Flirting is the key to making a woman feel sexually attracted to you. It’s the secret language that men and women need to speak to each other to say, “I want to have sex with you” without actually having to say it.
A lot of guys make the mistake of telling a woman that they like her and thinking that the woman will be excited to hear it. A woman will only be excited to hear that you like her if you’ve made her feel sexually attracted to you first.
Flirting is one of the quickest, easiest and most discreet ways to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you. If you avoid flirting with women, you will make dating and relationships unnecessarily difficult for yourself.
Some guys look at flirting a silly, pointless mind games that women want to play. Yet, there is a point to it. A woman’s attraction to a man is different to a man’s attraction to a woman. Watch this video to understand why…
The Fine Art of Flirting
Flirting is like a fine art. Come on too strong and you’ll be labeled as the weird, creepy guy. Apply flirting too lightly and the girl may not even notice it.
The best way to avoid messing it up is to simply believe in yourself, no matter what. Believe that whatever you are doing to flirt with her is more than good enough. When she feels that confidence coming from you, she will become more attracted and when a woman is really attracted to a guy, she fully opens herself to flirting with him.
Start flirting smarter with these proven flirting tips for guys:
Tell her that she’s sexy: In a confident, easy-going, but also subtly sexual way, tell her that she’s sexy. Look her in the eyes, smile a bit and say, “You’re sexy.” If you have been behaving in a confident way around her, she will be feeling attraction for you and she will welcome the compliment.
She will usually then flirt back by giggling or displaying submissive body language (e.g. dipping her chin down and looking up at you like a little girl, biting her bottom lip, looking shy, etc).
Say it without words: As a man, you are mostly turned on by how a woman looks, whereas a woman is more attracted to your actions, behavior and vibe. So, when you are talking with her, show your attraction by looking at her with a slight, mischievous smile.
Do this once or twice during a conversation and you’ll notice that she’ll become a shy and smile back at you. That’s a perfect example of subtle flirting. All of a sudden, it will be like you and her have a private understanding between you.
You are essentially telling each other that you feel attracted to each other without actually saying it. If she wasn’t attracted to you, she wouldn’t return the smile and would likely ask you, “What are you smiling about?” in an annoyed or assertive way.
Reach out and touch her: On a first date or during the first conversation, just touch her on the side of the arm while talking to her. Do it in a calm, easy-going and confident way. When she notices that you have the confidence to reach out and touch her, she will naturally begin feeling more attraction for you.
Women are mostly attracted to a guy’s confidence, so if you display confidence in the right way, women will naturally feel attracted to you. Another way of initiating touch is if you’ve only just met her and she says something cute of silly.
Simply reach out and give her a little tickle for a second, then say “You’re cute…that was funny.” Touching her in this way isn’t the most obvious way of flirting, but women do feel as though you’re flirting with them.
To make it more obvious, simply add in the mischievous smile while you’re talking to her. The key to using the mischievous smile is to smile at her as though you KNOW that she wants to have sex with you. When you are thinking in that manner, you will be doing the smile correctly.
Are You Ready to Master Flirting For Real?
Are you simply surfing around the web for free tips, or do you want to master the art of flirting so you can have your choice with women? I have given you a quick intro into flirting, but there are 100s more flirting tips for guys that I can teach you right now.