If you haven’t been able to get laid or get a hot girlfriend in quite a while, you may have begun to ask yourself the question, “Why don’t women like me?”
You may have also begun to believe that you’re just not good enough for beautiful women and that attracting and picking up women is just too difficult.
Yet, here’s what you probably don’t realize: You are already good enough for most women.
Additionally, attracting women is VERY EASY once you know how to do it and have tried it once or twice.
Pretty much any guy can instantly learn how to begin attracting women during conversation, so he can then get laid or get a girlfriend.
Yes, even you.
You are a fairly likeable guy, right? You’re not a horrible person who women hate, right?
Sure, you haven’t been getting laid and women haven’t been lining up to be with you, but that’s not because they hate you.
Why is it happening? Why have you gotten to the point where you’ve been wondering, “Why don’t women like me?”
You’re not actively making women feel sexually attracted to you when you talk to them…and other guys are.
You might be a good guy, but that isn’t what gets a woman sexually aroused.
The difference between a good guy who gets laid and has his choice of women and a good guy who has to jerk off to porn all year long, is that one good guy ACTIVELY makes women feel sexually attracted during a conversation and the other guy just make women feel nice, friendly or neutral emotions.
In other words, you have to MAKE women feel sexually attracted to you when you talk to them.
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When you trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman, she will then appreciate all the other good things about you (e.g. you are a smart guy, you have good intentions with her, etc).
However, if you don’t make her feel much or any sexual attraction, she won’t be turned on by the fact that you’re smart and that you’d treat her well if she got into a relationship with you.
Are You Being Too Much of a Nice Guy?
When a guy contacts me to ask, “Why don’t women like me?” he is almost always type of guy who is too nice to women.
There’s nothing wrong with being nice to a woman and there’s nothing wrong with being a good guy, but you also have to be able to make women feel sexually attracted to you by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charisma, masculine vibe, charm, etc).
If your main approach to women is based on showing them that you’re a nice, friendly guy who has good intentions, it’s not going to make you stand out from the crowd.
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Most women do want to find themselves a good guy, but that guy also has to make her feel attracted. Without sexual attraction, there will be no reason for her to want to be anything other than a friend or stranger to you.
When you make a woman feel sexually attracted to you, she then really appreciates that you’re also a good guy. She is excited to have met a good guy who also turns her on.
Are You Too Easily Impressed By a Woman Just Because She Looks Good?
If a woman is attractive, most of the guys who see her will be willing to have sex with her simply based on her appearance. Many of those guys will also be willing to have a relationship with her, even though she hasn’t done anything other than look good.
This is a boring, repetitive, unexciting experience for an attractive woman. When a girl grows up and realizes that she doesn’t have to say or do anything special to impress the majority of guys, she starts to feel more attracted to guys who offer a bit more of a challenge.
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It’s very easy for women to make men feel attracted because we men feel an intense attraction to a woman’s physical appearance. Women can feel attracted a man’s physical appearance, but the most intense types of attraction that women feel are to a guy’s personality and behavior.
When a woman interacts with a guy, his personality, vibe and behavior is either going to turn her on, make her feel neutral or friendly towards him or turn her off. When she talks to him, his conversation style is either going to make her feel happy, excited and turned on or it’s not.
Improving Your Ability to Attract Women
If you want girls to like you and want to be in a sexual relationship with you, the main thing that you need to focus on is your ability to make women feel attracted to you when you interact with them.
You can’t just rely on looking good or being a good guy. You have to display the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women.
When you know how to properly attract women, you will see that picking up women for sex or a relationship is actually one of the easiest things that a guy can do in life. Women are much easier to pick up than most guys realize.
Back when I had no idea how to attract women, I would talk to women for as long as I could and hope that she would “like” me enough to give me a chance with her. Women could sense the desperation in my body language, conversation and overall vibe and it turned them off.
It took me a long time to work out that guys can actively make women feel attracted to them based on what they SAY and DO during an interaction. When I worked that out and began doing it, everything changed.
Instead of trying to get women to like me, they automatically liked me because they were feeling sexually attracted and turned. Instead of struggling to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting with a woman who was rapidly losing interest, women began to eagerly keep conversations going with me.
Your current lack of ability to attract women is the real reason why women don’t like you. It’s not because you’re a guy who cannot be loved or wanted by women. You are most-likely an awesome guy and you don’t need to change who you are to get girls to like you.
What you need to do is learn how to make women feel sexually attracted to you. Luckily, it’s a very and natural thing to do.