I want a girlfriend

To get a girlfriend, you need to make a woman feel attraction for you when you meet her and then escalate to a phone number, kiss, sex or date.

If you’re sitting around thinking, “I want a girlfriend” the first thing you need to do is work out where you’ve been going wrong.

There are literally hundreds of millions of women who would LOVE to be your girlfriend right now, so why aren’t you with any of them. If you’re like most guys who want a girlfriend, but don’t know how, it is because you’ve been making one or more of the following mistakes:

1. Not Approaching Women

Many guys are surprised to learn that women actually WANT to be approached. When a guy approaches in a confident, easy-going way, most women will be friendly and open to the conversation. However, if a guy approaches in a nervous way or appears intimidated by the woman, she will close herself off to the conversation and may even directly reject him.

While taking guys out to approach women, I stopped to ask some women on the street what they thought about being approached and here’s what they said:

“Guys Are Not Approaching Enough”

"Guys Need to Grow a Pair of Balls"

2. Being Too Nice

If you’re saying, “I want a girlfriend,” but have been acting (yes, acting) extra nice when talking to women, then it shouldn’t be any surprise that you’re still single. I recommend that guys be good guys, but being way too nice to women never gets to you anywhere. Why? For a woman to want to have sex with you or be your girlfriend, she first has to feel sexual attraction for you. Only after she feels sexual attraction for you, will she be impressed by the fact that you’re also a good guy. However, if you approach women and put on an act of being a really, really nice guy (when in real life, you’re just a normal good guy), 99% of women will see through it and will know that you’re just trying to impress them. When a woman gets that sense, she will then play hard to get or simply reject your attempts to pick her up. Here’s a video I made about this problem:

3. Doubting Yourself Around Attractive Women

Admit it…

You always see attractive women with fat, ugly, bald or short men and wonder, “How the heck did he get HER?” In most cases, the reason why the guy is with her is that he simply didn’t doubt himself when he met her. Why is this important? Women are attracted to the strength in men and turned off by the weakness. So, when you display the emotional strength of confidence, women can’t help but feel a natural attraction for you. However, if you display nervousness, shyness or appear intimidated by the woman, she will naturally feel turned off by you. The more confidence you allow yourself to feel, the more that women will naturally feel attracted to you.

I remember being in your situation many years ago. I would sit around and feel down about the fact that I didn’t have a girlfriend. I wanted a girlfriend so badly, but I didn’t know how to go about it. Here’s the story of how I turned my life around and the secrets I learned that made women begin to FLOOD into my life…

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About Me

Dan Bacon

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good, honest guy, women just weren't interested.

When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (success stories) and I would love to help you too.

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"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


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"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio