Pick Up Artists: Tricks, Lies and Rejection

What's the alternative to becoming a pick up artist and trying to TRICK women into liking you? Is there an alternative? Or, do you really have to become one of those guys who manipulate women into liking them?

When I first started out wanting to improve my success with women and dating, I wanted to become a pick up artist. I remember reading a lot about what seemed to glorify the art of picking up women. It was awesome.I suddenly started dreaming of being able to see a woman I liked, then walk over, say a magic line to her that would get her interested right away.

I wanted to be able to pick women up and have sex with them the same night. From these thoughts and ideas, I started using some of the pick up artists techniques like: Scripted routines, opinion openers and to be honest…I also went as far as trying to manipulate women into liking me, by using some of the pick up artist tricks. Something didn't feel right, but I kept going anyway.

As I kept on using the pick up artist tricks, I found that a lot of my conversations with women didn't last very long. I also noticed that a lot of women would look at me in a weird way sometimes, with a look that said, "What are you doing???"

They were getting the sense that something was odd about my behavior. Here was this guy, saying and doing all of these things in a row (following the scripted routines that I'd read on the internet) and for what? I even had some women ask, "Do you do this all the time? Is this how you try to pick up girls? ...because it's not working - now go away!"

The women could tell it was rehearsed. As you can imagine, even though I was out there talking to women I had very little success using the pick up artist approach! I wasn't getting phone numbers (unless the girl was drunk) and I wasn't getting dates.

Eventually, I did get a woman on a date, but that didn't go well either because I'd been using a whole heap of scripted pick up artist tricks to get to that point. When it came to the date, I didn't know what to say. I'd run out of routines to use! What I realized after another unsuccessful date a few months later, was that you have to actually be yourself.

There comes a point where you have to shift and be yourself, be normal, be natural and be real. But, I couldn't do that because I'd been using rehearsed material the whole time. The woman basically saw two different people and I was left with nothing in the end.

So, I remember thinking "Well, it all sounded good at the start. Become a pick up artist, use pick up artist tricks and get the girl…but, it's not working…so, what do I do now??"

That was about the time that I decided to focus on being like the guys who are naturally good with women. I spent at least a year and a half developing my own techniques, based on what the naturals were doing. Eventually, I broke through and cracked the code for success with women and I've never looked back since.

If you'd like to learn more, continue to the next page now and let me show you how I went from being a try-hard 'pick up artist' with no women in my life, to having 2-3 women coming over to my house for sex every week by using the natural approach to dating and relationships.

Plus, I'm also going to tell you how to get a girlfriend, so when you find a great girl - you can keep her!

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	Article by Dan Bacon. Founder and lead dating coach for TheModernMan.com
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