The way to reverse a breakup is to guide your woman through 3 emotional steps.
The 3 emotions are respect, attraction and love.
So first, you make her feel respect for you again.
Once you do that, it’s easier to make her feel attracted to you again.
When she feels respect and attraction, you can then quickly get her to fall back in love with you.
For some guys watching this video, they might think, “Well, that sounds really difficult. She doesn’t want anything to do with me right now. How am I going to get her to be in love with me?”
Well, think back to when you were in a relationship with her and things were going well.
Can you remember times where you and her were in love and everything was going along well, but all of a sudden she lost respect for you for some reason?
As a result, she didn’t want you to hug her, kiss her, or be near her.
For example, you may have been hanging out at home, things were going along well and then you said or did something that caused her to lose respect for you.
You may have been insecure about something, emotionally sensitive, you might have gotten really angry about something or shown her a side of yourself that she didn’t really like.
As a result, she lost respect for you.
If you can think about how she would have reacted, her body language would have changed, her mood would have changed.
Suddenly, she would have been looking at you like, “Get away from me,” and if you tried to hug her or kiss her, she would have pushed you away.
If you think back to those moments, what you’ll realize is that when she lost respect for you at that time, she also stopped feeling attracted to you.
So, if she was normally attracted to you because you’re so confident and cool and funny, all of a sudden, you’re not so confident, cool and funny to her.
If she was attracted to you for other reasons, then suddenly, you’re not so appealing anymore.
She doesn’t want you anywhere near her, she is annoyed by you and she’s looking at you and thinking, “What am I doing with this guy? What have I seen in him in the past? What is going on here? Why am I feeling this way?”
Another thing to notice is that when she stopped feeling respect for you and then stopped feeling attracted to you, that didn’t go on forever.
You were able to get her respect back and you were able to make her feel attracted to you again.
When she was respectful of you and feeling attracted to you, then she could be in love with you again and everything would have been back to normal.
Now, the same rule applies when getting your ex back.
Of course, it might seem a little bit more extreme right now because she has broken up with you and she says she doesn’t want anything to do with you, but you need to understand that the same emotional process applies.
To get her back, you need to get her to respect you again.
When she respects you, she can feel attracted to you.
When she respects you and feels attracted to you, she can then start to love you again.
She will fall back in love with you.
Example of a Man Losing the Respect, Attraction and Love of His Woman
So, let’s look at an example of how a man would have lost the respect, attraction and love of his woman and then let’s look at how you can actually get her respect, attraction and love back.
Okay, so this is the example of where a man lost the respect, attraction and love of his woman.
For some reason, he started becoming insecure and feeling jealous in the relationship.
He then started being controlling, clingy and needy.
She then started to lose respect for him because he wasn’t as emotionally strong as he used to be.
Women want to be with an emotionally strong man, not an emotionally weak man.
Women respect emotional strength and they feel attracted to it.
On the other hand, women don’t respect emotional weakness and are not attracted to emotional weakness when in a relationship with a man.
So, she started to lose respect for the fact that he wasn’t an emotionally strong man anymore.
As a result, she started changing how she treated him.
She wasn’t as affectionate anymore.
She wasn’t as loving and warm as she used to be.
The man then started getting irritated about that.
He was annoyed that she could change all of a sudden.
He was doing his best to treat her well and he was really serious about the relationship with her, but she didn’t seem to be into it as much as she used to be.
So, the man started changing how he treated her.
He was nice to other people and seemed like he was a good man to her when they were around other people, but behind closed doors, he put her down, expected too much from her, made her feel stupid, got angry at her for little things and expected her to be nice, sweet and loving all the time even though he wasn’t treating her that way in return.
As a result, she not only stopped respecting him, but she stopped feeling attracted to him.
She then began to fall out of love with him and let him know that she was unhappy.
In reaction to that, the man started becoming emotionally sensitive.
She had to treat him nicely and speak positively to him at all times or else he would start sulking, getting angry or moody.
Eventually, she had enough of it and she broke up with him.
Unfortunately, that happens in a lot of relationships even when the relationship starts out really well and the couple are in love.
All it really takes is something to begin going wrong where the man starts losing the respect of his woman and it can snowball out of control.
She suddenly stops feeling as attracted to him as she used to be and he notices it and then he starts getting emotionally sensitive or treating her badly to retaliate and so on.
The whole thing just starts to fall apart.
Here’s the thing though…
When a guy is in a situation like that and his relationship is starting to fall apart, he can use the same process that you can use to get your ex back to stop his relationship from falling apart.
He can make some quick changes and improvements and adjustments to allow her to fully respect him again.
When that happens, she will start feeling attracted to him.
She will actually feel more attracted to him than she used to feel because he will have leveled up as a man.
For example, he would have become more confident, more emotionally strong, more emotionally masculine and so on.
As a result, they will enjoy a better relationship than they were having prior to the problems beginning to emerge.
So, in terms of you getting your ex back, the same emotional process applies.
Getting Her Respect, Attraction and Love Back
To get her back, you’ve got to interact with her and make her feel respect for you again.
When you do that, she will then automatically be able to feel attracted to certain things about you.
The more respect and attraction she feels, the easier it will be for her to fall back in love with you.
