How can you get your ex back if you’ve made the classic mistake of begging and pleading with her?
It’s pretty simple.
You’ve got to laugh it off.
You’ve got to see it as not being a serious mistake because the truth is we all make mistakes in life.
We all live and learn, and sometimes when a person is going through an emotional situation, a challenging situation, sometimes they will make mistakes in their communication and behavior and they might even learn from that.
If a guy is a great man, if he’s becoming a better man over time in life, then he’s going to learn from his mistakes. He’s not going to continue making the same mistakes over and over and over again.
Just because he made a mistake, it doesn’t mean that he’s a failure. It doesn’t mean that he’s a bad man, a hopeless man, an unattractive man, a no-hoper.
Instead, it’s simply a learning opportunity. It’s a mistake that he has made and he has learned from it.
What to Say to Your Ex About How You Begged Her For Another Chance
When you talk to you ex about the fact that you were begging and pleading, you can laugh and say that we all make mistakes in life.
“Yes, I was being silly. You’ve probably said or done silly things in the past, too,” and then just laugh it off. Tell her, “I get it now. I was being a bit silly and I now look back and laugh at how I reacted. I care about you, but that was just an immature way to react, as you’d probably agree.”
From then on, you just need to be a confident, masculine man in every interaction that you have with her, and she will then begin to respect you again.
She’ll begin to forget about the mistakes that you’ve made because, hey, you’re able to look at it and laugh at it and say, “Yeah, I was being a bit silly there. We all make mistakes in life. I’m sure you’ve made some mistakes at times. When I look back at it now, I think that was pretty silly of me to react like that, but, hey, we all live and learn.”
From then on, just be the confident, masculine, mature man that you have now become.
Don’t let her continue to bring that stuff up or don’t let it continue to make you feel bad and feel like you’ve made a fatal mistake, a horrible mistake, that you’re hopeless, that you’re a horrible man for doing that.
You’re not hopeless for doing something like that.
It’s simply something that has caused you to learn and become a better man.
You have learned from it.
You have grown from it.
There’s nothing wrong with that. We all make mistakes in life.
Everyone makes mistakes, but what sets a man apart and makes him a great man is when he learns from his mistakes and becomes a better man as a result.
Getting Her Back
Some guys reading along now will now say, “Oh, thanks, Dan. That’s awesome. I’m going to use that advice to get my ex back” and he will then contact his ex, have a chat with her, meet up with her and get the relationship back together.
Whereas other guys might say, “Well, that’s great. It’s awesome, but I still feel emotionally weak. I feel like I’m not going to be able to be that strong around her. So what should I do?”
That’s where my program comes in.
If you do need help, if you’re not feeling emotionally strong, if you don’t know what to say or do around to her to make her feel respect, attraction and love for you, that’s when I recommend you should watch my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System.
It’s 10 hours of video, and by the end of it, you will feel emotionally strong. You will be confident when you interact with her, and you will know how to get her to feel respect, attraction, and love for you again.
Getting Past Your Mistake
If you have made the mistake of begging and pleading to your woman after she broke up with you, just don’t worry about it.
Seriously, it’s not that big of a deal.
People make mistakes all the time.
You are a great man if you learned from that mistake and become a better man as a result. You’re not a failure for doing that.
There is nothing wrong with you for doing that.
You’ve simply learned something in life, and have become a better man as a result.
That is something to feel proud of, to feel confident about and to be happy about.
So, make sure that you let your ex see that you are confident in yourself now and are already way past learning a lesson from that experience.
You now know that begging and pleading is a silly, immature reaction and you are confident, wise and mature enough to be able to laugh at it and see it as a lesson learned.
When she notices that you have that kind of confident, forward-moving, mature mindset, she won’t be able to stop herself from respecting you for it.
However, regardless of how she reacts, you need to be confident and guide her through the reconciliation process.
You can’t ever expect her to say, “Wow! You learned a lesson! Okay, let’s get back together.”
Letting her see that you’ve learned a lesson is simply about allowing her to relax and see that you’re not the same guy who was begging and pleading with her.
You’ve matured, become stronger and become wiser and are now a more appealing option to her than you were before.
From there, you need to have the confidence to guide her back into a relationship with you.