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Right now, you are successful with women.

You have achieved what you’ve always wanted to with women.

Can you imagine it?

Well, it is now only a few clicks away for you.

Here are just some of the success stories we’ve received from customers who began in your position, learned our exclusive techniques and then achieved what they wanted with women.

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“Hi Dan!

Before reading your Flow ebook, I was really struggling with dating.

For many years I was too afraid to approach women because I didn’t want to come across as creepy or pushy. And if I did muster up the courage to approach, I always ended up being too nice or not confident enough, which meant I got friend zoned or rejected.

It was frustrating because I knew that I had a lot to offer, but I just couldn’t seem to figure out how to make a genuine connection with women so they wanted more than just a quick chat with me.

Your book changed everything for me.

When I gave your technique a chance and approached a stunning woman at a party, I was still a bit nervous, but I felt more prepared and in control than before. And to my surprise, it worked like a charm.

She was incredibly attracted to me and we left together and had sex at my place two hours later. I couldn’t believe it was happening.

I did it again and again for several months just to prove to myself that it wasn’t a fluke and now I’m in a relationship with beautiful woman and I feel like a new man.

Your knowledge not only helped me improve my dating skills, but it also gave me a boost of confidence and self-esteem that has spilled over into other areas of my life.

So thank you for sharing your knowledge on this topic man. I was so lost and frustrated about women before and now I am in control. Thank you!! MC”

I have a beautiful girlfriend now thanks to The Flow.

I used it to get a woman from work who I had a crush on for 6 MONTHS and didn’t even have the courage to talk to her for more than a minute.

The Flow gave me the confidence and know-how to talk to her, get her attracted and make the relationship happen. This has been the best investment I’ve ever made in myself. James”

“I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book.

I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested.

Wow is an understatement for me.

This has been completely life changing for me. Had I not found you I know I would still be a frustrated virgin. Thank you! Frankie”

“Absolutely love “The Flow” I landed an amazing girlfriend thanks to you. Not only that other areas of life are starting to come together. You are the man keep up the amazing work! TC”

“Hi! I’ve put your concepts of what to say to women and how to say it into practice.

I would say to anyone how well it works.

Women used to look through me like I was invisible.

Now whenever I choose to turn it on, women respond very positively and I get the results I want. It’s like a revelation to me. This is what I’ve been missing all these years. Thank you. Mike”

“I am blown away at how quickly I have gotten results.

I expected a long road to victory but I used the conversation examples and the attraction methods from the book and it is scary how well it works. No one knows that I am using techniques but they are all asking me why so many women like me all of a sudden.

It is incredible.

I have been having sex with two women over the past three weeks and now another girl from work is all over me. Absolutely incredible. Your book is the best investment I have ever made in myself. Paul”

“Hi Dan, I ended an 18-year relationship earlier this year due to infidelity on her part and hit the dating scene really for the first the ever.

Scary at first… My confidence was pretty low due to how the relationship ended, but that was short-lived after purchasing the flow….

Being a normally confident guy, this process gave me the recipe for pulling chicks my confidence beyond my expectations.

Using the process, I have hooked up with 7 women in the last 8-weeks – making up for lost time!!

It’s crazy how often they will say ‘I’m not normally like this…’ or …’what a whirlwind that meeting was…’ moving them from hi to sex in a matter of hours.

I’m glad in some ways that not many men know about this, because I feel like I have such a tremendous advantage of all other guys trying to pick up women.

At times it feels like shooting fish in a barrel – something I’ve never experienced before.

With the process really embedded in the way I interact with all women now, it has changed the outlook and confidence i have in life.

Knowing that if I go out and want to take a new lady home, I can make this happen is incredible.

Me and a couple of mates now have challenges in how quickly we can get a number, kiss and move them to a kiss.

I set a new record on Saturday from hi, kiss then number in just over 4 minutes.

This is the confidence and proof that your method works.

I have the last couple of weeks gone out by myself, with the intention of taking someone home. Both times within a matter of hours.

Thanks for all the info you share. It truly is life changing and I would love to buy you a beer sometime to say thanks. Cheers, James”

“Hey Dan, so I bought your e book The Flow and had amazing success with women, I had more women in this year then I have had in my whole life prior.

Now I’m in an amazing relationship, she’s good to me and I want it to stay that way. I have watched every single one of you YouTube videos on relationships and I’m willing to buy the make her love you for life program also.

I just don’t have the money as of right now, but I will buy it soon. I guess what I really wanted to say was thank you for everything you do for men.

The best part about being in relationships now is I’m not worried or live in fear that if it doesn’t work out for whatever reason I’ll be okay, but I want to make sure that this relationship I’m in stays, we continue to make each other happy long after many years have gone by. Jeremy”

“Hey Dan, man thank you so much my life has changed a lot since i started reading you stuff last year and got The Flow and a couple of other programs from you.

I got a very beautiful girlfriend, my friends are busy asking me how i got her.

They are shocked at how she is the one initiating everything here.

I got her phone number then i used your line saying “Hey its.. don’t call me all the time on phone no. Because my wife might get suspicious” she laughed and we chatted for a few minutes I was making her laugh.

I then called her and then arranged a meetup. She agreed we met up.

At the date she kept giving me sh*t tests e.g she said I look like monkey because I was not shaven, ha ha ha I just laughed and made a joke about it.

She initiated the first kiss, thats when i knew i passed all the tests she was giving me.

Damn! Dan I understand women because of you my friends do not understand whats going on because I was struggling with women now they are chasing me, all i do is initiate talking in a way that is naturally attractive to them. They just feel a spark and start chasing me.

So Dan after coming back from the date, I asked her for another meet up at the hotel last and she agreed, we had great sex, i made her cum.

She is more than excited and is crazily in love with me i can tell even by the way she looks at me.

I cant believe how it all happened because she a 9/10 but what I do is that I use your strategy of not being smitten by her or showing her that she is above me in terms of looks even though deep down I know she is f*ckin hot.

But I don’t compliment her too often i only compliment her when its due so she is always feeling like she needs to impress me, when we are meeting up she dresses up and do make up.

Bro she is super hot.

Thanks very much Dan for everything man I don’t know how many times i used the lines you teach on your programs, they always work for me. FM”

“Hey Dan, I want to tell you that buying “The Flow” has given me cheat codes to girls and it was definitely worth the money!! I’m 18 and having this information feels like having google maps when trying to solve the labyrinth that is women. I wish I could give you a hug as a huge thank you. I am getting the girls I want now. It’s amazing! Justin”

“2 months ago I had a breakup with my ex. This is when I discovered your videos on YouTube. They helped me through that difficult time and gave me a lot of confidence. I ended up not following through to get her back for personal reasons.

When I accepted that I was going to be single again I decided to buy “The Flow” from you.

Sometime later I met a girl I used to have a crush on but then I was much too shy and insecure to have a chance.

Now I have applied the steps of “The Flow” to her and yesterday I had sex with her for the first time. I want to thank you for your good advice. You are a HERO! L.S”

“I never knew getting girls could be so easy until I got The Flow. Dan’s techniques are amazing and work like magic. I’m more confident than ever and have been hooking up with girls left and right. I even have a few regulars now. This is real guys. You’ve got to try it. I am still blown away by it months later. Jake”

“Thank you Dan and the Modern Man team, your teaching and guidance has massively helped me! I now have a beautiful girlfriend and maintain a great relationship thanks to what you teach – which I wasn’t able to do in my marriage – it ended in divorce. After my marriage broke down, I found the Modern Man brilliant teaching online. What you guys say helped my gain my confidence, find a beautiful girlfriend, keep the spark in the relationship and hugely helped me in life too. Absolutely superb! Every man should listen to this before getting into a relationship. Thank you Dan and the team I am very grateful! J from UK”

“Hi Dan & the gang, just wanted to let you know that after about 3 weeks of watching your videos on Youtube, and starting on the Flow & Better than a Bad Boy, I’ve had a raunchy 3 some, and all nighter 1 night stand.

This is huge for me because previously I’d been more or less living as a part time hermit, part time workaholic and was really, really rusty. Thanks guys very grateful and optimistic for the first time in years! J”

“Years ago I hit a low point, no confidence and no prospects and no idea how to get out of this self imposed pit I’d found myself in.

Shy, retiring, unable to speak with women.

Slowly I approached these products and my confidence grew. I learned to take risks and have the conviction of my choices.

A few years down the line my confidence has grown tenfold and I’m now happily married.

Dan and co your advice has been invaluable and is a testament to the fact that any man can improve himself and become more than he thought possible. All my thanks. Lee”

“Dan you are truly the man when it comes to knowing your sh*t about the attraction and the respect of woman. Since purchasing the flow and your guide to conversation picking up woman and talking to them is a piece of cake! I have slept with many woman many of them wanting me to be in a relationship. C”

“Hi Dan,

I can’t state enough how much you changed my life with all of your work.

I’m certain this is not the first time you hear this, but I want to tell you how I really appreciate all of the material you put out there, it means a great deal.

I was not very successful with women, but it’s much easier now when I can with certainty say that for the first time in my life I understand women. Plus, they really like me now and I get dates, sex and offers to be boyfriend-girlfriend so easily.

There are a lot of dating coaches, gurus and so on, these days on internet, and I’ve followed some of their work.

There is one simple, yet so strong difference between all of them, and you.

You give your advice from a different place. An honest place, a place of good intentions, and man can feel it in the way you talk and explain things, and one can take it in feeling good himself and feeling a better man while doing it.

It really is a process in which I found some unexplainable peace. Thank you for that. You changed my life and I will be forever grateful. William”

“I’ve been following your coaching for months now. Covid has been a b*tch in the game of things, but I am still getting results.

I have been in Portland, Oregon since following your training. Recently, I took a trip to Florida where things are pretty wide open and the women are very appearance driven.

I have to say using the bare minimum and even rusty/getting warmed up of your skills training, I’ve struck gold on more than one occasion even though I don’t have the best physical appearance. Average at best.

I hooked up with a very pretty girl a few nights ago that would probably in a usual setting be a very locked down kind of girl, or closed up girl as you would say.

Last night I hit it off with a beautiful girl who was with a guy. Even when the guy showed up at the bar, she kept grabbing my leg and flirting with me. You have been a life changer! B”

“Hi Dan,

I recently purchased The Flow audiobook. This was a great purchase I have seen the value now from it.

I haven’t ever been good with women enough to be in a relationship or attract them.

It’s only been a short time but I’ve already had a date and got the first kiss it was slightly awkward she nearly head butted me haha.

But today I have basically had a great conversation with another chick and without meeting her she wants to have sex this is from the building attraction by [Edit: Customer revealed important technique from The Flow] with her.

She started with saying her guard was up and then I got through her guard and she says I am annoying in a good way.

So already I have value from your teachings – I hope it continues to reap rewards I will keep listening to it. Regards, Dean”

“Dan what a journey it’s been!

I think I was the first South African to purchase The Flow from you (if you remember, you mentioned that in a comment).

Just wanted to let you know that I applied techniques on a girl I had a huge crush on in highschool 10 years ago and was too afraid to talk to; and she is now my girlfriend, because I demonstrated masculinity, alpha and domineering traits, all thanks to your training.

Thank you so much! I can’t believe how much difference the mindset of [Edited: Mindset removed. Customer referred to a very important mindset that we teach] makes! I actually feel like a man now and it feels right, she feels comfortable being in a feminine role. Many thanks Dan! Matt”

“Hey Dan, just wanted to say thanks to you and everyone else at the Modern Man for your email advice and the Flow.

The success I have been having with women since using your product has been mind blowing. My confidence is on a new level and I have become the alpha male i always wanted to be despite not thinking I could do so for the longest time.

I am dating a girl for the first time in two years and it is going great. just the other night she told me how she loves how I don’t have to try and impress her and just overall enjoys how I treat her (referring to the skills taught in the flow). you guys really know what you are doing, keep up the good work! Chris”

“Dan. I’ll post a comment under one of your youtube videos too. I started with your Get Ex Back system. I had to listen to it a few times. I made a few mistakes, tried certain parts too early. But holy sh*t, I bought a few more of your videos, started going out.

I’m in my 40s and started trying out the flow and trying out your other advice. Mind blowing.

So I was chilling and some hot millennial came up to me the other night and did the exact same things you talked about in the flow.

I was able to quickly react with the appropriate body language, touching the arm, sexual attraction, all of it.

She got my number and bam, text, address. We then hooked up that night. These chicks don’t mess around.

I’m at a point now where I could meet up with my ex but I don’t even care anymore. Started chatting with another millennial and seeing where that goes, she’s cool and hot. Everything you said is right.

So awesome man. I’m having the best time. J”

“I struggled to get girls my whole life, but The Flow has turned things around for me. Dan’s approach is simple, practical, and effective. I’m now dating an amazing woman and couldn’t be happier. David”

I’ve got a girlfriend now thanks to The Flow. I also just purchased Make her love you for life. I would like to thank you for this, i never thought i could learn real effective techniques from a random guy on youtube especially because im not good with technology and English isn’t even my native language but i was wrong. It’s crazy to realize that this works for anyone around the world. Anyways just wanted to tell you how im doing and please make sure Dan gets this message because this changed my life. Andres (Costa Rica)”

“I bought “The Flow” on audio and have listened to it like 10 times. I highly highly highly recommend this book! Money well well spent. It’s the best and most simple well laid out content I’ve found.

The way you teach to get phone numbers and to get the first kiss is Gold. I’ve used the number technique maybe 20 times now. I’ve made out with 6 women now since I started taking action in the last 3 months. Only used your kiss technique once but it is on point.

I have bought and learned a lot of content from other sources and I mean what I said about how great “The Flow” is and how it is the simplest, well laid out and natural content I’ve found. Corey”

“Dan Bacon, I hope you read this: I went through a bad divorce.

Was in a profoundly toxic relationship that shattered my ability to speak to women let alone a waitress. I saw your video in my recommended and thought it was junk… I watched a few videos from other “gurus” and all of them sunk. I saw you again and thought I’d give you chance.

Your first video blew me away. It helped reframe my perspective but something was missing. I’m highly analytical, I’m quiet, blah blah blah… but then you recommended your book. I did some research. I was skeptical but I was way more nervous speaking with women.

I bought your book The Flow. I read the first two chapters.

I executed it like I was in a play and all the women I spoke with were actors. I legit was stuck in the framework of my past experience but after using The examples you provided, talking to women has never been so easy. I got a girl’s contact info + made plans to go hiking. It’s been 3 days since I bought your book.

Radical stuff. I highly recommend The Flow to anyone!!!!! Christopher”

“I’ve gone through the Flow twice. You guys have a solid product. I went to a party where there were four hot girls there…by the end of the night all four of them wanted me.” M

“Dear Dan Bacon,

I want to share personal info to know the great things you did for me with your books,

I was divorced for 5 years with depression and deep thoughts of self hating and remained every bad memory in my Relation with x wife, after while when i was in my healing stage i just watched your channel on YouTube one after one and i realize i had many misunderstanding for the dynamic of the flow and how the attraction happen between the male and female, so i bought your Audiobook The Flow and guess what..its the best thing happen for me in this stage of my life.. i live in different country with different culture but i really understand the concept that you are talking about and adapt it in everything in my life like:

I can talk easily with any girl which i was thinking before they are out of my league including good times with some of them I can observe and notice their behaviors and hidden meaning behind it

In my work (Am now project manger in important company in Saudi Arabia which i was not thinking to get this far)

After one month i will be master degree graduate. I met unique girl and she now my fiance. I really appreciate to share this knowledge to make the people get back on the road. Best, Tariq”

“I have been using the techniques for a few months now and ladies are actually inviting me to their houses now.

I finally got the girl I been trying to get to notice me to go out to drinks and later she went home and to the hot tub with me these skills are more than pick up advice, they are life communication skills thanks DAN!!! Brent”

“Hey Dan, bought the audio the flow. I wish I can send over the emotions I am feeling. The response from women is amazing. This is what I was missing. Thank you for the social intelligence. And thank you for the flow. Vince”

“I just wanted to say thank you for everything you’re doing. You’ve honestly changed my life in every way imaginable, I’ve got more success stories than I have space to write [Customer contacted us via the contact form on the website, which has a limited amount of characters], but after I started with your stuff everything changed.

Girls started showing interest and I knew how to handle it and turn it into a phone number, kiss and date. I am still shaking my head in disbelief at how simple it has been to get girls on dates and then have sex by following your Flow process. It is mind blowing to me.

I’ve had success with girls before, but I didn’t really know what I was doing. Now I know exactly how it works and it honestly feels like I could get pretty much any girl I like.

There are still some mistakes I make because I’m improving, but with time I’ll get that sorted.

You really are the real deal. I really could have gone down many wrong paths in terms of this area of my life, but now I feel like I’m in good hands. Honestly, I can’t really put this sort of appreciation of your work into words, but thank you once again and please keep helping more people. AS”

“Hey Dan 🙂 I had an incredible experience last night! I went to my high school reunion with intentions to speak to the most beautiful girl at the celebration.

I went to the bar to get a sparkling water, and she walked up to me and started a conversation. Woah!

And she wasn’t the first one either, Nearly every hot girl I was interested in, walked up to me and started the interaction.

Also, after being my confident-self around these beautiful girls, everyone else noticed that I was a cool guy to hang around with, then I noticed that seven people were facing towards me and listening to what I had to say.

Wow, I love this feeling so much.

Not only that, but I saw a girl that friend-zoned me back in high school badly and called me a wimp. She initially had low respect for me initially (hence why I said “almost all the hot girls), but as I spoke normally and expressed my attraction for the girls through my body language, she opened up and started touching my arms and even my chest.

The girls that were out of reach for me during high school, especially the smoking hot ones, never liked me, but now they consider me to be the hottest guy in the room amongst other bad boy types.

I also learnt to tone it down (the verbal flirting) with most of the girls I spoke to. I just allowed my smile and my eyes to do most, if not all the flirting. (It’s working like a dream for me, since I don’t like talking that much amongst women.)

The more promiscuous girls absolutely love it when you speak sexual all the time, and then they’ll be ready to move it forward based on attraction alone.

Throughout the party, I wanted to nail my approaches since I get nervous at times at shopping malls when doing that stuff, so when I saw a random girl I’d approach and say “hi there *girls name*” reach out my arms and hug into her then look up and down and say “Wow, aren’t you looking fantastic” with a sexual smile and squint of my eyes.

They all melted when I did that, even girls who already have boyfriends blushed and had that thought in their mind of “omg! I feel so attracted to him right now. He’s incredibly hot”

A girl that I was purely friends with at the moment (she’s shy but incredibly cute and sexy) was giving me advice on how to pick up her friend and get her to like me, and how much she likes me and whatever without even asking.

When I was at the celebration last night, she didn’t even mention her friend but was instead, flirting with me and being all shy as usual. When we were talking she moved in closer and squared herself up to me. When she looked at me she had strong eye contact with dilated pupils.

She blushed as we spoke and I took her outside near her cat and hugged her tightly for about eight seconds, then she said “you’re an amazing hugger Will” then I smiled and moved in for a kiss.

This would have had to be one of the best, most amazing and most fulfilling first kisses I’ve ever had.

The sexual tension between her and I was completely ridiculous and kissing her made us both really, really hot in the moment.

Both of us just breathed out and stared into each other’s eyes and kissed a couple of more times before we both agreed to meet up for a couple of drinks at the beach.

I find it amazing how just by being a man of really strong purpose (I’m going after what I feel is important with unrelenting determination) and when you have deep, strong confidence, men and women no matter what age are incredibly drawn to you and want to be your friend or want to be your girlfriend (if they’re female of course).

I really want to thank you for the advice in your programs because now I have my choice of women and now they want to impress me. From W”

“Hi, i just want to thank you. Your programs have helped me a lot. I purchased the flow to try it and saw it was working well very quickly, so I also purchased 21ways, ultimate guide to conversation and make her love you for life. It is so cool learn this stuff. In the past, I was quite good with women, but only in bars and they weren’t even that hot. They were okay, but weren’t the kind of girls I was looking for. Using your techniques, I can now get pretty girls that are so much hotter than before and it is easy to do. So thank you very much. You are doing great job for us men. I really appreciate it. L”

“Hi Dan,

I started listening to your stuff a couple of years ago. The one thing I knew I had to do was apply what I was hearing. Getting the flow gave me that confidence and motivation. I suddenly felt the urge to talk to women I liked.

To begin with, all I wanted was the ability to get the girl I wanted, not to get all girls. I just practiced flirting with a couple shop staff, and girls I saw on the street. I was not even trying to get a girl.

One time I went out to a friend’s birthday, it was so boring, I went home early, on the train I sat next to an Indian girl listening to music. I decided to be bold and asked her what type of music she like, then i showed her some music from my phone.

Long story short, we got off the same stop and she took my number. We started dating, she is 22 i am 32, but she is freak in bed. I dated her for 2 months before i decided i could not see myself with her in the long run. we had break up sex, she still wants sex with me, even though I don’t want it with her.

Basically she is waiting for me to change my mind, as she said to give her a call when I am horny.

Thanks to the teaching i received in the flow and putting that into practice, i even have girls at work wanting me. I just don’t want to play the field though, I just want one girl. But at least I have the tools to get her when I see her.

Thanks Dan. Adrian”

“The Flow has changed my life for the better. I used to think that dating was a game that I couldn’t win, but now I know that with the right strategy, I can succeed almost every time I try.

I have gotten a phone number, kiss or sex from about 80% of the women I’ve tried this on and I’m only just at the beginner stage. I know I can do better at using the flow properly and push my results up to 90% and more.

Previously, I was at about 5% success rate. I had no idea what I was doing and lost so many opportunities because of it. Dan, you’re a true hero for us single men out here, and I can’t thank you enough! Patrick”

“I could actually see that something was wrong with my approach to women, but I could not figure it out.

My friends had it all and they were not trying hard. I was a nice guy and I thought if I was nice I will get them (woman), but no I did not get anything.

The more assertive and masculine I have become the more I get what I want. I have woman calling me now and it feels good and I choose who do I want to be with. BK”

“I purchased the flow 4 years ago when I was very young…

I remember someone saying “That’s a lot of money for an E-Book!” Not at all.

Possibly the best investment of my life.

Not only did it improve my success with women but it also improved my success in life just from gaining that extra confidence.

I am now in my second year training to be a doctor after showing my confidence and nailing interviews, I’ve had some great girlfriends over the last few years and I’m only single when I want to be. Good work Dan and all the best! Jamie”

“Dan, I just got to say y’all are brilliant and thank you for sharing your secrets. I have been reading “the flow” quite a bit haha and listening to your other programs too.

It’s amazing how all things work haha. I was no good with the ladies (mostly I cared too much about what everybody thought of me but really it doesn’t matter, cared too much about how I look in public and had little confidence) haha Now I see the big picture.

I was at a party with some mates and I saw my ex girlfriend there. I quickly started using the techniques from “the flow” and other programs ( using the three L’s technique, flirting, starting conversation, good mindsets and etc)

Less than a hour, we started to make-out and had a lot of fun together! It was an awesome night! I’m still working my way up to become a natural like you. Dan,Ben and Stu, thank you! Guillermo”

“Hey dan all thanks to the flow and better than a bad boy.

I managed to get a genuine babe’s number on the plane. Even though my opening line was do u have any panadol i never cracked under pressure when she was talking to me and stayed calm the whole time.

She pretty much talked my ear off the whole flight and i did pretty much nothing i just listened and added in a few facial expressions. after a while i started acting bored and that made her work even harder to get my attention. Thanks dan and the modern man for everything. we are catching up for dancing on sunday. Jesse”

“Thank you modern man, at age 21 my virginity is no longer an issue and your program has helped me develop a natural flow with women so I have had plenty of sex lately.

Learning about confidence has made a difference. Recently one of the girls I am dating offered to take me out for lunch and pay for both of us. Obviously, attracting women is no longer an issue for me. Thato”

“The products at The Modern Man are the REAL deal and have changed the game dramatically for me!

Thanks to Dan and the techniques in the Flow and Dating Power, my results with women are off the charts! I never had serious girl problems but I knew there were definitely gaps in my “game” where I could improve.

Implementing the formula from the Flow and now understanding HOW women enjoy being talked to, I find myself being a much better gentleman and overall person. Major props to Dan and the team at The Modern Man for changing my life. Lavon”

“I got your book The Flow thinking that I wouldn’t be able to get much of a different result than I’d had with women for much of my life. I am surprised to say the least.

Your advice is spot on and the conversation and humor and flirting examples you provide worked the first time I tried them on a woman. I got myself a phone number when I went out the first night of approaching with a friend from work.

I then went on a date with her and it was at her place for dinner and we had sex afterward.

She wasn’t my perfect woman so I kept looking and a couple of weekends later from that I went out with my friend again and met a stunning blonde.

She was getting hit on all night and bored of it and I saw that, so I used your Flow approach and got her laughing and enjoying the conversation. Next thing you know and her and I were kissing. We’re now three weeks into a new relationship and I feel on top of the world.

You deserve a lot of credit for the work you have done Dan. It is spot on to say the least. It really does work and I thank my lucky stars for the day that I found your site. I will be definitely looking at getting your relationship program now and may the Better than a Bad Boy video series. Ethan”

“Any guy who isn’t learning from The Modern Man is missing out big time. I’ve been getting laid like crazy lately….it’s funny how easy it is once you get it. Ricky”

“Hi Dan, I just to say thank you for the information you’ve provided in The Flow.

I only wish I’d had something like this 30 years ago when I was out and about chasing the young girls. But never too late I guess.

I’ve struggled my entire life with shyness and eye aversion issues so hasn’t been easy. I’m just over halfway through you ebook and have seen some results already. I was at a show earlier today and found myself flirting with the assistant.

I acted as though I knew she liked me already and used one of the humor examples you provide in the book. It worked! Her eyes lit up and she showed a lot of interest in me right away. I didn’t quite go all the way and try to get her number or anything – but you can’t imagine what a huge deal that was for me.

I can feel that it’s only the start of much more to come. Thank you again. You are the smoothest talker with women I’ve ever heard, by the way. Garrett”

“Hi Dan

I wanted to share my experience with you guys so far.

