Dating tips for a first date

On your first date, you need to allow her to experience your confident, easy-going personality and have a relaxed, fun time with you. Then, when the moment is right, you need to kiss her and change the date from friendly to sexual.

According to a recent study, 55% of couples admitted to having sex on their first date, so don’t assume that your girl is Miss Innocent. She will most likely have sex with you right away if you play your cards right.

Additionally, the millions of “dating advice for men” articles written by women will tell you to be nice, listen to her and not make her feel pressured on a date. Why? Women are trying to make you give up your power to them on a first date, so they feel more confident about themselves. Yet, when you do that, the woman isn’t interested! Why? Women are mostly attracted to a guy’s confidence, so if you behave in a shy, nervous or insecure way or give her all the power, she will be turned off by your weakness.

Women are attracted to the strength in men and turned off by the weakness, so the most important dating tip for first dates is to be CONFIDENT. Don’t be a Mr. Nice Guy who pretends not to be interested in kissing her or having sex with her. Create a sexual vibe between you and her by flirting, talking about sex when the moment is right and being a confident, no BS sort of guy.

Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is Dan Bacon and I’m an actual expert at approaching, picking up and dating women. After sleeping with more than 250 women, I have recently settled down with my perfect girl. Unlike the millions of websites that just post up articles about anything to get traffic to their website, my articles are for YOU. I write for YOU. I want to help you become more successful with women. I’ve already helped 1,000s of guys to achieve dating success with women and I would be honored to help you too.

I wasn’t always good with women. In fact, it is because I SUCKED with women that The Modern Man was invented in the first. Back when I was hopeless with women, I didn’t know where to turn for advice because there weren’t any sites like The Modern Man. However, through a lot of hard work and many approaches, I began to work it all out and eventually developed a system that I call The Flow. Here’s the back story on where I was going wrong with women and how I fixed it:

By using The Flow, I was able to get new phone numbers each weekend (sometimes sex on the same night). If I didn’t have sex with the woman on the first night, I would just call on Sunday or Monday and then set up a date for that week. Sometimes, I was dating and having sex with 3-4 women in one week. It’s pretty amazing. Eventually, I started The Modern Man and Ben and Stu (the two other guys at The Modern Man) helped me take guys out to bars and clubs and show them how to approach women.

After doing running those courses and holding many seminars for 3 years, we then put on our most famous seminar of all, called Dating Power, which includes all of the advanced techniques that you would learn on a $5,000 weekend course with us. It’s 8 hours of mind-blowing, life-changing video that will give you the power to get women trying to pick you up.

Now is the Time to Learn

Every day, more and more guys are beginning to learn the secrets to success with women.

Now is the best time to learn, before other guys discover my site and begin using the techniques on women you like. Get started now, get what you want with women (e.g. sex, a new girlfriend, etc) and then get on with enjoying the rest of your life with women.

Are you happy with your results with women or do you need some help? Would you like to begin dating and having sex with many new women or find the perfect girl for you? When you learn from us here at The Modern Man, the choice will be yours. You will have what we call Dating Power and women will feel lucky to be chosen by you.

Don’t make the mistake of learning from random articles online that have written by people who are just writing an article to fill up space on their website, or to pull in more traffic. 95% of websites online that provide “dating tips for first dates” are simply making up their tips as they type. Most of the time, their tips are wrong and will do you more harm than good. If you want to be successful with women for real, then you need to be smart about it and only learn from actual experts like us here at The Modern Man.

Personally speaking, I have been enjoying amazing and consistent success with women for over 12 years now and I am so glad that I took the time to fix my confidence issues, improve my conversation skills and learn how to have my choice with women. We have 1,000s of happy customers from all over the world and would be honored to help you too.

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The Secret to Success With Women

This FREE, 21-minute video explains what every single guy needs to know about how to be successful with women.


Welcome to The Modern Man!

My name is Dan Bacon and I used to be hopeless with women. I lacked confidence in myself and couldn't get women to like me. Despite being a good, honest guy, women just weren't interested.

When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since.

I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.

If you are sick and tired of not getting results with women and would like to try something that is absolutely guaranteed to work for you, then get started here

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