Success with women is within your reach

At The Modern Man, we provide you with the knowledge and skills required to achieve the type of success that YOU want with women.

Not every guy wants to achieve the same thing. Some guys want to:

  • Have sex and relationships with many women throughout life.
  • Marry an amazing woman as soon as possible and then settle down for life.
  • Turn a female friend into a girlfriend and enjoy a committed relationship with her.
  • Get the spark back in a dying relationship or marriage.
  • Get an ex-girlfriend or wife back after a break up, separation or divorce.

The proven advice that we provide in our programs allows you to get results with women now, not next year. Our techniques are easy to use (even for beginners) and are based on being a naturally attractive man.

Below you will see just SOME of the 1,000s of success stories we’ve received since starting The Modern Man. Most customers have posted up their success story in a comment under one of the 100s articles across the site, so not all success stories are included on this page.

Check out the comments section at the bottom of this page for 100+ success stories posted up by happy customers.

Dan BaconFounder, The Modern Man

Recent Success Stories


"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio


"After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help. I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before. I've become a better man than I was before which has not only helped my marriage, but my standing at work where I have recently been promoted. I can't thank Dan and his team enough." Dave


"Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I've ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don't hate the playa! Hahaaa..." Tyrone


"Initially I was a little put off by your prices, but I decided to give it a go anyway since you guys offered a guarantee. To say that I am happy with my purchase is an understatement. I turned my female friend of 3 years into my girlfriend with a simple conversation and a couple of your attraction techniques. Amazing!" Richard


"I wasted years trying to get the answers for free online until I finally decided to bite the bullet and pay to learn from the experts. I got your Dating Power program and have been having endless sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends. I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me!" Josh


"I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book. I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested. I'm on fire!" Frankie


"My parents were quite worried that I still didn't have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try. I experienced more success with girls in three months that I've had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren...!" Wei


"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron


"I was surprised at how quickly I got results because I was always the typical nice guy who girls saw only as the friend. This has been the most exciting year of my life. There's no better feeling than to have control over this area of one's life." Ajay


"Any guy who isn't learning from The Modern Man is missing out big time. I've been getting laid like crazy's funny how easy it is once you get it." Ricky


"Best pick up advice online. TMM are the real deal. Got several women on the go now." Andy


"I've had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your techniques are gold and have worked every time I've used them. I'll be getting more of your programs soon to boost my game further." Jason

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I finished reading "The Flow" 2 days after I had purchased it. On the third day, I went out into the town to put what I learned in action. It works so well! I talked to two girls, and they both wanted me! What I attempted was wayyy out of my comfort zone, and not what I usually would do, but I put that passed me and just gave it a go. Worked like a charm. The first girl I talked to was definitely interested, so much so that I felt taking her home was absolutely possible, but after talking for a little I decided i didn't want her. YES, I chose. Then moved onto the next girl, who was also much more beautiful. Put the techniques I read about in the book to use, and now she is my girlfriend. It was literally so easy after you know the right things to do. Before this book I would have NEVER talked to her. Before this book I wouldn't have even tried because I mean seriously, she seemed way out of my league. Buy this book. It is absolutely worth it.

"Hey Dan!
At first I was unsure about learning from The Modern Man. Eventually, after a failed relationship (in which I felt “whipped”) and continuous failure with women, my frustration made me realize that I needed a little help. I decided to take a leap of faith and learn from the guys at The Modern Man. Now, I can definitely say that learning from you guys was one of the best decisions I have ever made.
The programs you guys provide are extremely detailed yet very easy for men to relate to and understand. The material is geared towards women, but becoming good with women is only one of the benefits one gains from learning from these guys. Better Than a Bad Boy, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, and of course The Flow have improved all areas of my life, including my work, happiness, relationships, and of course my ability with women.
After learning from Dan, Ben and Stu a few months ago I feel dripping with confidence! I can chat and attract any woman I meet, my occasional depression has been replaced by an excitement for life, and all my social anxiety has disappeared. People can see my masculinity and confidence, and treat me better. I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date.
My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me. I could write way more about how my life has turned around, but it would get too long! Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu!"

"I purchased Flow and also listened to many free videos. I was recently divorced and while looking forward to new relationship, I did not want to make any mistakes (or make only few mistakes) this time. Again, was not sure what mistakes I might have made first time around. ‘The flow’ helped me see my past mistakes (also what I did right) and why I screwed up. Long story short, I have a shortlist of some 8-10 beautiful attractive women to choose from at this time and all of them are ‘keen’ on me. Thank you team." N

I have to say, Better than a bad boy has been an awesome experience. Much more than learning how to become attractive to women, this program has taught me how to live out my life in a much effective way. It’s given me insight as to how becoming a strong person can lead to success in life. I used to be a person who gave up easily, can’t control his emotions, and crumble in the face of rejection and tests put up by women. Without you, I probably would probably still have no clue with women. At first, I only wanted to get that one special girl who was a very close friend of mine (whom I met through facebook), but nothing more. After reading the flow and applying the techniques on other women, she began to take notice and asked me out. And during that date, I escalated to kissing then sex. And it’s all because the modern man. Right now, I’m dating casually, and I’m never nervous or afraid of rejection ever again. Again, thanks for everything!" Walter