I found Modern Man last summer when I was driving up to a coffee shop while watching a beautiful girl getting out of her car.

She saw me checking her out and I parked and got in line inside. She was directly in front of me and started giving me all the signs to start interacting with her. I didn’t know what to say, or even continue a conversation.

I froze, said hi and smiled and left feeling frustrated. I went home that day and found The Modern Man. It started with The Flow, and now I own all your products.

I don’t want to sit here and say how immediately I was getting laid to try and make myself look good.

I really needed a lot of work. So I took it one step at a time. Firstly I knew that I had a SOLID foundation of being a great person. I treat people well and am a great guy. Secondly, I needed better communication skills.

I based a lot of this on your TI technique [from The Ultimate Guide to Conversation].. I really began improving interactions not with just women, but with everyone. I found that I’m good at this.

It came fairly naturally and quickly. So I built on these “new found” communication skills and began interacting with new people everywhere. Soon I was much more comfortable in my own skin because everyone I have found so far is open to friendly conversation.

I began to realize, women are easier to approach. I’ve kissed a couple of women and women who are interested in me are keen to be around me and be involved in my life.

I am now getting more phone numbers easily. More women are involved in my life, which means more opportunities. I am now in control of who I like and decide to move forward with intimately.

My desperation has depleted dramatically and my standards are continuously rising. My life and confidence (or ability to be myself around others) has increased exponentially in the last 10 months and funny enough I appreciate women a lot more. I foresee continued growth as I seek a level of comfort that you guys at the Modern Man are able to enjoy.

I was a little intimidated at first because I knew that I would eventually have to interact with beautiful women. Now, it seems I just be myself, talk with everyone, and women tend to seek out my attention. More importantly, I’m aware of it now.

I still have goals to reach and skills to refine, but it would not have been possible to make so much progress so quickly without your invaluable advice and knowledge. Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! I’m so grateful. Dave”

“Hi Dan, just bought your Flow book this morning after watching some of your youtube videos. I’m amazed. Listened to the audio by afternoon.

First girl I approached tonight (that I would never had the guts to before) proved me this stuff works! At first she wanted to take things slow, now basically begging me to give it to her. It’s simple, but amazing! Got over my breakup really quick too. Thank you so much, well worth the investment. Simon”

“It’s painful to admit, but I now acknowledge that I’ve wasted a good 15 years of my life doing the wrong things. I am so glad to have found this material. I’ve got a date lined up with a pretty girl this coming week. Michael, Canada”

By the time I got to page 40, I had already broken the ice with a girl I had never even been able to get a smile out of.

Reading it was like flicking a switch in my head that changed my mindset straight away. I can only imagine how much easier things are going to get once I start really start to follow the techniques fully. P, Australia”

Your techniques are fresh, intelligent, sincere and written in a easy to understand casual way – real life. Your 3 second look up and down followed by “Your pretty and I like your style” comment is great. I’ll be using that one tonight at a party I’m attending. Lee, Canada”

“After years of enduring on with the odd bit of luck – I’m now having sex with new women all the time, which is what I want because I think I deserve to enjoy this before settling into a relationship.

The flow ebook was a total bargain and I can’t thank you enough for the clarity of the examples and instructions you provided. Five stars from me. Brian, USA”

“First of all THANK YOU SO MUCH, Dan!! You have helped me SIGNIFICANTLY with my life when it comes to women!

I have been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months, and I used to have this 2 month curse when it came to women.

I never really was all that bad with women to begin with, but I had a horrible problem of trying too hard with them (like trying to impress them) and with falling in love with them too quickly. Because of your book, I have learned what I need to change in my life to get the results that I want out of life!

Thanks to your book, I have got this girl to go from “let’s just be friends” to “when are we gonna hang out again?” if you know what I mean. Anyway, thanks again, Dan! You are a LIFESAVER! Drew, New York”

“Fantastic! Absolutely eye-opening. Dan – your ability to take the reader through the process of a natural courtship, while making it all so simple is amazing.

The results speak for themselves – I can actually walk up to girls now and chat to them confidently. It’s only been a week and a half and I’ve gotten 3 phone numbers…this is awesome. Steve”

“Not a month after reading your book, I went out to the bar with some friends. Well, in the past I would have hung out with my friends and thought “If I talk to anyone else aside from my friends, I’m going to get ridiculed”

I decided that, no matter how much I might trip over myself and goof things up because I’m not used to going up to strangers and striking up a conversation, I would do it that night, and let me tell you.

Its amazing how much different things were just taking some of your tips on just projecting confidence and not slinking away at the first sign of resistance. Your book is like my bible now!

To this day, being Wednesday, it has been 4 days since I was out with those friends, and I have phoned a couple of the numbers, didn’t go fishing for a date, actually never asked for one in the first phone call, and THEY called ME back asking me to meet up for coffee or drinks or whatever.

Women are now calling me to set up dates, so I just have one word left for you guys….THANKS! Jeff, Canada”

“Brilliant! I was the typical nice guy who was nervous around women but in a matter of weeks, all of that has changed.

I was chatting up a girl at a bar the first time I tried your flow approach to conversation and I was shocked at how well it worked. I had her eating out of my hands for 20 minutes and we left the bar together that night.

My confidence has gone through the roof and I’ve made a load of new friends as well. Anande, London”

“Norwegian girls are notorious for playing hard to get and making guys work for months to get anywhere with them.

Well, that is what I thought prior to using The Flow on them.

I got laid the first weekend I went out approaching and got a serious girlfriend the following weekend. You are saving lives Dan Bacon…I was severely depressed and lost about what to do about my situation with women before I stumbled across your website. Pete, Norway”

“I’m not one to usually leave testimonials, but The Flow has been a game-changer for me. Dan’s techniques have helped me get the girls I’ve always wanted. His advice is practical and easy to follow. Highly recommend. Mike”

“Dude…my whole life, women only saw me as a friend. But I read your book and BAM! In just 3 months, I went on 8 dates! Your stuff is straight up mindblowing. And get this, I ended up picking one of the best women from those 8 and now she’s my girlfriend! Your techniques are legit and I couldn’t have done it without you. Thanks, man! Evan, USA”

“I ordered the e-book Flow, figuring I’d blow $100 taking a girl to dinner, so what the hey. You’re right on point!

I used the conversation examples with a woman from work and we went out that Friday night for drinks. We hooked up on Sunday afternoon for lunch and then had sex that night!

Now she is my girlfriend! Getting your book was the best money I’ve ever spent on anything online. I highly recommend this to other guys out there. Trust in Dan, he is the real deal and he gets you results. John”

“My names Anthony I’m 19 years old and used to be the shy guy who didn’t have the balls to go up and talk to girls at all and when I do I had no idea how to speak to them.

Honestly I had no idea how to speak properly to anyone new I would always try to copy what my friends do and found out the hard way that it was the wrong move. The Modern Man products work not just with making you the man most women desire, but making you the man that everyone wants to be around. I used three products to help transform myself these 3 products are: The Flow, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation and Better Than a Bad Boy.

In this economy the price for the last two are pretty expensive especially at my age but let me tell you it was the best purchase I have ever made and it has made my life more enjoyable.

Rather than just hanging out with a girl and hoping she sleeps with me I have the confidence to enjoy every aspect of our time together and escalating to that last step [sex] has never been easier.

If you’re looking to get with women, lose that social awkwardness, and get the confidence and knowledge to do what you truly want in life then I recommend you use products from the Modern Man. My only regret is that I didn’t use this sooner thanks Dan Ben and Stu!! Anthony”

“I recently bought the flow after watching and learning about the modern man.

I’ve been studying since January and my confidence levels have increased ten fold! I’m a 19 years old disabled man in college and working. The only one in my friend group attracting older women between 21-30 years old! May have a date with a 21 year old friend! You’re the best Dan! Grant”

“Best pick up advice I’ve ever found online. TMM are the real deal. Got several women on the go now. Andy”

“Dear Dan,

My success story is that I was miserable at picking up girls and whenever I tried, I always get stuck in the friend zone. That really made me lose it.

I found your site in hope of my solution and it really works! I have bought The Flow and improved so much! I couldn’t believe it would work for me before I tried it, but it did.

Ever since I bought The Flow I’ve had plenty of girls hitting on me. I always liked this girl in my class and I got her to be my girlfriend. So I am very happy to have found you amongst all the noise out there. John”

“Hey Dan, I have been studying the Flow and this Saturday I will be hanging out the first girl that I used The Flow on. Meeting up for a coffee, which I’m sure will lead to something more because I now understand how to get to a kiss and then sex I know I can do this.

So far I have been becoming more confident and clear of my life and the future, and I am starting to manage the stress and life of college better in the last months, and I have nobody else to thank but you and your wisdom.

It feels as if instead of feeling afraid, now that I jumped into adulthood, I feel I want to grow up and learn more, instead of feeling down because of the challenges that will come into my life, like people tend to act.

I have been successfully fighting my unhealthy social anxiety, and am overcoming and understanding the feelings of guilt from beating up the Nice Guy syndrome I lived with for years.

I haven’t had a panic attack in two weeks now, and I used to experience them almost daily! I wanted to write this post to share my progress. Thank you very much man, you have no idea how grateful I am. Kevin”

“Hey Dan thanks for making such a helpful product.

I used to think that girls like nice guys and so I was being overly nice and wimpy instead of nice but also strong and confident.

I was awful with girls, I couldn’t even say hi to them I was very afraid of girls, approaching them was my nightmare but now after using the flow, mastery methods and mindsets and dating power and using it in my life I now enjoy my life with many girls in it. Girls like me and I have lost my virginity just because of you, stu and ben’s products. Tarun”

“I purchased Flow and also listened to many free videos.

I was recently divorced and while looking forward to new relationship, I did not want to make any mistakes (or make only few mistakes) this time. Again, was not sure what mistakes I might have made first time around.

‘The flow’ helped me see my past mistakes (also what I did right) and why I screwed up.

Long story short, I have 5 attractive women to choose from at this time and all of them are keen on me. Thank you for the insights. Truly incredible. N”

“Hi Dan,

It feels good to finally be on this side of the line.

Earlier I used to read all the comments about guys getting girlfriends when they followed you and I used to think when will I be like them.

I got my female friend to date me after such a long time of me just being in the friend-zone with her.

She was a bit reluctant at first but seeing my newly found confidence and alpha-male attitude, she said she started to see me as someone else. Hope I continue the good run. Arjun”

“I’ve had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your flow technique is pure gold and has worked every time I’ve used it so far. I’ll be getting your relationship program next so I am ready for when I want to have a serious girlfriend. Just having fun for now though, lol. Feels good! Royce”

“Guys, I can’t stress enough how well Modern Man’s products work.

I was living in Spain and trying to talk to the beautiful women we all hear about there. Wasn’t getting anywhere, so I learned The Flow technique and simply based on the confidence I was displaying, women started showing a lot of attraction and interest, even though there was a language barrier with 90% of them. I got laid 3 times in 2 weeks…stunningly beautiful brunettes…life-changing for me.

It turns out, no matter where you are in the world, Dan’s flow approach works. 10/10 from me Dan. You rock. I’m now back in the states in Michigan and killing it with the girls here. So easy. Unbelievable man. I love you! BIG thanks from Taylor!”

“Hey, what’s up Dan, just wanted to say that I have experienced some tremendous progress after reading the Flow and watching Dating Power.

Just about every chick at my workplace is into me. I’ve had sex with around one new woman every month and I want to start picking up women in many different places now. Joseph”

“Hi Dan

I first learned about your material in my search for better information regarding women and dating. I went through college with moderate success with women, but I never had the confidence to approach the “hottest” girls who would even give me positive signals that I should approach and escalate with them.

At one point, I was hanging out and having dinners with a beautiful girl who would even come by herself to parties at my house and flirt with me the entire night. She gave me every signal that I should pursue her, but I felt like I was being fake and didn’t want to reveal my inner wuss by messing it up with her or getting rejected.

I also felt that there was something wrong with how I was going about this because I had fantasies of waking up with her in bed and being my girlfriend, yet I hadn’t even gotten physical. Therefore, I did nothing and this “relationship” fizzled.

I later learned that she had had many sexual encounters with other popular guys around my campus. Other experiences like this left me frustrated and somewhat angry.

I read the flow and watched Alpha Male Power about 6 months ago. With the knowledge and empowerment from these products, I began consciously to implement the concepts into my life. I still haven’t fully mastered them, but they have made a huge difference.

A few months ago I met a beautiful, smart girl on vacation in Miami. She was showing me positive signals, and I decided to pursue her during the trip using the concepts I learned from your material.

The knowledge and inner confidence from your products allowed me to become intimate with her on the trip and because we happen to live close to one another, start a happy, committed relationship. I thank you for helping me reverse the habits I learned from ineffective role models in order to become a more attractive, happy man. Sincerely, Will”

“I only just got the book and I’m already on page 48- can’t put it down!

The attraction and rapport techniques seem so obvious, but I know I’ve always been doing the opposite with women and can see how that’s been sabotaging my efforts.

I’ve had the chance to practice today on my colleagues (mostly female) and I’ve already felt like there was added warmth in the way they were interacting with me as a result. I’m looking forward to fine-tuning this skill and learning more. Mikey”

“My parents were quite worried that I still didn’t have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try.

I experienced more success with girls in three months that I’ve had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren…! Wei”

“I got a girlfriend two weeks after reading The Flow.

I was out in the city with some buddies and they were too afraid to approach any girls. They tried to talk me out of approaching because they said girls are b*tches and always have a boyfriend. I didn’t listen to them.

I approached and they were astounded at what happened. All night I had girls interested in me and eventually snogged the girl who is now my girlfriend. Brilliant book Dan. It has been the best investment I’ve ever made in myself and now my buddies are asking me for advice. Macca”

“Hey Dan. I just wanted to take the chance to thank you and share my success story with you.

I hope you don’t kill me though when you read some parts of my journey. Well I’ve known about you and have had you in my e-mail list for about 4 years now and I’ve been reading your stuff and I always wanted to get your products though I was still on a primary school kids allowance (I was in high school at the time).

Until that one day I bought the flow. And then I kept it on my phone without even touching it and decided to go P.U.A for advice…what a waste of my bloody time I tell you.

So on this so called pua journey of mine I had a lot of stupid sh*t happen until one night I decided to go back to the Flow and finally read it. Well I’m half way through it and………. I’ve got a girlfriend, yes I thought I’d be sleeping with every bombshell on planet earth when I got my dating game right though nah…I f*cked around and got me a good women lol.

Well you did say that many of us will be starting at different levels and you were right. I started getting attention from women just after getting my mind sets right and today I’m at a point where I can be in an interaction with a woman and actually have her wanting me to take it to the next level.

I’m having so much fun with this mindset stuff sometimes I’ll flash a grin and just sit back and start repeating in my head…”I am a man..a strong sexually aware man and women want me “…did that once and she started doing touching on me under the table lol good times.and the vocal exercises have been helping with my mindset.

I just twisted the exercise a bit for a two in one benefit though that’s a story for another day; Though what I wanted to highlight the most was how you actually helped me take attraction to the next level.

Now I’ve always been practicing attractive humor throughout my life without knowing it because I’m the type of guy from a young age who liked cracking jokes and being cocky and making sexual jokes.

And that’s what I did throughout my life even with girls I tried to date and since I started reading the Flow I now see why it never worked in the long run. I could use my natural self to spark attraction very easily and that where my downfall was.

I would just keep doing the same thing throughout the interaction with a woman just because it got her attention instead of shifting into the 3rd phase and developing an emotional connection. And that’s how I always ended up as the funny guy with jokes and nothing more.

Though now Dan thanks to you I’m the MAN!!!…..and my girl knows if she messes up I can have my choice of other women. I now know and believe that.

Now I can finally focus on other parts of life. Thanks Dan. Nhlalo”

“Hey Dan! I’m 25 years old and i’ve been using he flow since my senior year in high school.

I’ve had tons of success with the flow, and recently just broke up with my smoking hot girlfriend of 2 years because it was ME who was not happy.

In the 2 weeks being single, i have already slept with 4 girls. And my phone is blowing up with hot woman, most of who’m i just don’t have the time for because i have more woman than i know what to do with.

Almost every night i have a different date, and some booked days, if not weeks in advance. And it’s all thanks to this life changing product. THANK YOU!!!. Tony M”

“I finished reading “The Flow” 2 days after I had purchased it.

On the third day, I went out into the town to put what I learned in action. It works so well! I talked to two girls, and they both wanted me! What I attempted was wayyy out of my comfort zone, and not what I usually would do, but I put that passed me and just gave it a go.

Worked like a charm. The first girl I talked to was definitely interested, so much so that I felt taking her home was absolutely possible, but after talking for a little I decided i didn’t want her. YES, I chose. Then moved onto the next girl, who was also much more beautiful.

I put the techniques I read about in the book to use, and now she is my girlfriend. It was literally so easy after you know the right things to do.

Before this book I would have NEVER talked to her. Before this book I wouldn’t have even tried because I mean seriously, she seemed way out of my league. Buy this book. It is absolutely worth it. Chris”

“I do not go out much however last night a good friend invited me out and I figured “Why not?”

I go out and have a few beers, after a few we end up at a late night bar. There this drunk douche bag introduces himself, he was wasted. Shortly after we see his girlfriend who is very attractive trying to put him into an Uber. He does not want to and the two of them get into a big fight causing a scene. I tell my friend that no woman should have to deal with that type of man, if anything the roles should be reversed.

They finally leave. 30 minutes later SHE comes back, talking about how bad her boyfriend is etc. I see this as an opportunity. I start talking to her, she needs a real man not some idiot who makes a fool out of himself and has her clean up his mess. I end up taking her back to my house and having sex her with her all night. It was fantastic pussy! She was down for just about anything! Lots of fun. I don’t feel bad about it one bit, I did not coerce her she just fell the urge for a real man, not some pussy who hides behind her, as I learned from watching your videos.

I have been surprised at how easily the techniques work on all types of women, not just single women. Women can’t stop themselves from wanting you when you approach the conversation in The Modern Man way.

It was a great time for me the other night, so just thought I would share this with you guys.

It was definitely not something that I was expecting, I am glad I went out. I see it as a huge confidence boost moving forward! Tony”

“Girls, girls, girls.

That is basically what my life consists of now. I spent my teens and 20s playing video games and never got to socialize much at all so my social skills were quite awkward and underdeveloped.

Just a month after reading your Flow ebook, I am swimming in girls. I’ve been having sex with 2 girls I met through friends at work and I picked up a girl last weekend at my local bar.

I’m confident and I can vibe with any type of person in a social situation now because I know what to say and I know what behaviors to avoid to prevent any awkwardness from occurring. I want to write to you and thank you for making the process of attracting and picking up girls so easy especially for a guy like me who had never really had any attention from girls.

I will be buying more of your programs in the coming months when I get paid. I’d like to learn about relationships now because I feel like I would like to settle down in a year from now so I want to be prepared. Quinton”

“I’d like to thank everyone the modern man. Without you, I probably would probably still have no clue with women. At first, I only wanted to get that one special girl who was a very close friend of mine (whom I met through facebook), but nothing more.

After reading the flow and applying the techniques on other women, she began to take notice and asked me out. And during that date, I moved things forward to kissing then sex. And it’s all because the modern man. Right now, I’m dating casually, and I’m never nervous or afraid of rejection ever again. Again, thanks for everything! Walter”

“Hello Dan, Let me start off by saying that I am by no means a bad looking guy, and I am extremely social, but yet I have just never been good with picking up women. I finished reading your book [The Flow] on friday evening and would have normally just stayed in for the night because all my friends were busy.

It turned out that it was my older cousins birthday that night, so I decided to go out and try the material, feeling like I knew what my previous problems were at this point. I was slightly nervous cause I knew everyone would be much older than me but I decided that your book was right; I had to at least try otherwise nothing would surely happen.

So I get to the bar and its packed. There is no chair for me at their table so I calmly go and find one. I get stuck at the very end of the table, and keep in mind I know NOBODY down there. So we do the usual hand shakes and intros (the guys at that end). I then decide to go and get a drink at the bar.

There is an opening next to a beautiful blonde, so I take it. Now normally I wouldnt have said anything. She was texting and looking completely uninterested in everyone but after reading your book I decided I needed to go for it. I asked her if there were any specials going on. Without turning to me she said “no, its the weekend” (obviously thinking I was just another cheesy guy looking to pick her up).

So I said “are you sure, normally friday nights they have orange juice on sale”. She then turns to me with a puzzled look on her face so I just gave her a grin. I then said “what are you drinking there, it looks horrible”. And she laughed and said it was really good (cant remember what it was now).

She then held out her hand for me to shake and said “hi im Nicole”. I gave her a knock (closed fist) instead and said “nice to meet you Nicole, im Shanequa”. LOL. She laughed pretty hard and said “ok Shanequa, so what do you do?” I then said “I have two part time jobs as a male dancer and whale hunter”.

She laughed really hard again. Now after this point I got a little more serious with my answers cause I didnt want to over do it. I got her number about 5 minutes later and said “nice meeting you, im going to get back to my friends”. I NEVER would have done this in the past, and would have overstayed my welcome by a long shot im sure.

Needless to say all of this I gathered out of your book, and I normally never act like this, but quite honestly it felt natural once I started doing it. This was within 5 minutes of getting to the bar. Later that night I had 2 gorgeous 30 year olds (im 23) hanging all over me.

Because of time restraints I cannot tell you the rest of the night right now, but honestly Dan it was the best and most eye-opening night of my life. I was “the man” in a group of people that were 5-10 years older than me, and got 3 phone numbers of EXTREMELY interested and gorgeous women in one night.

Yeh I know, not breaking any records, but for me thats more than I had gotten in about the previous 6 months! So to wrap it up THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. The info I got from your ebook is seriously priceless. It would have been worth thousands of dollars.

You have honestly changed my dating life from me chasing women around to them fighting for my attention. I still obviously have much more to learn but I am fully 100% confident after last night and it felt very natural to do, while also feeling fantastic to be in that situation.

At the end of the night my cousin even said “when did my little cousin turn into such a stud?” in front of everyone. It was an amazing night Dan, and I can’t wait to get out there more!

For the first time in my life I WANT TO go up and meet gorgeous girls because I feel that I can interest and attract them because I can be “the man” while allowing them to be the woman, which is obviously what they want and what turns them on.

Keep in touch and sorry for the novel…but in case you can’t tell I am stoked. Ian”

“I am a college student and was struggling to break out of my shell. I read your book,”The Flow” last year and things have changed for me so much. I have been sleeping with various women on campus and have been giving a few tips to my friends also.

Your book changed my outlook on myself and what is possible with women. I still have a ways to go to get to your level and I am hoping I can afford more of your programs in future so I can learn the stuff I don’t yet know! Thanks for your help Dan. Sincerely, Alan”

“Dan, I started out being the typical nice guy, omega male. Then I read the Flow, and watched Alpha Male Power.

Ever since then, my life has literally done a 180. I was promoted at work into a leadership position, and then I lead the leaders just because I am allowed to, and I have multiple girls that are super keen on me at my job, and I literally don’t try.

I just flirt with them and use presence and other alpha mindsets.

Girls literally get nervous around me, blush, and don’t know what to say.

It is a huge change. Now I am going through Better Than a Bad Boy and I am going to go after my life’s purpose.

The Modern Man is not only about making you successful with women, it is also about making you a success in your life, and it will have you feeling like a king and being treated better than you ever have before by girls. Aiden”

“When i realised just how bad i was with women and wanted to change i didn’t know where to start so i looked at a lot of PUA stuff and wasn’t really comfortable with it because it just seemed like a scam and was tricking women into bed and wouldn’t really help me in social life. Then I came across The Modern Man and The Flow.

i bought it thinking it was cheap and if it turned out to be sh*t then i wouldn’t have wasted much! BEST MONEY I HAVE EVER SPENT!!!!!!! read it a couple of times that week to get it to sink in properly then went out on a saturday night with my mate just for a few drinks not really thinking about the The Flow and we got chatting to a couple girls, woke up the next morning in bed with one of them!

This was the first time i had chatted up a girl on a night out let alone taken her home! currently working my way through alpha male power and better than a bad boy and life is definitely getting better for me in social, work and sex life. Harry”

“Dan – Just wanted to touch base, update you and say a huge thanks.

As you know i was going through alot of sh*t with my ex gf and all the bullsh*t that entailed. I didn’t try your ex back program but instead went for your advice on picking up new women in Dating Power.

Well, after NYE i got invited on a holiday by a mate who is a retired 35yo wall street trader and a bunch of other mates from all over the globe. We all trade heavily in the markets.

Anyway, long story short, we were staying at a condo on the beach. Man, the European women we met and hooked up with…incredible. I applied your advice and tactics, bedded 4 women in 2 weeks, a kiwi model, 2 russians and a swede. I thought about you oneday and my ex gf and said “I made the right choice not going back to my ex, look at the gorgeous women here we are hooking up with.” And i mean 10/10’s

So thanks for your videos and mate, there is no way im interested getting back to my ex gf, 39 yo single mum who is now with a single father in his 40’s when we are hooking up with smokin hot, intelligent and classy europeans.

Have been invited to an italian mates penthouse in Monaco for a month in May during Cannes Film Festival, it’s gonna be epic and will def purchase The Flow to hone my skills. Cheers, Matt”

“Bought your Flow book 2 weeks ago Dan, brilliant!!!! Got laid on the second night I went out approaching. The first night I only got phone numbers, but Night 2 was a beauty. I’m back in the game! Hayden”

“How’s it going Dan?

Man, have I got a success story to tell you. So me and and a few of my friends went to a small town in Washington for performance gig.

After performing, we decided to go to a popular club in the area and just have a good time.

Once we got there I immediately used the [Edited: Customer revealed an important technique from The Flow] technique and thought to myself, “Man, this is place is great! We’re gonna have some fun tonight!” I could feel my confidence going through the roof.

We all were dancing it up having a good time. It was as if we took the club over because girls were positioning themselves near us so they could gain our attention.

A couple of girls even made out with each other.

At one point, a hot brunette grabbed my ass. When I turned around and saw that she was smiling at me, I jokingly said “You know, if you wanted grab my ass you could’ve at Least bought me a drink. I’m not that easy you know she laughs and then walks away.

