So, you really like this girl…
You feel a different connection with her and you really want her to feel the same way about you too. Yet, she just doesn’t seem to be interested in anything sexual.
Can you convince her to like you? Is there something sweet you can say that will get her to realize that you are the guy for her?
She Won’t Let You Convince Her
Girls make decisions on who they want to have a sexual, romantic relationship with based on sexual attraction first.
You can waste months or years trying to convince a girl that you’re a good guy, have good intentions with her and really care about her. Yet, that won’t get you anywhere.
All it will take for you to be pushed into the background, is another guy to come along and make her feel sexually attracted.
She will then switch her attention to him, hook up with him and they may begin a relationship after that.
A woman will only begin to like you when she feels an attraction for you…and you have to CREATE that attraction. She won’t be fooled into being convinced to like you. Instead, she wants to FEEL sexually attracted and turned on by you.
When she feels that way, she will automatically like you.
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No matter how hard you try, a girl won’t allow you to convince her to like you. If you are unable to make her feel a basic level of sexual attraction for you, she is only going to see you as a friend.
She might pretend to like you just so she can keep getting the nice treatment you’re giving her, but she won’t hook up with you. She might say things like, “I’m not ready for a relationship right now” or “I need some time” or “I don’t want to move too fast” or “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”
She’ll say all sorts of things to keep you at a distance. However, if she felt attracted to you, she would be saying and doing whatever she could to be in your arms.
The Truth About Convincing a Girl to Like You
The truth is that you can’t convince a girl to like you mere words; she has to feel attraction for you first. Guys that make the following mistakes turn girls off and ruin their chances of hooking up with her…
1. They don’t make the first move
As obvious as this sounds, many guys think that if they wait around long enough, the woman they want will suddenly realize that he’s the real man she’s been looking for all these years.
That’s not how it works though. In most cases, a girl would rather miss out on being with you than having to make the first move. Girls do that because they are attracted to the confidence of guys and turned off by the insecurity. Girls want to see that you have the confidence to risk making a move; it’s a real turn on for them.
2. They think, behave and act in an insecure way around her
A guy who is insecure, behaves in a nervous way and who can barely look a girl in the eye for more than a few seconds is an instant turn off. Girls don’t want to reward weakness with sex, love and devotion.
3. They try to impress her
Giving her a lot of compliments or telling her a lot of cool stories about himself isn’t going to impress her much at all. She’s probably heard it all before and if he is not natural, confident in himself and his abilities, anything else he does will come across as false, forced or weird to her.
4. They’re too nice and overly polite
There’s nothing wrong with good manners, but some guys hide behind politeness because they don’t know how to make a girl feel attraction for them.
5. They put women on a pedestal
Some guys are afraid of being rejected by girls because they see girls as being more valuable than them. Instead of seeing a girl as equal or even slightly lower value, a guy like that will put her on a pedestal by giving her the impression that he feels so lucky to be even talking to her.
A girl might enjoy the treatment, but it isn’t going to make her want to have sex with the guy. If another guy comes along who is more confident and able to make her feel attracted, she will instantly switch her focus to him and forget about the guy who put her on a pedestal.
6. They give up at the first sign of resistance
Girls like to test guys to see how much they can get away with and how hard they can push before a guy says “No” or laughs at her for being so high maintenance. Girls will often give out mixed signals, act flaky or pretend to get offended easily. Some guys don’t know how to handle this and simply give up; and fail the test.
If you’re making any of the mistakes mentioned above, you will always find it difficult to get girls to like you enough to want to have sex with you and start a relationship.
Success with girls can be much easier if you use a more simple, natural approach…