Meeting women in your local area is easy, but simply meeting a woman doesn’t mean that you’re going to get laid and get a girlfriend.
When you go to places where you can meet local women, the most important thing that you must do when you approach is actively make the woman feel attracted to you. If the woman is attracted to you, she will be interested and will be open to having a quick or even long chat with you before giving you her phone number.
How does attraction between men and women work?
29 Places to Meet Local Women
- At your local bars.
- Through your local friends.
- Your local shopping malls.
- Nightclubs in the surrounding area.
- Local coffee shops / cafes.
- Local dance classes.
- Volunteering opportunities in your local area.
- Singles events in your town or city.
- Work/office functions.
- At a gym or sports centre.
- Approaching local women on busy shopping streets.
- At your local supermarket / grocery store.
- Bus tours / organized group trips departing from your local area.
- Your local bookstore (if there any still open!).
- Local hobby groups.
- Dog parks in your town or city.
- On public transport.
- At a local cultural event.
- Cooking classes in your town or city.
- At a museum or art gallery in your area.
- Group fitness classes or activity groups (e.g. walking, hiding, riding).
- At the local laundromat.
- At a strip club in your town or city.
- Local athletics or sports events.
- Concerts or shows in your town or city.
- Mixed sports teams.
- Hairdresser / Salon.
- Weekend markets.
- Trivia nights.
When you go out to meet local women, you will need to know:
- What to say to start a conversation.
- How to keep a conversation going and keep it interesting.
- How to flirt with a woman to create a sexual vibe.
- How to get a woman’s phone number.
- How to go from a conversation to a kiss and then to sex that night.
7 Tips For Meeting Local Women
Here are 7 ways to meet local, single women that you may not have tried yet.
1. Keep an active list of places you intend to meet local women: Think of the places you might find your ideal types of women.
Once you have your list, you should only frequent the local places that you are likely to find her. Then, when you see the type of woman you like, approach her and start a conversation.
2. Join a Meetup.com group: Meetup.com allows you to meet up with people (men and women) who share your interests. You will find meet up groups about almost any topic of interest you can think of.
3. Experience your local area like a tourist would: Often, people live in a town or city their entire life and never experience it the way a tourist would.
Local festivals, contest, museums, coffeehouses, WIFI hotspots, bookstores and zoos are great ways of meeting local women, or women who are visiting from out of town and would be open to having casual sex that day/night with you.
4. Attend a speed dating event: Speed dating events are set up to for those who are truly interested in meeting new people. Local speed dating events are often held at clubs and bars in the area, so it’s also a great way to discover new bars.
You will find single, local women who are keen to meet a guy and start dating right away.
5. Ask your friends to introduce you: When talking to your friends or even acquaintances or close coworkers, ask them if they know of any single, local women they could introduce you to.
6. Post your intentions on Facebook: Post the following message to your Facebook profile, “Hello friends. I’ve decided that I’ve had enough of the single life and would like to find a great woman for a serious relationship. If you know of any single women who might be a good match for me, please introduce me or at least point me in the right direction so I can say hello.”
7. Throw a singles party: Invite your single friends to a party with the condition that they each bring at least one extra single friend.
If you’re okay with it, put an ad in your local newspaper and get women to e-mail you with photos of themselves before attending the party, or create a Facebook page about it and get women to add you there. You can then create your own speed dating event right in your own home.
Approach Women That You Find Attractive
Most women don’t initiate conversations with men and instead wait to be approached.
This is due to tradition and it’s also about the fact that women seek to find a confident man, rather than helping an insecure man to get a chance with her. As long as you approach in a confident, easy-going manner and focus on making the woman feel some attraction for you, most women will be absolutely delighted that you approached.