Is it too late to get your ex back?
What I’ve found by helping new guys with this for many years is that it’s pretty much always never too late.
There’s always a chance to interact with her, create a spark of attraction and get her back.
I’m not saying that every guy can get any woman back and that no situation is impossible.
Sometimes, the situation is impossible or near impossible.
For example: A woman broke up with a man or divorced him because he was physically abusive.
He beat her up and really hurt her physically and emotionally.
In most cases, a woman isn’t going to want to go back to that.
Yet, note how I said “most cases.”
Some women, as we know, do end up going back to abusive men.
Of course, I’m not encouraging that and saying that it’s a good thing.
I’m just pointing out a fact that, as you may have noticed, some women go back to abusive, controlling, manipulative, angry, hurtful men.
They are addicted to it.
Of course, women like that are the minority and most women don’t want to experience that.
The key to a successful relationship is certainly not beating up your woman, of course, but what I want you to understand is that, even in situations where it seems impossible and like the woman wouldn’t go back to a man, she often does.
I’ve been working with new guys on this for many years, as I said and I’ve seen all types of cases.
Most cases aren’t as extreme as that.
The majority of cases that I see where guys get their woman back easily are when he has either been:
- Too wimpy.
- Too careless.
- Too nice.
- Too neutral.
So, if a guy has been too wimpy in a relationship, he has become too insecure, he’s become emotionally sensitive, he’s become jealous and he just doesn’t have the type of confidence that makes a woman feel attracted.
He may have had that confidence at the start of their relationship, but he lost it and he really turned her off. She then broke up with him.
In terms of being too careless, that’s when a guy ends up taking his woman for granted.
He may have actually started out treating her well and he may be a good guy, but over time he stopped treating her as well as he used to.
He may have started to talk down to her, not really care about her feelings and always put himself first before her.
He may have expected her to be respecting him all the time, but not actually doing that for her in return.
Eventually, she got to the point where she just had enough of it and she wanted to get out of the relationship.
The next example: Too nice.
This is where a guy is basically just sucking up to the woman all the time trying to be Mr. Good Guy, Mr. Nice and doing everything perfectly.
He is trying to be the perfect gentleman, always put her needs in front of his own, be generous and show her how much he cares.
Although women do want a good man, they don’t want a man sucking up to them and feeling like he has to be extra nice and be on his best behavior to avoid her breaking up with him.
Ironically, she does end up breaking up with him because she gets bored of always feeling like she is better than him.
His approach to her gives her a false sense of superiority over him.
She feels like she could most likely do better than him and that he’s sucking up to her like that because he fears that she will leave him.
Although most women don’t go around admitting it, they prefer to be in a relationship with a guy that they feel lucky to have, a guy that could attract other women if he wanted to, but he’s deciding to be with her.
He loves her and wants to be with her.
The next example: Too neutral.
This is where a guy ends up treating his woman more like a friend than a sexy, desirable, feminine woman.
There’s just no spark between them anymore.
They feel like roommates or housemates rather than lovers.
She doesn’t feel like she’s in love with him in a romantic way.
She may love him as a person and love him in a friendly way, but the sexual spark just isn’t there anymore.
The sexual spark most likely was there at the start, but he wasn’t able to maintain it so she got bored and left the relationship.
With those 4 main categories, I always see guys getting their woman back very quickly and easily when they focus on making her feel sexually and romantically attracted again, which is actually a very easy thing to do.
In terms of the amount of time that it takes for a man to get his woman back, I always hear from men who have gotten their woman back:
- Right away.
- Within days.
- Within a week.
- Within a couple of weeks, and;
- Within a month or so.
I also hear from men who get back together with a woman that they’ve been apart from for years.
The man gets in contact with her and rekindles the love by focusing on making her feel sexually and romantically attracted to him again.
So, back to your situation….
4 Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back if You Feel Like it’s Probably Too Late
Is it too late to get YOUR ex back?
Has it been weeks, months or years since you and her have broken up?
What I’ve found is that, in most cases, all that usually takes is a spark of attraction to open the doors again, to get her to bring down her guard and open herself up to potentially hooking up with you or getting into a relationship with you again.
So, on that note, here are 4 tips on how to get your ex back if you feel like it’s probably too late for you.
1. Don’t waste any more time waiting for something to happen without your input
In most cases, when a guy approaches me and asks, “Is it too late to get my ex woman back?” he’s usually not doing anything about it.
He is thinking about her, he’s missing her, he’s replaying the breakup over and over again in his mind.
He’s thinking about where he went wrong, he’s thinking about how much he wishes he could be with her and so on.
Yet, he’s not doing the most important thing of all.
What is that?
He’s not interacting with her and creating sparks.
He’s not making her feel sexually and romantically attracted to him.
He’s just waiting on the sidelines hoping that something somehow may happen.
What you’ve got to understand with women is that they respond to the leadership of men when it comes to dating and romance.
For example: I also help men how to pick up women so they can get laid or get a girlfriend.
Sometimes a guy comes to me and says, “Hey, Dan. I’ve been working out, I dress well, I work in a good job, but women don’t really notice me. Women sometimes look at me, but I still don’t have a girlfriend.”
What is he saying?
He’s saying that he’s trying to look good and hope that women come over to him and pick him up.
Yet, that is just not how women work.
For the most part, women don’t go out there approaching men.
What women want is a man to have the balls to walk over and talk to them.
They also want the guy to be able to create a spark between him and her.
For example: He interacts with her and he’s being confident, he’s being emotionally masculine, he’s using humor and he’s flirting with her.
That creates sparks between a man and a woman.
It creates feelings of attraction inside of her.