I thought to myself “oh well it’s her loss” and started dancing some more.

After receiving a lap dance from another girl, the hot brunette comes up to me and decides to give me a lap dance of her own.

She began to moan as she was grinding on me and she informed me that she wasn’t wearing underwear.

We had sex at the college apartments after throwing an after party and out of the blue, she asked “So why did you choose me?” I just laughed it off and said come here and give here a kiss.

The next night I had sex with another girl that I met at a wine tasting event simply by using the flow. I was kinda mad at her the next morning though because she ripped my favorite shirt when taking my shirt off in a kind of frenzy. I mean, who does that? Just take the damn shirt off normally. Lol. Anyway, Dan I can’t thank you enough for doing what you do! Will purchase another one your products soon to take my game to the next level. Cheers, Sid.”

“Hello Dan, Thanks for the advice you provided in the Flow, I used some of the techniques you provided and I got phone numbers from two different girls in a day. The best I’ve ever achieved. Thanks again mate. Adeyemi”

“Hey Dan – First thing – the flow – wow I loved it I’m in the process of buying more products, when I have money saved. Anyway, I bought the flow about 3 months ago took my time reading it. Two weeks ago a friend and I went out for the first time in ages, I was excited and confident for the first time in years.

We went to a bar that had pool tables so we started playing. About 15 minutes later 4 beautiful girls started playing next to us. There was a bit of looking back for forth until I walked over and said. Ok you guys keep looking at me do yous need some tips? (Mind you I can’t play pool to save my life) they laughed and they were surprised by my approach.

One of them said yeah sure why not, We ended up playing pool for most of the night. I even had one of the girls buying me drinks all I said was alight so argh your shout this round and she did it. At the after party I had sex with the girl I was into and my friend was making out with the other. I’ve learnt in the flow that you just need to treat people as if they are already your friends. I wasn’t even trying to pick up the night it just happened. Thank you sooo much Dan. Byron”

“Hey Dan, Thanks for everything that you guys at the Modern Man provide. This stuff is not only great for improving your life with women, it will improve your life in many other areas as well.

When I bought my first Modern Man product (The Flow), I was frustrated and very skeptical. I actually didn’t apply the information for months after getting it. Then I built up the courage to do it and things changed very quickly with women. Dates, sex and a number of women wanting to be my girlfriend at the same time. Mind blowing to say the least.

When you apply this information, it will change your life in so many ways that these products are worth 100 times what they cost. I am now on a career path and I am excelling in many areas in my life at a faster rate than I have ever progressed. The Flow and Alpha Male Power had such a profound impact on me, that I went on to purchase ALL of the Modern Man products within 3 months of my first purchase (except for Get Your Ex Back).

They are all great products and you learn valuable nuggets of gold from each and every one of them. Guys, do yourselves a favor and get these products. The skills you learn are definitely transferable into any area of life you choose. Don’t waste time stuck where you are. Listen to Dan and you will excel. It works! Brandon”

“I purchased your ‘Flow’ and have found to be immensely beneficial. In less than 3 months I’ve had multiple dates and quality of dating has also improved in that it leads to kissing and sex as well as better connections with women. It is amazing what a man can say to a woman and instead of being flagged as ‘obscene’, I see them lap it up… without exception. Well, there are few who act awkward but then I would not have wanted to do much with them and above stuff acts as good tests to eliminate those worthy of rejection. Keep up your good work. Lee”

“Hey Dan, I am just an average guy with average looks. I used to be tired of seeing successful relationships all around me yet I couldn’t get one. “The Flow” helped me a lot in turning me around. in just a week after reading it, I got attracted to a girl and this time made sure she had the same feelings. fast forward six months, I am in a new country with a new life but she is coming here to live just for me. Dipanjan”

“The products at The Modern Man are the REAL deal and have changed the game dramatically for me! Thanks to Dan and the techniques in the Flow and Dating Power, my results with women are off the charts! I am currently dating a woman I’d say is easily 10/10 and she is totally into me.

I never had serious girl problems but I knew there were definitely gaps in my “game” where I could improve and therefore I could only really get 7/10s and sometimes 8s. Now 9s and 10s are available to me. Implementing the formula from the Flow and now understanding HOW women enjoy being talked to, I find myself being a much better gentleman and overall person and that is also a huge side benefit to me. Major props to Dan and the team at The Modern Man for changing my life. Cheers! Lavon”

“I’ve tried other dating ebooks and courses in the past, but The Flow is by far the best. I’ve had more dates and hookups since I started using The Flow, and I feel more confident and comfortable around women in general. Thank you, Dan!” – Max”

“Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I’ve ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don’t hate the playa! Hahaaa…Tyrone”

“Hi Dan. I made a breakthrough by finally building up the courage to use your advice from The Flow.

Went for a rock climbing trip on the weekend with mates and met one of the girl housemates. Everything started off with friendly introductions followed with some humor and flirting whilst teaching her to climb.

End result: She got touchy-feely, felt safest with me only for climbing, and gave a lousy excuse to her housemate to travel back home with me in my car alone haha. Then stopped at a nearby beach as it was getting dark, and we connected really well!

It was through all that day and the day after (all she wanted was to see me according to her) that evidence of your teachings were bearing fruit. Taking the lead, creating sexual tension whilst friends were around, and just being unpredictable worked miracles!

From her own words too: “I feel like a woman around you.”, “Behind all your jokes, I still see a sensitive, caring nice guy in you. I couldn’t ask for more in a guy”

We then started kissing passionately and things heated up fast. It was clearly exciting and enjoyable for both of us. We didn’t have sex, but I know we will when we see each other next. Though my learning and progression is far from over, this was one HUGE step forward and an eye opener. Thank you thus far Dan, and pass my thanks on to Ben and Stu. J”

“Hey Dan! Last night went like this. I met a chick on the street, went back to her hotel to hang out at the communal spa area/hot tub, then went back to her room and had sex. Went back to the bars the next night and me and my friend pulled two hotties numbers after about 2 hours of conversation and making out with them at the bar. The next morning got a beautiful 18 year old girl’s phone number from the restaurant we were eating breakfast at. Just thought I would let you know. I am excited for the future now. Thank you! TC”

“Using the advice in these programs, I’ve had plenty of success since I first purchased the flow 2 years ago among other products. Soon thereafter, I got a job as a bouncer at a college bar. A buddy and I would get into competitions on how many numbers we could get during the night. As of now, I’ve lost count on how many girls I’ve met, dated, and had intimate encounters with (even while I was working mind you). These products are worth the price, and I hope any guy willing to improve their dating life make this investment. I owe a lot to Dan, Ben, and Stu. So stop wasting time and make your lives better!!! Cheers, Matt”

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Text Attraction

Text Attraction by Dan Bacon

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“Hey Dan, I wanted to thank you for your Text Attraction program.

I was really struggling with online dating and felt like I was wasting so much time with women who just weren’t interested.

But after implementing your techniques, I started to get more responses and went on more dates with better quality women.

I then met my current girlfriend on an app using your methods. It’s amazing how much of a difference a few simple tweaks to your texts can make. Thank you so much! Alex”

“Thanks for the guidance, Dan. I’m now more confident and assertive over text, and it’s paying off big time. Got a date lined up for tomorrow. Caleb”

“Just wanted to give you a shout out and say thanks!

I was out at a bar one night and met this absolute smokeshow. She gave me her number and I knew I had to hit her up for a date.

I texted her and she wasn’t very interested. Hardly replying at all. So I figured I’d lost her. Then I saw one of your videos on Youtube and thought – wow this guy knows what he’s talking about.

I got your program and used one of your refuel texts to warm her back up. BOOM! The conversation started flowing and we then agreed to meet.

Fast forward 3 months, and we’re still going strong. YES she is my girl and I couldn’t be happier. Thanks for giving me the skills and confidence I needed to make it happen. As you would say – “Cheers” – Jared”

“As a busy professional, I don’t have a lot of time for dating, but Text Attraction has helped me make the most of the time I do have.

With Dan’s examples and techniques, I’ve been able to quickly get women interested and turn that interest into dates. It has only taken me 2 to 5 minutes on average to get a date. It’s extremely easy to do. I highly recommend Text Attraction to anyone who wants to maximize their dating potential. Evan”

“I matched with a stunning girl on a dating app and attracted her like you said to do.

She said yes right away when I suggested catching up for a coffee and I was blown away by that. I’d always thought I needed to text more and get to know a woman, but you’re right…women don’t need that.

Our first date ended with a kiss and she wants more.

Thank you for sharing this invaluable knowledge! I wasted so much time in the past with over texting girls…now I get it. I see how it works. You’re a genius man. Thank you!!! Alan”

“I recently went through a breakup and was feeling really down about my dating prospects.

But after discovering your Text Attraction program, I feel like I have a new lease on life. Your techniques have helped me to approach online dating with a fresh perspective and I’ve already met some great women using your texting examples.

I’m excited to see where this new confidence takes me. Thank you for helping me to get my groove back! John”

“I’m an older guy (59) who was interested in having a relationship with a much younger chick (20).

After I became single again, hitting the social scene in bars was a shock to my system. Lost in a world of older divorcees and totally frustrated with them, I tried dating apps, but was getting nowhere.

So I got your texting program for a few tips to figure out how it is done these days.

I then struck gold on an app that promotes relationships between older men and younger women. Even though the age difference was huge between her and I and she is very beautiful, going from the opener to a date happened so easily.

She’s an awesome girlfriend and life is great again for me even at this age!

If I tried texting her with my old nice guy approach that I’d been using on women, she probably wouldn’t have been interested and I would still be single right now. Your approach is like cat-nip to the ladies.

It’s a real big advantage to pick “from the top of the tree” regarding women, instead of settling for those rotten apples laying on the ground.

If you want to meet a quality woman, you will have to work on it and have the confidence and skills to attract her to you.

I did it at 59…so any guy who reads my story, just know that you can do it.

Thanks again Dan! Cheers from Don”

“Yo Dan, I was stuck on what to text to get girls interested in me. I tried so many lines that I either found online or made up myself, but still ended up getting ignored.

That is, until I found your program. Your examples gave me the confidence to improve my texting style to be attractive and unforgettable and now I’ve got women blowing up my phone. Thanks, man! Carlos”

“Dan, I used to be the king of boring text conversations. Every time I matched with a girl, we would talk for a little while, and then things would fizzle out.

But your program taught me how to be interesting and engaging. I’m no longer asking basic questions or sending lame jokes. Now, I’m having real conversations and it’s making a huge difference. I am actually getting dates now. This works! Thanks! J”

“Hey Dan, I just wanted to write and tell you how much I appreciate your program.

Your methods are straightforward and have been easy to follow, and they’ve helped me get dates with a quality of woman that never would have even texted me back in the past.

I got their attention and attracted them and it worked. I have gone from getting dates with 5s or 6s to 7s, 8s and 9s very easily. You rock man. Kevin.”

“My texting results were a huge mess of just getting ghosted, ignored and wasting time really. As soon as I started using your approach to texting I got dates.

It was immediate which was shocking for me. But the fact that it kept happening again and again convinced me that I was now doing it correctly.

It has been a few months since getting your program and my life is completely different with women. I have been dating and a lot of having casual sex. I’m not yet ready to have a girlfriend and am having fun instead.

My friends are turning to me for advice with their matches now because they can see how good things are for me. So thank you Dan. Excellent program! Sean”

“I used to mess things up when texting girls after getting their number because I was trying to get too much of a response from her or too many signs of interest before I asked her out. It was very depressing to say the least because several girls who I really like just lost interest in me and stopped texting.

Your teachings have turned this around for me and given me hope again. I got a girl’s number on the weekend and just finished texting her an hour ago. It only took a few minutes of texting and she was keen and said yes to meeting up. So I wanted to send you a big thank you for making this program for us men.

Now all of my efforts of getting numbers aren’t going to go to waste. I’ve got a date ffs! Lol. Very excited. Thanks. Samuel”

“I was skeptical about getting your program at first because I have a fair bit of experience with texting, but after trying it out, I’m a believer because I’ve been getting a lot more dates than I used to.

I’ve been on more dates in the past month than I had in the past year. I get it now and it makes total sense to me why your method works. So cool to know this stuff. Mark”

“I love the fact that what you teach is based on real psychology.

I have reguarly been shocked at how easy it is to attract women and turn those connections into dates.

It has been a total game-changer for me. I had a lot of sex on dates for the first couple of months and then I decided that I wanted a girlfriend. I now have one that I hit up on social media – slid in her DMs. She is hot and she’s mine now. Life is good! Ryan”

“I can’t believe how much of a difference this has made. My conversations are more interesting now, and I’m getting way better results. Thanks for your help, Dan. Regards, HT”

“As a single dad, I don’t have a lot of free time to go out and meet women.

By using your examples, I was able to attract some amazing women and finally found someone who understands and respects my busy lifestyle. Learning from you has helped me feel more confident and in control of my dating life, instead of it all being down to luck.

If I ever need to date again I know I can easily do it. Hopefully that won’t happen of course because I am happy and in love with the woman I have found. She’s been a real blessing for me. Thank you for helping me fix my texting game and find love! Nicholas”

“This program is the real deal. Your approach to texting and dating is both refreshing and effective, and I’ve seen amazing results since using it over the past two weeks. Christopher”

“I simply didn’t know what to text after I got a girl’s number or matched with her on an app.

I tried of course but I didn’t know if was any good or not. I guess it wasn’t because I got a date maybe in like 1 out of 10 tries.

I would always text something generic, and either get no response, or a basic one back from the girl and I then didn’t know what to do with that.

Your program gave me the skills to send texts that are flirty, fun, and have gotten me a date with 8 out of 10 chances I have had so far with my matches who have replied. Not all girls reply as you know though. Some don’t even see our messages. I get that. I base my results on what I get from the women who reply and it’s currently at 80%.

I can still do better I know but that is more than good enough for me for now. Thanks man, I’ve been having a great time since getting your program. Antonio”

“The examples you give have been spot on and have helped me turn my text game around. Now I’m getting replies from women I never thought would have given me the time of day. They reply and enjoy chatting with me.

Previously for me it was like pulling teeth to get a reply. It was hard and convos felt strained or almost even forced. Now it just flows and they show so much more interest. I can’t thank you enough, man. SC”

“Hey Dan, I gotta say, your texting product has really helped me level up my game.

I used to be so nervous about asking a girl out after getting her number, but your advice on how to create that sense of urgency inside of her to meet me really helped me out.

The girl I’m seeing now even complimented me on how confidently and quickly I moved towards a date, and said that texting me was fun and easy compared to other guys she’s talked to.

We ended up having an amazing first date and shared a kiss at the end of it. Can’t wait to see where things go from here!” BG”

“I put your program to the test, and I can proudly say that I’m now in a relationship with the woman of my dreams.

We have been together for six months now after meeting on Hinge, and we are both so happy. Your program gave me the confidence to open the conversation and the skills to keep her interested and attracted during the conversation and then ask her out. The rest is history as they say! Alexander”

“I recently met a beautiful woman at a bar, and I got her number. I wasn’t sure what to do next and didn’t want to stuff it up or get ghosted like I usually do, so I turned to your program for help.

I followed your steps to the letter, and before I knew it, we were texting back and forth at a rapid rate. She was responding positively and I knew I was on the right track.

I asked her out on a date, and we had an amazing time together. I’ve since used your techniques to keep her interested over text, and it has worked like a charm.

She is the one who suggested the second date. That has never happened to me before. Epic program you have created man! I loved every minute of it! Ethan”

Dating Power

Dating Power by The Modern Man

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“The Dating power product is gold and the personal examples of Dan, Ben and Stu [Edit: Customer is referring to the audio bonus that comes with Dating Power where Dan, Ben and Stu shared 28, uncensored stories of how they’ve been using Dating Power techniques to enjoy their choice of women] are absolutely PURE GOLD. Amazing!

I’m already seeing results by dating the kinds of women that I previously couldn’t even get past a minute of conversation with.

Now women are keeping conversations going with ME and trying to pick ME up. I am seeing what you guys explain about having the power. It is UNREAL to say the least.

There are many things in Dating power that helped me which I can’t state here otherwise this email would be too long to read. Just wanted to say thanks and tell you what I have been experiencing! Thanks, SJ”

“Hey Dan,

I wanted to follow up a few months after getting some of your programs.

I watched Dating Power, Mastery Methods and Mindsets, and Confessions of a Natural: Interview Series.

Dating Power and the confessions series really outlined how to uniquely apply the concepts from all other courses.

I’m an average guy and through what you teach, I now have my pick of who I date.

Recently I began dating a Brazilian-German woman who looks like a runway model.

Using what I learned has made her melt like butter on a hot waffle.

You weren’t kidding about how happy a woman becomes by relaxing into her own femininity. She had tears in her eyes just when I hugged her.

Your programs teach us men how to become better and make women happier. Everyone benefits. I want to thank you guys forever! You have changed my life so much. Jeremy”

“I got your Dating Power program a couple of months ago and have been having sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends.

I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me! Josh”

“I regret not getting started earlier guys!

I bought your Dating Power videos and got laid the 1st w/end I went out to party. Pulled a tall hot blonde who was with a group of her friends, both guys and girls in the group.

3 months later now and I have an amazing girlfriend and couldn’t be happier.

You guys rock. I’m sure The Modern Man will continue rising in popularity online. I’m glad I got in early before other guys found out about this stuff.

Rock on guys! Paul”

“Your Dating Power video seminar is the best collection of techniques for pick up that I’ve ever been able to find.

I’ve bought plenty of stuff from the seduction community but none of it worked for me consistently.

Someone suggested to me that I go natural and then I started looking for the dating gurus that teach natural game. A few people mentioned you guys so I checked out your site.

Out of everything that I have bought to learn how to pick up women Dating Power is by far the best.

After having sex with a string of women during the last three months I have chosen a sexy girl for my girlfriend and we are now in an exclusive relationship.

That is what I was looking for all along and your advice showed me how to make it happen.

The best thing about your style of pick up is that you don’t teach guys to be something that they are not.

I finally felt like I could be myself and be appreciated by women for that.

It was such a freeing feeling. The awkardness I used to feel when talking to women just disappeared.

I am now recommending you guys to other guys that I know from the seduction community who are still unable to get results. JM”

“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.

I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.

Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.

So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.

I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.

I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.

I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.

I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.

So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.

I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.

I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”

“Dan – All your stuff works period. I’ve used your products for the past few years. I got the flow, dating power and better than a bad boy. For anybody considering this stuff. BUY. IT.

This happened to ME today.

I joined a new gym. While standing at the counter doing the paper work I staggered my stance. Bored really. Decided to use the T.I. technique just cause. And two incredibly hot chicks went out of their way to say hi to me. Individually. One by one. At different times.

I was shocked because I wasn’t trying to approach or pick up. I thought they were talking to the guy who worked there. I figured they knew him. But no. They made it clear. They were talking to me. When I said hi. Smiled. I had to practically chase them off to take my gym card mug shot.

The techniques just work. I was just practicing in a vacuum. And that’s been happening a lot lately. Women literally fall all over me. I mean, I’m using my body right. I got my confident smirk just right. I’m looking them in the eye just right. I approach. I’m funny. The escalations just fall into place.

Success has been this. Had a hot girlfriend. We broke up. Got a new hot girlfriend. Then we broke up too. Went back to the first girlfriend. She moved away. Then I moved away with ANOTHER hot older woman. Now I’ve moved back, and joined a new gym.

My point is this. Beautiful women are everywhere, waiting, HOPING to meet a man who understands what the modern man teach. Most guys don’t know this and I am thankful for that because it means no competition, lol! But I do hope more guys know so you guys can become successful. I am just enjoying myself while they don’t, lol! Ryan”

“Hi Dan

I had read the flow and did have some success approaching women and getting numbers and sometimes having sexual encounters, but dating power is what took everything to another level for me.

It helped fill in some missing gaps I had about body language and how to stand confidently when talking to a woman. All those things and the advice on sticking in the interaction longer really helped me.

I’m now in a relationship with a model that I met simply by attending a modelling event with a friend and going around talking to random women.

Most of them literally welcomed me into conversations because of who I have become since learning from you, Ben and Stu. They sensed my confidence and coolness. It was like I was living a totally different life.

I salute you fellas! You guys deserve a lot of credit for the quality of advice you provide. It has been life changing for me. Brad”

“I have been single most of my life, and while I understand complex concepts, women was the one area in life where I just had no clue.

There was obviously many attempts most which failed and it made no sense at all.

I stumbled upon The Modern Man after trying many others and for some reason it just made sense to try it out, even though it was the first option where I had to pay money to get the information, something which I usually avoid on the internet.

I started with Dating Power, 2 years ago and it was a brilliant starter product, it opened a whole new world to me.

Soon after this I decided I wanted to learn ballroom/latin dancing, and it was here where I started my adventure meeting many women, instead of going to bars which is still not something I am crazy about. You don’t have to guess, the advice just worked.

I had multiple ladies falling in love with me every time I would go out dancing.

Dating power also slowly changed the way I was at work and with friends, and people have regularly told me that they don’t what it is, but I have changed for the better.

Recently I acquired Better than a Bad boy product, I truly wanted it, even though I was already going great with women, and again, it was worth it.

It does more than help you with women, it teaches you things that make all aspects of life better.

With advice from this product, I am for the 1st time in a relationship longer than a few dates, and I can tell by the look on my girlfriend every time she comes over, she is still madly in love with me, and I am not even trying to convince her, I just enjoy the time together with her, and somehow she falls deeper and deeper in love with me still!

Short story, the products are amazing, and it teaches guys things, that all men should know.

I believe the things I learned in both products, are essential to enjoying your dating life to the fullest. David”

“Hi Dan,

I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend.

I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow!

I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did.

The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew.

I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me. There was 1 out of the 4 who was perfect for me, so I had to let 3 of them down gently by saying I wasn’t available and I’m now in a relationship with the girl I liked the most.

Even though I am still learning, I am very positive about the future. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made in the past that’s for sure. Thanks again! Sean”

“This is the best investment I’ve ever made in myself. I’d already dated 3 women within a few weeks after watching this and am now getting quite serious with one woman who was the pick of the bunch. Can’t thank you guys enough – great work. Christopher”

“I have been studying the dating power seminar and have achieved great results in less than a month!!! I met a cool girl last week, followed your steps and techniques, and now have a new relationship.

My ex-girlfriend whom I am friends with, all of a sudden notices a good change in me, and wants to catch up with me on the weekend. Both girls are paying for stuff and can’t get enough of me it seems.

Thanks Dan, Ben, and Stu, your teachings on approaching, flirting, and then taking the lead have led me to impressive results. Eric”

“I watched Dating Power 2 months ago and everything has changed for me.

At the start I was a little apprehensive to use your stuff, but when I did I was amazed to see that it worked right away and that built my confidence immediately.

A few weeks ago I met a girl at the grocery store, we chatted for a few mins and I took down her number.

She is the hottest girl I’ve ever had sex with, but that’s not the point I want to tell you guys…what I want to tell you the most is that I think she already loves me.

She calls me every 2 days and wants to see me and tomorrow she’s coming over to cook me dinner – just like you said would happen if I asked.

You’ve really helped me change and become the guy I knew I could be with women. Thanks! Peter”

“Informative knowledge that is innovative, dynamic and unlike anything else I’ve seen before.

The guys are brilliant in their insights into interacting with women with knowledge that can help every guy out there. Justin”

“I really liked the content and the delivery style as it didn’t seem canned and cheesy, rather more practical and real.

I liked the inner game concepts taught by Dan. I liked the Body Language demonstrations and knowledge from Ben. Also liked the Transaction/Interaction concept delivered by Stu. You guys are the best in the world at this for sure. Ian”

Excellent. Dan, Ben and Stu are obviously very dedicated. They excellent communicators and thoroughly knowledgeable, in particular with their ability to communicate at a level to help beginners.

Of particular benefit has been their discussion of presence and breaking difficult concepts to simple examples while emphasizing adaptation. FANTASTIC SEMINAR! John N”

“When you said that success with women begins with the right information, you blew away any doubt that success is possible for me.
Also, learning to ‘love women for who they are’ is something that I’ve never heard or thought of before and I thank you for teaching it as I know it will make an immense difference. HM”

“I wasn’t sure what to anticipate from the seminar, I half expected to hear a live version of the Modern Man E-book. What I received however, was far from it.

After that one day, I feel like the flood gates have opened and the women who’ve been waiting patiently are now pouring into my life. What’s more, I can even see the turning points in other people’s interactions and know exactly where they will end based on the guy’s behavior.

Without giving away too much, the biggest thing to help me was the section on ‘Loving women for who they are’.

Without knowing it, I’d been suppressing all the behavior in me that creates success and thinking I was some sort of gentleman for doing it.

I have also been blown away by the reactions I get from women when I use the ‘Power Moves’ from the seminar.

In all honesty I was afraid that being ‘The Man” meant I would have to be the one to take control and make decisions. But from the moment I took their words to heart and put their teaching into practice, I haven’t EVER looked back.

I don’t just feel in control with women, I feel in control in every area of my life now.

I used to go out with my mates and watch them get up and dance with strangers and feel frozen. Or spend my whole night trying to talk myself into going over and talking to this one girl I couldn’t stop staring at but end leaving and feeling angry at myself for the rest of the week. Now…things have changed.

That’s another thing, I was surprised by the magnitude of the results compared to how simple and tangible the things we were taught to do were. Everything they taught was pure and uncomplicated.

They teach you how to be yourself, and that’s not something a person can fully understand until they’ve come out of the seminar.
Best way to sum it up, it’s like that saying: “Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. Jack D”

“Hey Dan,

A lot has happened since the seminar. I have gone out with a few girls since, and have currently got a girlfriend. Let me give you the info…

About three weeks after the seminar I picked up a girl at a nightclub and ended up having a one-night stand with her. That’s as far as it went, as I very soon found out that she had emotional problems which I decided were not worth getting involved in.

After that hiccup, I went out with three more girls and did not really get anywhere with them but did see common traits in each of these girls which made me feel more comfortable, as I could at least see patterns in their behavior which gave me confidence in dealing with other girls.

