How to Kiss a Girl

When is the right time to kiss a girl? How do you know if she's interested?

Let's talk about how to kiss a girl without experiencing an embarrassing rejection if she doesn't want to kiss you. We'll start with some of the common problems that you may encounter when it comes time to 'French kiss' a girl for the first time.

You might be:

  • Chatting to a girl that you've gotten alone with in a bar, but you're unsure of the right time to kiss her, or what moves you can make to ensure she doesn't reject you.
  • Afraid of being rejected and ruining a friendship that you have with a girl, if you move in for a kiss and she isn't interested.
  • On a date and unsure if and when you should kiss the girl. Note: In most cases, not kissing a girl on a first date often leads to awkward moments for you both at the end of the date. Many modern women are turned off by men who don't have the confidence to kiss a girl on a first date.

If you can relate to any of those situations, then I have some good news for you: You don't have to struggle with any of that stuff any more. In fact, if you'd like to know how to kiss a girl (or French kiss a girl, as some people call it) while COMPLETELY avoiding the possibility of being rejected – then this might be the most important site you've ever found online.

Personally, I used to experience the same kinds of fears and frustrations around kissing girls. I had no idea how to kiss a girl who didn't make it completely obvious that she wanted me to do so. I remember having many 2-hour dates with girls, only to experience that 'awkward moment' at the end where I just couldn't work up the courage to move in for a kiss. Even though I wanted to, I just couldn't bring myself to do it because I didn't want to stuff things up.

As you may have experienced in your dating life, this often results in the girl not wanting to see you again. In fact, I can remember 3 different girls saying to me, "Umm, yeah...well you're a nice guy, but I think we should just be friends..." when I called them up to get a second date.

Eventually, I realized that the main reason girls HATE IT when you don't kiss them is that is shows a lack of confidence...and confidence just so happens to be the #1 thing that women are attracted to in guys. They want you to be confident for many reasons. Some of those are: You'll be more successful in life, you'll be better in the bedroom and you will be able to look after her and take charge in the relationship.

Traditionally speaking, moving in for the first kiss is the man's responsibility and most women would rather pass up the opportunity to kiss you than take on the masculine role and make the first move.

How to kiss a girl: Getting started

Before kissing a girl, you need to move things from just 'friendly conversation' to the point where there is plenty of sexual tension between you and the girl. To build sexual tension between you and a girl, you need to use certain attraction techniques (such as flirting), which I can teach you here.

In addition to building plenty of sexual tension before you kiss, you need to work out whether it's the right time or place to be kissing. Some girls don't mind kissing in public places, or in front of their friends. However most girls (especially modern, independent ones) like to kiss away from prying eyes.

Some places you might want to kiss a girl are: In a car, lounge room or bedroom, by the beach, in a quiet street or when you're parting ways at the end of the date. However, we might be getting ahead of ourselves here. FIRST, you need to know if a woman is interested in kissing you.

When a girl is interested in kissing you, you will see distinct changes in her behavior and body language. For example: She will make more eye contact with you, laugh at all your jokes, tilt her head down and look up at you in a shy way, etc.

There's nothing worse that finally scoring an opportunity with a woman you like, only to screw it up by moving in for the kiss at the wrong time or in the wrong way. Sometimes, it can take months or even years to find another woman who comes close to being as good at the ideal girl you found. If you'd like to ensure that you NEVER, ever mess up an opportunity with a woman like you like, click to the next page to discover loads of amazing techniques that are guaranteed to make women fall 'head over heels' in love with you.

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