The most important thing that you need to do to arouse a woman is focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
For example: If she notices that you are feeling nervous or insecure prior to having sex with her, it will be ruining her attraction for you. If she sees that you are feeling confident and masculine during the lead up to sex, it will turn her on.
Do you know how to make a woman feel attracted to you and turned on by you? Do you know how a woman’s attraction for a man really works? Watch this video to find out…
Myths and Mistakes About Arousing Women
Arousing a woman is something that any man can do. You are naturally designed to be arousing to women, so don’t doubt your ability to do it.
There is a lot of confusion on the topic of what it takes to arouse a woman for sex, so let’s get right to it…
Myth: Most Women Can’t Feel Aroused Enough to Have Sex on the First Night
As long as a woman is attracted to a guy, she will enjoy the sex if it happens on the first night, first date or after many dates.
These days, sex doesn’t have to happen in a relationship or after a few dates because most women are open to having it pretty quickly. A recent study found that 55% of couples had sex on their first date and 70% of women admitted to having experience a one night stand before.
Sure, there are some women who want to wait until marriage to have sex and some who want to wait for a few dates, but the majority of women can be aroused enough to have sex on the first night they meet a guy or on the first date.
Mistake: Behaving as if She is Doing You a Favor by Having Sex With You
Women don’t want to sleep with a guy who has such a lack of self-confidence that when he gets her in bed, he appears apologetic about wanting to have sex with her. Women are attracted to self-assured men who know that women love sex just as much as men.
Sex is something that should be enjoyed by both the man and the woman. However, too many guys will make the mistake of feeling as though the woman is giving him some sort of gift by sleeping with him.
Myth: Women Enjoy Sex Only if They Have Had an Orgasm
Orgasms are great, but the experience of having sex with a guy that she feels attracted to and respects is enough for most women. If she also happens to love you, the experience will be even more enjoyable for her.
However, she doesn’t need to orgasm all the time to be satisfied. The reason most women fake an orgasm is to make sure that the guy doesn’t feel like he’s not doing a good enough job for her. She doesn’t want to explain to him that just being with him sexually is often more than enough for her, so she will just fake it sometimes.
Orgasms will come naturally and easily if you are the type of guy who knows how to attract women and turn them on with your behavior, personality, vibe and conversation style. However, don’t get too worried about trying to make women orgasm.
As long as your woman orgasms once every 10 times you have sex, that will be more than enough for most women. What’s most important to the majority of women is whether or not they respect you, feel attracted to you and love you outside of the bedroom.
Mistake: Not Arousing Her With Your Masculinity
One of the easiest ways to arouse a woman is to let her experience, feel, see and hear your raw masculinity.
For example: While having sex with her, she will become extremely aroused if she notices that you are confident enough to use masculine facial expressions. A lot of guys surpress their masculinity and either have a neutral expression on their face, close their eyes or even use a bit of a feminine expression of pleasure.
What arouses a woman the most is your raw masculinity. So, if you’re feeling pleasure as you slide in and out of her, show it on your face in a masculine way. Let her see that you’re a man and that she is penetrated by a masculine force, not a confused, suppressed, neutral force.
Myth: Good Girls Don’t Like to Be Naughty in the Bedroom Sometimes
No matter how much of a lady she is out in public, most women have a “wild child” inside of them. These girls are simply looking for the right guy who can release that trashy side in private.
Whether that means getting her down on her knees sometimes to suck you off, or banging her hard from behind and then pushing her head into the pillow or bed is up to you. However, just make sure that you don’t shy away from being a bit wild at times.
You don’t have to do it all the time, but when you’re feeling it, go with your instincts and let her that you’re not afraid to be a bit wild at times. That is extremely arousing for a woman because she feels like she’s being naughty.
Mistake: Only Paying Attention to Erogenous Zones
Many men think that during foreplay they should only pay attention to a woman’s seven erogenous zones – nipples, butt, wrists, ears, lips/tongue, neck and vagina.
While focusing on those areas will arouse a woman, don’t forget the other parts of her body. If she is feeling a lot of attraction for you, simply running your hands up and down her back while she is on top of you and you are hugging her will arouse her.
A woman has millions of nerves in her skin running throughout her body and these also can be very sensitive to a man’s touch. So don’t miss the opportunity to excite her in different ways.
Just follow your instincts and allow yourself to do whatever you want. When a woman sees that you have that type of raw, masculine confidence, it will arouse her and turn her on in a very powerful way.