The Flow on Audio
The easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
You’ll learn what to say and do to effortlessly flow from a conversation to kiss, sex and into a relationship with a woman of your choosing.
4 hours, 23 minutes of audio. The Flow eBook read by Dan Bacon. Audiobook version. Instant download/listen online. Opens and plays on phones, tablets and desktop computers. 30 day money back guarantee.Price: $97
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The Flow eBook
The easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
You’ll learn what to say and do to effortlessly flow from a conversation to kiss, sex and into a relationship with a woman of your choosing.
318 pages. Written by Dan Bacon. Instant download. Opens on phones, tablets and desktop computers. 30 day money back guarantee.Price: $97
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Discount Pack: The Flow eBook + The Flow on Audio
The easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
You’ll learn what to say and do to effortlessly flow from a conversation to kiss, sex and into a relationship with a woman of your choosing.
The Flow eBook – 318 pages. The Flow on Audio – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio. Instant download. Opens on phones, tablets and desktop computers. 30 day money back guarantee.You get:
- The Flow eBook
- The Flow on Audio
Price: $194 Only $127 (you save $67)
It has been a long time in the making, but The Flow on Audio is finally here!
After getting many requests over the years to turn my e-book, The Flow, into an audiobook, I decided to set aside some time and update The Flow, and then record it into an audiobook version.
I’ve spent the last three months of my life editing and updating The Flow e-book and putting new and improved examples and techniques into the book. I then recorded it to create The Flow on Audio for you.
So now you can listen to The Flow in your car, on your phone, at home, before going out to approach women or before going to talk to a woman that you’ve got a crush on and you want to turn into your girlfriend or at least have sex with her.
Listen to The Flow on Audio right before approaching or interacting with women that you find attractive and you will be full of confidence and ready to attract and pick up women with ease.
10 New Things About the New Version of The Flow
If you loved the original version of The Flow, you will be absolutely amazed at the new, advanced version.
Here are some of the new things included:
1. More examples of what to say during each step of The Flow.
A lot of guys get stuck with what to say at certain points with women.
So, in the new version of The Flow, I’ve included examples of what to say at every step of the way along The Flow process.
There are examples of what to say to:
- Start a conversation.
- Keep a conversation going and keep it interesting.
- Connect with a woman in an attractive way.
There are also examples of what to say to get her to:
- Kiss you.
- Hug you.
- Give you her phone number.
- Leave her friends and sit one-on-one with you at a bar, party, nightclub or social event.
- Buy you a drink.
- Go home with you on the first night or first date.
- Have sex with you.
- Laugh, smile and enjoy talking to you when you first call her.
- Go out on a date with you
- Cook dinner for you.
In the new version of The Flow, there are also examples of…
2. What to text her.
- What to text a woman right after you get her phone number.
- What to text her if she doesn’t answer your phone call when you first try to call her.
- What to text her to arrange a second date.
3. Get results even if you’re an introvert.
The previous version of The Flow was more tailored towards guys who wanted to become an extrovert or are already a bit of an extrovert.
By extrovert, I mean being socially outgoing or liking being around lots of people all the time.
The new version of The Flow takes into account the fact that some guys don’t want to be an extrovert, and they want to remain being an introvert, but they still want to be able to get laid and get a girlfriend.
So, the new Flow approach is designed to work perfectly for introverts or extroverts because there’s more of a focus on attracting women in a fundamental and sometimes primal way during a conversation, rather than attracting women by being very social and outgoing.
4. Now with 8 of the most powerful personality traits that naturally attract women.
The new personality traits are:
- Confident.
- Masculine.
- Funny.
- Unpredictable.
- Charming.
- Sexual.
- Charismatic.
- Socially intelligent.
In the previous version of The Flow, I had two personality traits in there that I’ve now removed. Those were adventurous and stylish.
The reason why I removed adventurous is that it’s a bit more of an extrovert trait. It does attract women, but you don’t actually need it to get laid or get a girlfriend.
So, I removed that, and I also removed stylish because when you’re attracting women in the more fundamental and sometimes primal ways, you don’t really need to worry so much about style and fashion and what you’re wearing.
There’s nothing wrong with being adventurous and there’s nothing wrong with being stylish, but when you’re attracting women in the more fundamental and primal ways, it doesn’t really matter so much.
