Ways to have a girl

When a guy is looking for advice on ways to have a girl, he’s often a guy who lacks self-confidence and finds it difficult to approach women as a result.

How can I get a girl without approaching?

His anxiety and general shyness around women may even have resulted in him never having had a girlfriend, or never having any female friends who see him as anything other than just a friend. When this is the case, it’s all too easy to slip into thinking that finding a list of hints and tips on ways to have a girl will change things and lead to him having a girlfriend.

The harsh reality is that a list of ways to have a girl is essentially a list of ways to meet girls and unless you’re the kind of guy girls want to have as a boyfriend when they meet you, you’re no closer to having a girlfriend.

It’s not whether or not you know ways to meet girls that matters, it all comes down to knowing how to be the kind of guy that girls are desperate to meet. How can you be that type of guy? It starts with your ability to trigger a girl’s feelings of sexual attraction for you when you interact with her.

Do You Have What Girls Want?

If you want to have a girl, you need to make sure that you have what girls want! Unfortunately, there’s a lot of misinformation out there and guys who lack confidence around women often fall into traps set by clever marketing campaigns and the false world of TV sitcoms and movies.

1. It’s not all about looks

It’s not unusual for a list of “ways to have a girl” to include advice centered on a guy’s outer appearance. He might be advised to get himself a makeover of some sort – a change of hairstyle, designer clothing, stylized outfits and accessories etc. – but the way a guy looks on the outside will only ever get him so far.

The way he looks on the outside might catch a woman’s eye, but if he wants to get her attention and keep it, he needs to know how to approach her and how to strike up an interesting, relaxed two-way conversation that lets her see who he is on the inside.

2. It’s not about faking it

Another commonly given piece of advice is to “fake it till you make it.” There’s an element of truth in this in that sometimes a guy has to try out something that’s new to him before that something can become second-nature to him, but this should never extend to pretending to be something or someone you’re not in a deliberate attempt to impress a girl.

Trying to act like the confident “bad boy” you saw in a movie because his attitude and behavior always seems to get him the girl will not lead to you getting the girl! However, learning how to have genuine self-confidence and how to feel secure in who you are and what you’ve got to offer will lead to you having your pick of girls.

Do You Meet Lots of Girls?

Do you meet lots of girls?

Okay, it stands to reason that if you want to know ways to have a girl, you also need to know ways to meet girls.

However, being around girls in the places girls go is not the same as meeting girls. The bottom line is that you can’t have a girl unless you’re a guy that girls want to have – sitting by yourself in the corner of a room full of girls does not make you that guy.

Meeting girls is not just a case of showing up in the places girls go, it’s a case of knowing how to confidently approach those girls; how to strike up spontaneous conversations; how to confidently communicate who you are and what you’re about; how to build the sexual tension by flirting naturally, and how to escalate a conversation into a kiss, a phone number, or sex.

Real life is not like the movies. It’s not unusual to see scenes in movies where the “shy guy” goes into a bar or club and sits quietly by himself somewhere. He’s then approached by a beautiful woman who wants to know why he’s all by himself.

He stutters and stammers and is generally awkward around her because he’s shy and essentially intimidated by her, but she finds his shyness cute and she hangs around because she’s attracted to him. Believe me, this will NOT happen to you in real life.

If you haven’t had a girlfriend because you’re waiting for girls to approach you in bars or in any social setting, it’s not going to happen. In the real world, men approach women, so if you want to have a girl, you need to have what it takes to read a woman’s body language and to know when she’s open to being approached by you.

Have You Got What It Takes to Get a Girl?

Girls want a guy with alpha male characteristics. They are instinctively attracted to guys who have genuine self-confidence and true masculinity. These are qualities that make a guy stand out as a man who knows who he is and a man who feels secure in who he is, and this makes him a sexually attractive man as a result.

A man with strong alpha male qualities is a man who has a presence that women can feel when they’re in his company, and a man with alpha power is a man they feel virtually powerless to resist. The great news is that you can be that man. Instead of looking for ways to have a girl, look for ways to have what girls want in a guy.

By learning how to develop the qualities that women find irresistibly attractive in a man, you become a man that women want to meet, and by being that man, you know how to approach the women you meet and how to escalate a conversation into the success with women you want.

Here at The Modern Man, we’ve helped 1,000s of guys to become irresistibly attractive guys that girls are desperate to meet.

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