Our story
We’ve spent the last 5 years approaching over
10,000 women (in various countries around the world) to discover the secrets to success with women & dating.
Why so many approaches? For a few reasons:
- Initially, it was all about perfecting the art of approaching a woman, getting her interested and moving it to a phone number, kiss or sex.
- Following that, most of the 10,000 approaches have been to demonstrate 'how it's done' for clients on our weekend courses. This is where we coach a guy in a bar on a weekend and show him how to do all the things that you can now learn via our downloadable products.
- These days, the approaches just keep adding up as we go out on weekends to meet and have sex with new women. Sometimes we stop and enjoy relationships, but we're having too much fun right now to just stop hooking up with new girls!
Listen to the following audio clip (below) to discover how you can master your dating life with women now, not next year!
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Media Coverage
We have been approached by many media outlets over the years. Below is a recent clip. Click here to view some of our other media exposure.
Video: Dan Bacon, Founder of The Modern Man, recently being interviewed by Channel 7.
Why choose us?
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Guaranteed results: When you use the techniques we teach here at The Modern Man, you are guaranteed to experience more success with women. You can count on that.
- Tested and proven to work on women from all over the world: Everything that you learn here has been tested and proven to work on women by us (Dan, Ben and Stu), by the many guys we’ve coached in person and by 1,000s of our customers from all over the world.
- Up to date: The modern dating scene is completely different to how it was when your parents were dating. What worked back then just doesn’t work anymore. At The Modern Man, you’ll learn how to achieve instant and lasting success with women in today’s world.
- Save money: You can waste loads of money on a luxury car, a costly university degree or expensive dinner dates in an effort to TRY to impress women – and still not get any results with women. Or, you could spend a small amount of money on Modern Man dating advice products and learn how to impress women with something that is free and within your control: Your personality.
- Save time: We’ve spent the last 5 years researching, testing and developing techniques for success with women. All the work has been done so you can learn today and begin succeeding with women tomorrow. Why waste years of your life trying to work it all out on your own (how long have you been trying so far)?
Learn from The Modern Man so you can experience total success with women now, before it’s too late for you.
- Exclusive: Unlike buying a book that anyone can get from a bookstore - you simply cannot get this kind of information at your local store. Such cutting-edge information is only available ONLINE here at The Modern Man.
As a hidden bonus, this ensures that the techniques you use to succeed with women remain secret and unknown by 99.9% of the population.
- Works on new women you meet, or a woman that you already know: Whether you want to walk up to a woman in a bar and get her phone number (or take her home with you for sex that night), or finally get that women you’ve always liked into your bedroom – the answers you seek are right here at The Modern Man.
- Know what to do: There’s nothing worse than being in front of a beautiful woman and REALLY liking her, but then having NO CLUE how to make something happen between you and her. When you learn our dating techniques, you’ll know exactly what to do each step of the way from the first conversation all the way to sex and into a relationship.
You will feel comfortable with each step, because you will have proven techniques to use at each point.
- Know what to say: In EVERY Modern Man product, we provide specific examples of what to say to women in different situations. These are the things that WE SAY to women to make them become attracted and interested…and then remain attracted and interested.
- Avoid rejection: Rejection can be a humiliating experience. When it comes from a woman you really like, it can also be deeply disappointing…sometimes leading to weeks, months and years of feeling down about yourself.
The good news is that rejection can be COMPLETELY avoided. In fact, armed with the information we teach at The Modern Man – you simply won’t ever experience it again with women.
- Proven to work: What you learn here at The Modern Man has been proven to work by our 1,000’s of customers from all around the world. They guys are from places such as: The USA, Canada, the UK, many parts of Europe, South Africa and Asian countries like Japan and Thailand.
- Choose the women you date: If you’re the kind of guy who has basically been ‘taking whatever you can get’ with women, then today is the day to change it. By following our advice, you WILL quickly get to the point where you are rejecting offers from beautiful women who want to be your girlfriend.
You WILL have the choice of either dating and having sex many women at once, or enjoying a committed relationship with a woman of your choosing. You will have the choice to decide which women have a chance to be with you.