One of the things at the seminar which really helped me was Ben’s explanation of being present i.e. being focused on a girl, paying attention to what she says and how she says it with her body language. I made an effort to look at the signals that she was giving out, and instead of getting frustrated with not understanding what these signals meant, I stored them in the memory bank and kept an eye out for similar signals with other girls that I talked to.

Slowly but surely I could see what signals or words a girl would use to either continue or terminate a conversation.

Now let me tell you about how I met my current girlfriend…

I was at the “Mind, body and spirit” section of the Borders bookshop at Jam factory, and I noticed her looking at a book I had seen earlier. I made a casual remark about the book to her, established rapport, and from there we just hit it off really well.

We had a coffee afterwards, and then planned to meet up for a date. We went on about 3 dates together before things got intimate, and we have been together since then. It all seems a bit too easy now, but only time will tell.

I am still going out with my mates to the nightclubs, acting as their wingman for women that they are interested in, and it gives me good practice in talking/flirting with girls. As always, I am still learning about the different signals they give off and how to read them. Cheers Jim”

“Hey guys

Firstly, following the seminar my confidence in approaching women improved a little – and then improved dramatically as I put your teachings into practice.

I was able to speak with women very easily, and see amazing success – from having never been able to approach women I went to being able to approach, flirt with and usually take it a bit further any time I wanted to literally in the space of a couple of weeks.

So, very quickly finding myself dating several different women at any given time.

Now I’ve settled on one – gorgeous ex-model, originally from South America (Still has the accent – I love the imports!) and within two months we were living together and haven’t looked back.

What did work? There is far too much to list, but the single most important thing I learned – and practiced – was attitude. How to appear and act as an alpha male, and how to literally not attach value to the outcome of any situation.

But, the best thing wasn’t actually in dating – the boosted confidence and ability to present myself well has got me in a new (and significantly higher paying) job, which I love.

All I can say is thanks! (And I can’t say it enough!) Rick”

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation

The Ultimate Guide to Conversation by The Modern Man

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“Hi Dan.

I have been meaning to send you one of my success stories for some time now.

There is one in particular that has happened recently that I would like to share with you.

I was at a friend’s house party and there was a girl there that I’ve known for some time.

I have been wanting to get with this girl for quite a while, but I never had the foggiest notion on how to approach, what say to her, or have the confidence to (due to my way below average looks, etc).

Anyways, had to leave the party early, unfortunately, but while I was there I merely used some of the teachings from “mastery methods and mindsets and the ultimate guide to conversation”.

After applying some of the simple techniques (being real, not being too nice, avoiding nervousness, etc), the following day I got a text message from an anonymous number, that eventually turned out to be the girl at the party that I’ve been after all this time. She was asking me out!

I couldn’t believe what was happening!

I literally thought that I was dreaming.

The funny part is that I was simply just being myself! The same friendly guy! I honestly believe that it’s paramount that every decent man out there should know about the modern man. I have truly being struggling in my life.

All I needed (which I obviously didn’t know) was a few simple changes and a push in the right direction. I am still taking it one step at a time and these two products alone have opened my eyes in ways I could never have imagined.

I can’t wait to get hold of some of the other products and see what else my life has in store for me. I would like to say a monumental thank you to you guys. You have got me out of this dark, lonely hole that I’ve been hiding away in.

You have completely turned my life around for the better and not just in regard to relationships with women.

Everything from my new job to meeting new people. EVERYTHING! I will never be able to emphasize the impact you have had on my life. So a great big thank you again and I wish only the best for you guys. Sincerely, Jonathan”

“Hey guys,

My first approach since I listened to ultimate guide to conversation. I’m not even halfway through the program and I got results!

I used Stu’s approach of saying two words and pausing to start the conversation. The response was hilarious. Here’s what happened:

I was grabbing a coffee at Starbucks and saw this hot woman sitting in front of me. Her back was facing me so it was awkward positioning but it opened up as I settled for about 5 minutes.

We smiled at each other immediately and she started playing with her hair. She turned around to stretch back and I said “nice shoes”. She said thank you. I said it wasn’t a compliment.

She put her feet out and looked at her shoes with a smile and said they are cute. Now we are off in conversation. We talked about basic stuff what she does for work, exercise etc.

I spoke from my perspective, threw in some flirting and humor and after 15 minutes of talk got her number and left. Texted her last night and arranged a date for tomorrow. Unbelievable how well this works.

The funny thing is when I saw her I immediately started feeling anxious inside because she was so pretty.

It wasn’t until I relaxed and activated confident mindsets that I calmed down and started thinking clearly and waited for my opportunity to begin the conversation.

Thanks for making this program and sharing your knowledge and experience with us guys. It really works! Wes”

“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.

I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.

Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.

So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.

I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.

I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.

I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.

I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.

So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.

I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.

I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”

“Hey Dan!

At first I was unsure about learning from The Modern Man.

Eventually, after a failed relationship (in which I felt “whipped”) and continuous failure with women, my frustration made me realize that I needed a little help.

I decided to take a leap of faith and learn from the guys at The Modern Man. Now, I can definitely say that learning from you guys was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

The programs you guys provide are extremely detailed yet very easy for men to relate to and understand.

The material is geared towards women, but becoming good with women is only one of the benefits one gains from learning from these guys.

Better Than a Bad Boy, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, and of course The Flow have improved all areas of my life, including my work, happiness, relationships, and of course my ability with women.

After learning from Dan, Ben and Stu a few months ago I still feel like I am dripping with confidence!

I can now chat and attract any woman I meet and that usually leads to something sexual now which has been a lot of fun.

My occasional depression has been replaced by an excitement for life, and all my social anxiety has disappeared.

People can see my masculinity and confidence, and treat me better.

I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date!

My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode.

Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me. I could write way more about how my life has turned around, but it would get too long!

Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! From Cameron”

“Just a quick note to you guys as I know you get a lot of emails!

Anyway, I used the tips from your conversation program to FINALLY talk to a woman I’ve liked for about 6 months…I know her through a friend.

I’d always been too shy to talk to her and worried about stuffing up because I didn’t really know what to say and how to ask her out.

Well, I said what you guys recommended to say and it worked!

We went out on a date last night and it ended with a passionate kiss next to her car. The conversation on the date was exciting, interesting, funny and her eyes were basically popping out of her head with excitement. Was so cool!

She texted me this morning saying she had a great time! Unbelievable result! Thanks guys – couldn’t have done it without your guidance. PJ”

“Awesome guys! You’ve really done it this time.

Your other information on approaching women is stellar and has helped me get dates, but I have to admit that I’ve been struggling with keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting – and that has been holding me back from really achieving what I want with women.

The best part of this program is the amount of examples of what to say. I feel like I am ready for battle this weekend for sure! Chad”

“Hey guys, loving the program!

The things that are really standing out for me and are really helpful are: conversation jam session, fixing women’s problems, listening, fears and frustrations, questions to keep conversations going.

You covered all the questions I needed answering about difficult women which is what I was looking for!!!

When Stu said if a woman is giving 20% you gotta give 80% and so on really helped, because I used to feel that if a woman isn’t giving much, it is wrong to continue the conversation because feels forced, but now I know its the right thing to do!

I have to stick with the conversation instead of giving up because women often test a guy by not saying much. Now I know how to handle that. Thank you!

Also when you were talking about Ash and if woman doesn’t like him “well she’s boring, she doesn’t deserve my time and effort, bad luck for her.”

I started to look at women that way too, but hearing it from some one else made me think I’m really on the right track. Go out and have fun, and bring women into your good nite.

If they don’t join in, go find someone else who is up for a good time. That’s the key! Dinesh T”

“Hey guys, just wanted to let you know I’m working through the ultimate guide to conversation, and so far it’s really entertaining and educational, which is great. Shaun”

“It’s an amazing revelation for me that your stuff works so well. 2 weeks ago my super hot hairdresser was asking if I had my own place, flirting with me and arranging to meet out at a club etc.

Before I listened to the Ultimate Guide to Conversation I was so socially/emotionally dumb I would have just thought she was just making conversation and taken everything literally…lol!

But now I know that there’s a whole world of sub communication as you well – VERY COOL to know this stuff! I met my hairdresser out last night and kissed her! Lol…I feel amazing right now!! AB”

“I’ve just recently bought the conversation product. I’m half way through it and it iss brilliant.

I’ve always been good with conversation, been a good listener and able to connect but this has just upped my game so much because I am now getting to understand the attraction side of things.

This has already improved the quality of my conversational ability ten fold … I’ve put some of it into practice and I’m consciously seeing some of the things I was oblivious to, like signs of interest from women. I was missing all the cues from women who liked me. This is a game changer! Michael”

“I got your conversation program 1.5 months ago and got a girlfriend within 2 weeks of using the material (I met this girl at the cafe she works at).

Now, I haven’t had a proper girlfriend for 7 years prior to this, so you can imagine the boring life I’ve been living.

Anyway, I just wanted to write you and say thanks for teaching us guys this stuff, because I am now in a relationship with an amazing, loving and caring woman who is also beautiful.

On the weekend when she was staying over my place, we were lying in bed in the morning and she turned to me and said I love you. Man, I can’t tell you how good that made me feel!

I feel like a new man and I owe a lot of thanks to what I got from your conversation program…it really helped me bring out the more interesting side to my personality.

Most women found me boring when I talked to them, so they would lose interest pretty quickly.

Now people love talking to me and I feel like I’m really being my true self these days…and that makes me feel so good as a person.

I also no longer feel awkward when talking to people I don’t know, or to beautiful women who used to made me feel nervous – now I just speak with confidence and ease, which makes me feel so good as a person.

Women at work are now treating me with more respect now too. I can’t thank you guys enough – keep up the great work! Paul”

“I would also like to congratulate you for the quality of the content of the material. You are really professional and I am glad with my purchase. Fabrico”

“…have only listened to about 2 hours so far and I’m smiling ear to ear. I’ve been wondering how to talk to a girl I like at work and now I have the answers…I’m going to give it a try tomorrow. Wish me luck! PH”

“I’ve almost completely gone through your guide to conversation now.

I must say, at first, I felt a little reluctant to buy your product over the internet because I ‘d never bought something in this way and I also didn’t know what the quality of your product would be.

But now I’m glad I did.

It’s been a lot of fun to listen to, and of course very enlightening. It really exceeded my expectations.

In this way I want to thank Ben, Stu and you for supplying this kind of product.

Now I have some guidance in conversations with women. I still need a lot of practice, I know that, but I’m eager to get out there and go for it. Mark”

“I skipped straight to the part on flirting because it is what I need the most.

When girls talk to me they get the idea that I’m just ‘too nice’ and there’s no spark or anything between us…I’ve tried to flirt before but couldn’t get it to work.

Now I get it, finally. Thanks a bunch for all the flirting examples – I’ll be using this stuff on Friday night at my local bar. It’s going to be fun I know it. Gary”

“Dan I got laid today when I went for my CPR class.

We had lunch during our break then we wound up having sex in the woods next to our campus.

I can’t wait to listen to the rest thank you so much for your help. It was the craziest thing that ever happened to me! Jordan”

“The Ultimate Guide to Conversation is so satisfying that I feel obligated to help you convince other guys to take a leap of faith and buy it.

I suppose I should start with the condition I was in before I bought the product about two and a half weeks ago. I was (and still am) a 17 year old senior in High School.

I know that your first thought will probably be that at this age I am too YOUNG to be worrying about this sort of thing (I notice that a lot of guys who buy your stuff are between 20 to 35), but I have had unusual difficulties, and it is not in my temperament to procrastinate even with things I know are easy.

I avoided girls on purpose until I had my first crush at the age of 15.

It was a terrible shock to suddenly find a girl I had ignored for the previous decade to be indescribably delightful.

After about three months of careful observation and thought, I realized that girls love to talk, and so talking to the girls I liked might be a good way of dealing with my new emotions.

I started by simply announcing to the girls I liked that I liked them, and telling them that I would like to get to know them better if they were willing.

That only worked only partially with one girl who unfortunately lives in Alabama (I live in Kansas).

I was so clueless that I set myself up for rejection on purpose because I felt as though that was a more honest way of going about picking up girls.

After a few failures, I became methodical in the way I got myself rejected so that I could try to isolate certain factors that might have caused the rejection.

At the time I bought the product, I was at the point where rejection was almost guaranteed, but not a horrible ordeal that would make the girl not want to talk to me again.

After several weeks of going through about one girl a week in nearly the same pattern, I had stopped learning new things and had run out of ideas, so was getting ready to ask out the girls I thought were likely in the order I saw them until something happened or I thought of something new.

Luckily I made up my mind to buy the product the day before I was going to do that, and canceled my previous plan because I had a new approach to take.

I listened to two hours of audio the first night I bought it, and was so excited that I stayed awake for 4 hours after first trying to sleep because I kept thinking of new applications of the information I could use.

I managed limited and sporadic use of some of the techniques at school, and by the end of the week I got girls in nearly every hour of class showing signs of romantic attraction.

The results were so fast that I found myself skipping to whichever section in the guide that had most immediate need, and lost a lot of opportunities simply because it hadn’t occurred to me that I could get results so fast.

The Saturday after I bought it there was a winter formal in which I got three consecutive hours to do nothing but try out the techniques. It was great!

I asked for two numbers and got both, and got another I didn’t ask for.

I was so successful that I must have spent half as much energy trying to stay away from the girls I didn’t like without hurting their feelings as I did going after the ones I did like.

I spent two nearly consecutive hours with one girl.

I did initially try to avoid spending too much time with her like was suggested in the audio, but she kept coming back to me, and I liked her, so I didn’t stop it.

I have since been over to that girl’s house twice. The second time we snuggled during a movie and then played a board game. I am happier now than I have ever been.

I have also found that many of the techniques work on males as well for making friends, which means a lot to me because I’ve only ever had 1 or 2 friends at a time…now I have heaps of new friends and am getting invited to parties, which is really cool.

Thanks a lot guys – really enjoying what I’ve been learning from this program. Jack”

“Dan,

Thanks so much. Because of the Ultimate Guide to Conversation I am dating one of the HOTTEST girls from High School that guys, including me used to drool over.

We’re both a little older now (I’m 52 and she’s 53), but she is still SMOKIN! And succesful.

After running into her and her good looking friends at a club this past Friday word got around to each of us that the other was single.

I noticed her checking me out and giving me the “green light” with her eyes and smile.

I approached confidently, started chatting, dancing and when she was leaving I handed her my phone and told her to put her number into it, which she did, just like one of your stories from the program.

While I was still at the bar she sent a text saying our chat time was too short and that she was going to leave the bar even earlier, but is glad she didn’t.

The NEXT morning she sent a text telling me her plans for the day and asked if I had plans that night, which I didn’t.

She asked ME out!

I took her to a romantic restaurant then to a few different clubs.

End of the night after making out for a little while, she had to get home to her teenage kids.

We hadn’t been apart for 5 minutes and my phone rang it was her saying that she missed me already!!!

I’m a good looking guy, but none of this would have been possible before I used your product cause I was lacking confidence and obviously women could sense this.

I also have 2 other women on the back burner that are interested in me.

I have also chosen to purchase the Mastery Methods and Mindsets today because I am on such a roll and want to keep it going.

Thank you, Fred”

“Hey Dan

Thanks for all your help with the new dating advice videos, they have been really insightful.

By the way things have been going great.

In the last six months I’ve met and subsequently dated a whole bunch of girls, met 2 in a shopping mall (one being a promo girl), a model I knew from a couple years back, had a blind date that lasted 3 months before I moved provinces and the newest girls I met are; at a pharmacy and a pizza store.

At the moment I have 4 girls on the go, the model, the pharmacist (will prob have a first date next week), a friend with benefits and the promo girl in Durban (I live in Joburg now).

I must tell you about the promo girl, was on holiday in Durban visiting the family.

While walking through the mall on Sunday I spotted her in a clothing store and just thought … wow, she’s hot … so walked straight over and started a conversation, about 10 minutes later I got her phone number and left the interaction.

I was completely honest about where I live and that I was going back in 3 days time so she knew where I stood.

Phoned her the next day and set up a date for Wednesday morning.

Within 15 / 20 minutes on that date we were kissing quite intimately.

Looking back on it I can see the change.

Before I would have been all in my head about how hot she is and wouldn’t it be great to talk to her and then kicking myself afterward knowing I would never see her again.

It’s not just with girls but the confidence I’ve gained in all area’s of my life have helped me tremendously.

I have a great job as Financial Manager in a private hospital which my new found social intelligence and understanding of women helped me a great deal in getting. Have a busy social life where I have to plan the days I’m at home so I can make sure my place is clean and the washing is always done.

So I just wanted to say thank you very much to you, Ben and Stu.

If it wasn’t for you guys I’d still be clueless, lacking confidence and trying to make any average girl like me. So while I’m not at mastery level yet, I feel like my entire life has changed and that’s all thanks to you guys. Michael”

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Better Than a Bad Boy

Better Than a Bad Boy by Dan Bacon

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“Hey Dan, this review is in regards to “Better Than a Bad Boy” and I just felt the need to write here a review just to tell people your advice truly works and that men need to hear that.

First of all, I was kind of a negative person and the bad boy type, walking with a “too cool for you” facial expression. Was I getting some women? Yeah, sometimes, and they were pretty, but… guess what happened after Dan’s advice in his video…

After Dan’s advice in the video now I’m able to get most of the women I want and I’m not “in my head” all the time doing these “too cool faces” which mostly make women go away from you instead of attracted, but well, that’s a long story and Dan explains everything in the video.

Now I’m able to approach women better and to get into a positive state of mind thanks to his advice, I was getting things wrong, to be honest…

I have watched the program like 3 times already and believe me, you’ll get advice like nowhere else, other fake gurus talk bs but this guy actually has dedicated time of his precious life to help men like us who need help in a f*cked up world like this we’re living in.

My advice?… Man, you’re doing a lifetime investment if you get better than a bad boy program, this program is what worked the best for me and I promise you, there’ll be moments you say “aha” and you’ll be thinking “Jesus… I was all wrong”

I can’t thank you enough for helping me Dan, now I’m a more positive person and not like before… now I understand why is so important to do x things instead of some other things.

Guys, if you’re reading this review, believe me, you go ahead and buy the program, you’ll experience the benefits instantly and you’ll gain peace of mind also, it just changes totally your life for the better, you’re not negative anymore and your attitude stands out.

What I like the most is that he is giving advice and everything is natural, you just have to work on yourself and apply his knowledge, I’m happy there’s one person I can count on when it comes to real advice for men.

P.S. Make sure to take notes and to put into practice what you learn, this is so important!

Thanks Dan, my big brother from another country, Juan”

“What up Dan,

I have numerous success stories to share but will give one to keep it short.

I have a new girl (still considering whether to make her my steady girlfriend). Just met her a few weeks back and what do you know she is crazy about me! Lol.

Just finished spending the night with her and if I had a dollar for the number of times she asked me what I have done to her to make her so crazy about me.

Apparently I told her sometime last week that I would not able to see her for close to week cause I had to focus on some school work, needless to say she told me she found that super attractive especially when she found out that I have a deep love for what I am studying and wish to excel at it globally.

Says she never seen a guy with the kind of focus and determination that I do, and that she finds it so attractive for some weird reason she can’t explain it.

Also she says I have a very relaxed confidence and absolutely not afraid to be myself and I seem not be intimidated by people even if am not the tallest of guys.

She just keeps kissing and grabbing me at every opportunity. Just as you do, I hardly ever call or text her, she does all of that.

It’s all thanks to your better than a bad boy program. It is pure gold man. Pure gold.

Well just thought I should put that out there so other guys would read and be motivated to put your advise into action. Tosin”

“Better than a bad boy has been an awesome experience. Much more than learning how to become attractive to women, this program has taught me how to live out my life in a much more effective way.

It has given me insights as to how becoming a strong man can then lead to success in life.

I used to be a person who gave up easily, can’t control his emotions, and crumble in the face of rejection and tests put up by women. Now I feel powerful and unstoppable.

When I first got your program I only wanted to get that one special girl who was a very close friend of mine (whom I met through facebook), but nothing more. After reading the flow and applying the techniques on other women, she began to take notice and asked me out.

And during that date, I escalated to kissing then sex.

And it’s all because the modern man. Without you I probably would probably still have no clue with women.

Right now, I’m casually dating a couple of women and I’m no longer nervous or afraid of rejection. Again, thanks for everything! Walter”

“I bought better than a Bad Boy and listened to it for months.

I changed from being okay with women to then becoming stellar with women and attaining the ability to have my pick and choice of the hot chicks I wanted.

After some time enjoying different women (& I certainly did enjoy), I then decided on a one on one relationship with a great girl. There were some issues at the start, I got Make Her Love you for Life… And I can definitely say this stuff works!

We are going amazingly well, she’s become a great woman and lover and does everything I love from dressing and making herself beautiful wherever we go to loving and pampering me.

And… I have definitely become a better man to and for her, which is all part of it, but now I can see ahead of time if she is going to act up or be overly emotionally feminine, or testy.

I cannot describe how so so good it feels to know how to react, what to do and what definitely not to do and how to respond to bring things back to where we both want to be, loving, happy and laughing. We laugh a lot, it’s great!

I f*cked this up a lot in previous relationships in my life, reacting in a way that didn’t benefit me nor my lover. If only I knew what to do back then things would have definitely gone better my way…

I just had to say that I have definitely reaped the benefits of taking the time to learn this.

My girlfriend benefits from having a man she loves and respects. And other parts of my life down to my work, friends and family also are better than they ever have been, as this certainly has transferred into all other aspects of my life.

I only wish I’d known earlier in my life… but hey no regrets as life is so good now. Frank”

“Before The Modern man, I was beyond hopeless with women (actual I was the worst out there) I couldn’t make them feel attracted, they hated me and disrespected me and talked behind my back and said nasty things about me.

Like what… I thought I was handsome, friendly, really hard-working, a great guy, captain of my house team, really skillful in so many different things, but women weren’t interested one bit.

Not even 1% interested.

It got so bad, that through feeling awfully sad, day in and day out, watching loads of pornography and feeling even worse and lonely, I had eventually called a hooker. She was ugly too… not only was the sex average, but she gave me an unfair service too.

Talk about a double slap in the face right?

Lost my virginity to an ugly, desperate hooker as well. Oh what an awful time of my life.

I said the night I got back home, “Enough is enough, I will have a girlfriend and she’ll respect me and love me. I’ll do whatever it takes, I’m sick of women treating me badly and playing with my feelings.”

I tried dating apps and went on a date with an desperate woman, who actually rejected my feelings in the end. (Haha, fantastic. Isn’t that ironic for a first date)

After being annoyed, angry and crying for a few hours, I came across The Modern Man. Now this very site, changed my life. Initially, I thought that I would not be able to pick up any women.

I thought it was impossible.

No way will any girl like me.

I experience chronic pain and have mild Asperger’s syndrome.

I couldn’t speak to some people properly, being mentally challenged in some areas.

But no, none of these things mattered.

Dan, Ben and Stu showed me so many different things that no one, not even my mother would tell me. In fact, my mum still tells me that I need to dress well to attract women.

I soon realised that while I practiced the techniques that I learnt in The Flow and Better Than a Bad Boy (both awesome and incredible programs) I slowly got more appreciation from women, they seemed to appreciate my company and were interested in me.

Eventually, I had sex with three hot women (they weren’t ideal marriage/relationship types though) but the fact that those women actually desired me was an incredible feeling and experience.

After months of practice, having a confident mindset and thorough persistence (though people with my condition are naturally persistent), I now have a stunning, sexy, beautiful girlfriend who liked me from the very beginning.

Flirting with her, making her attracted, connecting with her and taking it to the next level, I got a first date.

1st date in, we flirted, kissed, had sex, (oh amazing and incredible. Much better experience. My goodness, it feels like you’re in a different world!).

I then started a relationship where she tries to impress me rather than me trying to impress her (like I used to do).

It’s hard to believe that a guy like myself, being ridiculed and shamed by women, teased about my lack of social skills and being manipulated to look stupid from my lack of non-verbal communication skills, is now being chased, desired, loved and appreciated by women.

Even outside of relationships and women, I have succeeded in so many new areas, particularly at work, the gym, goal setting, university studies. Incredible. A lot of men also respect me and look up to me now.

Dan Bacon, thank you for providing me with the material, the tools and the content, to help mend my broken heart over many, many years of suffering and loneliness.

I seriously wouldn’t be in the position I am now, without coming across The Modern Man.

Thank you so much. Will”

“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.

I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.

Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.

So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.

I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.

I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.

I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.

I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.

So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.

I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.

I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”

“Not even a week ago, I had no confidence in myself.

I was a nervous wreck even thinking about the girl I’m interested in.

Then I purchased “The Flow” and watched lots of your free videos.

After that I purchased Better than a Bad Boy, which I’m in the middle of right now.

Not only am I no longer nervous about this girl, I’m 100% CONFIDENT that I’m going to get her.

100% confident that she will be mine.

Not only that, you’ve helped me solidify my purpose(s) in life, and am naturally more confident in my interpersonal relationships and am no longer a wimp, nor do I show any wimpy qualities around others.

And my God does it feel good. If this is the change I can make in a week, I can’t imagine what the future holds.

I’m looking forward to sharing my success story, if this isn’t already. Todd”

“Hi Dan & the gang, just wanted to let you know that after about 3 weeks of watching your videos on Youtube, and starting on the Flow & Better than a Bad Boy, I’ve had a raunchy 3 some, and all nighter 1 night stand.

This is huge for me because previously I’d been more or less living as a part time hermit, part time workaholic and was really, really rusty. Thanks guys very grateful and optimistic for the first time in years! J”

“For the people that might be wondering about a program that is literally going to make your life easier and happier… Better than a Bad Boy.

It is completely amazing, if you can afford it, if not save a bit because wiser words couldn’t have been spoken. From the moment I finished I felt like a different person, my confidence went through the roof. It feels like I’ve got super powers or something now.

I originally bought it to be the man for my ex, but I’m having second thoughts now. She was really pretty but too immature and negative.

Now I feel like I can get whoever I want, but if there is one thing I want you to know is that if you feel a bit needy inside, as little as it is, I felt needy with my ex, well this program eliminated that completely.

