Why can't I get a girlfriend?

If you’re wondering to yourself, “Why can’t I get a girlfriend?” then the main reasons would be that you’re either lacking confidence or conversation skills, or you’re not approaching and meeting enough women. It’s as simple as that.

Fixing your problem is EASY, believe me. If you’ve already wasted enough of your life and are sick and tired of wondering, “Why can’t I get a girlfriend?” then you now have a big reason to SMILE. Why? I really can help you get a girlfriend. This is what I do and I am serious about helping you.

Before I give you some killer tips, I first want to tell you WHY you should learn from me instead of surfing around looking at the millions of “dating advice” sites online that just make up their tips as they type…

Why Learn From Me About How to Get a Girlfriend?

My name is Dan Bacon and many years ago, my girlfriend (who I got with by pure luck) cheated on me and then dumped me. It sent me into a downward spiral where I lost a lot of confidence in myself and ended up thinking that women were too picky, untrustworthy and were unnecessarily mean to nice guys like me.

Yet, I was wrong.

The problem was that I lacked emotional strength (i.e. I was insecure, nervous around other women, shy in some social situations) and I wasn’t enough of a man for the women I met (i.e. I lacked purpose in life, I lacked confidence in social situations and wasn’t the sort of guy that a woman could look up to and respect).

I went through a bad break up and couldn’t find myself a new girlfriend, so I fixed my issues and became the sort of guy that women desperately want to be with and never want to leave. I’ve now taught my techniques to 1,000s of guys from all over the world and many guys have come back to the site to post up success stories about how they’ve been able to get a girlfriend, have sex with lots of new women, improve their existing relationship or repair a broken relationship. If you read through the success stories, you will see that guys are shocked to learn what I teach and amazed at how quickly their life changes.

How Much More of Your Life Will You Let Slip Away Without a Woman?

Why can't I get a girlfriend?
The truth is, you can have a new girlfriend by next week if you really want to. However, if you want to achieve that, you have to be willing to work on improving your confidence, conversation skills and overall strength as a guy. I’m not talking about physical strength, I’m talking about mental and emotional strength.

Being successful with women is not about being tall, handsome, wearing the most expensive clothes or driving a sports car; it’s about being a strong guy. The stronger you are (mentally and emotionally), the more that women naturally feel attracted to you. Women are attracted to the strength in men and turned off by the weakness. A guy can have big muscles and be tall, but if he is a wimp (mentally and emotionally) most women aren’t going to be interested.

Your physical strength and height are not the most important things to a woman; what is important is how strong your confidence is, how masculine you are in the way that you think, behave and take action and how comfortable you are around other people.

Don’t believe what you see in TV or magazine advertisements; they will tell you that you need to handsome, have six pack abs, drive an expensive sports car, wear the latest fashions, wear an expensive cologne, have perfect skin…and THEN you might be able to get a woman interested.

Believe what you see with your own eyes in real life: Beautiful women are with all sorts of guys. Think about the guys you have seen who have a great girlfriend; they usually aren’t anything special. You don’t have to be super amazing to get a girlfriend; you just have to be confident, be masculine (in the way you think, behave and take action) and have decent social skills. I will help you rapidly improve on all three of those areas when you stick around here at The Modern Man and learn.

Excuses That Guys Make For Not Being Able to Get a Girlfriend

I’ve been helping guys to get a girlfriend (or have sex with lots of women before settling into a relationship) for many years now. Along the way, I have heard ALL the excuses, some of which include:

  • I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m not good looking enough
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m too short
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m fat
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m ugly
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m bald
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because I don’t have big muscles
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because all the good women are taken
  • I can’t get a girlfriend because women just go for jerks or bad boys, not nice guys like me

What are your excuses? If you use any of the excuses above, make sure you click through and read the articles I’ve written up about each topic. Most guys have all sorts of reasons why they think they CAN’T get a girlfriend, but if you want to stop being alone and missing out on all the sex, love and good times with women that other guys are having, you have to start focussing of the reasons why you CAN get a girlfriend.

If you can’t think of any reasons right now, I will give one to you: You have found my website. I will help you get a girlfriend. In fact, I guarantee that you if you learn from me, you WILL get a girlfriend within the next 30 days. Are willing to give it a try?

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About Author


Welcome to The Modern Man!

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good, honest guy, women just weren't interested.

When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.

If you are sick and tired of not getting results with women and would like to try something that is absolutely guaranteed to work for you, then get started here

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Success Stories


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"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio


"After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help. I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before. I've become a better man than I was before which has not only helped my marriage, but my standing at work where I have recently been promoted. I can't thank Dan and his team enough." Dave

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I finished reading "The Flow" 2 days after I had purchased it. On the third day, I went out into the town to put what I learned in action. It works so well! I talked to two girls, and they both wanted me! What I attempted was wayyy out of my comfort zone, and not what I usually would do, but I put that passed me and just gave it a go. Worked like a charm. The first girl I talked to was definitely interested, so much so that I felt taking her home was absolutely possible, but after talking for a little I decided i didn't want her. YES, I chose. Then moved onto the next girl, who was also much more beautiful. Put the techniques I read about in the book to use, and now she is my girlfriend. It was literally so easy after you know the right things to do. Before this book I would have NEVER talked to her. Before this book I wouldn't have even tried because I mean seriously, she seemed way out of my league. Buy this book. It is absolutely worth it.


"I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book. I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested. I'm on fire!" Frankie


"My parents were quite worried that I still didn't have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try. I experienced more success with girls in three months that I've had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren...!" Wei


"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron


"I've had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your techniques are gold and have worked every time I've used them. I'll be getting more of your programs soon to boost my game further." Jason


"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


"I was surprised at how quickly I got results because I was always the typical nice guy who girls saw only as the friend. This has been the most exciting year of my life. There's no better feeling than to have control over this area of one's life." Ajay


"Initially I was a little put off by your prices, but I decided to give it a go anyway since you guys offered a guarantee. To say that I am happy with my purchase is an understatement. I turned my female friend of 3 years into my girlfriend with a simple conversation and a couple of your attraction techniques. Amazing!" Richard


"Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I've ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don't hate the playa! Hahaaa..." Tyrone