So, I replaced those two personality traits with the new personality trait of charismatic, which is much more important, and it’s actually a lot easier and more instant for guys to use.
Charisma is a personality trait that:
- Allows you to immediately attract high quality, beautiful women, and then build on their attraction during the interaction.
- Maintains a woman’s attraction for you when on a date, and when in a relationship.
- Makes people like you instantly, respect you, and want to be good to you so they can get to be around you more.
- Just think of some of the charismatic people that you’ve met in your life, and you’ll realize that people feel lucky to be spending time with them and getting their attention. That’s one of the things that charisma does for you.
- Opens doors for you.
- Charismatic people get promoted more, asked to more parties, included in things, and generally accepted by almost everyone that they meet. As a charismatic guy, you are that cool, likable, fascinating guy that doesn’t even have to say or do much to make people enjoy being around you.
- Makes your life a lot more enjoyable and fulfilling because you are being loved, respected, and wanted for the real, authentic person that you are deep down.
5. More ballsy and masculine than before.
The conversation examples, mindset and approach to women, is a lot more ballsy than the original version of The Flow.
You don’t really need to put much effort into attracting women when you use this approach because you naturally and instantly begin to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
6. 10 next level moments.
Before I went and updated The Flow, I sent out a survey to existing readers of The Flow, and for those who filled in the survey, most of them were saying that they wanted to get some more examples of what to do to take things to the next level with women.
For example: Getting her phone number, kissing, getting to sex, getting her out on a date, what to say on the phone, what to say if she doesn’t say yes to a date, etc.
So, in the new version of The Flow, there is now a big section called 10 Next Level Moments, and under each of those 10 Next Level Moments, I expand out and give you examples of what to say and do to take it to the next level in that particular moment.
The 10 next level moments are:
- Touch her.
- Get alone with her.
- Get her phone number or get her to add you to Facebook.
- Text her right after getting her phone number.
- Kiss her the first time that you meet her.
- Have sex with her on the first day or night that you meet her.
- Call her to arrange a first date.
- Kiss her on the first date.
- Have sex on the first date.
- Text or call her to arrange a second date.
Under each of those next level moments, I give lots of examples of what to say and do.
For example:
- 11 ways to initiate physical touching.
- 3 ways to kiss her.
- 4 ways to get alone with her in a social environment.
- Examples of what to say to get her phone number and/or add her to Facebook.
- 5 examples of what to text her right after getting her phone number in person.
- What to text her if you got her phone number from a friend or from an online dating site or app.
- What to say on the phone if you got her phone number from a friend, and what to text her if she doesn’t initially answer your phone call.
- 7 signs that a woman will give you when she wants you to kiss her.
- 7 things to say to get her to leave a party, bar, nightclub, or event to go home and have sex with you.
- What to say and do if a woman initially says no to going home with you so she then changes her mind and does go home with you.
- 3 examples of what to say when you call a woman to arrange a first date.
- 2 examples of what to say if she initially says no to a first date so she then changes her mind, and says yes right then and there or the next time that you call.
- 4 ways to increase the chances of having sex on the first date.
- What to say on a phone call to get a second date or what to text her to get a second date.
As you can see, all the next level bases are covered.
When you listen to The Flow on Audio, you’re going to hear me speak out all the examples of the sort of things that you can say to her in person to get her to kiss you, to get her to hug you, to get her to give you her phone number, to go home with you, to go out on a date with you, etc.
7. Pass a woman’s tests with ease.
As you would know, when you interact with women they test your confidence.
They play hard to get, they don’t contribute much to a conversation, they give one- or two-word answers, and they’re doing that to test if you’re going to be able to remain confident.
In the new version of The Flow, there’s a lot more focus on how to remain perfectly confident, calm, and in control when a woman tests you by playing hard to get, teasing you, or not contributing much to the conversation.
Plus, there are examples of what to say and do to get her to stop the testing, and just hook up with you.
8. A new level of confidence.
If you read the original version of The Flow, you no doubt experienced the confidence boost that comes with it.
With the new version of The Flow, you can expect to times that by 10. This is a completely new level of confidence and it’s going to completely change the quality of woman that you can attract and keep.
9. New conversation starter examples.
The conversation starter examples in the original version of The Flow were great, but some of them needed updating. So, I’ve kept the great ones and have replaced the ones that needed updating.
10. 4 easy ways to instantly develop a real connection with a woman.
