The first thing you need to know about how to get a girlfriend is that most women want something happen with you immediately.
Sure, some girls like to take things slower than others, but most modern women want you to escalate to a phone number, date, kiss or sex very quickly. So, getting a girlfriend has never been easier than it is today. Unlike women from the 1950s, today’s women don’t need to spend lots of time “getting to know” you. If you wait too long, another guy (who knows how to get a girlfriend) will take her from you.
Modern women don’t expect you to court them for months like women did 60 or 70 years ago. These days, most women are open to giving you their phone number, kissing you or even having sex with you the first time they meet you. As I said, not all women want sex on the first date or night, but many do. If you find that upsetting, you should leave this website now. You should only continue to read this if you are prepared to accept the truth about women, learn what you need to learn and then get on with enjoying the love, sex and companionship that you seek.
Accept the Truth About Modern Women
If you’ve been searching online for information on how to get a girlfriend and wondering why it is so difficult for you, then you are most-likely unaware of how the modern dating environment works. Relaxed attitudes to premarital sex makes it SUPER easy to get a girlfriend and start having sex immediately. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that if they approach a woman, she will be upset, angry or annoyed that he approached. However, the truth is that if she is single and hoping to meet a potential boyfriend, she will be happy that you have approached and offered her the opportunity. If she already has a boyfriend, she will tell you. No big deal. She is not going to be angry and you don’t need to feel rejected. You’re just “checking” to see if she’s available. No big deal.
FACT: We have surveyed more than 6,000 women during the last 7 years and 73% say that men don’t approach women enough anymore. Women also complain that a lot of modern men have become too wimpy and take too long to make something happen.
If you do approach a woman, but don’t follow through to a phone number or even ask her to join you for a coffee (or juice) right then and there, she will actually walk away feeling disappointed and rejected by you. Additionally, if you live in a big city you probably won’t ever run into her again. Ever notice how that happens? So, you need to get in the habit of making something happen immediately. Get a phone number, get her to join you for a quick coffee or if you’ve met her in a bar get her phone number, kiss her or have sex with her that night.
How to Get a Girlfriend: What to Say
If you’re searching for information on how to get a girlfriend, you probably don’t give yourself much opportunity to meet NEW women. The truth is, great opportunities to get a girlfriend are always right in front of you. However, out of fear or laziness, you just let the awesome opportunity slip through your fingers. Don’t do that. Instead, decide to take action by talking to women and giving yourself the opportunity to make a connection. Don’t run away in fear. Don’t hide. Just say SOMETHING to her and get the interaction started.
For example: Imagine you walk into a Starbucks to buy a coffee. After you place your order, you notice an attractive woman waiting for her coffee order to be made. Instead of hiding away from an opportunity to get a girlfriend out of fear or laziness, say something to her!
You: Hey…so, is this your first coffee for the day?
Her: (Whatever she says doesn’t matter. Yes or no – you can still reply in the same way).
You: This is my 10th coffee. I drink 20 cups a day.
Her: (She will laugh and will most likely know that you’re joking).
You: Nah, just kidding…this is my second cup. I think three is enough for one day. I’m ______ (say your name) by the way – what’s your name?
From there, continue the conversation and get her phone number. If you don’t know how to keep the conversation going and get her phone number, I will teach you exactly what to do in every situation you encounter when trying to attract, pick up and date a woman. I have all the answers here at The Modern Man, so you don’t need to waste any more time going around in circles. You can get all the correct advice right now.
How to Get a Girlfriend: Why is it So Difficult For You?
Have you ever noticed that some guys seem to be able to get a girlfriend easily, while others suffer for months or even years without so much as a kiss from a woman? Why do guys like you need to learn how to get a girlfriend, while others are enjoying sex with women right at this moment? It really isn’t your fault. The fact is, while most modern women are no longer shy to give out their phone number or kiss or have sex with a man they’ve just met, they still do make it difficult for guys to pick them up. They behave as though they aren’t interested, they challenge the guy to see if he feels uncomfortable and they tend to reject the guys who are too nice. Why is that?