"Hey Dan! Last night went like this. I met a chick on the street, went back to her hotel for the hot tub, then went back to her room and had sex with her. Went back to the bars the next night and me and my friend pulled two hotties numbers after about 2 hours of conversation and making out with them at the bar. The next morning pulled 3 beautiful 18 year old girls numbers from the restaurant we were eating breakfast at. Just thought I would let you know." DC

"Dan what a journey it’s been! I think I was the first South African to purchase The Flow from you (if you remember, you mentioned that in a comment). Just wanted to let you know that I applied techniques on a girl I had a huge crush on in highschool 10 years ago and was too afraid to talk to; and she is now my girlfriend, because I demonstrated masculinity, alpha and domineering traits, all thanks to your training. Thank you so much! I can’t believe how much difference the mindset of [Edited: Mindset removed. Customer referred to a very important mindset that we teach here] makes! I actually feel like a man now and it feels right, she feels comfortable being in a feminine role. Many thanks Dan!" Matt

"Hey Dan, just wanted to say thanks to you and everyone else at the Modern Man for your email advice and the Flow. The success I have been having with women since using your product has been mind blowing. My confidence is on a new level and I have become the alpha male i always wanted to be despite not thinking I could do so for the longest time. I am dating a girl for the first time in two years and it is going great. just the other night she told me how she loves how I don’t have to try and impress her and just overall enjoys how I treat her (referring to the skills taught in the flow). you guys really know what you are doing, keep up the good work!" Chris

"Hi Dan.
I have been meaning to send you one of my success stories for some time now. There is one in particular that has happened recently that I would like to share with you.
I was at a friends house party and there was a girl(my friends girlfriend’ sister) there that i’ve known for some time. I have been wanting to get with this girl for quite a while, but I never had the foggiest notion on how to approach, what say to her, or have the confidence to (due to my way below average looks, etc). Anyways, had to leave the party early unfortunately, but while I was there I merely used some of the teachings from “mastery methods&mindsets and ultimate guide to conversation”. After applying some of the simple techniques (being real, not being too nice, nervousness, etc), the following day I got a text message from an anonymous number, that eventually turned out to be the girl at the party that i’ve been after all this time. She was asking me out! I couldn’t believe what was happening! I literally thought that I was dreaming. The funny part is that I was simply just being myself! The same friendly guy! I honestly believe that it’s paramount that every decent man out there should know about the modern man. I have truly being struggling in my life. All I needed (which I obviously didn’t know) was a few simple changes and a push in the right direction. I am still taking it one step at a time and these two products alone have opened my eyes in ways I could never have imagined. I can’t wait to get hold of some of the other products and see what else my life has in store for me. I would like to say a monumental thank you to you guys. You have got me out of this dark, lonely hole that i’ve been hiding away in. You have completely turned my life around for the better and not just in regards to relationships with women. Everything from my new job to meeting new people. EVERYTHING! I will never be able to emphasise the impact you have had in my life. So a great big thank you again and I wish only the best for you guys. Sincerely..."

For the longest time, I had gone out with women but was way too nice to them so one after one, they lost interest. I couldn’t figure it out and thought I was doing everything right and was getting very discouraged to the point of almost giving up entirely. However, I just recently bought the Confessions of a Natural series, and it has already helped me immensely. It has only been a month, and I have already found the confidence I have needed for the longest time. Not to mention, I’ve already had sex with four new girls and am seeing one of them regularly, and I now have the ability to pick and choose which girl I want to pursue and date further. Your advice and the personal interviews have completely changed my life for the better. Thank you so much for your help, and I’m eager to see where else it takes me!"

"This is by far the most powerful pick up advice on the web. Guys I suggest you check it out really good stuff in hear I have been using the techniques for a few months now and ladys are acually inviting me to there houses now I finally got the girl I been trying to get to notice me to go out to drinks and later she went home and to the hot tub with me these skills are more than pick up advice they are life communication skills thanks DAN!!!" Brent

"Yesterday i was on the train heading to Edinburgh, and sitting across from a cute woman who i noticed several times was checking me out by giving coy smiles and checking me out in the reflection as we went through a few tunnels. I put aside my nervousness and said internally, right i’m going to attempt to make something out of this no matter what. I followed the example in 21 great ways to get a GF (Public transport. I typed into my phone (Look i know people don’t normally talk to people on trains, but i wanted to say hi, I’m Richie) She was a bit deer in the headlights expression, but she took my phone and typed in (I’m Aileen how far are you heading?) and we started chatting. She was getting off at the next station 10 mins later and i told her it’s been great chatting to you, we should chat again, put your number in and i’ll give you a shout. An omega male was watching us and i could tell he was thinking to himself WTF?. On the way back to Glasgow i sat opposite an attractive blonde girl who i smiled at and started talking to her and got her number too. :D And i was aware of a woman across was watching and listening into the conversation. I am now looking forward to travelling on the train later today because there will be opportunities to talk and get more numbers." Richard

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"Using the advice in these programs, I’ve had plenty of success since I first purchased the flow 2 years ago among other products. Soon there after, I got a job as a bouncer at a college bar. A buddy and I would get into competitions on how many numbers we could get during the night. As of now, I’ve lost count on how many girls I’ve met, dated, and had intimate encounters with (even while I was working mind you). These products are worth the price, and I hope any guy willing to improve their dating life make this investment. I owe a lot to Dan, Ben, and Stu. So stop wasting time and make your lives better!!!" Matt

"Hi Dan,

I started listening to your stuff a couple of years ago. The one thing I knew I had to do was apply what I was hearing.

