How to Get a Girlfriend Today
Are you using outdated strategies to get a girlfriend? It is easy to get a girlfriend in 2011 because the old rules (of getting to know each other first) no longer apply.
The first thing you need to know about how to get a girlfriend is that most women want something happen with you immediately. Sure, some girls like to take things slower than others, but most modern women want you to escalate to a phone number, date, kiss or sex very quickly. So, getting a girlfriend has never been easier than it is today.
Unlike women from the 1950s, today’s women don’t need to spend lots of time “getting to know” you. If you wait too long, another guy (who knows how to get a girlfriend) will take her from you.
Modern women don’t expect you to court them for months like women did 60 or 70 years ago; these days most women are open to giving you their phone number, or even kissing or having sex with you the first time they meet you.
If you’ve been searching for information on how to get a girlfriend and wondering why getting a girlfriend seems so difficult, you are most-likely unaware of how the modern dating environment works. Relaxed attitudes to premarital sex makes it easy to get a girlfriend and start having sex immediately. For example: Imagine that you’re out shopping during the day and notice an attractive woman that you’d love to have as your girlfriend. If she is single and hoping to meet a potential boyfriend, she will be happy that you have approached and offered her the opportunity.
We have surveyed over 6,000 women from 2005 to 2011 and 73% say that men don’t approach women enough anymore. Women also complain that most modern men have become too wimpy and take too long to make something happen.
If you do approach a woman, but don’t follow through to a phone number or even ask her to join you for a coffee (or juice) right then and there, she will walk away feeling disappointed. Additionally, if you live in a big city you probably won’t ever run into her again. Ever notice how that happens? So, you need to get in the habit of making something happen right then and there. Get a phone number, get her to join you for a quick coffee or if you’ve met her in a bar get her phone number, kiss her or have sex with her that night.
How to Get a Girlfriend: What to Say
If you’re searching for information on how to get a girlfriend, you probably don’t give yourself much opportunity to meet women. The truth is, opportunities to get a girlfriend are always right in front of you. Except, out of fear or laziness, you just let the opportunity slip through your fingers. Don’t do that. Instead, take action by talking to women and giving yourself the opportunity to make a connection.
For example: Imagine you walk into a Starbucks to buy a coffee. After you place your order, you notice an attractive woman waiting for her coffee order to be made. Instead of hiding away from an opportunity to get a girlfriend out of fear or laziness, say something to her!
You: Hey…so, is this your first coffee for the day?
Her: (Whatever she says doesn’t matter. Yes or no – you can still reply in the same way).
You: This is my 10th coffee. I drink 20 cups a day.
Her: (She will laugh and will most likely know that you’re joking).
You: Nah, just kidding…this is my second cup. I think three is enough for one day. I’m ______ (say your name) by the way – what’s your name?
From there, continue the conversation and get her phone number. If you don’t know how to keep the conversation going and get her phone number, I will teach you. Watch this video, sign up and I will teach you how to get a girlfriend tomorrow.
How to Get a Girlfriend: Why is it So Difficult For You?
Have you ever noticed that some guys seem to be able to get a girlfriend easily, while others suffer for months or even years without so much as a kiss from a woman? Why do guys like you need to learn how to get a girlfriend, while others are enjoying sex with women right at this moment? It really isn’t your fault. The fact is, while most modern women are no longer shy to give out their phone number or kiss or have sex with a man they’ve just met, they still do make it difficult for guys to pick them up. They behave as though they aren’t interested, they challenge the guy to see if he feels uncomfortable and they tend to reject the guys who are too nice. Why is that?
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Good info, mate!
I want girlfriend badly because I feel lonely I have no one to hold.
Hi Jeffery
Thanks for your comment.
Well, watch this video and learn how to get a girlfriend. It’s easy to get a girlfriend and when you sign up to watch my free videos you’ll learn how.
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Dan
once women’s lib took over, it really messed up their head. as a man that was married twice at one time, i was a very caring and loving husband that never cheated on them and both of them cheated on me. i was very committed to them as well. now that i go out, i seem to meet the nastiest women with their no good attitude. i did not do nothing wrong for both of my marriages to have failed. they just turned out to be whores. now i hate being alone and single again, and would like very much to meet the right one this time for me again. it hurts so much not to be loved anymore, and i would like to give love as much as receiving it as well. i would have thought going to the book store would be a lot easier to meet them, but they are a good thirty years younger than me. so where in the world can a good sincere man go to meet a good woman today for me? when i see other couples out there that were lucky enough to have met and have families, it makes me very upset. they should be very thankful for what they have, when men like me are very lonely and have not been that lucky.
So easy to say and practice but so hard to apply. It was very interesting man and very helpful, I just hope I have the courage to actually do it. Thanks man.
Hi Kit
Thanks for your positive feedback.
Yes, it is difficult for most guys to work up the courage to approach women. That’s what The Modern Man is here to help with. Sign up to my free newsletter and I’ll teach you how to overcome your fears and talk to women anytime, anyplace, anywhere.
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Dan
hey very good info but feel hard to talk to girls
thanks buddy
Hi Priyanshu
Thanks. Yes, well you need to build your confidence and learn how to talk to girls. Sign up here and I’ll begin teaching you.
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Dan