It sounds arrogant but now I feel like the prize women need to win now. Jean Paul”

“I’ll start with a little bit about myself.

I am 23 years old, a senior at a major American football university in the United States.

Growing up, I never know how to act around women – my dad was very shy and quiet. I love him very much, and mean no disrespect when saying this – but he wasn’t a great role model when it comes to being a real man or being attractive to women.

So like many guys, I grew up being shy and being afraid to talk to women for fear that they might slap me or pour a drink on my head like you seen on TV and in the movies.

So I went on the internet and looked at all the different things – namely, pick-up artists.

After some trial and a lot of money spent, I came to the conclusion that they were a waste of money.

And then I stumbled on the Modern Man. I decided to give it a shot, and started with the Flow. I gave the techniques a shot, and when it worked, I was instantly hooked.

I can’t thank you, Ben, or Stu enough. My life has changed completely and it’s all thanks to your courses.

They are all great, and really teach what they are advertised to teach – but it is the responsibility of the person watching to actually perform the simple steps required.

Sometimes they take a little courage, but it’s not like you ask us to perform rocket science – just to have a pair of balls. You can’t find that many places these days.

I especially like Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy.

Those courses to me were more about becoming a strong, powerful, masculine man who is pretty much guaranteed success in life because of the man those courses lead you to become, and secondary for me was the attracting women part.

Although, just as you advertise, they work incredibly well when it comes to attracting women naturally solely based on the person you are. I have had more women interested in me in the last few months than in the last 10 years.

I’ve also had sexual encounters that were frankly better than what I used to experience because the woman’s attraction and our connection was more real and deep.

Also, the Get Your Ex Back Super system worked for me as well, and I was surprised at how quickly and easily it worked.

Although, as it turned out the ex that I got back just wasn’t a good girl to have a relationship with, so I broke it off with her after a while.

She just wasn’t honest or trustworthy. But I learned a lot more than just how to get my ex back, including how to become a better version of myself and let go of any baggage that I had.

Anyway, I no longer feel like I have any limitations in what I can do or achieve in my life and I have all the tools that I need.

I can’t thank you or the guys enough. Keep up the good work! I’ll always appreciate what I learned from you! Jason”

“After the third pull with a beautiful woman I never thought I had a chance with [Meaning: He picked up beautiful women on 3 different occasions], I finally understand everything you were teaching.

I can’t believe how easy it is when you know what you’re doing, especially without all those anxious and intense feelings when I was still learning.

Better than a bad boy program was a huge plus. Thanks so much again Dan!!! I’ll continue to recommend you. Drew”

“Hey Dan!

Alright your program can work miracles!

For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me.

I was devastated and even more so as I went through your program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.

I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years.

Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls.

I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy.

I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number!

She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt in that I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that.

You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.

Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life. Rudy”

“Hi Dan, I am not normally one for “kiss and tell stories”, but I know that success stories are good for business, and I reckon I owe you one.

I watched Better Than A Bad Boy only a couple of weeks ago.

Then I met a girl through a friend (so, in fairness, it wasn’t a completely cold pick-up), nevertheless I brought her back to my place the same night and we had sex – which I had never done before with a girl I had met only a few hours earlier.

Throughout the evening, I kept thinking “Stay confident, stay masculine, don’t get sucked into acting feminine”.

Well, as can be seen from the result, it was obviously brilliant advise which continues to work perfectly, as we have been together three times since and are going away on a “dirty weekend” together tomorrow.

It bothers me that I previously got suckered into the mindset of suppressing my natural masculine traits that happens for so many guys these days. The media is to blame for a lot of that.

I can see now that is a problem for many men, and women clearly don’t realise how much damage they have done to their own self-interests by giving out misleading signals over the past twenty or so years.

Anyway, thanks for opening my eyes. I owe you big time. Paul”

“Dan, I just want to thank you for all of the help you’ve supplied to me and every guy out there like me.

I found you guys last October and immediately noticed a drastic change in myself after watching Better Than a Bad Boy and Alpha Male Power, in particular.

I’ve since discovered my purpose in life and that created much higher confidence and self-esteem in myself.

I’ve never been one for bar environments to pick up women (so the Covid-19 pandemic didn’t really affect me in that regard) but I met a woman whose name I’d heard through mutual friends (and vice versa) in an environment in a place we’re at all the time.

All I did was display the traits you describe in great detail in your programs (and it was truly real, not just a facade). And we connected so damn well it was unreal. She told me we’re basically the same person.

And I just moved it forward…

10 days later we are in a relationship and she told me she’s never been more in love with anyone in her life, and she’s already planning out long term plans for us.

I only met her 3 weeks ago.

I bought your program “Make Her Love You For Life” right when we started our relationship too. Not because I need it. But because I know you have great information, and I know it’s gonna work.

Anyone who sees this message, I’m proof that everything Dan makes for the Modern Man is worth every penny.

I had no clue what to do and I was even a nervous wreck around women that were less attractive than my girlfriend now. My girlfriend is what most would call a pretty girl. A natural beauty. This is amazing. Thanks so much for everything, and cheers! T”

“Hey Dan, I’m amazed at how, even with so many products, you never overlap the information.

I got Alpha male power and Better than a bad boy and both are truly unique and powerful products in their own right.

To be honest I wasn’t sure of the difference between the two before watching them, but then found them to be eye opening in so many different ways all throughout the program.

I’ve learned so much from you over the past month and my life has changed completely.

I feel so much more confident and self assured, no matter where I am. Women notice me now and smile. It’s so weird.

I’ve already gotten a bunch of phone numbers, set up dates and slept with 2 women this month.

That may not sound like a lot, but I hadn’t had sex in years prior to this.

So, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.

You have literally changed my life and opened my eyes to the fact that I can select women that I want…and they actually want me in return. It’s priceless. Thanks man! Mitch”

“Hi Dan – Well first of all THANK YOU!.

I never thought I was going to say what I’m going to say but here it comes! In 4 or 5 years I was not seeing any girl! Today 6 months after buying the “better than bad boy” I have too many girls!

I really don’t know what to do, I’ve gotten too many girls and I don’t wanna break their heart.

Most of them keep calling me daily and I keep ignoring because I’m not interested anymore. And when I tell them how we are not meant to be together, they cry! I have what you Call a Luxury problem these days!

Even 2 of my co-workers who I happened to not be interested in keeps asking me out for dates!

And believe me I’m not attractive I’m just standard!

Never been good with girls, But hey what you taught me have made a complete difference, even all my friends now come to me for advise or tells me what to Write when they are texting some chicks, even they get laid sometimes because of me! Its really crazy!

And if you happen to know how I can turn Down these women in a Nice way without the tears and all that stuff I would be for ever grateful! But anyway I’m happier than I was. Thanks Dan! Majid”

“Dan – All your stuff works period. I’ve used your products for the past few years. I got the flow, dating power and better than a bad boy. For anybody considering this stuff. BUY. IT.

This happened to ME today.

I joined a new gym. While standing at the counter doing the paper work I staggered my stance. Bored really. Decided to use the T.I. technique just cause. And two incredibly hot chicks went out of their way to say hi to me. Individually. One by one. At different times.

I was shocked because I wasn’t trying to approach or pick up. I thought they were talking to the guy who worked there. I figured they knew him. But no. They made it clear. They were talking to me. When I said hi. Smiled. I had to practically chase them off to take my gym card mug shot.

The techniques just work. I was just practicing in a vacuum. And that’s been happening a lot lately. Women literally fall all over me. I mean, I’m using my body right. I got my confident smirk just right. I’m looking them in the eye just right. I approach. I’m funny. The escalations just fall into place.

Success has been this. Had a hot girlfriend. We broke up. Got a new hot girlfriend. Then we broke up too. Went back to the first girlfriend. She moved away. Then I moved away with ANOTHER hot older woman. Now I’ve moved back, and joined a new gym.

My point is this. Beautiful women are everywhere, waiting, HOPING to meet a man who understands what the modern man teach. Most guys don’t know this and I am thankful for that because it means no competition, lol! But I do hope more guys know so you guys can become successful. I am just enjoying myself while they don’t, lol! Ryan”

“Hi Dan

I recently purchased the Better Than a Bad Boy Program.

I tried a few of the techniques in this program and can I just say how well they worked (and might I add i’m only 2 videos into the program :)).

I went out in a group of friends on Saturday night 4 boys and 3 girls (all single btw) after using some techniques I noticed a massive change in how all 3 women were responding to me in the group. Everything from cheeky smiles/glances to playing/twirling with their hair.

I even noticed at one point how random women were seemingly moving towards us in one bar, despite the fact that in this bar it was full of metrosexual men or pretty boys.

This is without a doubt the best amount of money I have ever spent.

After being dumped by the woman I thought was the one after 14 months together.

Your program has opened my eyes and has almost destroyed the fears I have had about getting back into the game.

My confidence has been kicked up a notch. Thanks again. Chris.”

“I have been single most of my life, and while I understand complex concepts, women was the one area in life where I just had no clue.

There was obviously many attempts most which failed and it made no sense at all.

I stumbled upon The Modern Man after trying many others and for some reason it just made sense to try it out, even though it was the first option where I had to pay money to get the information, something which I usually avoid on the internet.

I started with Dating Power, 2 years ago and it was a brilliant starter product, it opened a whole new world to me.

Soon after this I decided I wanted to learn ballroom/latin dancing, and it was here where I started my adventure meeting many women, instead of going to bars which is still not something I am crazy about. You don’t have to guess, the advice just worked.

I had multiple ladies falling in love with me every time I would go out dancing.

Dating power also slowly changed the way I was at work and with friends, and people told me regularly they don’t what it was, but I changed, for the better.

Recently I acquired Better than a Bad boy product, I truly wanted it, even though I was already going great with women, and again, it was worth it.

It does more than help you with women, it teaches you things that make all aspects of life better.

With advice from this product, I am for the 1st time in a relationship longer than a few dates, and I can tell by the look on my girlfriend every time she comes over, she is still madly in love with me, and I am not even trying to convince her, I just enjoy the time together with her, and somehow she falls deeper and deeper in love with me still!

Short story, the products are amazing, and it teaches guys things, that all men should know.

I believe the things I learned in both products, are essential to enjoying your dating life to the fullest. David”

“Dan

I was a neutral guy who lost my ability to create a spark.

I have chosen the wrong women most of my life. I now choose quality women because your videos I’ve purchased have taught me how to raise my self esteem.

In America, men are taught to be good little boys around women and to not directly show their attraction to women. That’s been my major problem. Better Than A Bad Boy taught me to revive the ability to express my interest in women directly.

Last week for the first time since I was a kid, I was my real self around a group of men and women that I’m friends with. I also got a phone number after a 45 minute conversation with an attractive woman.

I feel like I am a confident man now that I have the skills. The change also happened in just a couple of months. This stuff really works. Thanks Dan. Clint”

“Hi Dan,

I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend.

I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow!

I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did.

The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew.

I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me. There was 1 out of the 4 who was perfect for me, so I had to let 3 of them down gently by saying I wasn’t available and I’m now in a new relationship with the girl I liked the most.

Even though I am still learning, I am very positive about the future. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made in the past that’s for sure. Thanks again! Sean”

“Hey Dan!

At first I was unsure about learning from The Modern Man.

Eventually, after a failed relationship (in which I felt “whipped”) and continuous failure with women, my frustration made me realize that I needed a little help.

I decided to take a leap of faith and learn from the guys at The Modern Man. Now, I can definitely say that learning from you guys was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

The programs you guys provide are extremely detailed yet very easy for men to relate to and understand.

The material is geared towards women, but becoming good with women is only one of the benefits one gains from learning from these guys.

Better Than a Bad Boy, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, and of course The Flow have improved all areas of my life, including my work, happiness, relationships, and of course my ability with women.

After learning from Dan, Ben and Stu a few months ago I still feel like I am dripping with confidence!

I can now chat and attract any woman I meet and that usually leads to something sexual now which has been a lot of fun.

My occasional depression has been replaced by an excitement for life, and all my social anxiety has disappeared.

People can see my masculinity and confidence, and treat me better.

I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date!

My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode.

Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me. I could write way more about how my life has turned around, but it would get too long!

Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! From Cameron”

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“Amazing! This is the only word to describe Alpha Male Power.

I watched Alpha Male Power and then today I stopped women in the street who were walking towards me and things went really well. In the past I feared them walking off and not stopping.

I had a couple of other “firsts for me moments” during the day too, but the most important thing is that it felt like nothing mattered to me.

My anxiety and fear just disappeared.

Nothing the women or other people were thinking of me mattered.

Other guys in the “pick up” community who I know, who have had more success than me, still self analyse and ask themselves “why did she give me that bad response?”.

I got none of that after listening to Alpha Male Power!!!

I did start to question myself towards the end of the day saying, “Na, this can’t be… it’s too good to be true” but like Dan says at the very end of the program “you have to go through the transformation”.

What Dan said relaxed me and reassured that it is OK and normal for it to take a few days or weeks for it to become who I am (without having to think about it.)

I can’t praise this program enough for the instant powerful feeling it gave me. Thanks, Kaleb”

“Hi Dan,

I had to share with everyone that your Alpha male product has significantly changed my life- not just my love life, but my professional one as well.

I feel like I have an entirely new outlook on the world, and life is just naturally more enjoyable for me.

Incredible things have been happening for me since I’ve started living my life as an alpha male.

I got a huge promotion work, I’ve become much more well-respected in my group of friends, and I’ve had amazing success with women.

On top of meeting new women, I’ve also hooked up with a really hot girl who I’ve been friend-zoned with for 7 years! 7…years!

She came right out and said that she saw a huge change in me.

She couldn’t tell me what the change was, only that she found herself really attracted to me lately. She certainly demonstrated her appreciation for the “new me” the other night…

Anyway, for all of that (and for everything to come in the future) I want to sincerely thank you.

One more thing- To anyone thinking of trying out one (or all) of Dan’s products, I would absolutely encourage you to do so. Andrew”

“Hey Dan

I am very impressed with your Alpha Male Power programme.

I am based in London where every second guy seems to be an alpha and I was always being picked on at work and rudely rejected by women.

After watching your programme and going through the exercises I felt a distinct change in how I thought felt and moved when I walked around in public.

It built over 1 week and all of a sudden I noticed that guys would get out of my way when I walked down the street even tho I am not being aggressive. They can sense it.

I had a crush on a woman at work and she has rudely rejected me at a bar after work when we drank with colleagues, but after I went through the alpha transformations, she started hitting on ME.

I came to your site feeling a bit skeptical because I’d bought some other advice online and it didn’t do a thing for me, but you are the real deal Dan.

I will be going out going out for a date with her on Wednesday.

She was hitting on me and I simply said to her ‘You want me and you know it’ and she became shy and then I said ‘Don’t worry about what happened in the past. You and I should go for a drink’ and we both had a laugh together.

It would have been awkward except for the fact that I used the different types of presence that you explain in Alpha Male Power.

She just melted, smiled, laughed and said ‘You’re baaaad’ and said ‘Okay let’s do it’

I am truly amazed at the power that I have gained by simply watching your programme and following your advice. I will be getting more of your programmes in the coming weeks now that I know this is the real thing. Manny”

“January was was the month I decided to get back out there after my divorce.

I’ve hooked up with 3 girls and I seem to be managing them fine while also having others in the pipeline purposefully in different stages as I’m following your advice from 21 great ways.

Funny I just met a work mate. She’s pretty cool and she’s actually melting to your techniques and way of being.

It just happened.

These women are really starting to boost my ego during conversation, the phone, texting, and in person.

They are really opening up and being feminine, it’s like magic. Unbelievable.

I have some pics, text messages and journaling to document my own experience with your material.

I can’t stress enough how important is for your other clients to utilize all of your programs into their subconscious and take action.

Alpha Male power really woke me up and gave me the manly kind of confidence I was missing all this time.

I finally understand the game because of the help from you guys so I really appreciate all your time spent researching and putting this material together.

You are right – Life continues to get better and better with an Alpha mindset letting the rest follow. WB”

“I just wanted drop by and thank you.

I initially bought your products [customer bought The Flow and Alpha Male Power] to pick up girls but in return I learned how to be a ‘real’ man.

I am now able to handle any situation and talk to girls with no hesitation.

In fact while on holiday I used your technique to meet this beautiful Latin girl and was able to create some great memories with her. Your videos are definitely worth every penny. KG”

“Dan, I just want to thank you for all of the help you’ve supplied to me and every guy out there like me.

I found you guys last October and immediately noticed a drastic change in myself after watching Better Than a Bad Boy and Alpha Male Power, in particular.

I’ve since discovered my purpose in life and that created much higher confidence and self-esteem in myself.

I’ve never been one for bar environments to pick up women (so the Covid-19 pandemic didn’t really affect me in that regard) but I met a woman whose name I’d heard through mutual friends (and vice versa) in an environment in a place we’re at all the time.

All I did was display the traits you describe in great detail in your programs (and it was truly real, not just a facade). And we connected so damn well it was unreal. She told me we’re basically the same person.

And I just moved it forward…

10 days later we are in a relationship and she told me she’s never been more in love with anyone in her life, and she’s already planning out long term plans for us.

I only met her 3 weeks ago.

I bought your program “Make Her Love You For Life” right when we started our relationship too. Not because I need it. But because I know you have great information, and I know it’s gonna work.

Anyone who sees this message, I’m proof that everything Dan makes for the Modern Man is worth every penny.

I had no clue what to do and I was even a nervous wreck around women that were less attractive than my girlfriend now. My girlfriend is what most would call a pretty girl. A natural beauty. This is amazing. Thanks so much for everything, and cheers! T”

“I’ll start with a little bit about myself.

I am 23 years old, a senior at a major American football university in the United States.

Growing up, I never know how to act around women – my dad was very shy and quiet. I love him very much, and mean no disrespect when saying this – but he wasn’t a great role model when it comes to being a real man or being attractive to women.

So like many guys, I grew up being shy and being afraid to talk to women for fear that they might slap me or pour a drink on my head like you seen on TV and in the movies.

So I went on the internet and looked at all the different things – namely, pick-up artists.

After some trial and a lot of money spent, I came to the conclusion that they were a waste of money.

And then I stumbled on the Modern Man. I decided to give it a shot, and started with the Flow. I gave the techniques a shot, and when it worked, I was instantly hooked.

I can’t thank you, Ben, or Stu enough. My life has changed completely and it’s all thanks to your courses.

They are all great, and really teach what they are advertised to teach – but it is the responsibility of the person watching to actually perform the simple steps required.

Sometimes they take a little courage, but it’s not like you ask us to perform rocket science – just to have a pair of balls. You can’t find that many places these days.

I especially like Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy.

Those courses to me were more about becoming a strong, powerful, masculine man who is pretty much guaranteed success in life because of the man those courses lead you to become, and secondary for me was the attracting women part.

Although, just as you advertise, they work incredibly well when it comes to attracting women naturally solely based on the person you are. I have had more women interested in me in the last few months than in the last 10 years.

I’ve also had sexual encounters that were frankly better than what I used to experience because the woman’s attraction and our connection was more real and deep.

Also, the Get Your Ex Back Super system worked for me as well, and I was surprised at how quickly and easily it worked.

Although, as it turned out the ex that I got back just wasn’t a good girl to have a relationship with, so I broke it off with her after a while.

She just wasn’t honest or trustworthy. But I learned a lot more than just how to get my ex back, including how to become a better version of myself and let go of any baggage that I had.

Anyway, I no longer feel like I have any limitations in what I can do or achieve in my life and I have all the tools that I need.

I can’t thank you or the guys enough. Keep up the good work! I’ll always appreciate what I learned from you! Jason”

“What’s up guys I’ve been using the following programs since I was 16 The Flow, Alpha Male Power and Confessions of a Natural.

I’m 23 now and in the past 7 years have done many approaches, I’ve been with some of the most beautiful women in the world…perfect dimes!

I have my choice with women. Do I get every woman? No, but 2 or 3 out of 10 women yes! Thanks Dan! I used to be a bullied socially awkward kid with no type of play and now I got some hot b*tches. Cheers, A”

“Hey Dan, I’m amazed at how, even with so many products, you never overlap the information.

I got Alpha male power and Better than a bad boy and both are truly unique and powerful products in their own right.

To be honest I wasn’t sure of the difference between the two before watching them, but then found them to be eye opening in so many different ways all throughout the program.

I’ve learned so much from you over the past month and my life has changed completely.

I feel so much more confident and self assured, no matter where I am. Women notice me now and smile. It’s so weird.

I’ve already gotten a bunch of phone numbers, set up dates and slept with 2 women this month.

That may not sound like a lot, but I hadn’t had sex in years prior to this.

So, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.

You have literally changed my life and opened my eyes to the fact that I can select women that I want…and they actually want me in return. It’s priceless. Thanks man! Mitch”

“Hey Dan!

Alright your program can work miracles! For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me.

I was devastated and even more so as I went through you program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.

I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years. Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls.

I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy.

I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number! She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt. I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that too.

You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.

Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life. Rudy”

“Hey Dan,

You have truly opened up my eyes and I have seen and experienced what it’s like to cross over from being an absolute fail with women to having most girls want me. I am starting to reach the point now where I can attract most girls that I like.

I now have a beautiful girlfriend who constantly tries to impress me and also wants to move in with me. She’s awesome!

Your programs, particularly alpha male power helped me to gain so much confidence that I no longer feel nervous around people and I know how to handle them.

Most people want to be my friend which is an amazing feeling! Just wanted to say thank you because it has really changed my life. Mark”

“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.

I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.

Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.

So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.

I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.

I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.

I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.

I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.

So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.

I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.

I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”

“Hey Dan,

Thanks for everything that you guys at the Modern Man provide.

This stuff is not only great for improving your life with women, it will improve your life in many other areas as well.

When I bought my first Modern Man product (The Flow), I was frustrated and very skeptical.

I actually didn’t apply the information for months after getting it. Then I built up the courage to do it and things changed very quickly with women. I got dates, had sex and quickly had 3 different women wanting to be my girlfriend at the same time.

To any guy who ever reads this, let me just say that when you apply this information, it will change your life in so many ways that these products are worth 100 times what they cost.

I am now on a career path and I am excelling in many areas in my life at a faster rate than I have ever progressed.

The Flow and Alpha Male Power had such a profound impact on me, that I went on to purchase ALL of the Modern Man products within 3 months of my first purchase (except for Get Your Ex Back).

They are all great products and you learn valuable nuggets of gold from each and every one of them. Guys, do yourselves a favor and get these products. The skills you learn are definitely transferable into any area of life you choose.

Don’t waste time stuck where you are. Listen to Dan and you will excel. It works! Brandon”

“Hi Dan,

I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend.

I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow!

I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did.

The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew.

I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me.

There was 1 out of the 4 who was perfect for me, so I had to let 3 of them down gently by saying I wasn’t available and I’m now in a relationship with the girl I liked the most.

Even though I am still learning, I am very positive about the future. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made in the past that’s for sure. Thanks again! Sean”

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Mastery Methods and Mindsets

Mastery Methods and Mindsets by The Modern Man

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“Hi Dan.

I have been meaning to send you one of my success stories for some time now.

There is one in particular that has happened recently that I would like to share with you.

I was at a friend’s house party and there was a girl there that I’ve known for some time.

I have been wanting to get with this girl for quite a while, but I never had the foggiest notion on how to approach, what say to her, or have the confidence to (due to my way below average looks, etc).

Anyways, had to leave the party early, unfortunately, but while I was there I merely used some of the teachings from “mastery methods and mindsets and the ultimate guide to conversation”.

After applying some of the simple techniques (being real, not being too nice, avoiding nervousness, etc), the following day I got a text message from an anonymous number, that eventually turned out to be the girl at the party that I’ve been after all this time. She was asking me out!

I couldn’t believe what was happening!

I literally thought that I was dreaming.

The funny part is that I was simply just being myself! The same friendly guy! I honestly believe that it’s paramount that every decent man out there should know about the modern man. I have truly being struggling in my life.

All I needed (which I obviously didn’t know) was a few simple changes and a push in the right direction. I am still taking it one step at a time and these two products alone have opened my eyes in ways I could never have imagined.

I can’t wait to get hold of some of the other products and see what else my life has in store for me. I would like to say a monumental thank you to you guys. You have got me out of this dark, lonely hole that I’ve been hiding away in.

You have completely turned my life around for the better and not just in regard to relationships with women.

Everything from my new job to meeting new people. EVERYTHING! I will never be able to emphasize the impact you have had on my life. So a great big thank you again and I wish only the best for you guys. Sincerely, Jonathan”

“Hey Dan,

I wanted to follow up a few months after getting some of your programs.

I watched Dating Power, Mastery Methods and Mindsets, and Confessions of a Natural: Interview Series.

Dating Power and the confessions series really outlined how to uniquely apply the concepts from all other courses.

I’m an average guy and through what you teach, I now have my pick of who I date.

Recently I began dating a Brazilian-German woman who looks like a runway model.

Using what I learned has made her melt like butter on a hot waffle.

You weren’t kidding about how happy a woman becomes by relaxing into her own femininity. She had tears in her eyes just when I hugged her.

Your programs teach us men how to become better and make women happier. Everyone benefits. I want to thank you guys forever! You have changed my life so much. Jeremy”

“I bought your Mastery methods and Mindset product.

You guys have actually managed to solve my confidence problems.

I consider myself to have all the attractive personality qualities apart from confidence, which as it turns out let me down hugely as I had this whole ‘arsenal’ of attractive personality ‘weapons’ without being able to use any of them.

I’ve found that what you call Relaxed Confidence is the key to everything.

Some girls I used to naturally assume it with like unattractive women, women I was already comfortable with or my friends’ girlfriends or wives, but most women I didn’t give myself the chance to have Relaxed Confidence.

Now that I’ve put your mindsets into practice, I have Relaxed Confidence around everyone, no exceptions and I am LOVING it.

I’ve also done a bit of thinking about my dating history with girls I’ve hooked up with.

The ones I was successful with were the ones who I was using Relaxed Confidence with.

The result…everytime, they asked me to go on a date!

I’ve found out that when I am not confident in my own abilities and try to be somebody im not to impress, I’ve had zero success.

