How to Become an Alpha Male (VIDEO and Article)
Women are more attracted to alpha males than any other type of male in terms of rank. If you're not an alpha male right now, then, by default, you're a lower ranking male and are not the most attractive that you can be to women. You are literally limiting yourself in terms of your attractiveness to women.
Many modern men are now learning how to be an alpha male. One of the main reasons why men are rushing to become an alpha male is that today's woman is a lot more confident, independent and assertive and men are finding themselves feeling nervous and unsure around these type of women. When you display alpha male traits you will naturally attract women and it will be easy for you to escalate from a simple conversation, to a phone number or kiss and then to sex and a relationship. However, if you display the traits of a lower ranking male (e.g. nervousness, anxiety, social fears, etc) you will naturally turn women off.
The Alpha Male Effect
Have you ever noticed that women always find the more confident men the most attractive, especially in group situations? This is not a coincidence. Alpha males are always more attractive to women and this is the reason why you'll often see a really confident guy (who is not good looking, rich or tall, dark and handsome) with a beautiful girlfriend. She's less interested in looks, money and other superficial things than most guys realize. The number one thing women respond to is how much of an alpha male a guy is around her and people in general. If he displays the traits of an alpha male, most of the work is done and she is ready to be his.
Regardless of the culture or the country, men who don't display alpha male traits always find it difficult to attract and maintain the interest of women. They also find that other alpha males don't show them much respect in social situations. If you are currently not an alpha male, the great news is that you can learn how to become an alpha male very quickly and easily. By learning how to be an alpha male, you will notice immediate changes in the way that women respond to you in terms of attraction and sexual desire. You will also notice that other alpha males instantly begin showing you more respect.
5 Alpha Male Tips For Beginners
The following alpha male tips will give you a quick insight into what being an alpha male is all about. If you want to learn more advanced alpha techniques, click through to the next page and sign up for the free videos.
1. Alpha Males Assume Their Role
When a man walks into a room of people, he will either:
a) Look around for a leader to follow or;
b) Assume the role of the alpha male (or at least one of the leaders) and naturally expect others to follow him and show him respect.
Typically, alpha males are more like the second type of guy listed above. Which are you more like at the moment? If you're like the first guy, you probably don't experience much success with women and dating. If you're like the second guy, women probably hit on you all the time.
2. Alpha Males Use Playfully Confident Humor
A lot of guys go through life being afraid to say and do what they'd really like to. This is especially true in social situations, where a guy who is not an alpha male will stick to safe humor and polite conversation to make sure he is seen as a nice guy by everyone. Ironically, this usually results in women not feeling attraction for him and other men picking on him.
Using playfully confident humor is a typical alpha male quality that - if done correctly - will make women extremely attracted to you. It will also make guys look up to and respect you more. Being playfully confident with your humor is not about being arrogant. Rather, it's about demonstrating to a woman that you're not a wimp or a wussy by being a bit more challenging than most of boring, overly polite nice guys that she meets. Watch this video to discover how alpha males use playfully confident humor to attract women.
3. Alpha Males Are Confident
- Do you lack confidence around women? Especially women that you find attractive?
- Do you tend to feel less confident when interacting with alpha males?
- Do you feel confident in specific areas of your life, but lack confidence in others?
- Do you feel that your lack of confidence is holding you back from being who you want to be in life and in your dating life with women?
Confidence the #1 alpha male trait that women look for in a guy. Your confidence turns a woman on, makes her feel safe and allows her to relax into the feminine role around you. However, a guy who lacks confidence forces a woman into a state where she feels like she must look after him, pat him on the head and tell him that everything is okay. Nothing is more of a turn off for women than that.
4. Alpha Males Are Masculine
Masculine (adj.): Having the qualities distinctive or appropriate for a male.
Here are a few quick comparisons to show you what I mean by "Alpha males are masculine":
|Omega Male: Lowest ranking male. Feminine psychology and behavior.||Alpha Male: Highest ranking male. Masculine psychology and behavior.|
|Knows what he wants from women, but avoids going after it due to fear, nervousness and anxiety.||Knows what he wants from women and goes after it due to his confidence, self-belief and alpha male thinking.|
|Feels uncomfortable taking the lead in social situations. Women notice this and they lose interest in him.||Confidently takes the lead when appropriate. Women notice and are drawn to men who can take the lead with usually do better in life compared to scared, hesitant men who let others lead.|
|Is unsure what identity/personality to show to the world. He fears being judged, ridiculed or picked on if he expresses his true personality and behaves in the way he really wants to.||Knows who he is and is not afraid to express his true personality around people. Doesn't fear being judged, ridiculed or picked on for being himself.|
|Feels intimidated by some women, especially beautiful women.||Is calm, confident and in control around any woman.|
|Feels the desire to approach women, talk to them and move towards sex, but fears being rejected or failing. Women sense his weakness and are turned off at a deep, instinctive level.||Feels the desire to approach women, talk to them and move towards sex and does it without fear. Women are turned on by his alpha male approach.|
5. Alpha Males Aren't Afraid to Take the Lead
Imagine that you’re at a bar with women/friends and it feels like time to change venues and so something different. An alpha male would say something like: “Okay, let’s finish our drinks and go somewhere else. You guys want to go to xyz bar instead?”
A guy who isn't an alpha male will lean more towards a question or statement that suggests someone else takes the lead. For example, he might say, "I'm bored of this place, how about you guys?" and then hope that someone else takes the lead and suggests the next action.
I hope you got something from those 5 initial tips on how to become an alpha male. Would you like to learn more advanced alpha male techniques that will transform you into the guy that all women are desperately looking for?
Continue learning now and I will explain how to quickly transform yourself into a powerful, confident alpha male who women love and lust after and who men respect and admire. The alpha male techniques that you are about to uncover will allow you to enjoy more success with women and in life. Women won't reject you, more people will want to be your friend and great opportunities will being to open up to you.
By Dan Bacon, Founder of The Modern Man. Dan Bacon on Google+ (Personal photos with women)