 'nice' guy? No. When a woman says, "I just want a nice guy" she really does mean it. However, most guys confuse 'nice guy' with being really, really nice to a woman...and that's where the problems begin and why nice guys finish last with women.
You see, when a woman refers to a nice guy she is NOT referring to a guy who:
- Is nervous around women.
- Is shy in social situations.
- Is intimidated by women and feels like he needs to impress them.
- Doesn't know what to say to women (usually linked into trying to impress women).
- Is too nice to women, like he would be to his grandmother.
- Calls women too often, not allowing them to miss him.
- Tells women that he has 'feelings' for them too early.
- Behaves submissively or weakly around women.
- Tends to accepts a woman's demands, just so she will spend time with him or continue talking to him.
- Becomes a 'doormat' for women and puts his own needs aside.
- Listens to all of woman's problems and discusses them in the way her girlfriends would.
- Gives away his power to women, and allows women to become the 'boss'.
- Always seems to ask women what they want to do, instead of being a man and taking the lead.
FACT: When used in combination, those things KILL the attraction that women feel for you. So what are women referring to when they talk about a 'nice guy'? It means a guy who:
- Is confident around women.
- Is confident around other guys.
- Knows how to flirt.
- Knows how to behave like a 'challenge'.
- Takes on the masculine role in an interaction, on a date or in a relationship.
- Respects women and enjoys their company, but also gives plenty of time and attention to his life and what he's achieving/trying to achieve.
- Uses humor in an attractive way.
- Confidently makes conversation in an interesting way with women.
If you can relate to the nice guy traits mentioned above, then today is the day to stop making those mistakes...and begin transforming yourself into the man that every woman is desperately looking for.
Nice guys finish last with women because they don't spark attraction. You can still be a nice guy to women, but you need to know how to attract women and allow them to feel the sexually-desirable emotions they are looking for when interacting with a man.
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