I think when you put this mindset into practice that all of your natural personality traits come out on their own, because your automatically being yourself, but in an attractive way to women.

When I’m in this mindset, I don’t worry about what I’m going to say or how to make her laugh etc.

I’m so laid back that I naturally know what to say or how to make her laugh automatically.

So far it is working better than I expected because I got a number from a hot girl at a party last week and am dating her tomorrow and I am very sure a hot girl I know through friends also likes me now, so I am going to make a move on her too.

I’m loving this new me. It’s like I have suddenly become a more valuable guy and women recognize that. Jamie”

“I was already gaining some confidence after reading The Flow and approaching and getting numbers, but when I started using the methods – that’s when everything changed for me. As an example – The Walk By Look – I do that and pretty much every time girls smile, laugh and welcome me to approach them.

The Exaggerated Personality and the Talking Out Loud is super fun and always pumps up the energy of an interaction.

I’m having so much fun with this. Before approaching was still pretty scary and I was still feeling a bit nervous, but I can’t wait to go out and party now. I’m not after a girlfriend right now because I’m having sex with a new woman every two weeks or so – super fun. Clement”

“Great product guys. I got your Mastery Mindsets product and it has been such a breath of fresh air because you actually provide examples of what to do, instead of just talking generally about stuff.

Anyway, this has upped my game big time.

I’ve finally been able to start hooking up with the 8s and 9s out of 10…previously, the best I could get was a 7/10 kind of chick, which I hated because I knew I could do better.

Met a girl last week who was an easy 8.5/10 and we’re catching up for a drink on Friday night…should be good! Rick”

“Got your Mastery program 7 months ago and decided I would try, one by one, the mindsets and methods you guys suggested.

Amazing.

I didn’t even need to use all of the mindsets to get the relaxed confidence you guys speak of.

Literally, after I had integrated the 3rd mindset, I was already more confident than all of my friends, who I used to always look up to as confident guys.

Anyway, I put some of your methods into practice and my nights out approaching turned into the most fun I’d ever had, since working on my game for a couple of years.

I did the whispering conversation starter method and met my now girlfriend.

Well it has now been 6 months and we are going strong and will be moving in together soon.

This is what I was always hoping for when I started learning this stuff.

I wanted a relationship and I wanted the woman to love me for me.

Thanks to you guys, I got her by being the most confident version of myself that I had ever been.

The thing I am also happy about is that I am still that confident now in the relationship. I’ve become even more confident really.

I’ve integrated all of the mindsets now and I am now living with total confidence, day in day out. Great program guys. Worth at least 3 or 4 times what I paid for it. No doubt. Brennan”

“I actually didn’t think it would be possible to listen to what you guys had to say and then have my confidence improve so much.

I am not kidding you when I say my confidence has gone through the roof.

I feel like a new man!

I also know it works because even my ex-girlfriend is now attracted to me again…and the women I’ve met in bars lately are texting me and acting real keen. Thanks a lot – I am so glad that I bought your product and I just thought I’d let others know what it has done for me. Hugh”

“Hello, I was just listening to the Methods section, and you said, ‘Just enjoy your time around women ‘

This was one of the most important things for me in the couese because if you enjoy your self, then you give out positive vibes, and generally will relax and make the women have a good time.

Apologies if you know this (which I’m sure you do), but I just thought I might just say this for it was what you said at the end and in a offhand way, so I was not sure if you might realise the significance.

And thank you so much for the advice that you have given me, my confidence is back up to and at unprecedented levels and its nice to be playing with the women just in the street.

I got a phone number yesterday in front of my friends and they were like WTF? They can’t believe the sudden change in me.

Anyway I texted her later that day and we’re meeting tonight. I feel alive! It’s like I am no longer afraid. Luke”

“I listened to your program on Thursday during the day, then went out with a friend to a bar on Friday night and ended up kissing a girl within 30 minutes.

I would have chickened out in the past because I would have been worrying about the chance of being rejected and messing things up.

The program filled me with confidence and I felt brave enough to make a move and it worked.

I am still amazed at how much I’ve changed and so quickly.

Later than night, I got 2 other phone numbers, so I am going to date those girls as well…thanks a lot Modern Man – your stuff works! Richard”

“I had tried just about everything to get better with the ladies, as they say…but, everything I did made practically no difference – I’d always end up falling back into the same old rut.

I’d feel a bit confident and then lose it just as quickly.

Not this time.

The Mastery Methods program has finally given me the answers I’ve been seeking all this time! To my great relief, I can now say that something has finally worked for me!

Get this – a female friend of mine who only ever saw me as a friend is now sleeping at my house twice a week!

She just came on to me one night because of how confident I am now.

She was flirting and showing interest and then just got real close and made it super obvious that she was turned on.

Unbelieveable.

She NEVER saw me in that way in the past.

The first time was really amazing sex too and we both really enjoyed it I could tell.

I also got a number on the first night I went out since getting your program, but I haven’t called her yet because I’m enjoying the time with my female friend turned girlfriend.

Thank you for guys for all the work you do. You are really professional and I can tell that you guys actually care about us and want us to succeed.

I also like that your guys developed your advice by going out and doing it yourselves to see what actually works. It gives me even more confidence when I used your techniques. Thanks again. Alan”

“Since I started applying the techniques and mindsets you teach, I’ve gotten a lot more confidence with not just women but all the other areas of my life.

I now ask for what I want and I usually get it.

Like last night at the clubs, I started talking to a beautiful girl near the bar and 10 minutes later, I said “We should talk again, give me your number” and gave her my phone. She put the number in and said ‘Cool, call me – I’d like to catch up sometime”

I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t done it myself.

Also, I think I had the nice guy mentality from being duped by all the movies and books out there that depict relationships and how guys should act in the wrong way than they actually are.

So, I always just played the Mr. Polite Guy and got nothing.

The mindsets aspect is amazing, because I never understood positive thinking until you talked about negative dialogue going on in your head.

Well, I’ve been able to improve on that a lot!

It wasn’t that I’d never heard it before to be positive, but the way you guys explained it in such great detail while still being easy to understand is a really a rare thing.

Thanks a lot guys – I’m now back in the game and kicking ass! Dave”

“For what I’ve got from your Mastery program already, I think it’s a bargain and easily the best thing I’ve ever bought.

I actually work as a cleaner, so I had to save a while for this!

Since listening to your advice I have never been so confident in all my life, nor did I think I’d ever be.

People now respect me and women just instantly get attracted to me because of my confidence.

I’m dating a chick I met at the mall 2 weeks ago who I previously would’ve avoided because of her beauty.

She’s coming over to my house on Thursday night to cook dinner with me, so I think I’ll be gettin some lovin if you know what I mean!

Thanks for making it all so simple…I used to see women as a lot of hard work, but I get it now.

Also your confidence advice is rock-solid, I feel like I’ve finally become a man with all this. TJ”

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21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend

21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend by The Modern Man

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“Yesterday I was on the train heading to Edinburgh, and sitting across from a cute woman who I noticed several times was checking me out by giving coy smiles and checking me out in the reflection as we went through a few tunnels.

I put aside my nervousness and said internally, right I’m going to attempt to make something out of this no matter what.

I followed the example in 21 great ways to get a GF (Public transport. I typed into my phone (Look I know people don’t normally talk to people on trains, but I wanted to say hi, I’m Richie).

She was a bit deer in the headlights expression, but she took my phone and typed in (I’m Aileen how far are you heading?) and we started chatting.

She was getting off at the next station 10 mins later and I told her it’s been great chatting to you, we should chat again, put your number in and I’ll give you a shout. She gave me her number sure enough.

A guy was watching us and I could tell he was thinking to himself WTF out of jealousy because she was cute.

On the way back to Glasgow I sat opposite an attractive blonde girl who I smiled at and started talking to her and got her number too.

And I was also aware of a woman across from us, who was watching and listening into the conversation.

I am now looking forward to travelling on the train later today because there will be opportunities to talk and get more numbers. Richard”

“Admittedly I was already confident before getting your program but I needed to know what to do.

I’d see women I liked but then get stuck on what I could say or what I should do.

Not a problem for me any more.

I’ve hooked up with 3 women since listening to your program and trying it out on waitresses, receptionists and random women I meet tbh.

I have been getting phone numbers left and right and it all seems so easy now. Thank you guys for explaining all this and helping me take control of my dating life. Vince”

“Got myself a girlfriend by using your techniques for the mall.

It was terrifying at first to just approach her, but I knew what to say and how to handle it so it worked to my surprise.

After being together for a few months, she told me that what I did at the mall was romantic and explained how she had always dreamed of meeting her perfect boyfriend during the day like that.

I never would have believed women thought that way until listening to you guys explain everything.

She is like a 9/10 in my books for looks, so getting your program and having the guts try it out on a woman has completely changed my life.

I actually found you guys from a random Google search. I see it as fate. I was meant to learn this stuff. Love you guys. Nasir”

“I’ve been using the 30 day challenge for two weeks now…I’m halfway through it and have scored to 2 numbers.

In the beginning I thought I wasn’t getting anywhere because the starter challenges were pretty easy, but now I see why you guys set them up like that…you get us ready for the harder challenges.

So I was a little frustrated in the beginning and then stuck with it and was very happy with my progress because I started getting numbers.

I’m actually going on a date tomorrow night with one of the girls I got a number from and just wanted to let you guys know and say thanks!! Brian”

“I got to a point in life where I realized that I was hopeless with women and needed to do something about it.

I was frustrated and finally asked out a girl I had a good connection with.

I thought just having the balls to ask her would make her want to date me. She turned me down.

That rejection almost destroyed any remaining confidence I had with women.

I was also living with three guys who got a TON of girls and so I thought there had to be something wrong with me or my approach with women.

I search around online and found you guys and eventually got 21 Ways. I listened to everything over and over for three days.

That week I woke up, put on a nice outfit and was brimming with confidence.

I made eye-contact with everyone I saw and felt great and people could tell by how I was smiling and carrying myself. I could feel people viewing me in a new way.

I was waiting in a cafe before class and made eye contact and playful facial expressions with everyone (about a weird guy who seemed drunk at 9am) especially with this one girl.

I recognized her as one of the girls on campus that every guy knew because she was that incredibly hot.

I didn’t think twice about it and just went through the day doing what I was doing. I felt great! The next night I saw that hot girl at a bar.

She seemed to be all over my radar, trying to get me to notice her. Finally, she got a mutual friend to introduce us and we had a nice, fun conversation. She was chasing me!

When I could tell things were getting really interesting I said, “It’s been nice talking to you. I’m gonna go get back to my friends and get a drink.”

She was shocked!

So, I saw her later on and got her number and she came home with me that same night.

For me that was shocking. It was like a shock to my system. I realized that I could have been like that with girls all along.

Now I get it why my friends where getting tons of girls and I wasn’t.

You guys rock – thanks for everything. John”

“I’ve always been very chatty, funny and a bit of an extrovert, so no issues there but I NEVER knew how to flirt.

I’d always chat to girls and never get anywhere because the convos would feel boring and too nice really.

Within 2 weeks of me listening to 21 ways I was able to introduce flirting and ended up sleeping with a seriously sexy girl last weekend.

This is only the beginning and I’m starting to view rejection differently as well, no more despair – more like let’s try again!! Gary”

“Hi Dan, now I know what I was doing wrong all this time.

I was too nice. That didn’t get me anywhere and made me feel very reluctant and even afraid to approach women.

Now that I’m using what I learned from you guys I feel much more confident in approaching even top class women.

The first time I tried out the bookstore method I got a number and am working on getting lots more.
She was more pretty than a woman I would normally approach so that felt like a huge achievement to me.
I do feel a bit nervous about calling her but I will I promise.

I’ve just got to work up the courage to do it so I will probably listen to the program again tonight.

Also I wanted to say that the examples you guys provide are amazing…it really helps now that I have things to say to women when I meet them in random situations. Very happy customer. Chris”

“I was at a movie theater with my friend John recently.

We saw some girls and I was able to walk up to them, start a conversation and it just so happened we were going to the same movie.

Hung out with them after the movie and was able to take them back to my place for some wine and some clean fun.

This has been the best investment I have ever made and have never been happier or more optimistic about my life and my future with women. Bill”

“Before I got 21 Ways, I wasn’t very good socially.

I would always let other people take the lead in social situations, and later when they would be with the girl, I’d fing myself sitting in the background.

Now I understand how I should treat girls and how make them laugh, lead them, etc.

And my social and dating life have picked up to the point where I’ve slept with a good amount of women and it is fun (not difficult or scary) to approach and meet women now.

I’ve also made a heap of new friends now that I’m getting invited to parties.

This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around. Thanks guys!

Was a real treat to listen to the program. It was quite funny in some parts too. You guys are great to listen to. Jack”

“Hey Dan!

Alright your program can work miracles!

For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me.

I was devastated and even more so as I went through your program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.

I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years.

Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls.

I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy.

I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number!

She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt in that I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that.

You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.

Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life. Rudy”

“I’ve only had this program for a week and I’ve already gotten 2 phone numbers. For me that’s a lot because I’ve always been to shy to meet women (especially during the day).

Using your conversation examples, I met one girl when I was buying some lunch during my break and another on the train home from work, despite the train being absolutely chock-a-block full.

I didn’t care. I just started talking to her, flirting and she loved it.

It was a bit weird at first because heck – who talks to anyone else on a train – but we found ourselves in chatting in our own little world.

Everyone else just kind of disappeared and didn’t matter.

It was an eye opening experience for me to say the least, as well as exciting and confidence boosting.

I’ve decided to date both of the women I’ve met and then work out which one I like best.

I can’t thank you guys enough. This stuff works and I’m glad I found you. I was starting to lose hope especially getting nowhere on the apps. José”

“When I found your audio program I thought “Okay here’s something to take me in the right direction”.

I’m not interested in just sleeping with girls, so now I have a girlfriend of 2 weeks and she is absolutely stunning.

Best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good. Will”

“I’ve always wanted to know how to get those hot girls walking around and shopping at the malls, as well as the ones who work in the stores.

Well, after going to your program, I really listened to what you guys said and followed the steps and get this – I got FOUR phone numbers in TWO hours.

2 of the girls were hotties (one in a clothing store and another in a jewelry store, even though I don’t even wear jewelry or want any), and the other two I met in the food court.

So as you can imagine – I am absolutely over the moon with this!

To date in my life, I have NEVER been with a hot girl. Always average or ugly.

Now, I have FOUR numbers…FOUR girls to choose from from just one day of giving it a shot.

This is insane and my friends are have been like bro – what happened to you? Lol.

I will be buying more of your programs for sure. PK”

“I met a woman who was listed in the top ten in an online dating site just using the ideas from the online dating section in your program.

She actually said she was really anticipating my visit and we ended up spending the day together. Kevin”

“I have vastly improved both my friendships with women and my romantic relationships as well.

Now when I find a woman I am interested in and I know she is single, I know I can get her. Justin”

“Since listening to your audio training I’ve gotten phone numbers from 3 girls during the day.

One in a mall, another who is a a waitress in a cafe near my work and the other when I was waiting in line at a big brand juice bar.

I honestly can’t believe how easy it has been…seriously, it’s like I’m living in a completely different world, where girls aren’t scary to me anymore.

Seriously man, approaching women during the day was practically a nightmare experience for me before due to nerves and fears.

It’s freaking easy now and I just don’t feel afraid. I feel alive.

You guys deserve a medal or something for what you do. Big ups to y’all. Lance”

“Not only have I got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week, but I’ve also made a bunch of new friends by going through bits of the 30 day challenge.

My sister commented the other day that I seem so confident these days and asked me where I was meeting all the women I had been telling her about. My reply? Everywhere! Ethan”

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Confessions of a Natural

Confessions of a Natural - Interview Series by The Modern Man

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“Dan,
For the longest time, I had gone out with women but was way too nice to them so one after one, they lost interest.

I couldn’t figure it out and thought I was doing everything right and was getting very discouraged to the point of almost giving up entirely.

So I recently bought the Confessions of a Natural series, and it has already helped me immensely.

It has only been about month, and I have already found the confidence I have needed for the longest time.

Not to mention, I’ve already had sex with 2 new girls and am seeing one of them regularly, and I now have the ability to pick and choose which girl I want to pursue and date further.
The interviews with your natural friends and the advice you also give in them have completely changed my life for the better. Thank you so much for your help, and I’m eager to see where else it takes me! Chris”

“What’s up guys I’ve been using the following programs since I was 16 The Flow, Alpha Male Power and Confessions of a Natural.

I’m 23 now and in the past 7 years have done many approaches, I’ve been with some of the most beautiful women in the world…perfect dimes!

I have my choice with women. Do I get every woman? No, but 2 or 3 out of 10 women yes! Thanks Dan! I used to be a bullied socially awkward kid with no type of play and now I got some hot b*tches. Cheers, A”

“These interviews taught me that my current self is valuable to women and that boosted my confidence greatly.

I decided to bite the bullet and approach a woman 3 weeks back at a local bar near me and had her home with me in under 2 hours. Never. Did. That. Before. WOW!

The sex was great but sex isn’t the only thing I’m after though.

I’m now dating a woman I met through a mutual friend and we’re taking it a bit slower. Hopefully it grows into a relationship because that’s what I want.

Thanks to what I learned from these interviews she was attracted to me the moment she met me and she hasn’t stopped calling me since.

I feel like I have a real advantage now in the dating scene thanks to you guys and the naturals who spilled the beans in the interviews. It was really eye opening for me. Thanks a lot. Danny”

“I finally did it!

There’s a girl I’ve known for the last 2 years through friends and she’s only ever seemed to treat me as a friend.

All that changed last night because she slept at my house and we got it on!

I really like this girl and she said to me that she’s liked me all along and was waiting for me to do something.

Listening to the guys talk about their dating experiences and how confident they are, I decided to just go for it and it worked.

I could have been with her long ago had I known this stuff. Oh well at least I know now.

All the best to you guys – keep on doing what you’re doing. Ryan”

“It’s so much fun listening to this stuff!

You are guys are funny and entertaining while still being professional.

I’ve listened to the series 3 times now and still end up laughing out loud at some parts.

I now understand how I can be a good guy and still pick up women like anyone else…it was awesome to hear that the naturals are actually just good, regular guys and aren’t assholes or arrogant.

I’ll be using some of the secrets I learned on Friday at a party I’m going to – should be a blast! Anthony”

“I listened to a couple of the interviews and talked to a woman at work who I have had a crush on for years.

I then suggested we had lunch together that day and she was flirting like crazy during lunch.

I’d never seen it before. She invited me out for drinks on Friday just the two of us instead of going to after work drinks with everyone else. Mind = blown! Cain”

“Hey Dan,

I wanted to follow up a few months after getting some of your programs.

I watched Dating Power, Mastery Methods and Mindsets, and Confessions of a Natural: Interview Series.
Dating Power and the confessions series really outlined how to uniquely apply the concepts from all other courses.

I’m an average guy and through what you teach, I now have my pick of who I date.

Recently I began dating a Brazilian-German woman who looks like a runway model.

Using what I learned has made her melt like butter on a hot waffle.

You weren’t kidding about how happy a woman becomes by relaxing into her own femininity. She had tears in her eyes just when I hugged her.

Your programs teach us men how to become better and make women happier. Everyone benefits.

I want to thank you guys forever! You have changed my life so much. Jeremy”

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Coaching Call Breakthroughs

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“Using the advice on confidence you shared in the program has made a real difference for me. I’ve been feeling more and more confident each day since watching it.

Anyway, it all built up and up until I did something completely out of character for me last week…and it worked!

Last week I was at a cafe and waiting for my coffee to be ready and there was a cute girl standing next to me.

Normally, I would be too nervous to talk to a girl in a situation like that.

But, feeling confident and pumped up from Coaching Call Breakthroughs, I turned to her and said, “How you going? My names Thomas. I hope my coffee comes before yours does. Who’s going to win?” with a smirk.

She said, “I think I will win. I ordered before you did.” I laughed and responded with, “Oh, so you’ve been checking me out then?” in a way where I was playfully accusing her.

She then laughed and no and I said, “Sure, I believe you” in a playful manner and she then laughed and seemed impressed at my confidence.

She then gave me a big smile and said, “I’m Naomi by the way” and we chatted, flirted a little more and then exchanged numbers.

I texted her later that day and we met up for a drink the next night.

Long story short, she ended up sleeping over at my place and have seen each other twice again since then.

It’s amazing how much easier it is to pick up women if you just give yourself a chance and know how to attract them during a conversation.

Your program has been a game changer for me. I’ve already been recommending you to my friends. Thanks, Thomas”

“Man, I gotta tell you, this program is seriously next-level.

You always manage to bring fresh ideas to the table in each program and this time was no exception.

I’ve already been using The Flow and Text Attraction like a champ for a few months, but watching the Coaching Call Breakthroughs has seriously upped my game over the past couple of weeks.

The way I explained it to a buddy yesterday was that I feel like I’m in the Matrix, but instead of dodging bullets, I’m dodging potential rejection from girls and then getting the results I want so easily…like a lot of sex and multiple girls wanting to be my girlfriend at once…it’s been crazy man.

My friends are now looking at me like I’m some sort of ladies man and one of them commented that I must be my looks. Lol…

I told him that I never used to get girls and now I am. I tried to explain that it’s not my looks and it’s the changes I’ve made to how I talk to girls and he didn’t get it.

I now see what you have to deal with Dan. Some guys just hold on to beliefs like that and remain stuck. Hopefully my friend will wake up and see the Matrix like I have.

Also, before watching Coaching calls I thought I already knew a lot about attracting women and I do, but you’ve blown my mind with all the new info you’ve packed in the program. Excellent program man! Gavin”

“Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you for the Coaching Call Breakthroughs product.

I’ve always struggled with anxiety and lacked confidence in social situations.

Since watching it and giving myself a chance to start using the advice you provide, I’ve become more assertive and confident in my interactions with others, not just women.

I’m still the same old respectful, good guy that I always was, but I feel so much stronger, centered and sure of myself now.

A girl at work is now showing me a lot of interest all of a sudden. I can feel the changes in me and she is no doubt noticing it too.

I’m feeling confident and hopeful about the future now. Thank you.

It was also really cool to listen you coaching the other guys and see that they were struggling with the same things I was. Made me feel less alone with this. I used to always think I was weird for struggling with girls, but now I see how common it is for guys. Marco”

“Before finding your Youtube channel I was frustrated with women because it seemed like they just weren’t interested in guys anymore, you know? Like they always seemed so independent and careless when it came to guys.

Your videos made sense tho so I decided to invest in some of your programs. Of particular help to me has been Coaching call break throughs.

After hearing you coach that guy on the psychology of getting women to chase you and to truly care about being with you, it was like a light bulb went off in my head.

I realized that women do want a boyfriend, but you have to make them feel it, otherwise they just won’t care about you.

I feel silly for not realizing that before but sometimes we humans need things pointed out for us to be able to see them.

I’m happy to say that I’m not bitter anymore about women and I’ve been making women feel so damn attracted to me that they are the ones who hint at being committed to each other or even flat out ask it of me.

I’ve been seeing a whole new side of women and it has been refreshing.

I’m currently juggling a couple casual flings, and they’re both asking for something more serious.

I’m the one in control now, baby. Thanks for the game-changing tips man. JB”

“Very cool program. Learned a lot of things I didn’t know about confidence and attraction. Highly recommended. Will”

“Hey Dan,

Just wanna say a big thanks for releasing this program!

The biggest thing I got out of this is when you explained in more detail what a bridging mindset is.

Although I thought I understood it in Dating Power I’ve been struggling with my thinking for a good year.

I could never understand why somedays I was walking around like James Bond other days I was back in my old rut. Its because I wasn’t using bridging mindsets!

It sounds so simple but I actually thought I was using them lol I wasn’t I was letting unhelpful thoughts just flood my mind and then saying stuff like ‘no no why is this not working’ ‘its not working today’ like that is going to help me get into a confident frame of mind lol.

I have way more awareness of how I’m thinking and how it effects me.

I’ve been increasingly more confident for two weeks now the longest I’ve ever been and I don’t feel like I’m going to fall back into my old habits.

I have control over those thoughts now when they do crop up.

So yeah really appreciate this program I would have payed triple what I paid if I knew I would get this value. Jack”

“Hi Dan,

I have been studying your products now for a little time and finally I actually start to have some success with women!

I must say I was very skeptical in the beginning and thought that it could just be fun to look at your products to see what it was.

I have always been very bad with women….had very low confidence and at first small hint of that a woman was not interested I directly assumed that she was not interested and just walked away.

I assumed this was because I was not interesting, not good looking enough or just too boring.
After looking at your products nothing changed either…..at least not to start with but what really changed things was when I listened to your coaching calls.

Especially to the guy guy Anthony that you coached.

When he was responding to you he constantly said ‘yeah yeah that makes sense’ but did not change much.

Then it suddenly was so clear to me….this is exactly what I am doing too!

I said to myself when I listened to you that this makes sense, you are right……but I did not change anything or did anything of what you were teaching me that I should do!

So I started to actually do the things you were teaching when I approached women and now things start to look much much better!

I never thought it could be this easy or fun to have conversations with women!
I still have a lot to improve but just that I actually am able to approach and talk to girls in a much more relaxed way than I used to is a fantastic improvement for me!

I now have 3 women I will go out and have dinner with in the next week and this is more than I had in the last 2 years!

I also have started to talk to many women in my work who seem interested too. Thank you for the advice. I am very grateful to have found you. Regards, Henrik”

“Hey Dan.

Thanks to your deep and inspiring coaching call program, I’m longer feel scared to open up myself to love and have a real relationship.

For the last 15 years, I’ve been hiding behind my video games, work and hanging out with my buddies, which made me feel incredibly lonely and left out.

But now I feel excited to start dating and risking falling in love. I’m finally ready to give it a shot! Quinton”

“Dan! This always pumps me up and makes me feel confident before I hit the bars to approach women.

I treat it as a pre-game pep talk for myself to get me in the mood to approach.

So, for the past few weeks, I’ve been hitting up women with confidence, and it’s been paying off.

I’ve been getting numbers left and right, and sometimes even getting kisses and more.