All I wanted was the ability to get the girl I wanted, not to get all girls. I just practiced flirting with a couple shop staff, and people I “saw” on the street. I was not even trying to get a girl.

One time I went out to a friend’s birthday, it was so boring, I went home early, on the train I sat next to an Indian girl listening to her itouch. I decided to be bold and asked her what type of music she like, then i showed her some music from my itouch.

long story short, we got off the same stop, her phone was dead, but she took my number on her itouch. we started dating, she is 22 i am 32, but she is freak in bed. i dated her for 2 months before i decided i could not see myself with her in the long run. we had break up sex, she still wants sex with me, even though I don’t want it with her.

Basically she is waiting for me to change my mind, as she said to give her a call when I am horny.

Thanks to the teaching i received, i even have girls at work wanting me. I just don’t want to play the field, I just want one girl. But at least I have the tools to get her when I see her.

Thanks Dan." Tyrone

"I could actually see that something was wrong with my approach to women, but I could not figure it out. My friends had it all and they were not trying hard. I was a nice guy and I thought if I was nice I will get them (woman), but no I did not get anything. The more assertive and masculine I have become the more I get what I want. I have woman calling me now and it feels good and I choose who do I want to be with." BK

"I purchased the flow 4 years ago when I was very young… I remember someone saying “That’s a lot of money for an E-Book!” Not at all. Possibly the best investment of my life. Not only did it improve my success with women but it also improved my success in life just from gaining that extra confidence. I am now in my second year training to be a doctor after showing my confidence and nailing interviews, I’ve had some great girlfriends over the last few years and I’m only single when I want to be. Good work Dan and all the best!" Jamie

"Hey dan all thanks to the flow and better than a bad boy. I managed to get a genuine babes number on the plane. Even though my openin line was do u have any panadol i never cracked under pressure when she was talking to me and stayed calm the whole time. She preety much talked my ear off the whole flight and i did preety much nothing i just listened and added in a few facial expressions. after a while i started acting bored and that made her work even harder to get my attention. Thanks dan and the modern man for everything.and now we are catching up for dancing on sunday." Jesse

"Dan, I just got to say yall are brilliant and thank you for sharing your secrets. I been reading “the flow” quit a bit haha and listening other programs too. ^_^ It’s amazing how all things work haha. I was no good with the ladies(most was I cared to much what everybody thought of me but really it doesn’t matter,cared to much how I look in public and had lil confidences) haha Now I see the big picture. I was at a party with some mates and I saw my ex girlfriend there. I quickly started using the techniques from “the flow” and other programs ( using the three L’s technique, flirting, starting conversation, good mindsets and etc) Less than a hour, we started to make-out and had a lot of fun together! It was a awesome night! I’m still working my way up to become a natural like you. Dan,Ben and Stu, thank you!" Guillermo

"Thank you modern man, at age 21 my virginity is no longer an issue and your program has helped me develop a natural flow with women so I have had plenty of sex lately. learning about confidence has made a difference. Recently one of the girls I am dating offered to take me out for lunch and pay for both of us. Obviously, attracting women is no longer an issue for me." Thato

"Hey Dan!

Alright your program can work miracles! For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me. I was devastated and even more so as I went through you program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.

I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years. Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls. I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy. I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number! She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt in that I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that.

You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.

Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life." Rudy

"The products at The Modern Man are the REAL deal and have changed the game dramatically for me! Thanks to Dan and the techniques in the Flow and Dating Power, my results with women are off the charts! I never had serious girl problems but I knew there were definitely gaps in my “game” where I could improve. Implenting the formula from the Flow and now understanding HOW women enjoy being talked to, I find myself being a much better gentleman and overall person. Major props to Dan and the team at The Modern Man for changing my life." Lavon

"Hey Dan!

I’ll just like to share with you my success story.

I bought both “The Flow” and “Better than a Bad Boy”, and it has helped me win back my ex (now girlfriend again).

The lessons you taught has truly helped me gain perspective on how to carry myself not only as a person, but also as a MAN.

I decided to take the slow route, to gain back trust from my girl using all the methods you’ve recommended and it so works! The best part? I don’t feel like I’m sacrificing any aspect of myself! I’m being true to who I am and while a [Edited by Dan. Customer revealed critical technique that we teach. Have to keep it a secret for our customers only].

It was definitely a conscious decision to behave a certain way, but as time goes along, I realised it’s slowly become a part of me.

Still, quite awhile before I reach the mastery levels, but I know I will eventually. Thanks a lot Dan! And to anyone who is second guessing themselves if they should invest in any of the programs here, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE." Aaron

"Hi Dan

I wanted to share my experience with you guys so far.

I found Modern Man last summer when I was driving up to a coffee shop while watching a beautiful girl getting out of her car. She saw me checking her out and I parked and got in line inside. She was directly in front of me and started giving me all the signs to start interacting with her. I didn’t know what to say, or even continue a conversation. I froze, said hi and smiled and left feeling frustrated. I went home that day and found The Modern Man. It started with The Flow, and now I own all your products.

I don’t want to sit here and say how immediately I was getting laid to try and make myself look good. I really needed a lot of work. So I took it one step at a time. Firstly I new that I had a SOLID foundation of being a great person. I treat people well and am a great guy. Secondly, I needed better communication skills. I based a lot of this on your TI technique. I really began improving interactions not with just women, but with everyone. I found that I’m good at this. It came fairly naturally and quickly. So I built on these “new found” communication skills and began interacting with new people everywhere. Soon I was much more comfortable in my own skin because everyone I have found so far is open to friendly conversation.