- Feel fantastic: Being unsuccessful with women can lead to feelings of loneliness, sadness and desperation. It can also lead you to feeling like a failure as a man. However, when beautiful women are attracted to you, appreciate and love you – as well as practically begging you to have sex with them, you feel fantastic!
- Better lifestyle: Modern distractions like TV and busy work/study lives can really put a drain on your lifestyle. However, when you follow the advice of The Modern Man - your lifestyle will quickly begin to fill up with excitement, love, sex and new, fun and interesting adventures.
You’ll also learn how to make friends with more people who respect you, appreciate you and truly value you as a person.
- Live with confidence: Lack of confidence is the #1 reason for guys not succeeding with women. Not only are women turned off by a guy’s lack of confidence, but a lack of confidence also makes you hesitate in key situations (e.g. when it comes time to make a move and go in for the first kiss, ask for her number, approach a woman, or finally ask that girl you like out on a date).
All Modern Man products will give you specific techniques and methods to use to build and maintain unstoppable confidence with women.
- Be the man you want to be: Most modern men have been raised without receiving proper advice and training on ‘how to be a man’ from their fathers or male role models. Often, their father hasn’t been a good role model and hasn’t sat them down to explain how to handle women, dating and relationships.
At The Modern Man, we act as your male role models in this area of life so you can be the man you really want to be. You’ll be surprised at how everything makes sense and how quickly you can apply the practical advice in your life.
- Give yourself permission to be great: Some guys put off the rewards of being great with women to avoid upsetting other people…but, here’s the thing: No-one cares about you, me or the next guy. Most people are only concerned with themselves and don’t care if you’re a ‘ladies man’ or a loser.
When you become great with women, you won’t upset people. In fact, it’s the complete opposite: Women will love and want you (sexually) and guys will respect you and admire you.
- Be accepted and loved by women: When women don’t accept you or don’t want to be with you, it can lead you to feeling like an outsider, or like there’s something wrong with you. Here’s the good news: There is nothing wrong with you…you are simply doing some things wrong around women. Learn the right way to interact with women and everything will change immediately.
- Improve the quality of women you have sex with: Can a guy like you really pick up beautiful women? Is it possible? Yes. Not only is it possible, but new guys are doing it all the time. No doubt you’ve been out in a public place and seen a beautiful woman with an ordinary-looking guy. True?
That guy is simply using different ‘dating techniques’ than you are – and we teach all of the correct techniques here at The Modern Man.
- Increase the amount of women you have sex with: By using Modern Man techniques, you will be able to get as many phone numbers in a night as you want. Some customers go out for the first time, use our techniques and collect 5 or more phone numbers…then set up dates for every night the next week. It’s your choice how many women you want. From today onwards, you have the power.
- Find your ideal woman: Imagine this…you don’t find any woman who likes you for the next 4 to 5 years. It’s just you, single, alone and frustrated. Lonely, you decide to fill your life with distractions in the form of TV, internet, sport, hobbies, food and hanging out with friends.
Then, one day you realize that all of your friends have found girlfriends (or wives), while you are still single and alone. You arrive at parties alone and feel a quiet sadness about your life, as you look on at all the happy couples. The time to stop that from happening to you is now – you can find your ideal woman tomorrow (or within days) by using our proven techniques.
- Master your conversation skills: What should you say when you first start chatting to a woman to capture her interest immediately? Is there such a thing as a perfect opening line? What should you say after the perfect opening line? How can you keep a conversation going and keep it interesting in any situation?
Learning how to talk to women correctly is critical to your success, so EVERY Modern Man product includes different, tested examples of things you can say to start and continue conversations with women.
- Become irresistibly attractive to women: Being irresistible to women takes the frustration out of trying to attract, date and get into relationships with the women you want. Instead of having to constantly try to impress a woman in the hope that she may one day like you, she will start trying to impress you. She will feel an irresistible urge to be with you…and no-one will be able to stop her.
- Get respect: Being good with women has many benefits and one of those is: Respect from others. You will notice that women, friends, family and work (or study) colleagues start paying you more respect and listening to what you have to say. You will become respected because you are one of the few guys who can attract and maintain the interest of something that everyone values: Beautiful women.