What I found was that many guys were getting stuck when it came to connecting with a woman because they didn’t really have many ideas of what to say past, “Hey, so what’s your name? What do you do for a living? Where are you from? How old are you? Are you having a good night? What else can I ask you?”
Those sort of questions eventually lead to an awkward silence and the woman starts to lose interest because they don’t actually make her feel sexually attracted and turned on, which is what you always need to be aiming to do.
When you’re connecting with a woman, you don’t need to be trying to make her feel intense sexual attraction, but you still need to make sure that you keep making her feel some sexual attraction and you don’t get into boring her with questions that don’t really inspire strong emotion.
These new connection techniques:
- Make it very easy for you to instantly connect and get along with all types of women.
- Cause women feel a lot of respect and attraction for you right away because they can see that you are an authentic, confident, masculine man.
- Make a woman immediately (or very quickly) bring out the easygoing, down-to-earth side of her personality that she doesn’t share with other guys.
Okay, so there are 10 new things about the new version of The Flow.
There are obviously more new things about the new version of The Flow, but that’s enough for now.
I can tell you with confidence that if you loved the original version of The Flow, you are going to absolutely love the new version of The Flow.
The original version of The Flow was written over 11 years ago.
Now, with my vast experience with women and with helping guys to use The Flow and understand The Flow, I’ve updated The Flow and included so many more amazing examples.
I’ve improved all the explanations, examples and techniques for confidence, masculinity, being charming, connecting with women, attracting women and getting to kissing and sex.
The Flow is now the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
I’ve really enjoyed updating The Flow to include the new examples and techniques and I can’t wait to share it with you, so you too can experience easy, natural success with women from now on.
The Flow on Audio
The easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
You’ll learn what to say and do to effortlessly flow from a conversation to kiss, sex and into a relationship with a woman of your choosing.
4 hours, 23 minutes of audio. The Flow eBook read by Dan Bacon. Audiobook version. Instant download/listen online. Opens and plays on phones, tablets and desktop computers. 30 day money back guarantee.Price: $97
Download Now
The Flow eBook
The easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
You’ll learn what to say and do to effortlessly flow from a conversation to kiss, sex and into a relationship with a woman of your choosing.
318 pages. Written by Dan Bacon. Instant download. Opens on phones, tablets and desktop computers. 30 day money back guarantee.Price: $97
Download Now
Discount Pack: The Flow eBook + The Flow on Audio
The easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
You’ll learn what to say and do to effortlessly flow from a conversation to kiss, sex and into a relationship with a woman of your choosing.
The Flow eBook – 318 pages. The Flow on Audio – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio. Instant download. Opens on phones, tablets and desktop computers. 30 day money back guarantee.You get:
- The Flow eBook
- The Flow on Audio
Price: $194 Only $127 (you save $67)
Awesome!
I can’t wait to listen to this when it is released in a couple of days! I’ve always hoped you’d made an audio book version of the flow.
Your book is the best investment I’ve ever made in myself self help wise. I bought the old flow about 2 years ago and I’ve gotten laid plenty of times and also had a girlfriend that I broke up with 2 months ago so this new edition and flow on audio has come at a perfect time for me!
I can’t wait to listen to this in my car on the way to work. Thanks for making it Dan!
Michael
Hey Michael
Congrats on your success with women! Sounds like you’ve been having a great time.
Things are about to get 10x better for you. Prepare for a completely new level of success with women. You will laugh at how easy pick up is with the new, more powerful Flow techniques.
Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan
I’m finally on the level from where I refuse to accept second best. And I have got better at not being submissive around women. But the problem is I’m too netutal around women, and when I’m trying to get women to impress me I keep coming across arrogance, so will the new version of the flow show me how to get women to impress me etc?
Many thanks John
Hey John
Yes.
In this new version, you will learn how to be confident and masculine, while also being loving, charming and charismatic. There are examples of what to say and do to display those attractive traits at each step of The Flow process.
BTW: The mistake you are making is a bit of a newbie mistake with confidence where a guy will take it too far and begin to act arrogant. I address that mistake and explain what to do instead.
Cheers
Dan
I cant wait to get the new version of the flow. The modern was the first step toward getting my life together and becoming a man with purpose. Thanks Dan!
Hey Carlos
Thanks mate! It’s an honor to be helping you with this area of your life.
Enjoy The Flow on Audio and the great times ahead with women!