I began to realize, women are easier to approach. I am now getting more phone numbers easily. More women are involved in my life, which means more opportunities. I am now in control of who I like and decide to move forward with intimately. My desperation has depleted dramatically and my standards are continuously rising. My life and confidence (or ability to be myself around others) has increased exponentially in the last 10 months and funny enough I appreciate women a lot more. I foresee continued growth as I seek a level of comfort that you guys at the Modern Man are able to enjoy.

I was a little intimidated at first because I knew that I would eventually have to interact with beautiful women. Now, it seems I just be myself, talk with everyone, and women tend to seek out my attention. More importantly, I’m aware of it now. It may not have been the fastest method, but it works for me and I’m comfortable doing it.

I still have goals to reach and skills to refine, but it would not have been for all your invaluable advice and knowledge. Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! I’m so grateful." Dave

“It’s painful to admit, but I now acknowledge that I’ve wasted a good 15 years of my life doing the wrong things. I am so glad to have found this material. I’ve got a date lined up with a pretty girl this coming week.” Michael, Canada

“I am blown away at how quickly I have gotten results. I expected a long road to victory but I used the conversation examples and the attraction methods from the book and it is scary how well it works. No one knows that I am using techniques but they are all asking me why so many women like me all of a sudden. It is incredible. I have been having sex with two women over the past three weeks and now another girl from work is all over me. Absolutely incredible. Your book is best investment I have ever made in myself.” Paul, South Africa

“By the time I got to page 40, I had already broken the ice with a girl I had never even been able to get a smile out of. Reading it was like flicking a switch in my head that changed my mindset straight away. I can only imagine how much easier things are going to get once I start really start to follow the techniques fully.” P, Australia

“Your techniques are fresh, intelligent, sincere and written in a easy to understand casual way - real life. Your 3 second look up and down followed by "Your pretty and I like your style" comment is great. I'll be using that one tonight at a party I'm attending.” Lee, Canada

“After years of enduring on with the odd bit of luck – I’m now having sex with new women all the time, which is what I want because I think I deserve to have enjoy this before settling into a relationship. The flow ebook was a total bargain and I can’t thank you enough for the clarity of the examples and instructions you provided. Five stars from me.” Brian, USA

“Fantastic! Absolutely eye-opening. Dan – your ability to take the reader through the process of a natural courtship, while making it all so simple is amazing. The results speak for themselves – I can actually walk up to girls now and chat to them confidently. It’s only been a week and a half and I’ve gotten 3 phone numbers...this is awesome.”
Steve, USA

“First of all THANK YOU SO MUCH, Dan!! You have helped me SIGNIFICANTLY with my life when it comes to women! I have been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months, and I used to have this 2 month curse when it came to women. I never really was all that bad with women to begin with, but I had a horrible problem of trying to hard with them (like trying to impress them) and with falling in love with them too quickly. Because of your book, I have learned what I need to change in my life to get the results that I want out of life! Thanks to your book, I have got this girl to go from "let's just be friends" to "when are we gonna hang out again?" if you know what I mean. ;) Anyway, thanks again, Dan! You are a LIFESAVER!” Drew, USA

“Not a month after reading your book, I went out to the bar with some friends. Well, in the past I would have hung out with my friends and thought "If I talk to anyone else aside from my friends, I'm going to get ridiculed" I decided that, no matter how much I might trip over myself and goof things up because I'm not used to going up to strangers and striking up a conversation, I would do it that night, and let me tell you....Its amazing how much different things were just taking some of your tips on just projecting confidence and not slinking away at first sign of resistance. Your book is like my bible now! To this day, being Wednesday, it has been 4 days since I was out with those friends, and I have phoned a couple of the numbers, didn't go fishing for a date, actually never asked for one in the first phone call, and THEY called ME back asking me to meet up for coffee or drinks or whatever. Women are now calling me to set up dates, so I just have one word left for you guys....THANKS!” Jeff, Canada

“Hi Dan - I know you deal with mainly single guys, but here is some encouragement for any married guys who need to sharpen up on their relationship skills. I have read and listened to just about all of your material. While I was already familiar with much of what you teach out of having had to get my own masculine act together the hard way, your work has filled in a number of important gaps for me and has inspired me to be much more proactive in my relationship with my wife. Flirting, being risque, being unpredictable, being sexually adventurous, being the higher status person and so on, has my wife clawing at my clothes and literally begging me into the bedroom every night. I can say from direct experience as a happily married man, that what you and your team teach, has great implications for married men as well as single ones. My wife will be the first person to back me up on this.” Richard, Australia

“Brilliant! I was the typical nice guy who was nervous around women but in a matter of weeks, all of that has changed. I was chatting up a girl at a bar the first time I tried your material and I was shocked at how well it worked. I had her eating out of my hands for 20 minutes and we left the bar together that night. My confidence has gone through the roof and I’ve made a load of new friends as well.” Anande, London

“I wish I ordered your ebook earlier. I just met this lady online and spoke to her over the phone, we hit it off very well and we decided to meet half way from where we live. We live 4 hours apart. It amazing how easy this is when you know what to do.” Anonymous