- Be in control: When you have the right information and proven techniques you feel confident and in complete control each step of the way with women. You know what to say and do to get a woman interested in you, how to get her number and get her on a date, how to move things to the bedroom and into a sexual relationship.
Compare this to the anxiety, nervousness and frustration of not knowing what to do and losing great opportunities with women you really like.
- Overcome fears, insecurities and self-doubts: Consider what sort of ‘vibe’ you’re giving off to women when around them, or when talking to them. Unless it’s one of true confidence, then most women simply will not be interested in you.
You know that your fears, insecurities and self-doubts are ‘silly’ and you shouldn’t feel that way...but, you just can’t seem to get rid of them. Good news: Our advice is guaranteed to eliminate all fears, insecurities and self-doubts and replace them with total confidence, self-assurance and maximum self-esteem.
- Avoid looking back in regret: How will you feel 20 or 30 years from now if you look back on your life and realize that you never did get to experience the kind of success that you wanted with women? You were mostly alone, frustrated and unfulfilled when it came to women, sex and relationships. Today is the day to change that. Today is the day to take control of your life once and for all.
- Eliminate confusion and frustration: Most men go their whole lives never really understanding women. They see women as complicated creatures totally outside their control. However, there are also a small percentage of men who understand women and know how to relate to properly.
These are the guys who women swoon over - the guys who always seem to have women instantly melt in their presence. The difference between those guys and you? Simple: They know things that you don’t. We have uncovered the secrets and they are available for you inside Modern Man products.
- Be included: By fixing this area of your life, you will naturally begin to be included and accepted by more ‘cool people’. You will be invited to more parties and you will make more friends with the type of people that would have previously ignored you, or just not paid much attention to you in social situations.
When a woman sees you in any situation in life, she will instantly know that you’re included in the ‘cool crowd’ (by the vibe that you give off) and she will like you for it.
- Get what you want: Every guy wants to enjoy the experience of having sex with and enjoying a relationship with a beautiful woman. It’s just natural that you would want that. However, most guys miss out on it and end up feeling like there’s something wrong with them.
Let me be the first to tell you: There’s nothing wrong with you. All you need is the right techniques and the right things to say and you’ll be in bed with a beautiful woman before you know it. We guarantee it.
- Get a Girlfriend: When you come home after a hard day, there’s nothing better than having the love, attention and affection of a beautiful girlfriend. If your friends aren’t up for doing anything on a Friday night, you only need to send a text or call your girl and the next thing you know - she’s cuddling up on the couch with you and watching a movie.
If one girlfriend isn’t enough for you, then have two or more at once. Using our techniques, you can have all the sex with women that you can handle. From now on, your dating life will be under your total control. You will have options with women, rather than trying to take ‘whatever you can get’.
- Be protected by our 30-day, money back guarantee: All products at The Modern Man come with a 30-Day, Money-Back Guarantee. If you don’t find the information useful, contact us to request a no-hassle refund.
Who buys from us?
Most of our customers are between the ages of 18-49 and come from all around the world: The USA, followed by the UK, Australia, Canada and various Asian and European countries.
Our advice has been proven to work all over the world by us (when we've been on holidays) and by our customers who are always writing in with new success stories! You can read some recent success stories below.
"In 3 months, I'd already had 8 dates..."
“...After a lifetime of women basically 'ignoring' me and seeing me only as a friend, I read your book and in 3 months I'd already had 8 dates.
Its mindblowing how well your stuff works...I ended up choosing one of the best women out of those 8 and she's now my girlfriend. Couldn't have done it without your techniques, so thank you!" Evan, USA
"Amazing how easy it is..."
“I wish I ordered your ebook earlier. I just met this lady online and spoke to her over the phone, we hit it off very well and we decided to meet half way from where we live. We live 4 hours apart. Amazing how easy it is when you know what to do..." Anonymous, USA
What will you learn at The Modern Man?
How to:
Approach women
- Overcome your fears about approaching women.
- Know what to say when you approach.
