Why Can't I Get a Girlfriend?

If you can't get a girlfriend, you may be swinging the bat the wrong way! Get a girlfriend the easy way, by using my proven system for success...

If you’re unhappy being single and alone and asking yourself the question, "Why can't I get a girlfriend?" then I have very good news for you: I guarantee that when you use my system, you will get a girlfriend in 30 days or less. Let’s start by addressing your problem.

Here’s the thing...

If you know anything about baseball, you’d already know that every ball the pitcher throws has the chance to end up as a strike where the batter misses and loses his opportunity to score. 3 strikes and you’re out.

Dating, as it turns out, is similar to baseball – with the right techniques and training you can be the guy who throws the perfect pitch, or without it – you can be the guy who ends up striking out, time and time again.

To get a girlfriend you have to how to hit a home run, instead of always getting stuck at first or second base with a woman. Here are 3 introductory tips to help you score the next time you meet a woman you like:

  • Display relaxed, easy-going confidence: Think of confidence as two rocks being placed on a scale. If one rock is much larger than the other, the balance is out of whack...and when it comes to dating, too much confidence is just as off-putting to women as too little.

    Be confident enough in your abilities to approach any woman and chat to her with relaxed, easy-going confidence, but don't be the rude obnoxious guy. Truly confident guys are able to get girlfriends because they naturally come off as relaxed, posed and approachable. (Learn more about using confidence to attract women).
  • Be mature, but have fun too: If you’re asking yourself, "Why can't I get a girlfriend?" take a moment review how you interact when hanging out with women in social situations. If you're the guy who feels like he’s not good enough and sinks into the background, everyone else will get on with having fun without you.

    On the other hand, if you are the loud guy who is constantly trying to draw attention to yourself, you’ll appear immature and insecure. To get a girlfriend you need to learn how to modify your approach in the different situations you find yourself with women. Sometimes funny is better and sometimes a more serious approach is needed.
  • Fix your internal issues: What goes on inside your head reflects out to the world through your body language, words and actions. Women can see if you doubt yourself and it turns them off.

    If you want to know the answer to the question, "Why can't I get a girlfriend?" you need to realize that your own self-doubt and insecurities is your greatest enemy. How many times have you noticed a pretty woman looking in your direction and started to walk over before you allowed negative thoughts to hold you back? Maybe you thought she couldn't really be interested in a guy like you, or you just didn’t know what to say.

If you are tired of asking, "Why can't I get a girlfriend?" then it’s time to step up to the plate and hit the ball out of the park! You’ve already taken the first step and found us here at The Modern Man. Now take the second step and click below to access my best tips and techniques on getting a girlfriend.

Before you continue, let me take a second to explain who I am. My name is Dan Bacon and I founded The Modern Man 5 years ago because I was tired of seeing good guys struggle to get the attention they deserved from women.

The techniques that my team and I have developed have transformed our own dating lives and the dating lives of 1,000s of men around the globe...now it's your turn to get a girlfriend!

Are you ready to score a home run and get the girl you’ve always wanted?

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“When i found your video training on how to get a girlfriend I thought "Okay here's something to take me in the right direction". I'm not interested in just sleeping with girls, but now I have a girlfriend of 2 weeks and she is absolutely stunning. Best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good....”
Will, Ohio, USA
“Hey, I had a girlfriend for three years and we had sex not more than 25 times, so I thought I had too little practice. It's been two years since then, and I'm back in the game with an unstoppable flow. I think the best advice you give is to show more confidence, this has definitely made a difference, now I have a whole set of beautiful women at my disposal who do anything I want whenever I want, and I am not exaggerating. Thanks for the information and keep up the good work..."
Alejandro, Puerto Rico
“I've already been on 3 dates and it's only been a month. I know! That may not seem like much to you, but to me it's heaps because before that I was single for about 2 years and was feeling down about why I couldn't get a girlfriend. Thanks for the advice, I'm now starting a relationship with one of the girls I dated recently...”
R, Melbourne, Australia