Just like with the example of the guy in the relationship, when you get an ex woman back and you have leveled up as a man and can now make her feel more respect and attraction for you, the love that she feels and the attraction that she feels will be stronger and more meaningful than it was before.
You can literally have a better relationship with her than you had before.
So, what are some examples of how you can get her to respect you again, feel attracted to you and be in love with you again?
In terms of respect, this is about leveling up as a man.
If a man was very boring and neutral in his relationship with his woman, he needs to level up and start being a little bit more interesting and alive.
He needs to make her feel like there is some excitement to the relationship, there is a spark there, there is something for her to be excited about.
If a man was emotionally sensitive and insecure, he needs to level up by being more confident and emotionally strong.
In terms of attraction, this can be about making her smile, laugh and feel good in your presence.
It can also be about flirting with her and building up sexual tension by making her feel attracted, but not kissing her right away.
So, you’re making her want you and feel attracted to you, but you’re not releasing the buildup of sexual tension right away.
You’re making her really want it.
In terms of love, this can be about physical contact such as hugs, kisses and sex.
Physical contact like that helps the romantic and sexual love to begin flowing again.
So, that’s the fundamental emotional process that you need to guide your woman through.
You get her respect back, she starts to feel attracted to you and she begins to fall back in love with you.
The more respect and attraction you make her feel, the stronger her newfound love for you is.
Unfortunately, where a lot of men go wrong is that they try to get their woman back before taking her through that 3-step process.
She doesn’t feel much or any respect for him, she doesn’t feel much or any attraction for him and she doesn’t feel like she’s in love with him.
Yet, he’s trying to get her back, he’s trying to convince her to give him another chance because he loves her so much and he’s so sincere about doing things better this time around.
Unfortunately, that just doesn’t hit the mark for her.
What he needs to understand is that the main thing he needs to focus on is interacting with her in such a way that she naturally feels a renewed sense of respect and attraction for him.
He doesn’t have to tell her that things are going to be different and promise the world to her.
He simply needs to interact with her and naturally make her respect him again, naturally make her feel attracted to him again.
So, say for example, a guy was a bit too emotionally wimpy in the relationship. She was able to push him around and essentially dominate him in the relationship.
She got sick and tired of that because she wanted a man with a bit more balls.
When he interacts with her again after the break up, he needs to show her that he’s no longer like that.
She’s going to be able to pick up on it based on the subtleties of his body language, attitude, tone of voice and what he’s saying and doing and so on.
He doesn’t need to tell her that he’s not emotionally wimpy anymore.
She’s going to pick up on it.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys don’t understand that or they don’t get told that, so, when they’re interacting with their ex woman, they are asking for another chance before even getting her respect back.
Other guys are making the mistake of trying to sell themselves to their ex woman and say, “Hey, I’ve changed. Things will be different, I promise. I’ll do better, I’ll do anything you want,” and so on.
Those approaches don’t work.
What works is naturally making a woman feel respect and attraction for the new and improved you when you interact with her.
When you make your ex woman feel respect for you again, everything begins to change.
She starts feeling sparks of attraction for you.
She begins looking at you with different eyes.
She starts looking at you as a guy that she can respect and feel attracted to.
The more respect and attraction you make her feel for you, the more she starts to feel like she’s falling back in love with you.
It’s a natural organic process.
It just happens automatically.
You don’t have to try to push it on a woman or convince her of it or talk her into it.
You simply need to interact with her in such a way that naturally triggers her respect, attraction and love for you.
Your Situation is Unique, But it Can Be Fixed
In your situation, it might seem difficult because she said, “I don’t want anything to do with you anymore. I’m over it. I don’t have any feelings for you. Get away. Leave me alone,” and so on.
Yet, what you need to understand is that she was saying those things based on how she used to feel about you.
You can make her feel differently.
You can make her respect you again.
You can make her feel attracted to you and you can make her fall back in love with you.
Okay, I hope you’ve enjoyed this video and learned something from it.
If you’d like to learn more, I recommend that you watch my program Get Your Ex Back Super System
When you watch the program, you will learn exactly what to say and do to make her give you another chance.
She will feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you and the love will begin to flow back into her heart again.
She will feel like she’s in love with you again.
She will want to be with you and you will get her back.
The Love Between You and Her Isn’t Dead
One final point that I want to make for you in this video is that the love between you and your ex isn’t dead.
Instead, she has simply disconnected from the love.
She can reconnect to the love that you and her created together.
That is something that doesn’t die.
It doesn’t go away.
It’s simply something that either the man or the woman, or both of them, disconnect from.
However, when the right conditions are in place (i.e. she respects you and she feels attracted to you), she will naturally and automatically begin to reconnect with the love.
The more respect and attraction you make her feel, the more she will feel like she’s in love with you.
So, if you want to reverse the breakup that you went through recently or a long time ago, just understand that there is a simple 3-step process that you can use.
The 3 steps are get her to respect you again, make her feel attracted again and she will then reconnect with the love and begin to fall back in love with you.
The question is though: Are you going to do it?
Are you going to interact with your ex and make it happen?
Are you going to interact with her and make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you?
It’s up to you.
You are in control of the situation now.
If you want her back, then interact with her and make it happen.
You can do it.
Go and get her back.