That’s one of the fundamental things you need to understand about women.
It applies to pick up, it applies to being in a relationship and it applies to getting your ex back.
As you may know about me, I enjoyed my choice of women for many years, living the bachelor lifestyle and just having loads of fun attracting and picking up women, enjoying my choice of women.
Then I met this girl who is now my wife. I met her when she was 20 and I was 35 and we’ve been together ever since.
The big secret of my success with women is having the ability to make a woman feel sexually attracted.
It’s a skill.
It’s being able to interact with a woman and create feelings of sexual attraction inside of her.
This applies when picking up women, when going on a date with a woman, when in a relationship with a woman and when getting your ex back.
You have to create feelings of sexual attraction inside of her.
That is something that you can do.
You are in control of it.
It is based on what you are saying and doing when you interact with her.
So, for a guy who’s in a situation where he wants to get his ex woman back, he needs to understand that the same rules apply.
He needs to interact with her and create a spark.
He needs to create feelings inside of her, make her feel attracted.
If you’re sitting around thinking, “Is it too late for me? Have I waited too long to get my ex back? Is it the wrong thing to do? Has the window of opportunity passed?” just put those thoughts aside for a minute.
If you want her back, you need to stop waiting for something to happen without your input.
You need to interact with her and create a spark.
You can do that. You can make her feel attracted to you again.
When you make her feel attracted to you again, she will naturally open up and she will naturally start to consider the idea of either hooking up with you sexually or getting back into a relationship with you.
2. Understand what really re-attracts an ex
This is where a lot of guys go wrong as well.
They contact their ex and they’re essentially just being friendly and neutral.
A guy will meet up with his ex-girlfriend or ex-wife and he’ll have a nice chat with her.
He’ll have a friendly chat, he’ll talk about good old times, he’ll catch up on what they’ve been doing with their life and so on.
All that is great and it’s part of talking and having a conversation, but you need to make sure that you are also creating sexual feelings.
It has to be based on sexual feelings.
If there is no sexual feelings inside of her, she’s not going to want to be in a romantic relationship with you.
She might want to be friends and stay in touch just in a nice way because she likes you and has fond memories of you as her ex, but she’s not going to feel compelled to get into a sexual romantic relationship with you unless the basis of her feelings are sexual.
3. Prepare to be tested
If you meet up with an ex-girlfriend or wife after a long time, she is almost certainly going to test your confidence.
She is almost certainly going to behave as though she isn’t that interested and she just wants to be friends.
She might also start teasing you, picking on you and saying things to see if she can break your confidence to make you feel insecure and unsure of yourself.
So, when you interact with her, just prepare to be tested.
Know that the tests are going to come.
She’s going to try to put pressure on you and make you feel uncomfortable and doubt yourself to see whether or not you really have manned up.
Have you leveled up since you and her broke up?
Have you become a more powerful man emotionally, or have you become the sort of man that can easily crumble under her pressure?
That’s what she’s going to be looking for.
4. Prepare to give her a next level attraction experience
What this is about, is you leveling up.
For example: When you were in a relationship with her, you had a certain level of confidence.
Confidence is very attractive to women.
The more confidence that a man has, the more attracted a woman feels.
I’m not talking about the exaggerated, arrogant type of confidence where a guy’s being an asshole and things like that.
I’m talking about relaxed easygoing confidence where a man doesn’t crumble under pressure, he doesn’t get rattled by things and he doesn’t get nervous or insecure.
That’s what I’m talking about.
So, if you had a certain level of confidence when you were in a relationship with her, you’re going to want to level that up.
You’re going to want to make sure that when you interact with her, your confidence is so much stronger.
If you can do that, you’ll be giving her a next level attraction experience in terms of confidence.
Of course, there are also many other traits that a man can display to make a woman feel attracted such as emotional masculinity, social intelligence, charisma, charm, humor and so on.
When you give her a next level attraction experience, it makes her feel compelled to give you another chance.
It feels like you and her are a new couple.
Things really are different.
She feels drawn to you in ways that you were never able to make her feel before.
It’s exciting, interesting and appealing to her.
Okay, I hope you’ve enjoyed this video and learned something from it.
If you’d like to learn more, I recommend that you watch my program Get Your Ex Back Super System
When you watch the program, you’ll learn the easiest, fastest and most effective way to get a woman back.
When you interact with her and use the techniques from the program, she will feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
She will begin to feel sexual and romantic attraction.
The love will begin to flow into her heart again.
She will open back up to you and you will then get her back.
Miss Out on Being With Her Again, or Take Action and Get Her Back Now? Your Choice…
One final point that I want to make for you in this video, is that you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by getting her back.
You’ve been going through life missing her and wanting her back.
You can continue along that path and then it can be too late to get her back.
For example: She’s married with children and extremely happy and doesn’t want anything to do with you anymore.
Alternatively, you can follow through, interact with her, attract her, get her back and enjoy a BETTER relationship than you had before.
That’s one of the interesting things about getting an ex back.
I’ve heard back from so many guys who have gotten their woman back after following through on the steps in my program and it’s always interesting to see the words that they used to describe their situation.
For example: A guy will say he and his woman are so much happier now. She respects him so much more now. The sex is so much better. They’re so much more in love.
That is a great thing for him AND the woman.
It’s not just him getting something.
The woman is getting something too.
It’s a good thing for him and her.
So, don’t feel as though you’re going to be doing something where you’re taking something from her.
You’re literally going to be giving something to her and sharing something with her that is enjoyable for the both of you.
So, enough wasting time, enough worrying that it’s too late for you.
If you want to get her back, then make it happen.
Interact with her attract her, hook up with her and get the relationship back together.
You can do it.