Cheers
Dan
I can’t wait! And thank you for adding more about charisma! Finding you one year ago has been the best investment I’ve ever made in my entire life!
I literally started at rock bottom last year in August, and now today I’m embracing the advanced level and really starting to feel relaxed confidence and feeling normal around hot chicks whom I previously thought I was out of their league hahaha…
Keep up the great work Dan, Ben and Stu! 🙂
Hey Tom
Great to hear about your success so far! Well done.
Get ready to times that by 10 after you listen to The Flow on Audio. This is a completely new level of confidence, attraction and skill. I hope that you come back to this page soon to post up a comment about how you picked up one of those hotties!
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan
Do I have to pay for this version of The Flow, if I already own the ebook version of it?
I would love to have this on my smart phone & listen to it while on the bus or working out at the gym. 🙂
I see you got a full of beard, nice! 🙂
Hi Amrish
Yes, The Flow on Audio is completely new product (that took me 3 months of full time work to complete) and needs to be purchased separately.
What you’re asking is kind of like buying an iPhone and asking if you get the iPad for free. They are two separate products! 🙂
By the way…
For the first only, the new version of The Flow eBook is included as a free bonus when you purchase The Flow on Audio. This applies to new and existing customers.
After the first month, The Flow eBook will need to be purchased separately. Once again, this applies to new and existing customers.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan
Fair enough, I understand. Regardless of the amount, I’m more than likely to invest in this. I know I can do it, since I’ve realized that I can do anything, once I put my mind to it. Plus my alpha power is starting to stay with me than compare to in the past.
I look forward to the release of this product, the time difference isn’t much between Australia & NZ.
Take care Dan
Hi Amrish
Great to hear of your progress!
Get ready for a new level of confidence and skill when you listen to The Flow on Audio.
Cheers
Dan
Hiii Dan u give awesome tips nd I read all ur messages but my main problem is that I live in india, Mumbai nd I want to purchase the flow but it’s in dollars please give me a solution to buy it in rupees
Hi Deep
You can purchase The Flow with a credit card and your bank will use rupees to purchase the product. It’s done automatically for you.
If you don’t have a credit card, you can also purchase via Pay Pal and use your savings account to purchase.
Payment options explained here: http://store.themodernman.com/payment.html
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan, that’s sounds great! I bought The Flow (along with some other programs) few months ago but since I’m an introverted guy, this feels like even better product for me. Unfortunately, I can’t afford it right now. The problem is, I moved to a new city where I don’t have any friends. If I try to go to bars (as the easiest way to build the skill) by myself, I won’t be perceived as socially intelligent. I’m temporarily unemployed which is a big turn-off too. I have no idea what to do. Should I focus on making friends first? Also, can I use the older Flow given that some methods were removed and some (possibly crucial for me) added?
Hi George
If you approach alone and a woman asks you why you’re not there with friends, just say, “All of my buddies are available tonight, so I thought it’d be fun to head out tonight on my own…and it is fun” and then get on with talking to her.
If you want to make some friends first, attend some meet ups via meetup.com or start up a new hobby (e.g. martial arts, mixed sports team(men and women playing together), salsa dancing).
I’d recommend that you use the new version of The Flow. It’s on a completely new level and then some: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow_on_audio.html
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
This is a great addition to an already impressive collection of work.
I discovered the modern man about 9 months ago, after moving away from all my friends and family; I’ve really come into my own as a masculine, confident alpha male.
I’ve used the Flow techniques and am seeing someone now, although she is not yet my girlfriend, I’m just taking it easy and having fun for now. I’m sort of non-committal on settling down yet.
I have question for you, are current members able to get the 50% discount for the Flow on audio? Also, is there a way to subscribe to your blog to instantly know when there’s a new post?
I already have the majority of your products. I’m looking to get back into studying; I’ve been a little busy with work and traveling lately. The Flow on audio seems like a great way to get back into it.
Thanks for everything Dan, cheers.
John S.
Hi John
Great to hear of your success so far. Well done actually using the advice and following through; that’s when all the good stuff happens for you.
About a discount: New products are not eligible for 50% discounts for at least 2 years.
Subscribing to the blog: Yes, sign up to the newsletter by logging via the home page: http://www.themodernman.com/
Enjoy The Flow on Audio, John! It’s sounds like it will be perfect for you now that you’re studying and travelling.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan,
Good to hear you kicking ass again. About the new Flow, how much emphasis is placed on beating approach anxiety?
