Women like both clean shaven men and men with facial hair.
The answer to success with women is not to shave your face or grow a beard. The answer is to display the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women. When you do that, women will like you and want to be with you.
Hollywood Celebrities: Does the Beard Make a Difference?
According to some women, some of the sexiest men in Hollywood have facial hair.
George Clooney, Bradley Cooper, Brad Pitt, Gerard Butler, Hugh Jackman, Ryan Reynolds and Russell Brand are all male celebrities that have had and sometimes still have facial hair.
Hold on, wait a minute!
According to other women, the sexiest men in Hollywood have no facial hair. Channing Tatum, Vin Diesel, Dwayne Johnson, Tom Cruise, Antonio Banderas.
What does this tell you? Do women like clean shaven men? Is the answer to success with women to shave?
If you’ve understood the point I’m making by mentioning all those Hollywood stars, you will realize that you can attract women whether you shave or not. The one thing that all of these guys have in common (besides being in Hollywood) is that they all display alpha male behavior.
The popular media such as television, women’s magazines and movies have led most guys to believe that what women want is a specific look (shaven or unshaven), a certain height (women like tall guys… right?), the money in your bank account and the clothes that you are wearing.
They will tell you that you should smell a certain way, dress a specific way, do your hair in a certain way and drive a specific type of car to be attractive to women.
This erroneous thinking makes most guys feel insecure; because in reality most guys are of average height, with average paying jobs, who like dressing simply and have chosen to have a beard or moustache, or not.
Asking, do women like clean shaven men is like asking, do men like porn stars? Some do and some don’t and the bottom line is that women like real men; facial hair has nothing whatsoever to do with attraction.
What Do Women Really Like in a Man?
Here is a great video by Dan Bacon (the founder of The Modern Man), which reveals a very surprising truth about what women really find attractive in men…
Being attractive is not about being clean shaven or growing a beard, it’s about displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women.
There are many factors that differentiate the real men from the boys. Ultimately, what a man looks like has very little impact on whether a woman will feel attracted to him or not. Obviously this doesn’t mean you should walk around looking like a slob, or a hairy mammoth who escaped from the Ice Age, but it takes a lot more than looks to get a woman to feel attraction for you.
It is a part of the natural law of evolution that the females of a species are attracted to the alpha males of that species, and that the lower ranking males usually don’t find mates.
Just like in the animal kingdom, women of the human species are also attracted to alpha males who exhibit alpha male qualities. If you, however, display the qualities and behavior of a lower ranking male, women will hardly find you attractive.
The qualities that women find unattractive in men include:
- Low self-esteem and nervous behavior.
- Bad conversationalist; doesn’t know how to put her at ease.
- Weak minded; is easily manipulated by her.
- Behaves inappropriately and makes her feel uncomfortable and uneasy with his body language.
- Is socially uneasy and has few or no friends.
- Is indecisive, fearful and full of self-doubt.
- Has no ambition or plans for his future.
- Lets her dominate him by putting her on a pedestal.
- Behaves like a lower ranking male.
Guys who behave in any of the above mentioned ways are guaranteed to fail with women every time because nothing turns a woman off faster than a weak, nervous and indecisive man. When you approach a woman, she will put you through several tests to see if you are compatible with her and if you exhibit any of the above mentioned qualities you are guaranteed to fail.
However, guys who display the following alpha male behavior will definitely walk away with the girl.
The qualities that women find attractive in men include:
- High self-esteem and assertive, confident behavior.
- A great conversationalist who is funny, interesting and charming.
- Mentally and emotionally secure; knows who he is and where he is going in life and is not afraid to show it.
- Knows how to use body language in an appropriate way to seduce her; he maintains eye contact, knows when to touch her and when to back off.
- Is a master flirt. Flirting is sexy and is an integral part of every interaction between a man and a woman, especially in the beginning.
- Has an established social circle with many friends.
- Is ambitious and a forward thinker.
- Makes her feel like a real woman.
- Behaves like an alpha male.
Shaved or Unshaven, Are You an Attractive Man?
Here’s another great video by Dan Bacon, which explains how a woman’s attraction for a man really works and how you can use it to your advantage…
If you waste your time asking questions such as, “Do women like clean shaven men?” and following the wrong advice so carelessly dished out in magazines and in advertisements, you will end up worrying about things that will not help you meet a girl.
Magazines and ads are mostly designed and written by marketing specialists. If you realize that it is very difficult to promote men’s skin products on a man sporting a beard or a moustache, you will see that marketers are trying to convince you that women prefer clean shaven men.
Fortunately, women are actually not that shallow and what makes them feel attraction towards a man has actually got nothing to do with whether he is clean shaven or not.
It does however have everything to do with whether he exhibits alpha qualities, whether she feels that you are compatible together, whether you are fun and exiting to be with and whether you are a go-getter who has plans for his life and is doing something about it.
Of course just like some men prefer blondes to brunettes, so will some women prefer clean shaven men to one’s with facial hair; but ultimately even this will be overlooked if the guy has all the characteristics of the alpha male.
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