- Approach women during the day or night.
- Get women interested immediately.
- Avoid rejection.
- Get phone numbers with ease.
- Handle being the centre of attention when you approach groups of women.
- Know what to do each step of the way, from first approach to getting a phone number.
Make conversation with women
- Keep your conversations going and keep them interesting.
- Never run out of things to say.
- Make women addicted to being around you.
- Avoid awkward silences.
Attract women
- Use humor.
- Display confidence.
- Use attractive body language.
- Flirt.
- Be an alpha male.
- Be mysterious.
Date women or find your perfect relationship
- Go from a first date to sex and a relationship.
- Have sex on the first night you meet a woman.
- Maintain a woman’s interest in a relationship.
- Find your ideal woman and enjoy your ideal relationship.
- Finally get the interest of that one girl you’ve always liked.
Get better results, faster
- Date and have sex with hotter women.
- Get more dates faster.
- Have women chasing you.
Improve you
- Build your self-confidence.
- Become more of an alpha male.
- Overcome any fears, nervousness or anxiety you feel around women.
- Enjoy your life with women, instead of looking back in regret.
Improve your lifestyle
- Make more friends.
- Be more spontaneous and adventurous.
Recent testimonials
"I've already got 2 phone numbers ..."
“I've only had this program for a week and Ive already got 2 phone numbers. For me thats a lot because I've always been to shy to meet women (especially duting the day).
Using your conversation examples, I met one girl when I was buying some lunch during my break and another on the train..I've decided to date both of them and then work out which one I like best. Been chatting on the phone to train girl and went on a date with lunch girl last night (kissed her at the end). I can't thank you guys enough..." David, CA, USA
"I was waiting in a cafe ...and made eye contact "
“I got to a point where I thought I was hopeless with women.
I was frustrated and finally asked out a girl I had some rapport with. I thought just having the balls to ask her would make her want to date me. She turned me down.
I was living with three guys who got a TON of girls and thought there was something wrong with me and I didn't know how to fix it. I searched the internet for advice and eventually got 21 Ways. I listened to everything over and over for three days.
That week I woke up, put on a nice outfit and was brimming with confidence. I made eye-contact with everyone I saw and felt great and people could tell by how I was smiling and carrying myself. I could feel people viewing me in a new way.
I was waiting in a cafe before class and made eye contact and playful facial expressions with everyone (about a weird guy who seemed drunk at 9am) especially with this one girl. I recognized her as one of the girls on campus that every guy knew because she was that incredibly hot.
I didn't think twice about it and just went through the day doing what I was doing. I felt great! The next night I saw that hot girl at a bar.
She seemed to be all over my radar, trying to get me to notice her.
Finally, she got a mutual friend to introduce us and we had a nice, fun conversation. She was chasing me!
When I could tell things were getting really interesting I said, "It's been nice talking to you. I'm gonna go get back to my friends and get a drink."
She was shocked! I saw her later on and got her number...she came home with me that same night...and we are now dating. You guys rock - thanks for everything...” John, Brooklyn, NY, 21
"I'd always chat to girls and never get anywhere"
“I've always been very chatty, funny and a extrovert, so no issues there but i NEVER knew how to flirt, I'd always chat to girls and never get anywhere.
Within 2 weeks of me listening to your advice i've introduced flirting and ended up with a seriously HOT girl last weekend. This is only the beginning and i'm starting to view rejection differently as well, no more despair - more like let's try again!!" Gary F Melbourne Australia
"Approaching top class women..."
“Hi Dan, now i know what i have been doing wrong all this time and that is being too nice,but now using the techniques i feel much more confident in approaching top class women.
The first time i used them i got a number in a bookstore and am working on getting lots more. the examples you guys provide are amazing...it really helps now that i have things to SAY to women when i talk to them" Chris, Australia, 29 years
"Was able to take them back to my place"
"I was at a movie theater with my friend John recently. We saw some girls and I was able to walk up to them, start a conversation and it just so happened we were going to the same movie. Perfect I know. Hung out with them after the Movie and was able to take them back to my place for some wine and some clean fun.