“Norwegian girls are notorious for playing hard to get and making guys work for months to get anywhere with them. Well that is what I thought prior to using The Flow on them. I got laid the first weekend I went out approaching and got a serious girlfriend the following weekend. You are saving lives Dan Bacon...I was severely depressed and lost about what to do about my situation with women before I stumbled across your website.” Fred, Norway

“After a lifetime of women basically 'ignoring' me and seeing me only as a friend, I read your book and in 3 months I'd already had 8 dates. Its mindblowing how well your stuff works...I ended up choosing one of the best women out of those 8 and she's now my girlfriend. Couldn't have done it without your techniques, so thank you!” Evan, USA

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“I ordered the e-book Flow, figuring I'd blow $100 taking a girl to dinner, so what the hey. You're right on point! I used the conversation examples with a woman from work and we went out that Friday night for drinks. We hooked up on Sunday afternoon for lunch and then had sex that night! Now she is my girlfriend! Getting your book was the best money I’ve ever spent on anything online. I highly recommend this to other guys out there. Trust in Dan, he is the real deal and he gets you results.” Tyrone, USA

"So I bought all of the Modern Man products recently, and I’ve been using them quite a bit and it’s unbelievable how much it has transformed me. Not only can I be myself and not worry about “acceptance,” but I have earned much more respect from guys and girls alike. I’m 19 and look relatively young, but this stuff works like magic. For example, I’m on tour right now with a fellow Australian band called LongReef. After one of the shows, I had a 20 year old girl come up to me and I could tell she was very attracted to me, so I talked to her a bit and then ended up going back to her place and having sex with her. She said that I was “amazing” in bed, and after the first night she literally begged me to have sex with her again. This is only one girl, but I have 5 other girls that are all in love with me and want to go out and have sex with me basically on demand. It’s a great feeling, and I never would have encountered it if it weren’t for you and the Modern Man. Thanks Dan!" Brent

"My names Anthony i’m 19 years old and used to be the shy guy who didn’t have the balls to go up and talk to girls at all and when I do I had no idea how to speak to them. Honestly I had no idea how to speak properly to anyone new I would always try to copy what my friends do and found out the hard way that it was the wrong move. The Modern Man products work not just with making you the man most women desire, but making you the man that everyone wants to be around. I used three products to help transform myself these 3 products are:
The Flow, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation and Better then a bad boy. In this economy the price for the last two are pretty expensive especially at my age but let me tell you it was the best purchase I have ever made and it has made my life more enjoyable. Rather than just hanging out with a girl and hoping she sleeps with me I have the confidence to enjoy every aspect of our time together and escalating to that last step has never been easier. If your looking to get with women, lose that social awkwardness, and get the confidence and knowledge to do what you truly want in life then I recommend you use products from the Modern Man. My only regret is that I didn’t use this sooner thanks Dan Ben and Stu!!"

"Hi Dan, Ben and Stu. Thanks for all the effort you have been done all this years, a true remarkable mark you have made in the history of man kind. Thanks to you I know better about myself and about women and am enjoying my love life! You are a great! Thanks, really thanks!!!" Marco Pereira

"I recently bought the flow after watching and learning about the modern man. I’ve been studying since January and my confidence levels have increased ten fold! I’m a 19 years old disabled man in college and working. The only one in my friend group attracting older women between 21-30 years old! May have a date with a 21 year old friend! You’re the best Dan!" Grant

"Dear Dan,

My success story is that I was miserable at picking up girls and whenever I tried, I always get stuck in the friend zone. That really made me lose it. I found your site in hope of my solution and it really works! I have bought your ” The Flow” product and I improved so much! I couldnt believe it would work for me before I tried it but it did. Eversince I bought “The Flow” I’ve had plenty of girls hitting on me. I always liked this girl in my class and I got her to be my girlfriend. So I am very happy to have found your website." John

"Amazing! This is the only word to describe Alpha Male Power.

I emailed you guys the other day telling you that I still have approach anxiety and hesitate. Well I watched Alpha Male Power and today I stopped women in the street who were walking towards me and things went really well. In the past I feared them walking off and not stopping. I had a couple of other “firsts for me moments” during the day too, but the most important thing is that it felt like nothing mattered to me. Nothing the women or other people thinking of me matters. Other guys in the “pick up” community who I know, who have had more success than me, still self analyse and ask themselves “why did she give me that bad response?”. I got none of that after listening to Alpha Male Power!!! I did start to question myself towards the end of the day saying ” Na, this can’t be… it’s too good to be true” but like Dan says at the very end of the program ” you have to go through the transformation”. What Dan said relaxed me and reassured that it is OK and normal for it to take a few days or weeks for it to become who I am (without having to think about it.) I have bought 6 other programs in the past, but this is the one I believe will change my life. I already feel different, which I never felt after the other programs. I feel that everything I have learned from the other programs will come naturally while I interact with women and live my life, but I can’t praise this program enough for the instant powerful feeling it gave me. Thanks" Kaleb

"Hey Dan!

I’m an older guy (59) who was interested in having a relationship with a much younger chick (20). After I became single again, hitting the social scene was a shock to my system. Lost in a world of older divorcees and totally frustrated with them, I started your video sessions for a few tips to get myself kick-started and figure out how to get what I really wanted.

I found success on an internet site which promotes older men dating younger women. Once I hit my “target audience” it was just a matter of time before I struck gold. Even though the age difference was huge, I found and identified the perfect woman from your guide on types of women. She’s an awesome girlfriend and life is great again!

