What is This Site About?
We are here to provide you with the most advanced dating advice
available.
Our proven advice is designed to rapidly develop your confidence, skills and abilities to achieve success with women and dating.
If you are a man aged 18-45 and are not happy with your success with women and dating, then you are at the only site that can really help you.
Why?
Because we are proven experts.
See Client Case Studies or watch free videos here.
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Will This Stuff Work in My Country?
Definitely.
We've tested our advice in various countries and it ALWAYS works
Why?
Because attraction happens at an unconscious level for all human beings.
It is then followed by conscious evaluations to determine whether other compatibility factors are present.
The reality is that women are ALWAYS attracted to the same male behaviours and personality traits, no matter what country they are in.

For example:
- Confidence
- Humour
- Alpha male traits
- Conversation skills
- Sexual/flirtatious vibe
- And more
Granted, there are some cultural differences that apply.
For example:
In some Asian countries (e.g Japan), kissing a girl on a first date is uncommon. Usually, the man and woman go through a courting process and become familiar with each other before moving forward.
In India, arranged marriages are still very common and ‘dating’ is only beginning to take shape in some of the more Metropolitan cities.
However, Western countries such as: USA, UK, Australia, Canada, tend to share the same sorts of ‘dating rules’ and trends.’
Although The Modern Man is based in Australia, here is where we have met women in bars, clubs, bookstores, parties (etc) to conduct our research and develop our theories (so far):
- Australia: 55%
- USA: 25%
- UK: 15%
- Japan: 5%
Across the team here at The Modern Man, at least one of the coaches has successfully (and easily we might add) met and ‘dated’ many women in each of the countries in which our research was conducted.
So, to answer your question, “Will this work in my country?”
You’re damn right it will!
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What Do You Sell Here?
We sell:
a) A highly-advanced e-Book on meeting, attracting and dating women, entitled The Flow: The Revolutionary 4-Step Process For Confidently Approaching Women & Getting Dates.
It is jam-packed with information that you simply MUST know if you want success in this area of your life.
Note: Dan Bacon, The CEO of The Modern Man & Author of this killer book, has personally approached thousands of women (and dated 200+ women) over the past 5 years to create this fool-proof, step-by-step guide to success with women and dating.
Click here to find out more!
b) Real-life courses on how to meet and attract women.
On these courses, we take a client into bars, clubs and other social hotspots and actually approach women in front of him – demonstrating how it’s done.
Over the course of the two nights, a client will learn how to successfully approach women, begin interactions, spark a strong natural attraction, connect with the woman and then move things forward without rejection.
We've coached guys from various races (i.e. Asian, Indian, American, English, European, Australian, New Zealander, Arabic and more) and we've always succeeded in getting them to become masters of their own dating lives.
Note: These courses are only held in Australia.
Click here to find out more!
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Why Should I Choose The Modern Man to Help Me?
- You will learn the ‘start to finish’ process of approaching women and moving things towards a dating relationship.
- We understand your situation, because we weren’t always good with women and have learnt most of what we know from the ground-up.

- We have tested our approach to women and dating in various countries across the world, and it always works.
- We are proven experts, in that we have been running live, weekend workshops since 2005. See client case studies or check out reviews of our e-Book.
- Our ‘method’ is about becoming naturally attractive to women, so you won’t ever have to use any weird seduction tricks to get the women you want.
- You will learn how to meet and attract women in all sorts of situations (e.g. supermarket, bookstore, house party, art gallery), not just bars and clubs.
- After years of successfully teaching and demonstrating it in real-life situations, no one is better than we are at explaining how to start and continue interesting conversations with women.
- We actually do care that you succeed. Hence all the free advice on the site.
- There is absolutely no sane reason why you should want to waste time trying to work this area out on your own.
It took us YEARS to work this stuff out.
You can learn it in HOURS by reading our eBook and listening to the bonus seminar audio clips.
- Our approach to women and dating is working perfectly for the thousands of guys who have taken the chance of trying it!
They are enjoying dating lifestyles that most guys simply daydream about.
Access our secrets to success with women & dating?
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How is The Modern Man different to other dating advice sites?
The fundamental difference is that we are actually experts in this field.
Anyone can make a website and say, “Hey, do this and you’ll succeed!” but you have to ask yourself, "Who is writing the content?"
Has the guy behind the website actually succeeded at the task in real-life? Or is he just another con trying to sell a bunch of tricks he's learnt from real experts?
Here are some more differences to be aware of:
- While others focus on seduction tricks or manipulative tactics to trick women into liking you, we focus on getting you to become naturally attractive to women.
We know this might sound hard to believe if it isn't currently happening in your life, but when you follow our step-by-step advice, women will try to pick YOU up.
- While others offer their ‘best guess’ to try and help you succeed with women and dating, our advice has been PROVEN to work, time and time again.
Read the course case studies here, or e-Book reviews here.
- You can still be YOURSELF when using our advice to attract women.
YES, you read it right - you can still be yourself!
The only difference is that, from a woman's perspective, you will be a much more attractive version of yourself.
To accomplish this, we focus on getting you to develop certain male behavours and personality traits that ALL women love.
For example: Following our step-by-step advice, you will quickly learn how to:
- Build your confidence.
- Master the art of conversation.
- Unleash your ability to flirt like a natural.
- Maximize your chances of finding and dating the women you want.
- Succeed in overcoming any fears you have about women.
- Use the most advanced, rejection-proof ways of approaching women and moving things towards a fulfilling dating relationship.
- Spark and maintain a woman’s interest in you.
- Approach groups of women and have them hanging on your every word.
To find out more, click here.
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We’re you guys always good with women?
Not at all.
Dan and Ben had to learn how to be successful with women, while Stu (our resident natural)
was usually able to meet and date women without much hassle.
This unique mix of experience, ensures we bring you the most cutting-edge advice available for
dating in the modern world.
Click here to find out more!
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