If you haven’t been able to get laid or get a hot girlfriend in quite a while, you may have begun to ask yourself, “Why don’t women like me?”
You might think that you aren’t good enough for beautiful women and that it’s all just too difficult. Yet, here’s what you probably don’t realize: You are already good enough for most women.
You are a fairly likeable guy, right? You’re not a horrible person that women hate or despise, right?
The truth is, many of the women that you’ve met in your life recently would have actually “liked” you as a person. So, what was their problem then? Why didn’t those women seem to be interested in you in a sexual way?
You’re not doing enough during interactions to turn women on.
You might be a good guy, but that isn’t what gets a woman sexually aroused.
If women aren’t excited to hook up with you, then you’re probably just expecting to be “liked” because you’re a good guy.
Don’t get me wrong here – There’s nothing wrong with being a good guy, but it isn’t what makes a woman wet.
To be successful with women, you don’t have to be a bad boy or jerk, but you do have to display the personality traits and behaviors that women are naturally attracted to. Being good on its own isn’t enough for most women – they want to feel the excitement of sexual attraction.
If you want a woman to feel sexually attracted, you’ve got to actively turn her on with your conversation style, body language, vibe, etc.
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When you trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman, she will then appreciate all the other good things about you (e.g. you are a smart guy, you have good intentions with her, etc).
However, if you don’t make her feel much or any sexual attraction, she won’t be turned on by the fact that you’re smart and that you’d treat her well if she got into a relationship with you.
Are You Being Too Much of a Nice Guy?
When a guy contacts me to ask, “Why don’t women like me?” he is almost always type of guy who is too nice to women.
There’s nothing wrong with being nice to a woman and there’s nothing wrong with being a good guy, but you also have to be able to make women feel sexually attracted to you by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charisma, masculine vibe, charm, etc).
If your main approach to women is based on showing them that you’re a nice, friendly guy who has good intentions, it’s not going to make you stand out from the crowd.
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Most women do want to find themselves a good guy, but that guy also has to make her feel attracted. Without sexual attraction, there will be no reason for her to want to be anything other than a friend or stranger to you.
When you make a woman feel sexually attracted to you, she then really appreciates that you’re also a good guy. She is excited to have met a good guy who also turns her on.
Are You Too Easily Impressed By a Woman Just Because She Looks Good?
If a woman is attractive, most of the guys who see her will be willing to have sex with her simply based on her appearance. Many of those guys will also be willing to have a relationship with her, even though she hasn’t done anything other than look good.
This is a boring, repetitive, unexciting experience for an attractive woman. When a girl grows up and realizes that she doesn’t have to say or do anything special to impress the majority of guys, she starts to feel more attracted to guys who offer a bit more of a challenge.
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It’s very easy for women to make men feel attracted because we men feel an intense attraction to a woman’s physical appearance. Women can feel attracted a man’s physical appearance, but the most intense types of attraction that women feel are to a guy’s personality and behavior.
When a woman interacts with a guy, his personality, vibe and behavior is either going to turn her on, make her feel neutral or friendly towards him or turn her off. When she talks to him, his conversation style is either going to make her feel happy, excited and turned on or it’s not.
Improving Your Ability to Attract Women
If you want girls to like you and want to be in a sexual relationship with you, the main thing that you need to focus on is your ability to make women feel attracted to you when you interact with them.
You can’t just rely on looking good or being a good guy. You have to display the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women.
When you know how to properly attract women, you will see that picking up women for sex or a relationship is actually one of the easiest things that a guy can do in life. Women are much easier to pick up than most guys realize.
Back when I had no idea how to attract women, I would talk to women for as long as I could and hope that she would “like” me enough to give me a chance with her. Women could sense the desperation in my body language, conversation and overall vibe and it turned them off.
It took me a long time to work out that guys can actively make women feel attracted to them based on what they SAY and DO during an interaction. When I worked that out and began doing it, everything changed.
Instead of trying to get women to like me, they automatically liked me because they were feeling sexually attracted and turned. Instead of struggling to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting with a woman who was rapidly losing interest, women began to eagerly keep conversations going with me.
Your current lack of ability to attract women is the real reason why women don’t like you. It’s not because you’re a guy who cannot be loved or wanted by women. You are most-likely an awesome guy and you don’t need to change who you are to get girls to like you.
What you need to do is learn how to make women feel sexually attracted to you. Luckily, it’s a very and natural thing to do.
If you’d like me to teach you how to attract women so that they automatically like you when they meet you, click below to unlock my best secrets…
Hint: It’s not looks, money, height or a big dick.
So, what is the secret to success with women in 2015?