Cheers,
Jared
Hi Jared
Thanks mate. Good to hear from you too – long time no speak.
About approach anxiety: I’ve approached that problem in The Flow in a new way. The new approach makes you feel comfortable, unthreatened and happy before approaching and talk to women.
Enjoy!
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan
I’ve been listening to The Flow on audio in my car on the way to work and it has made attraction and pick up so clear to me now.
I attracted a girl at work who only ever saw me in a friendly way and she wouldn’t stop coming over to my desk for like 3 days, so I asked her out for a coffee after work and she said yes.
She was completely into me and flirting like crazy and we then kissed next to her car after I walked her to it.
AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I couldn’t believe it was happening. I have been single for about a year now with no action and the first time I try this stuff it works.
You have a customer and fan for life Dan. This stuff works like magic.
THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME THE WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Christopher
Hi Christopher
Good on you mate!
All the credit goes to you for actually using the advice and techniques. Congrats, well done and enjoy the great times ahead with her!
Cheers
Dan
Hey there Dan,
What a brilliant book and audio!
I’ve been studying pick up for three or more years to this date and no one has explained it all as clearly as you have in the flow and audiobook.
Everything makes sense to me now and I know what I need to say and do so now the next step is to do that.
I am looking forward to trying out the techniques this weekend because I got invited to a party through a friend yesterday.
It’s time for me to start picking up and getting what I want.
I will make that happen this week I know.
Yours,
Adam P
Hi Adam
Thank you for the compliment. I’m very grateful to hear that because I went through the book multiple times, getting rid of anything that didn’t need to be there and emphasizing points that I know guys struggle to understand (e.g. about how to be confident around attractive women, pass the tests of women, etc).
Please do follow through on your promise to use the techniques. When you do, you will see that most women are way easier to attract and pick up than they make themselves out to be.
Enjoy the party!
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
I figured I’d post this in here since comments are still open. I have a semi-dilemma and need your thoughts about the girl I spoke of in my previous comment I am seeing.
We first met in late May, she had a boyfriend she was seeing for awhile at the time; but texted me all the time. Naturally, I knew something was up. I kept my distance emotionally initially, but as we spoke more, FaceTimed; I realized how compatible we were.
I used to The Flow techniques and she came over my apartment on a Friday and spent the night; it was the first time I’d ever pulled sex on the first date. Two weeks later she spent the weekend with me.
Now to the issue, she broke up with her boyfriend the day after we had sex. She admitted to me afterward that she didn’t “feel” the same spark with him anymore as she did with me. She saw him as a friend, I deduced this early on; she’s a great girl and very feminine and attractive, but the guy ended up getting lucky.
As she opened up more about it, I found out he lacked purpose. He is my age (26) and is a waiter at his family business; while going out most nights to drink with his friends. She admitted to me this was a huge turn off, and that she wished he was more like me early on when we were talking.
She also revealed he had feminine tendencies, if she wanted to stay in and watch a move; he’d make a fuss about it and pout the rest of the night. She eventually fell out of love with him, and sees him as nothing more than a friend.
They were living together at his parents house, originally their place was to move back across country to her home for a little while because she made him go to school out there. The timing when we met was right before all this, she decided it was right for them to go back to her home with her parents for a little while he attended school; and I agreed he shouldn’t give that up.
The trouble is she’s living with him at her parents house, I’m obviously not happy; but it’s not really any different. Only the dynamic is. We have been long distance for almost a month now, it hasn’t been bad at all.
I had a few hiccups yesterday because I got upset she hasn’t told her parents the two are broken up and it’s been almost 2 months; then failed a couple confidence tests. I don’t know why I got upset because it’s not really a big deal, but I now know it was because I am still feeling like a “third wheel” in a sense.
She’s starting to feel very down that she’s not with me, and I know I need to be strong for the both of us. She assures me her relationship with him is totally platonic, and the thing is; I believe her. I just worry that something could happen since she’s living with him there, then the trust is ruined.
Like I said, I know it’s platonic and she sees him as a friend; but if it gets up to 60+ days where neither of us have had sex, suddenly certain things could become more appealing.
I’m at a loss, Dan. I’ve never been in such a tough situation, I was seeing other girls at the time and picked her because of compatibility and attracted her on purpose. She loves and respects me, which makes it easier. It has also made it easier that I have purpose and focus on that. Minus my few hiccups yesterday it’s been good.
