What is Conversation?

Conversation (in terms of women & dating) is the KEY that opens the door to sex, dates, love and relationships with women.

If you struggle to keep conversations going and keep them interesting when talking to women, you will find it almost impossible to progress through the stages to sex and a relationship. To follow on with the 'key analogy', without conversation - the door to women, love and relationships will be 'locked shut' and you'll be left out in the cold. Ever get that feeling about your lack of success with women?

Moving on, let's get TECHNICAL for a second and look at the dictionary definition for conversation followed by a more practical definition..

Conversation (noun): An interchange of thoughts, information, ideas, etc by spoken words.

Now for the 'Modern Man definition' (in terms of dating & attraction): Conversation brings you and a woman together long enough for a connection to develop and for all the OTHER communication to take place.

After reading the Modern Man definition, you may be wondering what I mean by, “...for all the OTHER communication to take place” The other communication that takes place during a conversation between you and a woman includes:

• Flirting and sexual communication.
• The hidden meaning of your expressions, words, questions, statements and things that you don’t say.
• The social and academic intelligence that you demonstrate (or don’t demonstrate) while talking to the woman.
• The vibe that you create when talking to the woman.
• What you are like as a person, based on everything you're saying (and not saying), doing (and not doing) when talking to the woman.

If you pull back from the actual words being spoken between a man and a woman during a conversation, you will see that conversation (in terms of dating and attraction) is REALLY just a chance for a man and a woman to subtly determine whether or not they are compatible with each other.

It's during a conversation that a man and a woman can quickly work out whether the person is worth getting emotionally invested in or not. If a woman sees no reason to 'care' about you/get emotionally invested in you, then she won't. This is not because the woman is a cold-hearted person; she is merely screening out all the guys that she isn't compatible with.

To dramatically improve your compatibility with women, the first thing you need to focus on is how you make women feel during conversation. If your conversation doesn’t make a woman feel the emotions she wants to feel around a guy, she won’t like you. It’s as simple as that.

In addition to making women feel good, being great at conversation also allows you to:

• Connect with most women you talk to. This dramatically increases the chances of you getting to sex or finding a girlfriend or wife, compared to a guy who can only 'kind of' connect with 1 or 2 women out of 100.
• Hold the attention of a woman long enough, so you can move from an initial conversation to a date, then to sex and into a loving relationship.
• Communicate to a woman that you are a potential lover or boyfriend, rather than 'just a friend' or someone she should ignore.
• Quickly and easily demonstrate all of the qualities women are looking for.
• Communicate on a sexual level in the non-sleazy way that women appreciate.
• Demonstrate that you are socially intelligent and 'cool', rather than being an outsider, an awkward type, or a guy who isn't liked by most people.
• Instantly make women feel comfortable in your presence.
• Easily navigate your way through life’s obstacles and challenging situations by talking your way through it.

In essence, conversation gives you the power to get more of what you want. When you’re good at conversation, people will like, respect and listen to you more. When you know how to talk to a woman in the way she desires, she will give you what you want: Sex, love, respect and a relationship.

If you'd like to learn the secrets to being a master conversationalist and talking your way into sex and loving relationships with women, make sure you listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation. It contains all the ingredients for having amazing, exciting, fulfilling and interesting conversations with women.