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You Have to Know How to Attract Women…Not Just Be Good to Women
Getting a girlfriend is difficult, confusing and frustrating for a guy when he doesn’t know how to make women feel attracted to him during a conversation.
If you talk to women and don’t focus on making them feel sexually attracted to you, most women will only like you as a friend or simply see you as just another guy. Not knowing how to attract women, many guys make the mistake of being nice to women and expecting that it will make them stand out as being special.
Yet, the fact is that most guys are nice to women by default, so it doesn’t make you seem special or unique in a woman’s mind. There is nothing wrong with being to nice to women, but you ALSO have to actively make them feel sexually attracted to you. Watch this video to understand why…
You Don’t Have to Date a Girl For a Long Time to Get a Sexual Relationship Started
Some women want to wait 5 or more dates before they begin a sexual relationship with a guy, but most women are willing to have sex on the first night they meet a guy or on the first date. Depending on the country, statistics show that up to 70% of modern women admit to having had at least one “one night stand” before.
Unlike women from the 1950s, today’s women don’t need to spend lots of time “getting to know” you to see if you are good husband material. Instead, today’s women select men based on how much sexual attraction they feel and well they connect with him.
Most women are open to having sex immediately to begin the relationship and see how it goes. So, if you wait too long, she will get bored with your outdated approach to dating or another guy (who knows how to attract women and escalate to sex right away) will take her from you.
Accept the Truth About Modern Women
If you’ve been searching online for information on how to get a girlfriend and have been wondering why it has been so difficult for you to get women interested in a relationship, then you are most-likely unaware of how the modern dating environment works.
Relaxed attitudes to premarital sex makes it SUPER easy to get a girlfriend and start having sex immediately. All you need to do is approach a woman, make her feel attracted to you, connect with her and then get her phone number (to arrange a date) or kiss her and then have sex with her that day or night.
A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that if they approach a woman, she will be upset, angry or annoyed that he approached. However, the truth is that if a woman is single and hoping to meet a potential boyfriend, she will be happy that you have approached and offered her the opportunity.
If she already has a boyfriend, she will politely tell you that. If you are saying and doing things that make her feel attracted, the taken woman is not going to be angry that you approached her. She will be feeling some attraction for you, so she will be polite and tell you that you’re cute or sexy, but she has a boyfriend.
You don’t need to feel rejected if you approach a woman and find out that she already has a boyfriend. You were just “checking” to see if she’s available. No big deal.
Go All the Way
If you do approach a woman, but don’t follow through to a phone number or even ask her to join you for a coffee (or juice) right then and there, she will actually walk away feeling disappointed and rejected by you.
Additionally, if you live in a big city you probably won’t ever run into her again. Ever notice how that happens? So, you need to get in the habit of making something happen immediately. Get a phone number, get her to join you for a quick coffee or if you’ve met her in a bar get her phone number, kiss her or have sex with her that night.
How to Attract a Woman to Get Yourself a Girlfriend: What to Say
As long as you make women feel attracted to you by the way you talk to them and interact with them, most single women will be interested and very open to talking to you or giving you their phone number.
You can get a girlfriend in any environment where you see women. Just make sure that you focus on making her feel attracted to you.
For example: Imagine you walk into a Starbucks to buy a coffee. After you place your order, you notice a beautiful woman waiting for her coffee order to be made. Instead of hiding away from an opportunity to get a girlfriend out of fear, say something to her!
You: Hey…so, is this your first coffee for the day?
Her: (Whatever she says doesn’t matter. Yes or no – you can still reply in the same way).
You: This is my 10th coffee. I drink 20 cups a day. [Note: This will make her feel attracted to you because you’re using humor. Making women laugh is ONE way (of 100s that I teach at The Modern Man) to make women feel attracted to you].
Her: (She will laugh and will most likely know that you’re joking).
You: Nah, just kidding…this is my second cup. I think three is enough for one day. I’m ______ (say your name) by the way – what’s your name?
From there, continue the conversation and then get her phone number. If you don’t know how to keep the conversation going and get her phone number, I will teach you exactly what to do in every situation you encounter when trying to attract, pick up and date a woman.
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How to Get a Girlfriend: Why is it So Difficult For You?
Have you ever noticed that some guys seem to be able to get a girlfriend easily, while others suffer for months or even years without so much as a kiss from a woman?
Why does that happen?
Simple: Guys who are good with women know how to make women feel ATTRACTED to them. Guys who suck at getting a girlfriend or getting laid are usually only friendly, nice, polite or neutral when they talk to beautiful women.
You have to actively make women feel attracted to you when you interact with them. You can do this by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women when you talk to women.
This FREE, 21-minute video explains what every guy needs to know about how to get a girlfriend in 2015.