It’s really an advantage to pick “from the top of the tree” instead of settling for those rotten apples laying on the ground. If you want to meet a quality women, you will have to work on it and have the confidence and skills to attract her to you. Thanks again Dan and the gang!

Cheers!" Don

"Hey Dan thanks for making such helpful product.
I used to think that girls like nice guys and so I was being overly nice and wimpy instead of nice but also strong and confident.
I was awful with girls, I couldn’t even say hi to them I was very afraid of girls, approaching them was my nightmare but now after using the flow, mastery methods and mindsets and dating power and using it in my life I now enjoy my life with many girls in it. Girls like me and I have lost my virginity just because of you, stu and ben’s products."

"Hi Dan,

It finally feels good to be on this side of the line.Earlier I used to read all the comments about guys getting girlfriends when they followed you and I used to think when will I be like them.
I finally got my old friend to date me after such a long time of me just being in the friend-zone.She was a bit reluctant at first but seeing my newly found confidence and alpha-male attitude,she said she too started to see me as someone else.Hope I continue the good run." Arjun

"Hey Dan,

You have truly opened up my eyes and I have seen and experienced what it’s like to cross over from being an absolute fail with women to having most girls want me. I am starting to reach the point now where I can attract most girls that take my fancy. I now have a beautiful girlfriend who constantly tries to impress me and also wants to move in with me. She’s awesome! Your programs helped me to gain so much confidence that I no longer feel nervous around people and I know how to handle them. Most people want to be my friend which is an amazing feeling! Just wanted to say thank you because it has really changed my life." Mark

"Guys, I can’t stress enough how well Modern Man’s products work. I started to use M.M. while I was living in Spain to talk to the beautiful women we all hear about. It turns out, no matter where you are in the world, the M.M. approach works flawlessly. 10/10 Thanks." Taylor

"Hey, what’s up Dan, just wanted to say that I have experienced some tremendous progress after reading the Flow and watching Dating Power. Just about every chic at my work place is into me. I’ve had sex with around one new woman every month and I want to start picking up women in many different places now." Joseph

"Hi Dan,

I first learned about your material in my search for better information regarding women and dating. I went through college with moderate success with women, but I never had the confidence to approach the “hottest” girls who would even give me positive signals that I should approach and escalate with them. At one point, I was hanging out and having dinners with a beautiful girl who would even come by herself to parties at my house and flirt with me the entire night. She gave me every signal that I should pursue her, but I felt like I was being fake and didn’t want to reveal my inner wuss by messing it up with her or getting rejected. I also felt that there was something wrong with how I was going about this because I had fantasies of waking up with her in bed and being my girlfriend, yet I hadn’t even gotten physical. Therefore, I did nothing and this “relationship” fizzled. I later learned that she had had many sexual encounters with other popular guys around my campus. Other experiences like this left me frustrated and somewhat angry.

I read the flow and watched Alpha Male Power about 6 months ago. With the knowledge and empowerment from these products, I began consciously to implement the concepts into my life. I still haven’t fully mastered them, but they have made a huge difference. A few months ago I met a beautiful, smart girl on vacation in Miami. She was showing me positive signals, and I decided to pursue her during the trip using the concepts I learned from your material. The knowledge and inner confidence from your products allowed me to become intimate with her on the trip and because we happen to live close to one another, start a happy, committed relationship. I thank you for helping me reverse the habits I learned from ineffective role models in order to become a more attractive, happy man. Sincerely..." Will

"I just wanted drop by and thank you. I initially bought your products to pick up girls but in return I learned how to be a ‘real’ man. I am now able to handle any stituation and talk to girls with no hesitation. In fact while on holiday I used your technique to meet this beautiful Latin girl and was able to create some great memories with her. Your videos are definitely worth every penny." KG

"Hi Dan - Well first of all THANK YOU!. I never thought I was going to say what im going to say but here it comes! in 4 or 5 years I was not seeing any girl! Today 6 months after buying the “better than bad boy” I have to many Girls! I really dont know what to do, Ive gotten to many Girls and I dont wanna break their heart. Most of them keep calling me daily and I keep ignoring because im not interested anymore. And when I tell them some stupid story of how we are not ment to be together, they keep crying everytime, every single one of them! I have what you Call a Luxury problem these days!. Even 2 of my co-workers who I happend to not be interested in keep asking me out for dates! and believe me im not attractive im just standard! Never been good with girls, But hey what you teached me have made Complete different, even all my friends now come to me for advise or tells me what to Write when they are texting some chicks, even they get laid sometimes because of me! Its really crazy!And if you happend to know how I can turn Down this womens in a Nice way without the tears and all that stuff I would be for ever gratefull! But anyway im happier than I was. Thanks Dan!" Majid

"Hi Dan,
I had to share with everyone that you’re products have significantly changed my life- not just my love life, but my professional one as well. I feel like I have an entirely new outlook on the world, and life is just naturally more enjoyable for me. Incredible things have been happening for me since I’ve started living my life as an alpha male. I got a huge promotion work, I’ve become much more well-respected in my group of friends, and I’ve had amazing success with women. On top of meeting new woman, I’ve also hooked up with a really hot girl who I’ve been friend-zoned with for 7 years! She came right out and said that she has seen a huge change in me. She couldn’t tell me what the change was, only that she has found herself really attracted to me lately. She certainly demonstrated her appreciation for the “new me” the other night… Anyway, for all of that (and for everything to come in the future) I want to sincerely thank you.
One more thing- To anyone thinking of trying out one (or all) of these products, I would absolutely encourage you to do so. You won’t be disappointed!"

