If you’re not approaching women correctly, stop for a couple of weeks and properly assess where you’ve been going wrong. You’re a good guy and deserve better, but something about your approach isn’t right. Find out what that is and change it.
If you’re not getting the results that you want when approaching women, then it’s not because you’re ugly, weird or will never be successful with women. In 99% of cases, a guy’s lack of success with approaching women comes down to the ineffective approach that he is using.
If your approach to women hasn’t been working, then I recommend that you STOP approaching women for the next 2 WEEKS and do this exercise instead:
- Go out to a busy bar on a Friday or Saturday night.
- Observe other guys approaching women.
- Try to work out what the guys are doing WRONG.
- Try to work out what the guys are doing RIGHT.
- Notice how women react when the guys behave differently to how you would if you were talking to the women.
When I coach guys on weekend courses, I show them how to approach women by demonstrating and I then get them to approach women themselves. However, one of the BEST exercises is to simply WATCH what is going on. When you do this, you will notice:
- Most guys look nervous when they approach.
- Most guys need to get drunk or tipsy before approaching.
- Most guys stand around LOOKING at women, but don’t approach any all night long.
While doing this observation exercise, you will definitely notice SOME guys who act cool, natural and NORMAL. You’ll see that these guys confidently chat to women, have fun and get phone numbers (or more) like it’s the easiest thing in the world.
You’ll also notice guys being rejected and if you look closely, you’ll see that pretty much EVERY TIME it’s because they appear awkward, nervous or drunk when approaching women.
Why? Women are NOT attracted to nervousness. They are attracted to confidence. Women don’t want to be made to feel awkward when they first talk to a guy.
They want it to feel natural, fun and easy-going. Women don’t want to be approached by guys who need to be drunk to talk to them. They know from experience that these guys are phony. So, my advice to you is this: If you’re not getting the results that you want when approaching women, then STOP.
For the next 2 WEEKS, stop approaching women and do the observation exercise instead. See what you learn and then use it to improve your results with women. Then, when you are ready to get SERIOUS RESULTS, go to this page and order one of our training products.
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