There is nothing worse than being single and alone at midnight on New Year’s Eve and having to stand aside while all the happy couples kiss and embrace each other. It’s such a sad, empty feeling.
You want to be a part of all the love and happiness, but you feel like a bit of an outsider…and that sucks. Well, it won’t suck this New Year’s Eve…that’s for sure! I’m going to give you some of my best techniques for getting a kiss at midnight on NYE.
Getting a Kiss Before Midnight
First and foremost, you must realize and accept that on New Year’s Eve, most women (not all) are open to random a kiss for the sake of tradition and to have a little bit of innocent fun. People wanting to kiss a random stranger on New Year’s Eve has become quite a tradition, so don’t think that it’s just you who wants to lock lips when the clock strikes 12.
Almost everyone who is single on NYE is hoping to get a midnight kiss and maybe even meet someone special to begin a relationship with at the start of the new year. There’s nothing wrong with that either. It’s just love found in a fun way on a very special night.
In the lead up to the big countdown just before midnight, there are plenty of opportunities to meet women, get to know each other and even get an early kiss. As the drinks flow and people start to loosen up, you’ll often see a lot of new “couples” passionately kissing each other and embracing.
So, how can you get in on the action?
The best way to get yourself a kiss before NYE and is to use what I call The Hug Technique. Essentially, The Hug Technique is used by walking up to a woman (or group of women) in a playful, genuinely happy mood and then initiating a hug for a certain reason.
The playful hug immediately gets you and a woman being physical with each other, but more importantly, it feels great for both of you and will sometimes lead to kiss right then and there, or at least get the interaction started on the right foot so that getting physical won’t feel so awkward later on.
Example scenario: You see a group of women walking around and having fun on New Year’s Eve. Walk up and say, “Heyy! Happy New Years guys!” with a smile. If the women respond well and turn their attention to you (indicating that they are open to continuing to interact with you), smile, move in a little closer and say, “Come here – Give me a New Year’s hug!”
If the mood is right, you can then transition to a kiss. However, at least get the hug started and show the women that you’re a fun guy who isn’t afraid to have a good time.
How do you know if she wants to kiss when you hug her? Simply continue holding her in the hug for an extra couple of seconds, but pull back from the hug a little and gaze into her eyes with a smile. If she keeps looking at you and smiling and doesn’t pull away from the hug, then go ahead and move in for a kiss. Her friends will most-likely be excitedly cheering her on and enjoying the moment.
On the other hand, if she pulls away from the hug and just wants to talk or continue having fun together, then do that. Just hang out, flirt and have a fun time together and let the sexual tension build up until the moment is right. As the night progresses, make sure that you genuinely connect with her, flirt with her and focus on having a fun time.
Throughout the night, look out for signals that show she is interested in kissing you and then move in for it, or wait until midnight for the big moment. Signals can include her hugging you again, looking at your lips while biting her own lip and regularly touching you in a playful and warm/loving way.
By the way…
You can also use The Hug Technique on many other occasions while meeting women, such as when a woman says it’s her birthday. You can say, “Cool! Happy birthday!” and then open your arms to hug her and move in while saying, “Happy birthday hug!” with a smile. I’ve never had a woman reject that.
Don’t be afraid to hug her to congratulate her on her birthday. Share the love. Be happy, confident and outgoing and just enjoy yourself. There’s nothing to be shy about when it comes to being a cool, confident, loving guy.
When you’re out meeting new women, it is important to be in a fun, social and outgoing mood so that women feel great when they meet you. However, on New Years Eve it’s even MORE important to bring that type of energy to an interaction, because everyone wants to be having fun on that night of the year and you don’t want to be seen as a downer.
When you are in a fun, social and outgoing mood, the Hug Technique will serve you extremely well and will either lead to an instant New Year’s Eve kiss or you will have one lined up and waiting for midnight.
Getting a Kiss at Midnight
If the clock strikes 12 and you still don’t have a woman to kiss, look out for the women who are
1. Are not being kissed
Many women will go out with friends who are already in relationships, so she will have to stand to the side while all the couples kiss at midnight. Simply walk by and say in a positive, happy way with a smile, “Happy New Years. You look like you could do with a New Year’s Hug!”
2. Are smiling mischievously and looking around at guys, but are not “with” any of them.
Approach the woman with a smile. Look her in the eyes and if she holds eye contact with you and keeps smiling, just go ahead and kiss her, or begin with the Hug Technique by smiling and saying, “Give me a New Year’s hug!” and then kiss her afterwards.
Don’t Wait Until Midnight With Every Woman
Getting a midnight kiss is the aim of the night, but if you meet a woman at 10:00pm and she seems interested, DON’T wait until midnight to kiss her.
Why? Most women are more open to moving things forward much quicker on NYE. If you don’t move things forward quickly enough, she might think, “Hmm…maybe this guy will be too scared to kiss me when midnight comes around…I should find another guy…fast!”
On New Years Eve, almost everyone wants to be having as much fun as possible NOW, before the night is over. So, don’t waste too much time getting to know a woman; get stuck into the New Year’s Eve kiss bright and early if she seems flirty and open to it.
Have Transportation Sorted Out
If you are aiming to meet women on New Year’s Eve, it’s important to work out how you are going to get home.
I don’t know about you, but where I live (Melbourne, Australia) it is virtually impossible to get a taxi after midnight on NYE. I remember a time when I had to get a woman (my first ever catwalk model) to walk 20 minutes to my car to come home with me on NYE.
She almost turned back and lost interest about 5 minutes into the walk, but I reassured her that we were almost there and we kept on walking. When I finally got her home (a 45-minute drive from where we met! I used to live outside the city, but now live in the city), the effort was definitely worth it. She was a very sexy woman and we ended up staying awake until 6am just getting it on. It was an awesome NYE.
I was lucky enough to not mess it up, but the fact that her and I almost parted ways (even though we had been kissing at the bar) taught me a lesson to be better prepared next time, rather than parking my car so far away. If you are driving, try to get to where you’re going a bit earlier than usual so you can park closer to the action.
Go Out With Fun People
Go out with fun people on New Year’s Eve and get involved in the party action. Be the easy-going, happy and upbeat person that people can have a good time with.
If you are hanging out with people who are quiet or aren’t open to being fun and social with others, it’ll be more difficult for you to get results on New Years Eve. On NYE, almost everyone wants to be having the best fun possible and to be hanging out with the coolest people they know or can meet on the night. If you’re a single guy who is looking to meet women, I recommend that you either go out with:
- A confident male friend (or friends) who can be fun, social and outgoing.
- A cool couple that you know, who are fun to hang out with and who will also be social with other people.
- Female friends who are fun, happy people.
Okay, so I hope that helps. Just remember: It’s your responsibility as a man to initiate things with women. Don’t sit back hoping that they’ll hit on you because of your nice shirt or cologne. Be confident, head over to say hello and use the Hug Technique.
Have a great NYE!
By the way…
If you want to learn all of my techniques for approaching women, getting them attracted to you, having a fun conversation and then escalating to kissing and sex, I welcome you to read my book The Flow.