Thank you for making this. It’s what I needed. Andrew”

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Make Her Love You For Life

Make Her Love You For Life by Dan Bacon

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“I got your Make Her Love You For Life program last month and watched it twice. My wife was ready to leave me, but she has changed her mind. She is so into me now.

We were on holidays last week and she noticed women looking and me and checking me out.

Not only can she feel the changes in me, but other women see it too.

Our sex life is back and she loves like me she used to, but even more now I feel. So thank you Dan. You are doing a real service to the men of this world with your work. Please keep going. M”

“Hey, Dan. I wanted to share my story with you. A few months ago, I was about to my girlfriend because she was over me and the relationship.

We’d been together for two years, but things had been falling apart for 6 months.

She was always frustrated with me, and I felt like I couldn’t do anything right around her.

I was lost and didn’t know what to do. I found you through a random search online and thought – this guy knows what he’s talking about it.

So I gave your program a try and wow…it has been like night and day regarding our relationship. It has changed so much.

Your program has taught me how to be a better man and be attractive and desirable to her.

My girlfriend immediately began to notice a difference in me, and she started responding positively. She was more affectionate, caring and interested when around me right away which shocked me a little and I wondered if it was a coincidence.

But it has continued on ever since then. Amazing!

We have also started to communicate better to avoid arguments, and our love for each other has grown stronger.

I feel lucky to have found your site that day. It has been a life-changing discovery for me and I couldn’t be a happier and more satisfied customer. Thanks!!! Brian”

“I was skeptical signing up and getting Make Her Love You For Life, but out of desperation and your diagnosis of my situation being pretty much spot on through your YouTube videos I thought why not give it a go, see what I could learn.

I’m happy to say a week since I got your program things are going really well.

In the relationship I had gone from being a confident, masculine, happy go lucky guy, falling in love with an absolute babe, to being real insecure, moody, feminine in response to her and bascially a guy who was anxious and depressed around her.

The relationship had sucked the masculinity out of me, and I was then paying for it; it seemed she no longer loved me, was attracted to me or had any respect for me or what I had to talk about. It was obvious she was thinking of leaving me.

I was getting desperate, felt like I was creeping on my own girl all the time and genuinely felt unable to be in a relationship, I felt broken. She was almost about to leave me.

Your teachings really helped me to pull myself together and man back up.

You’ve given me more tools to get to a place in the relationship where her attraction and love are growing daily. I can see that clearly.

Now she always talks about our future together. So, I wanted to thank you for all you do. You really saved me here. I know I would have lost her if I continued on the way I was being around her. Thank you. G”

“Thank you for all your hard work and insight into the dynamics of making relationships work.

I purchased the Make Her Love You For Life program and I am very happy with what has been happening since.

I have been noticing changes in her behavior toward me.

As an example, when we would have fun and I’d take her in my arms to dance, she used to tease me and try to lead at first before giving in, but this time, and for the first time, she let go, trusted me right away and enjoyed me leading her.

Now that I’m coming from the right frame of mind she is able to act more feminine because I’m acting more like the man and practicing putting all the pillars in place. [The pillars of a successful relationship are taught in the program].

We’re having sex on a regular basis now and it’s like we’re back in love like the early days. So thank you Dan! Jason”

“Hi Dan – I had been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 years, but things had started to feel stagnant.

We had fallen into a routine and I could sense that she was becoming less and less interested in me.

That’s when I stumbled upon ‘Make Her Love You for Life’ by watching some of your videos on Youtube.

On of the most important things the program taught me, was how to reawaken the spark and make her fall back in love with me, which for me has been everything.

I thought we were headed for a breakup. It seemed inevitable really. She was hinting at it and always complaining about me. It was quite a depressing experience to be losing her like that especially because we used to be so in love.

Now we have so much more fun together when talking to each other or hanging out and she has been hinting at marriage and starting a family.

I truly believe I would have lost her had I not found you.

Then it would have been me starting all over again the dating scene and trying to find a girlfriend. I really didn’t want to have to go through all that again.

So thank you for helping to save my relationship. Paul”

“Don’t know if you read messages, but I had the urge to write to you, and must say, your Make Her Love You For Life video program completely changed my life.

I’m 49, divorced with 3 kids, and have had a girlfriend for a few years now who I’ve found very hard to understand.

She was testing me all the time and correcting me, saying things like don’t speak quietly, don’t sit like this, don’t be so insecure, etc.

Only after watching your videos I finally figured out everything and understood what she really wants from me.

I understood she loves and wants me but my insecurity really turn her off, so she’s trying hard to fix it.

She wanted me to be stronger like you said.

I’ve now changed thanks to the sharp explanations you provide that made everything clear. It makes so much sense and is so practical as well. Brilliant.

When I started using your techniques my self confidence around her went up, and the relationship with her never has been better.

That self confidence even changes how I act at work and with my kids.

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.

You don’t know how much you’ve actually changed my life. YM”

“I just want to say thank you to Dan for the amazing program he has put together.

The Make Her Love You For Life program is incredible.

I am confident that the new relationship I’m in right now is going to be the best one I have ever had.

Thanks to your program I can go in with full confidence knowing that as long as I stick to the guide lines of this program that I will not only be a better man, but have an incredible and loving relationship that lasts.

Learning this has made love so much less scary for me because I know I can keep it alive. Thank you.

Jeremy”

“I bought the “Make her love you for life” as my marriage has been in the shitter for several years now – the worst being the last several months.

The 10 Pillars you teach are incredible. I soaked up all 70+ videos in under 2 weeks.

And, as a result, my outlook and behavior has changed (for the better) and I am seeing near instant responses from my wife.

I now recognize all the “tests” she gives and am allowing her to be “girly” with her emotions and I’m no longer responding in the feminine way I was. I am embracing my manliness and it is working.

I have been telling all my friends about you too.

They all say that there is a 100% improvement in my outlook, my behavior and my attitude.

It’s all because you have really enlightened me on my own mistakes over the years, but more importantly, have shown me how to correct them and behave like a man.

I would love to be able to tell you all the things that happened that got me to find you and your work. But I get it, you are extremely busy.

It’s been brutal the past several years. Recent talks of divorce, etc. But now, thanks to your program, I am working on the 10 pillars and seeing near instant results in our relationship. Thank you so very much!! Tony”

“Dan, I was on the brink of a breakup before I found your program.

My girlfriend and I were constantly fighting, and I didn’t know how to fix it.

Your advice on communication was and has been a total game-changer for me.

We no longer argue like that anymore. If there is a disagreement it actually brings us closer because of how we now talk to each other.

That alone has gotten rid of truckloads of stress from my life.

I feel like I am in love with her more now and I know she feels that way because she has been telling me.

Last weekend she hugged me tight, said sorry for how she used to behave and said she was more in love with me now than the past 6 years of our relationship.

Your program has been a real blessing to me Dan. Thank you! MK”

“Dan, two years ago my wife of of nearly 10 years sat me down and said “I don’t love you anymore”.

At the time we had two kids under 6. Devastated, bewildered, numb and confused… I was floored.

I signed up to your course and followed your guidance to the letter.

She then began chasing me in the relationship, being apologetic, realising her mistakes and attempting to attract me back so I wouldn’t leave, exactly as you hinted it would go.

Two years later we are stronger than ever. I owe you Dan, you’re a legend, thank you, seriously, I’m so grateful. Also… now I know exactly what to do, I cannot lose! Thanks dude, you rock. Matt”

“I just wanted to give some feedback. I bought the love for life series [Make Her Love You For Life] last week because my hot and sexy wife of almost 10 years was pissed off at me.

I got caught looking at a pretty girl and then lied about it and continued to do the wrong thing by angrily putting my foot through the door because I can’t stand it when someone is trying to tell me how I think or feel.

We’ve had our issues and this seemed to be the straw that was going to break the camel’s back.

I was a little dubious but I was desperate because I felt that if I didn’t do something radical, I was going to lose her and she was making moves to get ready to leave me.

The info overall in the program was amazing.

Combining your information about the [removed because customer revealed private technique name that is only available to customers] and the info on how women act / test etc with my own methodologies yielded fantastic results.

I feel I am now so much better equipped to deal with my wife and be the man I need to be.

I had to spill the beans about what I was researching and the things you taught me, but all in all she couldn’t disagree with what I was saying and I really think it helped settle many of her fears.

Sex has never been a problem as it’s always great and I always get it but last night was a step above and she wanted to cuddle up afterwards like she hasn’t in a while.

I’m now confident I can keep my wife loving me and make sure my family stays intact. One satisfied customer. Manny”

“Great advice in your Make Her Love You For Life course!

I did something similar to this and became very powerful with women about 15 years ago. Got lazy again though and let things slide so have been in a bad patch again with my girlfriend for the last 6 months.

One thing you said struck a chord when you said about your women wanting to suck you off. That’s not happened for 3 years!!

Implemented your advice and I had forgotten how powerful a magnet you can become. 5 days ago she gave me oral sex and it felt amazing after not getting it for so long. Must remember to not get lazy again! Ray”

“Hello Dan Bacon, Last year I bought your video of ‘make your love your life’.

After a breakup, I decided to buy this material since I felt like I was losing my manhood and didn’t want to get into another relationship and have it end in a breakup again.

I wasn’t being respected by my girlfriend in my previous relationship.

No more Mr nice guy so I decided to give this program a chance.

I am so glad I did.

My new girlfriend has complimented me a lot on my masculinity and confidence. She respects me and I feel so loved and appreciated.

I can now see where I was going wrong with previous girlfriends. It’s so easy now. She loves me completely and I know I can make the relatioship work. Thank you! Jose”

“Hi Dan – I know you deal with mainly single guys, but here is some encouragement for any married guys who need to sharpen up on their relationship skills.

Your work has filled in a number of important gaps for me and has inspired me to be much more proactive in my relationship with my wife.

Flirting, being risque, being unpredictable, being sexually adventurous, being the higher status person and so on, has my wife clawing at my clothes and literally begging me into the bedroom.

It is a huge difference in how she once behaved.

I thought I knew enough about relationships and therefore the problem was her and I and maybe not being a good match.

I am so thankful to know that was wrong.

Her and I are back to being in love like we were at the start.

She is clearly in love with the new me and I feel amazing about it because I am so much more confident, daring and alive than I used to be.

I don’t know how else to describe it, but I feel like I’ve become more of the man I always wanted to be. It’s not difficult either. I’ve found it to be very easy and comfortable to do what you teach. Almost effortless I’d say.

I can say from direct experience as a happily married man, that what you teach has great implications for married men as well as single ones. My wife will be the first person to back me up on this. Richard”

“Your materials [Make Her Love You For Life] have made the single biggest change to my marriage of 10 years that you could imagine.

9 months ago we were in a bit of a nightmare. Now we’re flying. We used to argue a lot. We barely argue at all now, and if we do it’s in a healthy way, where we actually come out of it with something positive.

She is so much more respectful towards me now. It’s like you said where you can bring that side of her out.

I could write for hours singing your praises here, but I’m typing this while at work, so I better get going.

As someone raised predominantly by his mother and three sisters, I just wanted to say thanks for teaching me how to be a man in a relationship. They should really add your stuff to the curriculum for teenage boys. Simon”

“Hello Mr. Bacon, I just wanted to say thank you.

I’ve watched your program probably a dozen times and I still watch it from time to time to fresh up on the attitude you teach about relationships.

I am now happily married to the woman I love and we had our first child in February.

She is the woman I bought the program because of, so I could be a better man for her and not lose her. And it worked.

I haven’t become insecure or lost her attraction like I did with previous girlfriends. Our relationship really has become better now matter what we go through as a couple.

Thank you very much for your program. Its probably the best money I ever spent.

I regularly recommend your program to my male friends and acquaintances. You are truly the best I have ever learned from. Thank you again for everything. Michael.”

“My relationship was failing fast and I was set to move out because my girlfriend had started talking and hanging out with a male co-worker.

I got your make her love you for life program. Not two weeks later, I turned it around, by being strong, masculine and confident.

It felt a bit fake for me to be so confident and masculine at first because she was dominant for so long in our relationship and she pushed back a little to test me but I held my ground.

She told that co-worker he wasn’t me and that she didn’t want him anymore.

We have been on fire since. She desires me now, she knows she can lean on me now and not lead me.

A woman needs a real man! I get it now. I see why she was beginning to open up to other guys.

It is her and I now. She told me the other day that she wished I was like this before and now sees a future with me.

I’ll recommend this to anyone who needs it. Thanks, you’re doing great work. I would have been single and depressed if I didn’t fix this with her. Thank you! Adrian”

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Get Your Ex Back Super System

Get Your Ex Back Super System by Dan Bacon

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I got her back within a few days after watching your program because it pumped me up with confidence and I just knew I could re attract her and get the job done. And I did!

I just wish I had found your site earlier because I wasted so much time trying other methods before I stumbled across your system.

My girlfriend means the world to me, so to have her back is priceless. Thank you for your help!!! Michael”

“Hi Dan

Me and my wife are now back together and so happy.

I’ll be honest with you I thought after I went through your programmes that they would be of no use to me I couldn’t have been more wrong. It got me in the right mindset and helped me through the toughest part of the break up and showed me how to be a man that my wife would want.

In all fairness it just felt natural to be this way so many many thanks to you and the team at modern man because without you it would have been impossible for me to get my wife back in my arms so if any of you guys are in Liverpool England any time don’t hesitate to contact me because I would like to take you guys out for a drink.

Thank you. You don’t realise how much you have helped me I am eternally grateful thanks again from the happiest man in Liverpool Matty”

“Hi Dan I got my ex back! Your system worked for me and it was easier than I thought it would be.

I was lead to believe by friends that once a girl broke up with you that that was it but now that I’ve done it I can see what you see about attraction and relationships and love.

Me and my girlfriend are now planning on moving in together and things are really good, so my thanks to you for the brilliant program and advice. Gary”

“Hey Dan, I purchased “Get your ex back super system” on October 25th.

I just got my x back yesterday November 1st who iv been with for 8 years and who i share a 7 year old child with.

Thank you so much for your program. I never would have been able to put myself in the positive mind set needed to get her back otherwise. Also it gave me the tools to understand her tests and mind games and the confidence that I didnt have before to let her go out partying and not be insecure about it.

Although there were ups and downs from my October 25th purchase date till November 1st when I got her back and wasn’t exactly the lengthy time frame I would have liked but after relentless testing on her part that I know and understand how to laugh off and difuse the situation your program works to a tee.

I was really hesitant about buying it given the price but by far the best money Iv spent in a long time. The tools and skills on a fair value relationship your video has taught me will resonate with me for the rest of my life. Dan Bacon you are truly a god. Thank you, your truly indebted customer from Vancouver Canada, Peter”

“I just wanted to say a quick thank you.

After purchasing your get your ex back system I successfully followed the steps and won my ex back whilst making the necessary changes.

I noticed a power shift after getting back together which was natural after I’d been a bit too controlling on some issues so I needed to ease up.

Gradually I demonstrated to her that I was a capable man who she could look up to emotionally and she’s now happy again with the relationship.

I’ve also been able to reward her good girlfriend attributes with more attention and vice verse for things I’m not so keen on without being to reactive etc. Dean”

“Ex Back Super System. Words can not express my absolutely gratitude to you and your program. I messed up bad. Lost the woman of my dreams because of hard drugs, and emotional abuse. I had zero hope in getting her back. Literally none.

With my last bit of money I tried a last ditch effort and purchased your system. My ex wanted nothing to do with me… even when I got sober she was done. After using your system to a T, actually writing out the steps and lessons, and actually committing to the program. I got her back. I won’t let her see but I am in tears as I write this.

I actually have my ex back man.

Thank you so much.

I have learned a lot and am still learning. Will even rewatch in order to retain what I’ve learned. And man she is 28. Incredibly emotionally intelligent and very cunning herself.

I predicted she was going to know I was using some guide or plan to get her back, see it as a narcissistic ploy to try and trixk her back into a relationship, but it worked….. thank you so much…. Feel free to use this as a testimonial.

I have the love of my life back and I couldn’t be happier with the money spent. God bless your soul. You are a national treasure and an icon in my book. 🙇‍♂️ Preston”

“Hi Dan! It is an absolute success story!

You are amazing my man!

My ex dumped me 2 months ago and I was lost when she said doesn’t feel anything anymore.

I seeked for anything what could help when I found your exback system.

Mate that stuff is just amazing you literally explain how to be man.

I followed it through but I had a different situation as I was living her so I could to pick up the important information for me.

So now we got to that point she is amazed with me and the changes so now I am dating her again.

Taking it slow and trying to make it perfect this time.

I just really wanted to say thank you mate to being out there and helping out people with your stuff.

Well appreciated. Keep up the good job. Regards, Gavin”

“Getting my ex back was a bit more complicated than other guys because of her abused past, but your system definitely worked for me.

We were spending 1 day & evening a weekend together recently having deep love making. She then rang tonight saying we were falling into our old pattern and maybe we should break up again, but I changed her mind based on my newfound confidence and understanding of how to really connect with a woman’s mind.

Anyway she ended up saying she loved me multiple times and wants to be with me & address our niggles was the outcome.

In conclusion I wanted to thank you Dan as all your advice including the mistakes that guys make etc. has really helped me a lot. Thank you Dan, you’re making a lot of couples very happy with your programmes. Kind regards, M.Y”

“My wife of 11 years – who I doted on – suddenly left, took our kids, filed for divorce.

Turned out she was beginning an affair, felt no emotional connection, and had been unhappy for some time. I was devastated. I did not know what to do, and everything I seemed to try seemed to push her further away.

Using your methods in “Get Your Ex Back Super System”, I regained my confidence and mental and emotional strength.

I regained my masculinity, which feels amazing.

I made the necessary changes to re-attract her.

After being separated for 3 months, she’s back and has been for about two months now.

She moved back in on her own. She confronted her family and friends on her own, letting them know that I’ve changed and she wants to be with me.

She broke off the affair and blocked communication with the other man on her own.

She has told me she doesn’t know exactly what is different, but that she loves me, she is so attracted to me, and that she wants to be with me and only me for the rest of her life.

I can’t thank you enough.

My wife and family have always meant everything to me, but I never realized how I was smothering her by becoming part of her emotions instead of being an emotional strength myself, responsible for my own happiness and purpose, and allowing for her to be the freedom to be her true feminine self and experience these emotions without drawing me into them.

Thank you again.

I’ll send an update after a year or so, and I’m happy if you’d like to reach out for more…I think my story could be impactful for many, as 87% of separations end in divorce and many cases of infidelity do not reconcile. We’ve managed to do both so far, thanks in large part to what you’re teaching here. Thanks again! Nick”

“I have 2 young boys now 5&2. Married now 7 years and have been living with my wife for almost 15 years.

Two years ago I noticed my wife had become more and more cold to me in bed hugging, making dinners and just all activities. Shortly after, I learnt that my wife was leaving me and asked for a separation ( I literally lost my mind emotionally and my mojo and couldn’t believe what just happened.

I did the classic guy desperation cry , ask to have her back, said I will change, and went through all her stuff to see if another man was in the picture.

Later learning that when she stopped liking me, she was having a crush on a man at her work who had a family as well.

She came across a love story blog where she started writing back and forth with an author who left her husband to to meet another man in a relation.

Months later, I learn my wife is moving into a rental house close to our house (15blocks away).

But at that time I was researching on the internet and found many websites… obviously Dan’s site caught my interest after putting 100’s of hours into research.

I then started to follow Dan on his free YouTube videos and saw that he actually knew what he was talking about, so I got his ex back program and followed the steps.

It worked!!!!!!!

We are back together and have been living together for 3 weeks.

If I could hug you Dan and tell you I love you I would because last year was the hardest year of my life and you helped me get through it! Josh Oster”

“2 years ago, my girlfriend of 1 year and I went on “a 2-week break with no contact” (her idea), and she sort of explained the reasons behind it but couldn’t really articulate the problems we had and she herself seemed torn on the inside.

I googled furiously for help and after reading tons of blog posts/articles/etc, I found The Modern Man.

I was seriously hesitant to pay for a video series, but I finally ended up buying “Get Your Ex Back: Super System”.

This purchase was unbelievably helpful for me, not only in terms of telling me what to do, but also with understanding what possibly could be the reasons behind my girlfriend wanting this “break” when I thought everything was going fine.

Anyway, I did my best to follow all the advice Dan provided, and here I am two years later and that same girlfriend and I are now engaged and planning our wedding.

If you’re not sure if this purchase will be worth it, all I can say is it seriously helped me! David”

“Hi Dan Bacon,

WOW just WOW. as I’m writing this, i think back about what happen few weeks ago.. TOTAL CHAOS bro!

My girlfriend was so mad and left me. For few days, l was lost and sad. Lost the fire in my heart, you know.

Everything l did was just listen to sad music and pray every night.

Until someday while l was working, something came up my mind “hmm maybe l should google “how to get your ex girlfriend back” “.

It’s like something flash up my mind to google that, maybe thats the answer to my prayers. And then lots of things shown up and the name DAN BACON.

I read the blog and l was like WOAW! This man knows !

So l stop my job and start to read, lots and lots of things.

It was like, l found a guiding book about my life from the moment. Everything you write in that blog, are really really true.

Then i watched the Youtube Videos and really got something like enlightenment from you haha.. YOU THE MAN DAN!

And i spend few days thinking whether l should buy the program or not, considering lot of things, like from price to the different culture. Im from South East Asia.

Indonesia exactly, l dont know if any Indonesian ever purchase or maybe l am the first one.

So l think, this is it, if its not working at least i try!

She is going to be the love of my life, i can earn that money again but maybe finding someone like her is the most difficult part. So, Let’s just invest on this program.

I learned from your videos, writing on my notebook about what i should improve and what i should say when we are meet up and be confident.

Before that, she always said stop trying, you will never win my heart back. And telling everybody there is no way we gettin back together.

But deep inside my heart, I know I can do it, especially on your blog you said Woman heart can change depending on what you do, or something like that. I get more confident after read that.

You really give me lot of confidence after l feel insecure for few weeks.

I call her, not rushing everything, believe in that step by step.

And just 1 week later, we make up while laughing and confess we still love each other. And she said Yes, she want me back !

Oh dear, this program work for everybody if execution is well done !

To the people out there, DO IT! l was skeptical at first too. Since most of the user are from US or European guy.

Well give it a try, I’m from Indonesia and it works! Totally different culture and jokes, but the love and the way woman think are almost the same.

Like Dan said, you want her back, dont wait anymore ! Just go for it!

And last but not least, Thanks Dan. I’m glad l found you.

Like really, it works like magic. Not just my relationship, but for me mentally.

You change the way l think and the way l should behave.

As a man to another Man, THANK YOU DAN BACON. Best regards to you, AS.”

I got my ex back almost 4 weeks after the break up. And things ARE WAY BETTER than before. She is more kind to me, more girly to me and SHE WANTS to take care of me as her man now.

She is also more sexually attracted to me than before. I no longer have to ask for sex again!

She no longer feels the need to go to another country to “find herself”. That was her own words.

She now knows that I´m becoming a better person as a result of the breakup.

Thank you, Dan and the modern man. Your work is truly stellar. Johan”

“I just want to say that I got the Ex back super system back in November when my wife filed for divorce and I’m happy to say that she canceled the divorce process last week and our relationship is better then ever. Thank you Dan. Cesar”

“I went through Get Your Ex Back programme, completed all the exercises.

I just wanted to say a huge thank you, because the videos got me through the days after the break up.

In addition, I did not expect in my wildest dreams for it to work as well as it did.

Within 3 weeks of using the programme, I arranged a meet-up and got my ex back at first meeting.

She was saying things like “I can’t explain it but I’m suddenly so attracted to you again” and “You’re such a catch, I’m so stupid for letting you go”.

She broke up with her rebound in front of me by text and we’re back together.

On top of all that, people are treating me different.

I feel so confident and suddenly women are approaching me! It’s all down to your advice and videos. They really do work and I’m eternally grateful.

Best wishes, One Happy Customer”

“Hi Dan, Just wanted to say THANK YOU. My girlfriend and I broke up 6 months ago.

I was devastated because she was truly the love of my life.

I watched countless of “get your ex back” videos and yours resonated the most by far.

I decided to give your “Get you ex back super system” a try. I was apprehensive at first, but it all made sense. Long story short, I applied your steps to the T and was able to get my ex back within two months.

We are still together and the relationship is 10 times better than it used to be.

I’m even getting ready to propose to her and pretty damn sure she will say yes!

I never thought an online program like this would work. But your program assisted me in one of the saddest and most difficult moments of my life. I am forever thankful.

If you are ever in Charlotte NC, let me know, I owe you a lifetime of free beers! Regards, Jason”

“I just want to thank you Dan for being awesome at what you do!

I bought at least 5 of your programs, and they help me save my marriage, after my wife I told me she loved me but wasn’t in love with me (because I had threatened to divorce her about 12 times because I wasn’t happy, among other things), that she would be ok with or without me in her life, and that she didn’t think she could love me like she used to! But now, her love is back, and our relationship is better than ever! Thank you! TJC”

“Sup Dan

i worked thro the system and managed to get my ex back without really completing the system. it worked a bit too well XD. this isnt really a question for you i jus wanna say ur awesome and ur products work like magic. before i got ur products i was good with girls, but now damn im someone else. i got my ex back also to be as good of a gf as she was before. just wanna say thankyou and keep it up. MK”

“Hey Dan

You’re brilliant!!! I watched get your ex back super system and it really worked and my ex fiance begged me to take her back when the situation seemed completly impossible ( Full blockout and changed her phone number and moved to another country)!!

I did all the mistakes that turned her off..drunk calls, home visits, gifts and maybe more than 30 mistakes which i didnt realize except after watching your system.

I kept doing these mistakes for over than two month then i [Edited: Removed important technique from the program that customer mentions here]. It was only 12 days from when I used that technique and then she reached out and after 3 days she begged me to take her back. You saved the love of my life!! Yehia”

“Thank you all in the modern team for changing my life and helping me believe in myself again. Me and my ex are back together.

It’s like magic. Everything I say and do just turns her on, I don’t even have to try. Even if I just look at her. I can only imagine how much more powerful I can become if I keep this going.

I’m like the super saiyan god of deep attraction, respect and love.

