"What to Say to Get a Girlfriend..."

Make any girl want you, by using the right words and the right approach
What to say to get a girlfriend is a difficult area for most men to master.

What do you say to a new woman you’ve met to make her want to be your girlfriend? What if you already know her, but she only sees you as a friend?

Now you might be thinking that she needs to change, you need to tell her how you feel, but you would be wrong. The truth is that it’s you who needs to change, by learning more about what to say to get a girlfriend.

If it’s a woman you’ve already met, or know quite well you actually have some advantages of getting her to suddenly see you as dating material. The most important is that you already know a lot about her. You know her likes and dislikes, activities she likes to do and you probably know the types of guys she likes. Now you only need to know how to take this information to get you from friend to lover.
  • Review your treatment of her: Are you treating her like a friend, being too nice to her...or are you treating her like a lover would? She may have gotten too comfortable with you as a friend, so you need to switch it and turn on her attraction for you. (I’ll explain how as we go along).

  • Act as though she is a woman who wants to have sex with you: You need to do less talking and more flirting, smiling and making her laugh. It’s not as much of ‘what to say to get a girlfriend’ as ‘what to do to get a girlfriend’. You need to move things forward to a more intimate level.

  • Do all the little things: Those same little tricks you do when dealing with any other girl you’ve dated will also work on women who don’t see you as dating potential yet. Opening a door, hugging her goodbye and then planting a kiss on her lips and looking into her eyes with a smile to let her know that you find her sexually attractive.

  • Spend time alone with her: Invite her out alone with you. The intimacy of being out alone will help her begin to see you as boyfriend material, away from the advice and teasing of her female friends.

  • Change your look: You’ll be surprised how something as simple as a new haircut or wardrobe can make a woman see you in a completely new light. By changing your look you also change the dynamics of your relationship. If your new look makes you more attractive to other women or mutual friends, she will begin to realize just how much of a good catch you would be.

Follow these tips and you’ll quickly say goodbye to your best female friend and hello to your girlfriend.

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