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"Hi Dan

I want to take this opportunity to thank you for saving my marriage. It was dead in the water and my wife had already began going on dates with a new guy that she knows from work. But I put your advice into action from the Get Your Ex Back system and boy did it work.

My wife came crawling back to me, crying and apologizing. I am now in the position of power in the relationship and we are more in love than ever before. Your tips on sex where a huge eye opener for me as well. I would rarely get her to orgasm before but now it is happening almost every time we have sex.

You are doing great things for the men of this world Dan and you deserve a lot of credit. Had I known what your program would do for me I would have happily paid double the price.

I’ll be a loyal fan of yours for life. Best regards" Bryon

"Hey Dan,

I have been working on everything you have taught me and I think its finally starting to come together. I have visited my ex a couple times now and she seems so in love again. She now compliments me about how much more masculine I am and treats me so much better. I am so happy ,thank you. We are better than ever and I feel like (with your help) I’m learning to keep the dominant role and stay in control of my emotions. Now that I am more aware my role in the relationship we have a deeper connection and are on the way to an Amazing relationship." Alex

"What’ up Dan,
Long time. Just wanted to pop back in after a long hiatus. I have numerous success stories to share but just want relay one that I believe would highlight some of the key points you always emphasize to guys.
Well I have a new girl in life(still considering whether to make her my steady girlfriend). Just met her a few weeks back and what do you know she is crazy about me- again! Lol. The key message I want to pass over other guys reading this is the importance of being a man on purpose and developing a really strong character devoid of insecurity. Just finished spending the night with her and if I had a dollar for the number of times she asked me what I have done to her to make her so crazy about me. Apparently I told her sometime last week that I would not able to see her for close to week cause I had to focus on some school work, needless to say she told me she found that super attractive especially when she found out that I have a deep love for what I am studying and wish to excel at it globally. Says she never seen a guy with the kind of focus and determination that I do, and that she finds it so attractive for some weird reason she can’t explain it. Also she says I have a very relaxed confidence and absolutely not afraid to be myself and I seem not be intimidated by people even if am not the tallest of guys. She just keeps kissing and grabbing me at every opportunity. Just as you do, I hardly ever call or text her, she does all of that.
Well just thought I should put that out there so other guys would read and be motivated to put your advise into action."

"Hi Dan,

I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend. I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow! I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did. The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew. I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me. However I had to let 3 of them down gently and I’m now in a new relationship with a lovely girl of my choosing. I’m very positive about the future – and still learning. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made. Thanks again!" Sean

"Dan -

I was a neutral guy who lost my ability to create a spark. I have chosen the wrong women most of my life. I now choose quality women because your videos I’ve purchased have taught me how to raise my self esteem. In America, men are taught to be good little boys around women and to not directly show their attraction to women. That’s been my major problem. Better Than A Bad Boy taught me to revive the ability to express my interest in women directly. Last week for the first time since I was a kid, I was my real self around a group of men and women that I’m friends with. I also got a phone number after a 45 minute conversation with an attractive woman. I feel like I am a confident man now that I have the skills. The change also happened in just a couple of months. This stuff really works. Thanks Dan." Clint

"Hey Dan,
 I am just an average guy with average looks. I used to be tired of seeing successful relationships all around me yet I couldn’t get one. “The Flow” helped me a lot in turning me around. in just a week after reading it, I got attracted to a girl and this time made sure she had the same feelings. fast forward six months, I am in a new country with a new life but she is coming here to live just for me." Dipanjan Acharyya

"Hey Dan,
I can’t tell you how much the Flow really helped me reach my self-actualized potential in terms of women. So far I’ve been approaching women at school and I’ve been getting numbers and dates with ease. I’ve already had sex with 13 women in the past year and girls are always wanting to hook me up with their friends because I’m such a “warm and good guy”. I didn’t know that the Flow would also help me get women friends some extremely hot girls. Now, I turn down beautiful women a lot. Before I went through the Flow process when approaching, I would always get caught up in beauty and looks saying “oh she wouldn’t go out with me because she’s too hot for me”. Now, disqualifiers tend to run on the personality side. She can fit my physical criteria but if we aren’t connecting on a deeper level, I don’t feel fulfilled. Now I think I’m about to have my first proper relationship ever at the age of 21 and I feel great! Thanks a lot with helping us out Dan. Your product is worth all the money in the world!"

