How to Make Sure That You Succeed With Women in 2015
Setting a New Year’s resolution is a great way to get clear on what you want to achieve with women. However, it’s very easy to slip back into unmotivated, procrastinating ways of thinking after the first week of January has passed.
Here is how to ensure that you remain focused and achieve your goal, rather than letting another year of your life waste away being unsuccessful with women…
1. Give yourself credit for any success you’ve achieved
A big part of building and maintaining confidence with women and with anything else in life, is giving yourself credit for the progress you have made, rather than focusing on the times where you have failed.
Insecurity (noun): Lack of confidence or assurance; self-doubt.
Confidence (noun): Belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance.
Confidence is about having belief in yourself and your abilities. To have belief in yourself when it comes to women, you must actively give yourself reasons to believe in yourself. Ask yourself questions that allow you to give yourself credit for what you have achieved so far with women…and then focus on those positive thoughts rather than focusing on negative thoughts.
- What are you able to do now (with women) that you weren’t able to do 12 months ago? (Give yourself credit for that).
- Are you more confident around women? (Even if you are only 50% more confident, give yourself credit for it. You are on your way to becoming more and more confident).
- Are you able to keep conversations going and keep them interesting for longer?
- Are you able to attract women in more ways that you could last year?
- Have you become an emotionally stronger man?
- Have you become less nervous around attractive women?
- Do people respect you more now that you’ve become more confident and masculine?
Give yourself credit for the things you’ve achieved so far, rather than feeling down about what you haven’t been able to do. Focus on the reasons why you will achieve your goals with women, not on the reasons why you might not.
As I tweeted on New Year’s Eve back in 2013…
Focus on the reasons why you can succeed, not on the reasons why you might not be able to.
— Dan Bacon (@Dan_Modern_Man) December 31, 2013
2. Know that if you made progress in 2014, you can achieve your goals in 2015
If you made progress with your women-related goals in 2014, you will make even more progress in 2015. If you don’t make the same old mistakes that have caused you problems in the past and instead begin to use the right approach with women, you will achieve your goals. Success with women is simple, natural and automatic when you know what you’re doing.
If you have made any progress with women in 2014, then you are not a failure with women. You are a great man and you are on your way to complete success with women. It is within your reach.
Keep pushing forward and before you know it, you will be lying in bed with the woman of your dreams. She will turn to you and say, “I love you so much” and you will realize that you’ve done it.
“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time” and “”Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” Thomas A. Edison (1847-1931. Inventor of the light bulb, phonograph, motion picture camera and many other important pieces of technology).
“Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” Winston Churchill (1874-1965. Former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom)
“Believe that you can and you’re half way there.” Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919. Former President of the United States)
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover.” Mark Twain (1835-1910. American author).
“Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do. Don’t wish it were easier; wish you were better.” Jim Rohn (1930-2009. American author)
“You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it.” Margaret Thatcher (1925-2013. Former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom)
3. Get the education about women that you’ve been missing
In life, you only know what you know.
For example: If you don’t know how to attract women, then you don’t know how to attract women. When you interact with a woman that you’d love to begin a relationship with, you won’t be able to make her feel much attraction for you and she just won’t be interested.
If you don’t know how to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting, your conversations with women will feel boring, awkward and even forced at times. You won’t be able to keep conversations going long enough to properly connect with women, so opportunities to hook up with a woman or begin a relationship will keep slipping through your fingers.
If you are at a point in your life where you still need to learn specific things about how to be successful with women, then decide to make 2015 the year that it all happens for you.
“It is what we think we know already that often prevents us from learning.” Claude Bernard (1813-1878. French physiologist).
“Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.” Confucius (551 BC – 479 BC. Chinese philosopher).
“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948. Indian lawyer and and philosophical leader).
“All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.” Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882. American philosopher)
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790. Founding Father of the United States)
“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” Chinese Proverb
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” Anais Nin (1903-1977. French author)
Now is the time to make a choice to take a chance that will change your life forever.
If you go through life hiding from doing the things that make you afraid, you will never grow into the man you really want to be.
Facing your fears, stepping out of your comfort zone and standing up to be the man that you dream of being is an amazing achievement, which leads to a lifetime of happiness and satisfaction beyond any comfort you will ever feel by hiding away in fear.
Make 2015 the year that you finally get the results with women that you’ve been missing out on for so long…