This has been the best investment i have ever made and have never been happier or more optimistic about my life and my future with women. " Bill D.C
"This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around"
“Before I got 21 Ways, I was not good socially. I would try to be nice to girls, and approach very few of them.
I would always let other people take the lead in social situations, and later when they would be with the girl, I found sit int he backround.
Now, I understand how I shoudl treat girls, make them laugh, lead them, etc. And my social life (and as a result my dating life) haveall picked up to the point where I've slept with a good amount of women and it fun (not difficult or scary) to approach and meet now.
I've also made a heap of new friends now that I'm getting invited to house parties, using the tips you guys have given me. This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around. Thanks guys! " Jack Cedar Rapids, MO. Age 25
"Now I have a girlfriend..."
“When i found your audio program I thought "Okay heres something to take me in the right direction".
I'm not interested in just sleeping with girls, but now I have a girlfriend of 2 weeks and she is absolutely stunning. Best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good." Will, Ohio
"I got four phone numbers in two hours..."
“I've always wanted to know how to get the hot chicks in shopping malls - especially the ones who work in the clothing stores.
Well, after listening to your program, I listened to what it said and followed the steps and get this - I got FOUR phone numbers in TWO hours. 2 of the girls were super hotties (one in a clothing store and one in a jewelry store), and the other two I met in the food court...so as you can imagine - I am aboslutely over the moon with this!
To date in my life, I have NEVER been with a hot girl. Now, I have FOUR numbers...FOUR girls to choose from...this is insane and my friends cannot belive the change in me. I can't thank you guys enough for your expertise on this...I feel like a totally different man and finally feel like I have CONTROL in this area of my life!" PK, USA
"We ended up spending the day together..."
“I met a woman who was listed in the top ten in an online dating site just using the ideas from the online dating section in your program. She actually said she was really anticipating my visit and we ended up spending the day together" K, England
"I know I can get her..."
“I have vastly improved both my friendships with women and my romantic relationships as well. Now when I find a woman I am interested in and I know she is single, I know I can get her” Justin R Fort myers, FL, USA
"Approaching women during the day is easy now..."
“Since listening to your audio training I've got phone numbers 3 girls during the day. One in a mall, another who is a a waitress in a cafe near my work and the other when I was waiting in line at a juice bar.
I honestly can't believe that it's this easy now...seriously, it's like I'm living in a completely different world, where girls are as scary as they used to be...like, it's all no big deal. Seriously man, approaching women during the day is easy now...wheras I used to always stumble, use a crap line and then run out of things to say...and it would quickly get awkward because I didn't know how to handle the situation. You guys deserve a medal or something. Big ups to y'all...” Ricky, Louisiana
"Got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week..."
“Not only have I got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week, but I've also made heaps of new friends by using your techniques. My sister commented the other day that I seem so confident these days and asked me where I was meeting all the women I had been telling her about. My reply? Everywhere!" Ethan, Ireland
"Your guidance is so specific and well presented... "
"I have a girlfriend thanks to you guys and I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate it. Your guidance is so specific and well presented and when I met her during the day at my local mall (I originally just went to get some groceries!), it felt like the most natural and easy thing to do thanks to you
Your conversation examples made me feel more confident, because I would have otherwise run out of things to say.
My girlfriend is the most beautiful person I have ever met and she also happens to be an easy 9/10...thanks again" S.L, Alabama, USA
"Best investment I've ever made..."
“This is the best investment I've ever made in myself. I've already dated 3 women in the 3 weeks and am now getting quite serious with one girl who is 'the pick of the bunch'. Can't thank you guys enough - great work." Christopher, England
"Now have a sexual relationship..."
“I have been studying the dating power seminar and have achieved great results in less than a month!!! I met a cool gal last week, followed your steps and techniques, and now have a sexual relationship.
My ex-girlfriend whom I am friends with, all of a sudden notices a good change in me, and wants to catch up with me on the weekend. Both gals are paying for stuff and can't get enough of me it seems.
Thanks Dan, Ben, and Stu, your teachings on approaching, flirting, and then taking the lead have led me to impressive results." Eric from San Francisco, CA
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