I wanted to come to you before I let the situation get the best of me and start accusing or something; I’m staying strong and don’t want that to happens.
Cheers,
John S.
Hey John
It’s difficult for women to find men like you, so don’t worry about her losing interest in you and falling back in love with the guy who she doesn’t even want to be with.
What you need to do is not sit around waiting for her and hoping that nothing happens between her and him. It will drive you nuts if you start imagining things and reading into signals and signs from her.
Start having fun hanging out with other women and post photos on social media. You don’t have to hook up with those women, but at least show her that if she wants to be with you, she’d better make a move quick or else another woman will snap you up.
When she confronts you about it, just tell her that you love her and want to be with her, but you’re simply living life because there are no guarantees that she’s going to get out of her current situation to be with you.
Cheers
Dan
hi Dan
i’m Chau, i’m Vietnamese, my skill listen english is not good, i can only read ebook. but i want to study this very much. can you sent ebook for me? and tell me how much is that book.
thank so much.
Hi Chau
You can purchase the eBook here and download it instantly: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html
The price will be increasing soon, so please look at the price on this page: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan,
I’m back again. I took your advice and kept living my life, it worked out well. She’s coming back to stay with me in a couple weeks.
I wanted to contact you again because I had another hiccup on Sunday, where I got emotional about her not telling anyone she’s broken up with her boyfriend. I know it’s out of jealousy, and that’s not who I am.
She got very upset and was being difficult with me for a couple days, but I snapped her out of it with my masculinity rather than asking her what was wrong; it ended up with her having deeper feelings for me.
My issue is that I feel myself getting randomly clingy, she’s been living her life over there, hanging out with old friends; which is all good.
The reason it went so well the first 1.5 months we were apart, I was very busy. I was traveling home for weddings, hanging out with new friends, and now I have been interviewing for a higher level position of my current job in other companies.
The last couple of weekends I just haven’t had much to do, my buddies started back up college and I started back up studying for my job accreditation exams; so we’ve just been a little busy.
After my bout of jealousy, I felt I lost the perfect dynamic I had with her. I know she still loves me of course; as you said in dating power, we’re not perfect and I seldom have gotten jealous over the 4 months of dating.
She’s now been testing me with with mood swings as I said, and she also said over FaceTime on Friday she wanted her sister to ask a “cute” waiter out and that he had a Spanish look going on and went into detail of how she found him attractive. I immediately recognized the test, and just said, “oh, does she know him?” and she went onto say her sister and him had gone to school together for awhile and her mom knows him. I felt myself cringe a little when she said it, but I held firm.
My question is, how do I re-enable that perfect dynamic after letting my game slip briefly? I’m re-watching Better Than a Bad Boy, and I want to use this to become a stronger man. She was chasing all the time before, but as you state regularly, a bout of emotional jealous gives her some power.
I re-watched Part I of Better than a Bad Boy last night while she was out at a football game and out with some old friends. I actually felt her start to chase a little again even just after watching Part I because since I wasn’t texting her a bunch, she began to text frequently to say she missed me; then when I went to bed she seemed upset to stop talking to me and said she misses me again. How do I take the power fully back, and re-enable the perfect dynamic that I loved?
Cheers,
John S.
Hey John
You just need to keep building your confidence, emotional masculinity and emotional independence, so jealousy becomes unnecessary. Being a man of purpose definitely helps with that. Once your purpose is #1 and your woman is #2 (in terms of life importance), everything falls into place. She is still extremely important, but absolutely replaceable if she tries to take you away from your purpose. That’s what she actually wants anyway.
Cheers
Dan
P.S. Will reply to your next pending comment and will then be closing comments. See: http://www.themodernman.com/my-personal-reply-to-you.html
Hey Dan,
I just came a revelation of what she’s been doing. When I had a bout of emotional jealously of her still not telling anyone about the break up, I threatened to break it off between us.
She’s trying to gain power by undermining me and trying to make me more attached so she doesn’t feel that I have that power to just move on without her. Better Than a Bad Boy is amazing.
Cheers,
John S.
Hey John
Awesome to hear of your progress in thinking. You are on the path.
It just gets easier and better from there. Women simply cannot find a man who can do what you can now do when tested. It’s next to impossible.
Cheers
Dan