"I purchased your ‘Flow’ and have found to be immensely beneficial. In less than 3 months I have had multiple dates and quality of women has also improved. It is amazing what a man can say to a woman and instead of being flagged as ‘obscene’, I see them lap it up… without exception. Well, there are few who act awkward but then I would not have wanted to do much with them and above stuff acts as good tests to eliminate those worthy of rejection. Keep up your good work." Lean

"Hey Dan, Thanks for everything that you guys at the Modern Man provide. This stuff is not only great for improving your life with women, it will improve your life in many other areas as well. 
When I bought my first Modern Man product (The Flow), I was frustrated and very skeptical. I actually didn’t apply the information. It wasn’t until after talking to Dan that I saw just what I was about to miss out on. For that, I thank you Dan. When you apply this information, it will change your life in so many ways that these products are worth 100 times what they cost. After properly applying the information and internalizing it, the difference between me and and the man I was is night and day. I am now on a career path and I am excelling in many areas in my life at a faster rate than I have ever progressed. The Flow and Alpha Male Power had such a profound impact on me, that I went on to purchase ALL of the Modern Man products within 3 months of my first purchase(except for Get Your Ex Back). They are all great products and you learn valuable nuggets of gold from each and every one of them. Guys, do yourselves a favor and get these products. The skills you learn are definitely transferable into any area of life you choose." Brandon

"Hey Dan,

First thing the flow wow I loved it I’m in the process of buying more products, when I have money saved. Anyway, I brought the flow about 3 months ago took my time reading it. Two weeks ago a friend and I went out for the first time in ages, I was excited and confident for the first time in years.

We went to a bar that had pool tables so we started playing. About 15 minutes later 4 beautiful girls started playing next to us. There was a bit of looking back for forth until I walked over and said. Ok you guys keep looking at me do yous need some tips? (Mind you I can’t play pool to save my life) they laughed and they were surprised by my approach. One of them said yeah sure why not, We ended up playing pool for most of the night. I even had one of the girls buying me drinks. All I said was alight so argh your shout this round and she did it.
Sure enough my friend and I went back to their place for the night. I’ve learnt in the flow that you just need to treat people as if they are already your friends. I wasn’t even trying to pick up the night it just happened. Thank you sooo much Dan." Tyron

"Hey guys

I bought a few of your programs last year and it has completely changed my life. I have a wonderful fiance now and we’re set to be married in February next year. The relationship is just brilliant and unlike my past relationships that ended up with me being insecure, protective and messing everything up one way or another, this time the love is strong and growing. I have your Better than a bad boy program to thank for that. It helped me discover my purpose in life and have the courage and strength to not only approach my now fiance but to pull the whole thing off like it was the most natural thing in the world.

I hope that The Modern Man becomes more and more popular because you guys are the real deal and I recommend you guys to anyone who asks or who I see that is need of some help with the ladies." Ryan

"I bought several cheap ebooks from other sites before eventually stumbling across The Modern Man. I have to admit — I was a bit put off by the prices initially but I can now say that it has been the best investment of my life. Your advice is what I was searching for all along. It is what has made me confident as well as taught me precisely what to say and do around women and that has resulted in me getting my first ever girlfriend. Knowing what I do now about the quality and lifetime value of your programs — I would have paid double. It is definitely worth every penny.

Thanks guys! One very happy customer!" Vince

"When I first got to your site I was thinking how the heck do these guys do it? I mean I had approached hundreds of women at university and at shopping malls and was getting horribly rejected. It wasn’t until I read your Flow book that it all clicked. The pick up techiques I’d been using from the internet were all tacky and sneaky stuff but your flow approach is just all natural real and like I’m talking to a friend or something.

Anyway to cut a long story short I got laid about 2 months ago with a girl at uni and then scored a kiss with another girl at a dorm room party. Last week I just started going steady with a girl I met who works at a take away store in town. I started chatting with her and used the flow approach to get her number and Facebook details and we then went straight a date after that and had sex on the second date.

I’d like to express my sincere thanks to you fellas. You sure know your stuff. I was a bit nervous to try it all at the start but once I let go off my past as you talk about in the flow and just went with your style of thinking, it all just clicked into place." Frank

"Hello Dan, Thanks for the advice you provided in the Flow, I used some of the techniques you provided and I got two numbers from two different girls in a day. The best I’ve ever achieved. Thanks again mate." Adeyemi

"How’s it going Dan?

Man, have I got a success story to tell you. So me and and a few of my friends went to a small town in Washington for performance gig. After performing, we decided to go to a popular club in the area and just have a good time. Once we got there I immediately used the [Edited: Customer revealed an important technique from The Flow] technique and thought to myself : “Man, this is place is great! We’re gonna have some fun tonight!” I could feel my confidence going through the roof. We all were dancing it up having a good time. It was as if we took the club over because girls were positioning themselves near us so they could gain our attention. A couple of girls even made out with each other. At one point, a hot brunette grabbed my ass. When I turned around and saw that she was smiling at me, I jokingly said “You know, if you wanted grab my ass you could’ve at Least bought me a drink. I’m not that easy you know she laughs and then walks away. I thought to myself “oh well it’s her loss” and started dancing some more. After receiving a lap dance from another girl, the hot brunette comes up to me and decides to give me a lap dance of her own. She began to moan as she was grinding on me and she informed me that she wasn’t wearing underwear. We had sex at the college apartments after throwing an after party. And out of the blue, she asked “So why did you choose me?” I just laughed it off and said come here and give here a kiss. The next night I had sex with another girl that I met at a wine tasting event simply by using the flow. I was kinda mad at her the next morning though because she ripped my favorite shirt. Lol. Dan I can’t thank you enough for doing what you do! Will purchase another one your products soon. Cheers" Sid.

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Do you have a success story to share? If so, please post it up in a comment below. I look forward to congratulating you in my reply!

The type of success I want to hear about is, you:

  • Getting a girlfriend.
  • Having sex with new women.
  • Getting the spark back in your relationship.
  • Getting your ex-girlfriend or wife back.
  • Turning a female friend into a girlfriend.
  • Getting engaged or married.