I love you all! I wake up every morning feeling like a god. T”

“Hello, I just wanted to thank you.

I’ve been back with my wife for nearly a year now.

The wisdom that you provided me is unparralled.

We’re expecting our Second baby after almost a year apart with nearly no hope of reconciliation.

I use all your methods day in day out now, with all work and life. I have also been able to guide close friends and direct them your way. I started with Get Your Ex back super system. It worked! So thank you. Warmest, Michael.”

I was certain at the beginning that there was zero percent probability of us ever getting back together.

You could say that there is no guarantee of anything in life, but I have 100% confidence in this system working for other men if the process is followed through with faithfully.

I would go as far as to say that if it worked for me in my situation, it would work for anyone.

I’m super grateful to you in making this outstanding material available to us and think that you are an awesome guy. I would also highly recommend the Make Her Love you for Life program as well, which I apply the principles from daily, and my marriage and life has never been better. James”

“Dan, you’re an absolute pro and what you reveal to men couldn’t be more right or more powerful. You literally saved my marriage.

I’ll likely never meet you, but arguably you will have changed my life’s path as much as anyone. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

This is the text I just received this morning from my wife (we had been separated 11 months and tried a few times to reconnect before I started listening too and using your techniques) ….

“Dear, you’re my forever and I couldn’t be more happy we’re going to make it. Thank you for not giving up, thank you for changing, thank you for everything that you are. I honestly feel everything has changed and I know we’ll do everything right this time. Have the most amazing day. I can’t wait for you to get home. I Love you so very much”

I cannot thank you enough. Your ex back program and make her love you for life program is pure gold. Thank you! Steve”

“Thank you Dan! You made me see things in a new light. This is all the information I wish I would have been receiving when I was a young, misguided, horny teen. It was just like you said! My ex “baby mama” is feeling love on a level with me that she has not felt before! And my perspective and outlook on my abilities and myself, and women is quickly shifting, and transforming. Thanks again & Take care! Eyal”

“Damn man!! This was the worst possible conditions for a breakup that there could have possibly been.

I had the get your x back super system, loved it so much I decided to broaden my knowledge with the better than a bad boy and the flow and make her love you for life.

I had to buy air pods so I could listen to this constantly.

She left on feb 24 and by April 24 we were completely back better than ever!! We’re still together now.

So after 3 weeks in the beginning of misery then grabbing the system in less than 5 weeks she was mine again.

I can’t thank you enough.

She actually thinks I have a superpower now claiming I am “un-rejectable” haha msn thank you so much.

I fn love you bro!! Tim”

“Bruh… your stuff simply f*cking WORKS!!

About a month ago I thought I lost my girlfriend.

I thought that she fell out of love with me.

I think we hadn’t had sex in like a month or so, but the sex before that was sooo good… It was killing me!

Her lack of interest and distance hit me hard.

I panicked, cried. I talked to her – and she kind of reassured me, but, even tho I was pretty grounded, I just dug myself into a deeper and deeper hole.

Her behaviors got worse. She hit my weakest weak spot, and she tested the hell out of it.

I felt pretty hopeless, but I figured I’ll do whatever it takes. I watched a lot of your free relationship videos until I finally decided to invest into “make her love you for life”.

With your clear, simple, and powerful perspective, I got things back to how they’re supposed to be.

All it took was an hour long date. Even though she made it difficult… She was late. Distant. Barely wanted to interact with me. But BAM! I penetrated right through that sh*t.

I know she was turned on!! Even though she tried to hide it.

YESS! Upward spiral of confidence!

She is totally into me again. It’s an amazing feeling to get that back.

We’ve only been dating for a little over 4 months, but I can’t wait to see what this relationship will be like 1, 5, and 10 years from now!!!!! It’s gonna be so f*cking awesome! And I haven’t even listened to 25% of your program yet…

What you teach works and it was easy to do, so thank you!!! O.S.”

“Hey i just wanted to give you some feed back. My ex left me because she didn’t love me. I watched your get your ex back super system videos and it changed my life.

I got her back in 3 days because I quickly became the man you spoke about and completed the step you mentioned before contacting her. That made all the difference. Our sex is amazing now and she can’t get enough of it. Thanks Dan I’m loving my new life with her, Dave”

“Thank you Dan Bacon and TheModernMan! My whole life I have been believing the wrong myths about relationship and women in general.

I have made huge mistakes on treating my girl who was my childhood sweetheart and also I was an alcohol addicted /low self-esteem/jealous-filled and controlling boyfriend which I thought I was doing the right thing.

I took her for granted and she was about to leave me or at least taking a break.

After I went through your ex back program and changed my approach, guess what, my girl gave me a second chance surprisingly. I kept on pushing her away from me but you taught me how to pull her back. Thanks Sir! K”

“Hi Dan

I got your ex back program last week, secured a meet up with her and then did that last night.

She was very hesitant at first but I persisted as you mentioned in the program and she agreed.

We met up for what was supposed to be a quick coffee and that turned into her having feelings for me again and getting worried about it, so I suggested we got for a walk and while walking I suggested we go hang out at my place and she said yes.

To cut a long story short we ended up having sex and she said that she didnt know why but she felt differently and wanted to give us another chance!!!!

I knew at that moment that my decision to get your system was by far the best investment I have ever made in myself.

Her and I are taking things slow now but it looks good because she came over to my place yesterday and stayed the night so I am confident that I can continue to spark her feelings more. We even talked about going away for a weekend soon so it is looking very positive.

I can’t thank you enough Dan. You are saving a lot of men from a lot of messed up pain and problems.

I will certainly recommend you to friends if they go through a break up! Regards, Paul”

“I was literally blown away by “Get Your Ex Back Super System”! The information on relationships is fantastic and for the first time I saw my mistakes in such a clear way. It completely opened my mind as to what was killing my girlfriend’s attraction for me while I had been trying to get her back.

She was saying that her feelings were dead and I should just move on and find someone new. I made some quick changes based on what Dan said and she immediately began to react differently and open up to seeing me. That was absolutely amazing! I couldn’t believe it man.

Then I got her feeling so attracted when we met up that we kissed and had sex in such a passionate way. So thank you to Dan and The Modern Man. You guys saved me from losing my girlfriend. PK”

“This email is basically just to say a massive thank you to Dan and all the team at the modern man.

I messed up big time with my girlfriend of 14 months at the start of the year and she broke up with me. I was devastated and thought I’d lost her for good. I purchased get your ex back super system and watched Dan’s YOUTUBE videos over and over because I was determined to get her back.

I also purchased Alpha male power and better than a bad boy. These programs rebuilt my confidence and self belief and gave me the push to go after her and win her back. It took me 2 months of persistence and several knock backs to eventually get her to agree to meet me for a coffee.

She was ice cold at the meet up and gave me no hope of getting back together what so ever. But I remained calm and confident through out and used Dan’s attraction techniques, and 20 minutes after getting home I received a text from her telling me she still had some feelings for me.

I quickly arranged another meet up with her which went well, and today we met up again and ended up in bed together at my house. We’ve spoke about where things went wrong and what needs to change, but we’ve reconciled things and we’re back. I’m not losing her again because she means the world to me.

I’m 40 in June and we had a holiday to Las Vegas booked to celebrate the milestone before we broke up – which is now back on as well.

Dan, if you ever visit Scotland on holiday, send me an email and I will have a bottle of the finest malt whisky for you as a thank you for your excellent advice. Ryan”

“Hey Dan!

I’ll just like to share with you my success story.

I bought your ex back program and it has helped me win back my ex (now girlfriend again).

The lessons you taught has truly helped me gain perspective on how to carry myself not only as a person, but also as a MAN.

I decided to take the slow route, to gain back trust from my girl using all the methods you’ve recommended and it so works! The best part? I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing any aspect of myself! I’m being true to who I am.

It was definitely a conscious decision to behave a certain way, but as time goes along, I realised it’s slowly become a part of me.

Still, quite awhile before I reach the mastery levels of my ability to make a woman feel attracted, but I know I will eventually. Thanks a lot Dan! And to anyone who is second guessing themselves if they should invest in any of the programs here, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE because this stuff works. Aaron”

“Hi from Norway. Just want to say, thanks. You have changed my life. I am so happy. 46 years..should have known all this before. But anyway my ex is back. Thanks. I love your programs. Vince”

“Dan, after 4 long months I am happy to say I got my wife back!!! I got your system in November and started applying what you teach and worked just like you said it would.

One bit of advice I have for guys out there is please please focus on making your women feel a renewed sense of attraction and respect and forget about what she may be saying or doing to discourage you. Thank you Dan! Walter”

“Hi Dan,

My GF broke up with me on December 14th, and lets just say I cried and begged for about 2 weeks then realized it wasn’t going to do anything to get her back.

So I found your series and worked on me and forced myself to interact with women. It wasn’t long before I got numbers, built rapport, and moved forward to kissing and heavy petting, however no sex.

I cut off communication for 3 weeks with the EX, and then I was on a job interview in NYC about 3 weeks ago and posted on my Facebook I was at a Bar, my ex whom also lives in NYC was coincidentally 2 blocks away and we meet up…

Long story short, were back together, at one point she asked me if use getting back together was a good idea and if it was a good thing….I just laughed at her and said it was the best thing for us, cause the things you told me I lack (confidence, emotional understanding of women and body language) I’ve fixed and women now love me (showed her pictures from my phone) ….man…Dan….she flipped so quickly it wasn’t even funny…I told her she needs to behave and do things I like or I’ll just walk away and go to one of the other girls…I told her if she does things I like I’ll give her a reward, She was like really….I tease her with a reward and then giving her rewards, keeping her on her toes. When she does things I don’t like she goes to time-out, but only for 5 seconds, then I tell her to give me a hug and say she’s sorry….

I’ve turned the tides in the relationship, and now she always messaging me, chasing me….I tell her every time I talk to her, ” Ok talk to you in a week, I’m busy the next few days” 12 to 18 hours later she messages me wondering what I’m up too…

She says I’m different and understanding….

Right now I tell her I’m Version 2.0 with firmware 3.0 coning out soon, you better figure me out quick or you’ll be learning how to figure me out all over again…she’s like are you for real…I’m like stop being so serious, she’s like your mean…I’m like ya so??? O.o …she is pushed in the feminine every time….

Your material is spot on, I keep her in the feminine , but sometimes show my feminine then go right back to be a dominant male and she loves it…

Again thanks for your content, I’ll keep listening to it over and over again. Maybe sometime when I’m in Melbourne or your in the States, we can meet up!!! Trevor.”

“Dear Dan, I watched your ex back program regularly after my breakup in July. I was heartbroken and desperate.

Since then I worked on your advice and surprisingly, in August she returned in my life. Our bonding is now stronger than ever. Everything has worked out and going smoothly. Thank you so much! Sam”

“I just want to thank Dan for saving my relationship!! She was engaged to another man with a date set for next month and I got her back! Wow. Keenan”

“Hi I hope this message gets over to you. I bought the system. You saved 6 lives literally. My family was about to be broken up because my wife wanted to leave me.

Not even a social science psychologist at $193 dollars an hour, $25,000 on lawyer fees, couples retreats and many others got even close to your results. You got a gift. Thanks bro thanks I got my family back. Jerry”

“I wanted to say thanks. Found your advice to be very different from most other online searches.

No contact seems cruel and disrespectful to me so I put on my bigly pants and called her, after making the changes you recommend in your program Get Your Ex Back Super System. I made her laugh and listened to her…apologized for how I must have made her feel unloved and under appreciated too.

We had a great conversation and I’m confident the relationship is saved from your advice because we’ve since met up and kissed and she says she is open to getting back together, but taking things slowly. She wants to catch up again in a couple of days, so it’s all looking good.

I’d love to share more but wanted to take just a minute and say thank you for helping to save my relationship. It means the world to me. Thanks again, Rob”

“I have gone through the get your ex back material and it is simply amazing.

You should be given a medal for allowing men to be men in a relationship. I had no idea that I was not supposed to act the way that I was acting in response to her behavior. I have started making changes and she is attracted to me again. We’re back on! She was over at my place last night. Thank you! Mike”

“Hi Dan, Thank you for the most interesting emotional and sexual weekend I’ve ever had, at the age of 48 with my ex girlfriend who is 32.

Backstory: She broke up with me coldly over the phone at 5am last Tuesday, which I took very badly.

I spent the day in a depressed mess, literally didn’t see the point of being alive (and I have never been the kind of person to get depressed or even vaguely contemplate suicide).

Anyway, halfway through that day I had written all sorts of things to change her mind, remind her of what we’d shared, blah blah blah, – thankfully I didn’t send any of them. Just wrote and wrote and agonized. Somewhere along the line I clicked this wasn’t going to work. That it was going to drive her even further and harder away from me.

So I started looking up “how to get your ex back”. And found a host of stuff – including your material. The first thing I read was written by a woman and included things like: Write her a letter, telling her how you feel; Acknowledge your faults and apologize; Buy her flowers – after throwing up in my mouth a bit, I moved on to advice closer to yours.

When I first saw no contact advice, I could see the logic, but when I saw your material and what you have to say about no contact, the penny dropped.

I then decided to get your program and simply arm myself for success.

Based on your advice, the first (and hardest) thing I did was to accept the breakup.

I sent her a text apologizing for being such a pussy about things, and said that if she wanted to break up, we should break up and that there was no point holding on to something she didn’t think was working – that it’d still be nice to see her for dinner at the weekend, to give her the gift I’d bought her daughter and get my spare key back, followed by a wink emoji.

She thanked me and said it would be nice to have dinner, that she still loved and cared about me, and that I could decide if I wanted to remain friends or not.

I didn’t reply and didn’t contact her again, until she let me know on the morning of our dinner that she’d said a travel prayer for my daughter and her mom who were driving back home that day, and so I turned it into a bit of fun, and that conversation ended with her sending a LOL emoji.

That evening, by the time I walked into her apartment to pick her up for dinner (and share a glass of wine at her invitation), she was already flirting with me.

I just kept it light and distant and let her flirt.

Then I moved to pick her up off the counter to start heading out, and the intimacy exploded – we ended up kissing passionately for a bit, and then I broke it off and said, come let’s go to dinner. Which we did.

The rest of the evening was super-flirtatious and fun, and we ended up having mind-blowing sex that evening back at her place.

Long story short she ended up coming to my place the next day (after morning sex), and the whole weekend was just a glorious sex-fest, with many deep and meaningful conversations, lots of laughter and flirting, no stress, just pure enjoyment of each other.

To be this attractive to a woman you really love and like, after she was as cold as ice, is a life-changing experience.

She just couldn’t help herself!

And the change in me was so simple to effect.

I went from being a depressed mess of an emotionally needy wuss, to being upbeat, fine, light and humorous – and emotionally bigger than her – a man – within a 48-hour period (including the watching of your program).

And the change was so obvious to her. And extremely attractive.

She told me at one point – lying in bed together that my face looked different (before she knew what I’d been through that week), to which I replied ”I’m not surprised”, implying that something had happened.

Later the next day I told her what I’d been through, told her what I’d learnt about myself, and how I’d helped screw things up, and jokingly apologized for forcing her to have a lesbian relationship with me, and she looked at me with glowing eyes and said “You hit the nail on the head” and said how much she respected me for being able to effect that change and basically reverse our interaction.

(At another point she playfully punched me for not leaning in for a kiss, when I usually would have.)

So in a nutshell, I have gotten her back and I couldn’t be happier. Thank you! Amar”

She loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind.

Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now. Cameron”

“Hey Dan, Just want to let you know that your approach is gold.

My x friend-zoned me about a month back because I was getting clingy and jealous.

She said she was cool with hooking up every once in a while but she didn’t want the relationship.

So I used your attraction/respect building approach and we hung out this weekend. We hooked up and I spent the night at her place.

She said she feels like I am a totally different man now and wishes I was like this before. She also said that she is now open to getting back together. I am going to continue using your tactics to completely secure the relationship. Thanks! J”

“Hi Dan, bought my first program from you early in the year. And have almost all of them. Live in Norway.

But can not thank you enough. Become 47 next year but you’ve changed my life completely and are forever grateful. Have my girlfriend back, and lots of ladies who likes me all around me all the time, and the job has changed for me because of you. Continue the good work you do. You are truly changing lives out here.

By the way, my son is 16 years old and very unsure. Must take him through this.

Hope sometime there will be such programs that can help girls also become alpha/beta girls, and more feminine girls. Some strong girl that can start that. Thank you very much. Best regards Ed”

“Hi Dan

I want to take this opportunity to thank you for saving my marriage. It was dead in the water and my wife had already began going on dates with a new guy that she knows from work. But I put your advice into action from the Get Your Ex Back system and boy did it work.

My wife came crawling back to me, crying and apologizing. I am now in the position of power in the relationship and we are more in love than ever before. Your tips on sex where a huge eye opener for me as well. I would rarely get her to orgasm before but now it is happening almost every time we have sex.

You are doing great things for the men of this world Dan and you deserve a lot of credit. Had I known what your program would do for me I would have happily paid double the price.

I’ll be a loyal fan of yours for life. Best regards Bryon”

“Hey Dan,

I have been working on everything you have taught me and I think its finally starting to come together.

I have visited my ex a couple times now and she seems so in love again. She now compliments me about how much more masculine I am and treats me so much better. I am so happy, thank you. We are better than ever and I feel like (with your help) I’m learning to keep the dominant role and stay in control of my emotions.

Now that I am more aware my role in the relationship we have a deeper connection and are on the way to an Amazing relationship. Alex”

“Hi Dan, I purchased your program Get My Ex Back Super System for $297.00.

I started not with the first video, but rather with the video about how to contact your ex. Trying to take a short cut.

Downloaded all the texts what you should say or text when you contact your ex to set up one “last” catch up meeting. And I loved the whole structure and approach ( I am a sales guy, who does not have any problems with getting beautiful women). But then I said to myself let’s check out everything from the start.

So I watched the first two videos about why women leave you and how to fix and improve yourself. This took almost 5 hours!!! But I took a look of notes in form of screen shots and replayed many sections.

So we are talking more about 10 hours just for the first two videos. All the sales stuff how to contact her became irrelevant to me, because it was clear to me how much I have screwed up with my wife and even more importantly how can I fix things with her by improving myself.

I wrote my Letter of Pain (part of the program) based on your template (almost copied it!) and my emotional state went from devastated and being an emotional wrack to let’s do it, let’s get her back.

That was the beginning of a very quick recovery process which did way more for me than me going to a therapist!

With these two videos I found my inner peace and my emotional center once again. Then the events with my wife turned from horrible to good to fantastic!

My wife left me two month before, raged a nuclear war on me in the family court system, with a no contact order and even before that a restraining order and filed for divorce. So I did not even had a legal chance of contacting her unless I wanted to end up in jail.

My only way was to bump into her by coincidence twice or three times a week or so. Basically from an outsider perspective my case was hopeless!!! All my friends were telling me to move on.

I applied everything from the first two videos only in my limited interactions with my wife and it took me from the day I bought the program, 6/22 until 7/3 to finally succeed. In less than two weeks I was able to turn the worst nightmare in life around to a much better relationship than ever before.

I changed the approach a little bit because of my particular difficult circumstances, but the Letter of Pain was my winner among a few other things.

Once back with my wife on July 3 I showed her the letter and she loved it!

Yesterday July 8 she dropped everything in the family court, all the divorce actions were retracted by her, the lawyers were fired and we are living back together since July 3.

My wife is a highly educated and intelligent career woman and looks beautiful with plenty of options to get men.

So you can’t just fool her.

What made all the difference in the world were three things:

1. Understanding/Acknowledging my faults in detail and improve quickly
2. Get back to an emotional attractive state (I was able to do this in a week)
3. NEVER GIVE UP!!! (Don’t even think about to listen your friends: move on, time will heal all wounds, there more girls, give her time…)

I really suffered in the 2.5 month my wife was gone. This was not a joke at all. And I consider myself an Alpha guy. The $297.00 was nothing. Our lawyers charged that for 45 minutes.

But your advice and your thoughts and insights were everything! Screw my friends in this regard. But Dan was the one who really made a difference.

I became for $297 and 10 hours of watching the first two videos a much better man. And that was the important part for my wife.

What I am trying to say I never even needed to apply all the contact her techniques from video 5. Can I recommend the program? Hey is the pope catholic? Hell, YES!!! Thank you, Dan! Roman”

“This might sound like a bit of a cliche, but after making just about every mistake under the sun (such as grovelling, getting angry, making ultimatums) and following the advice of some other programs, I applied the principles of your ex-back system exactly as specified and have been back with my wife for quite a while now after a year of separation.

“Good morning Dan, and thanks for all you do.

I’m writing to inform you that I am back again with my girlfriend. We broke up seven months ago. I thought I had no chance anymore because of how long we had been apart, but I tried the steps in your program, and it actually worked.

I never for once thought it would be possible because she previously confessed we would never be able to talk together again. I wouldn’t know that she was anticipating to hear my voice if I never come across your blog, and then tried your program. I would have just stayed in no contact like so many people say to do, and then lost her.

Your program gave me the confidence and insight I needed to just man up and contact her after planting a seed of doubt in her mind as you explain in the program. It worked!!! So thank you Dan. I appreciate all you do. You saved me from losing the love of my life, and I will always be grateful for that. Abdullahi”

“Your products are worth every penny you charge. My experience with the ex back supper system has changed my life. Though my ex initially expressed no interest on reconciliation, she opened up to it very quickly when I used your method. I then got her back, but eventually changed my mind and left her.

Your products have allowed me to “man up” on so many levels. They have allowed me to genuinely move on and experience share love moments with many different women since the break up. I appreciate your eye opening books and relationship advice, it is truly priceless as I now, with confidence can attract almost any woman I talk to.

I cannot believe how effective your advice is. Best of all, they reciprocate and share themselves with me and this is the most free I’ve felt my whole adult life. I may have left my wife of 17 years behind, but I’m experiencing a whole new life that I love now. Thank you for your help, stay strong. Cheers, Kyle”

“Your program [Get Your Ex Back Super System] is such a gem of knowledge.

I was blown away at how many mistakes I was making in the relationship and how they basically all applied to me even though I am a woman. What I found out from your program was the catalyst to push me to give it another chance with my ex girlfriend and it worked.

I was about to give up before I stumbled across your youtube videos, but I gave it a chance and we’re seeing each other again. So from me, thank you. Thank you so much. G”

“I got my ex girl back and I’m a woman. I just wanted to let you know that because I know you only advertise your products for men, but it worked for me too. Lots of love, Penny!”

“After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help.

I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online like no contact, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before.

I’ve become a better man than I was before which has not only helped my marriage, but my standing at work where I have recently been promoted. I can’t thank Dan and his team enough for what they do. Highly recommended! Dave”

“Because of Dan Bacon’s get your ex back super system, My ex wife actually set up a meet up sort of anyways.

I’ll give a little back story here…

I made every mistake imaginable during our divorce. So much that at a point I was worse than where I was when she filed for divorce. I ended up on drugs and really felt sorry for myself for awhile.

Then after going to jail for violation of a restraining order with her somehow in that time of no contact and being in jail I decided to change myself. Not to get her back but just for me. To be a better person more loving and compassionate and less like the person I used to be that used people for what he wanted.

After jail the no contact order was still in effect. I worked on myself still battled with drugs for a little while but soon came to the conclusion that’s not where I wanted my life to be.

Now a little less than a year of being out of jail came a circumstance where her and I had to do a drop off and pick up face to face. I came and got our son and took him back. When I got him it was very much just stay outside I’ll bring him to you and I didn’t expect anything more than that and was just happy to see my son for the weekend and spend time with him. However the interesting part was the drop off.

I in no way shape or form think this was an accident. I got there asked if I could smoke outside cause I was currently borrowing a car while mine was in the shop and the owner is an anti smoker. She offered for me to come in and I accepted. She then offered me a drink so I had a beer. She poured hers in a fancy glass I took mine straight from the can like a real man, lol.. Something about that actually did feel more masculine to me so I went with it.

Anyways got a tour of the house and while I was there she texted a friend. Her friend blocked me in the driveway. Now I’m stuck here but had no idea at the time. Everyone began to chit chat and have a good time but I realized I said I wouldn’t keep the car for long. Realizing I’d been there a half hour longer than I expected I just simply said I needed to head out.

Then her friend who was a married woman this is how I know it wasn’t an accident, said oh I think we blocked you in when we got here.

So as not to ruin the moment or pressure them into not visiting each other I said oh no worries I can wait. I end up there a half hour more before they leave. I felt like I could’ve stayed longer but didn’t push it instead I went with the I’m busy got stuff to do routine and headed on my way.

During our visit I was asked if we could be Facebook friends again and if everything between us was straight. I said yes that I didn’t hold any anger towards her so if she wanted to be Facebook friends that was fine with me.

Now this is the same woman who told me no when I asked her the exact same way for the exact same reason.

Well now I’m at a point where every tactic I tried years ago only to fail she’s now trying on me. Offering a drink with her was my idea a couple years back, offering facebook friends a couple years ago, all things I did a couple years back.

She is open to me again and wants to see me. She seems drawn to me again. I have re-attracted her, despite it all. Now it’s just a matter of time and patience.

Even in the worst of my struggle with drugs I hoped her and I could at least be good friends again.

Now that she is actively trying to see me again, my second chance is at my feet and because of God and this program I feel like I really do have a second chance now.

Thank you guys very much you put together an awesome program that actually let me learn a lot about women and even more about myself and who I am as a man. Anonymous”

“Hi Dan

I want to check in here and tell you that I got my ex girlfriend back.

I was very skeptical coming into this because everyone was promising to help but I knew in my heart and mind that you were the guy to trust. I’m extremely grateful to have chosen the right method to use but nothing can describe how happy I am to have my girlfriend back.

I won’t go into what I did to get her back because I don’t want to spill the beans on your system but the best part about it is that she apologized to me for breaking up with me and basically fell right back into my arms even though for months prior she was telling me to get lost. She wanted nothing to do with me at all and then changed because of one of the simple methods you advise to use. I didn’t think it would work to be honest but it changed her almost overnight.

So thank you. I am over the moon right now. My girlfriend is sleeping over at my place tonight and all is back to normal in my life. Sincerely, Evan”

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