What to say to get a girlfriend

What you say is important, but how you make her feel by way of your behavior, confidence and overall vibe as a guy is the most important thing of all.

You’re not alone with this problem…

Many guys don’t know what to say to get a girlfriend, so they say NOTHING at all or avoid talking to the types of women they really like. Yet, as you may have experienced, not saying anything to a woman you like means that she won’t really know you exist! It also means that another guy will easily be able to step in front of you and begin having sex with her.

Examples of What to Say

Knowing what to say to get a girlfriend involves being able to start a conversation, keep a conversation going, keep it interesting by flirting with her and using humor and then escalate to a phone number, kiss, sex or date. Simply saying one amazing thing to her is not going to make her become your girlfriend, you have to go through a process that I call The Flow.

With that said, here are some examples of what to say:

  • When you first approach her: “Hey, I thought I’d come over and be social and say hi. I’m Dan, what’s your name?”
  • During a conversation: “So, what’s the best thing that’s happened to you lately?”
  • When getting a phone number: “Hey, it’s been good talking to you. Do you want to chat again sometime?” (Wait for her to say “Yes” and then say) “Cool, put your number in…” (and then hand her your phone).
  • When asking her out on a date: Have you been on many good holidays? What’s your favorite place to travel?
  • When asking her to come back to your place: Hey, we should go back and chill out at my place for a bit. 

How You Make Her Feel is the Most Important Thing of All

Getting a girlfriend is not so much about what you say, but more about how you make her FEEL by what you say and how you come across when you say it. For instance, if you’re talking to her in a nervous or shy way, she isn’t going to be very interested in you. Why? Women are mostly attracted to a guy’s confidence. They are turned off by the weakness in men and turned on by the confidence. So, if you’re showing mental and emotional weakness by being shy, nervous, insecure or behaving like a lower-ranking male, most women aren’t going to be interested in being your girlfriend.

When interacting with you, a woman wants to feel excited, turned on, nervous, happy and comfortable all at the same time. Most guys make women feel bored, awkward and turn them off within 30 seconds of conversation. Watch the video below to learn some of the most common mistakes that guys make during a conversation with a woman they like.

Turning a Female Friend into Your Girlfriend

Is there a woman in your life who you really like, but she only sees you as a friend? If you’re like most of the guys I’ve helped, you might be thinking that she needs to wake up and see what a great guy you are or that you need to tell her how you feel, but both of those assumptions are be wrong. If you want her to be your girlfriend, stop thinking about what to say to get a girlfriend and start focussing on how to behave around a woman to make her want to have sex with you and be your girlfriend. Watch the video below for a full explanation:

After watching the video above, you will know what you need to do to change how she perceives you. Getting her or any woman to want to be your girlfriend is not about being even nicer to them, being even more of a good friend or doing lots of favors for the woman. The secret to getting a girlfriend is to make women feel sexually attracted to you. Conversation is extremely important, but you also need to focus on improving your confidence, charisma and social skills. When you do that, you won’t be worrying about what to say to get a girlfriend, because most girls will be interested in you and you will simply have to choose which of them get to have sex with you or be your girlfriend.

Listen to the audio clip below to learn how I went from being the sort of guy that women rejected and dumped (if I managed to get lucky and score myself a relationship) to the type of man that women desperately want to be with and never want to leave:

Why learn from me?

My name is Dan Bacon and I had sex with more than 250 women (some photos) before recently settling down into a relationship with my perfect girl. I have helped 1,000s of guys to experience the same type of success with women that I’ve enjoyed and I would be honored to help you too. Are you interested in learning my techniques for success with women?

Why You Should Learn From Me if You Want to Get a Girlfriend

95% of the “dating advice” that you will find online is written by people who are making up their tips as they type. They are not experts and in most cases, the male writers are not even successful with women. They just guess what you should do because they are trying to fill up their website with articles, or do their job and write for the newspaper or magazine that employs them. As for me, I am an actual expert. I have helped 1,000s of guys to achieve success with women (some success stories here) and I would be honored to help you too. My advice isn’t made up on the spot. I have spent years taking guys out to bars, clubs and shopping malls and showing them how to approach women. My advice is based on real experience and real success. For example, here is what Ben, Stu and I (from The Modern Man) went through to create our now famous program called, Dating Power

When you use my advice, you are absolutely guaranteed to get a girlfriend or if you want, you can start dating and having sex with multiple women at once (I did that for years before recently settling down with my girlfriend). So, don’t waste your time looking through the millions of “dating advice” articles online that are written by random writers (who are not experts) or fake “dating gurus” who are just trying to take your money. If you want to fix your problem areas with women for real, then I recommend that you learn from a real expert like me.

About Author

Comments

Post the first comment on this page.

Leave a Comment

Please enter your name. Please enter an valid email address. Please enter a message.

About Me

Dan Bacon

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good guy, women just weren't interested. I couldn't work it out!

When I discovered the controversial secrets about women that I now teach here at The Modern Man, women began flooding into my life and I've been having an AMAZING time ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to achieve instant success with women (view success stories) and I would love to help YOU too. If you are sick and tired of not getting results with women and would like to try something that is absolutely guaranteed to work for you, then get started here.

Share Your Success Story!

Do you have a success story to share after using my techniques? Submit it here and help inspire other guys to get started.

Success Stories

Richard

"Initially I was a little put off by your prices, but I decided to give it a go anyway since you guys offered a guarantee. To say that I am happy with my purchase is an understatement. I turned my female friend of 3 years into my girlfriend with a simple conversation and a couple of your attraction techniques. Amazing!" Richard

Frankie

"I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book. I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested. I'm on fire!" Frankie

Wei

"My parents were quite worried that I still didn't have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try. I experienced more success with girls in three months that I've had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren...!" Wei

Gio

"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio

Adrian

"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian

Jason

"I've had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your techniques are gold and have worked every time I've used them. I'll be getting more of your programs soon to boost my game further." Jason

Ajay

"I was surprised at how quickly I got results because I was always the typical nice guy who girls saw only as the friend. This has been the most exciting year of my life. There's no better feeling than to have control over this area of one's life." Ajay

Dave

"After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help. I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before. I've become a better . . .

Cameron

"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron

Ricky

"Any guy who isn't learning from The Modern Man is missing out big time. I've been getting laid like crazy lately....it's funny how easy it is once you get it." Ricky

Tyrone

"Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I've ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don't hate the playa! Hahaaa..." Tyrone

Josh

"I wasted years trying to get the answers for free online until I finally decided to bite the bullet and pay to learn from the experts. I got your Dating Power program and have been having endless sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends. I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me!" Josh

Andy

"Best pick up advice online. TMM are the real deal. Got several women on the go now." Andy