Do you become shy or nervous around women you like? Do you often run out of things to say when talking to attractive women? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. In fact, although most people won’t admit it, many of them (including celebrities) suffer from social shyness.
I too am a former shy guy. Before I transformed myself into a confident guy, my dating life was basically non-existent. Why? Women are attracted to the strength in men (e.g. confidence, masculinity, emotional strength, etc) and turned off by the weakness (e.g. shyness, nervousness, anxiety, etc).
Whenever I went to a bar, club or party as shy guy, I would feel the need to stand to the side and let the “cool crowd” get most of the attention, or I would find somewhere to sit down alone because I was shy about talking to people I didn’t know, especially women. It was a horrible life to live.
If you want to overcome your shyness and be a confident guy in social situations, I recommend that you stick around and learn from me via The Modern Man. Let’s kick things off with a couple of conversation starters that you can use whether you are shy, confident or anything else in between…
Conversation Starters For Shy People: Examples
1. Make a statement, followed by a question
Questions naturally require a response, so a woman will often feel obligated to respond to what you have said when you make statement and then follow it up with a question. Not all women respond to a question on its own, so to ensure that you get a response, give the question some context first by making a statement and sharing what you think about what you’re going to ask her.
For example: “Hey, those cocktails look fantastic…what do they put on those?” or “Hey, my friend and I just arrived. We had some dinner with friends and have now come here to party. How about you? What has your night been like so far?”
2. Be honest
When you’re honest, it gives a woman no room to reject you or be mean to you, like she will to other guys who put on an act or persona to try and impress her.
One of my favorite conversation starters is to walk over and say: “Hey, I thought I’d come over, be social and say hi. I’m Dan, what’s your name?” This conversation starter puts a bit of pressure on her to loosen up and be social with you. No-one wants to be seen as mean and unsocial to the “cool people” in a social environment.
Using this conversation starter automatically makes you look like one of the cool people who is being social and making sure everyone is having a good time.
This conversation starter also helps to get the conversation going because a woman will reply with her name, to which you can then flirt with her by saying, “Jenny? Oh, I like that name. You’re off to a good start. Now, you just need to buy me a drink and then I’ll really like you.”
Why Learn From Me?
My name is Dan Bacon, founder of The Modern Man and I am a former shy guy. After discovering what I now teach here at The Modern Man, I instantly began to transform into the confident, alpha male that I am today…and it completely changed my success with women and in so many other areas of life.
My start-to-finish system for success with women will teach you EVERYTHING that you need to know to overcome your shyness and achieve what you want with women and your social life. When you use my techniques, you won’t be one of the shy people anymore – you will be truly confident and will be be having fun, experiencing love and sex with the types of women you really want to be with.
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