Sweet Pick up Lines: Sweep Her Off Her Feet
Sweet pick up lines never go out of style. However, make sure you are not too sweet or you'll turn most modern women off! When done right, a sweet pick up line will make a woman feel charmed by you. For a woman, suddenly it feels like her daydreams of meeting her 'Prince Charming' are finally coming true.
However, unless you make her attracted to you by displaying confidence, using humor, flirting and keeping the conversation interesting - she won't see you as a potential boyfriend or lover...she'll only perceive you as a nice guy that she has no sexual interest in.
First, let me share my recommended sweet pick up lines and then we can talk about attracting a woman. Please note: My sweet pick up lines are not VERY sweet because the really sweet ones will get REJECTED by most modern women (they see them as tacky and too old fashioned). So, I'm going to give you the ones that work in today's dating environment.
Sweet Pick Up Line #1
You see a woman walking her dog and you want to start a conversation. Simply say, "Hi, how are you? I have no idea what breed of dog that is, but it looks cool...what's it's name?" Make sure you are being relaxed and easy-going when you ask the question. Just talk to her like she is one of your friends.
When she tells you the dog's name (e.g. Rover), you can then be sweet and say, "Hi Rover...how did you manage to get such a beautiful owner? Do you think she'd be interested in going on a date with me?" Women find this sort of conversation CHARMING and it works! She'll be impressed by your confidence to approach her, your conversation skills and your charming nature.
Sweet Pick Up Line #2
In the green grocer section of a supermarket, "Hey, that looks healthy...what are you planning to cook up? I've run out of ideas of healthy things to cook lately..."
Notice that the sweet pick up line is not TOO sweet. If you are too sweet to a modern woman, she will either be turned off or feel suspicious about your intentions. By using the approach of The Modern Man, women will immediately feel comfortable talking to you. From there, you simply need to use our proven attraction techniques and move things forward to a date.
Sweet Pick Up Line #3
In a bar or club, "Hey, I think you look fantastic, so I thought I'd come over and be social and say hi - I'm Dan - what's your name?"
Sweet Pick Up Line #4
Woman carrying a musical instrument (example: Violin) , "Hey, I love the sound of a violin...have you been playing long?" More sweet pick up lines.
As you can see, the pick up lines I recommend are not too sweet. If you are tempted to try the really, really sweet ones you find on other websites, please beware: Very sweet lines no longer work. You need to adapt to the modern dating environment. For example, telling a girl you just met that she is the woman of your dreams, or you think she fell from the stars, will usually result in her rolling her eyes and rejecting you. If you really want to impress a woman with sweet pick up lines and have her feeling totally charmed by you, focus on the following areas:
- Voice: Avoid talking to her with a nervous tone in your voice. Instead, make her feel aroused by sticking to smooth, relaxed and deep tones.
- Flirt: The #1 thing you need to do after using your sweet pick up line is flirt with her. This makes a woman feel attraction for you and to see you in a sexual way…rather than just another 'fan' who is trying to impress her.
- Find common ground: After flirting with her, you need to find some things that you have in common, so you connect with her. Ask her what she likes to do for fun…and find out how much of a risk-taker she is. If she likes to take risks now and then, suggest, "Well...maybe we should take a risk now and kiss...see what happens" ...you'll be surprised to see how many women just start kissing you.
- Escalate: One of the main reasons that guys fail with women women is: Not escalating. You can talk for 5 weeks without moving in for a kiss, or getting her phone number. Always remember to move to the 'next level' with a woman. Without it, you'll be stuck in the 'friend zone' and another guy will come in and sweep her off her feet.
Once you understand the rules of dating you will know how to:
- Attract the right type of women for you.
- Stay calm, confident and in control around any woman.
- Make a woman eager to see you again and again.
Sweet pick up lines are an excellent technique to use and will often make a woman feel charmed by you, but if you want to ensure you don't get rejected, you need to learn how to attract women.
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By Dan Bacon, Founder of The Modern Man. Dan Bacon on Google+ (Personal photos with women)