Most women will act as though they aren’t interested in a guy when they actually do like him.
For example: If a woman really likes a guy, but is pretending not to be interested, she might ignore him, make fun of him or take a long time to reply to his texts or messages.
Why would a woman do that to a guy?
In most cases, a woman will act like she isn’t interested so can test the guy’s confidence in himself. If she then notices that he loses confidence in himself and feels like he doesn’t have a chance with her, she will lose interest in him because women are attracted to confident guys and turned off by insecure, self-doubting guys.
A woman might also play hard to get with a guy because she wants to see how interested he really is. Many guys try to get women interested just to feel good about themselves, but never actually follow through and ask her out or make a move to kiss her and begin a sexual relationship.
So, rather than wasting time with another one of those guys (and potentially ending up feeling rejected), she will act like she isn’t interested to see if he will pursue her and get her to go out with him on a date.
Make Her Feel Attracted to You and She Will Be Interested
Success with women is pretty simple when you have the skill of being able to trigger a woman’s feelings of sexual attraction for you.
Watch this video to understand how it works…
As you will discover from the video above, it doesn’t matter if a woman shows you obvious interest or whether she’s the type to play hard to get – when you make her feel attracted, she WILL be interested.
Signs That a Woman Isn’t Interested
If a woman doesn’t feel sexually attracted to a guy at all, she will try to make it clear that she doesn’t see him in “that” way.
When a guy first approaches a woman and she is not interested in him at all (no matter what he tries to do to attract her), she might…
- Be cold and aloof towards him.
- Turn her body away from him during conversation.
- Roll her eyes at him when he tries to talk to her.
- Excuse herself and move away.
- Tell him, “I’m waiting for my boyfriend,” even if she doesn’t have one.
- Tell him, “I’m just here having fun with my girlfriends. Can you leave us alone?”
- Avoid smiling at him and will instead keep her body language closed off (e.g. keep her arms folded and her legs crossed and look away from him).
- Respond in one-word answers whenever he tries to make conversation with her.
When a guy is familiar with a woman already (e.g. a coworker) or friends with a woman and she is not interested in him she might…
- Treat him as a friend and if he tries to initiate anything romantic with her she will say something like, “I don’t want to ruin our friendship,” or “I just don’t feel about you that way,” or “You’re like a brother to me.”
- Use him as a shoulder to cry on when another guy dumps her.
- Talk to him about her sexual experiences with other guys.
- Not flirt, giggle or touch him in suggestive ways during conversation.
As you can see, the signs that a woman is not interested in you can be pretty obvious.
However, just because a woman is not interested in you right now, it doesn’t mean you can’t change how she feels.
The key to making a woman, who is not interested in you become interested in you, is to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
For example: If you’ve only being a nice friend to her so far and haven’t been doing anything to make her feel aroused or turned on, you need to change that.
Watch this video to understand why a woman usually won’t have any sexual interest in the guys who are simply nice to her all the time…
As you will discover from the video above, there’s nothing wrong with being nice to this woman you like.
However, if you want her to be interested in you in a sexual way, you’ve got to focus on triggering her feelings of arousal and sexual attraction.
There are more than 100 different ways that you can attract a woman during an interaction and one of those (for example) is to have a masculine vibe that makes her feel girly and feminine in your presence.
You Can Change How She Feels About You
Most guys assume that when a woman is not interested, her feelings for him are set in stone and cannot be changed. She either wants him or not and there’s nothing he can do about it.
Yet, that’s not how it works at all.
Human feelings are not static; they change all the time.
For example: Think back to a time when you found yourself not liking a person (maybe someone at university or at work), yet when that person changed their behavior and the way they interacted with you, your feelings towards them changed as well and you may have even ended up being good friends.
In the same way, when you can make a woman see you in a way that triggers her feelings of respect and attraction for you as a man, she will begin to see you in a new light and she will go from feeling “not interested” to feeling “very interested” in you.
What If I’m Just Not Her Type?
This is where many guys go wrong.
They assume that a woman’s interest in them is dependent on their good looks, money or social status and, if they don’t have those things, she will simply “switch off” because he’s not her type at all.
Most guys think this is how women choose men, because this is how men choose women.
Men are initially attracted to women because of their looks. Regardless of whether a woman is cold, shallow, bitchy or not that intelligent, if she’s beautiful (or even just slightly attractive), most guys will still want to have sex with her.
Think about it.
You most-likely see women all the time and instantly decide that you would have sex with them, simply based on their appearance.
You probably don’t care what the woman’s personality is like and are instantly attracted because of her looks.
That’s how a man’s attraction for a woman works. It’s not just you.
On the other hand, most women (not all) feel attracted to men based on other qualities besides their looks, money or status.
Yes, a woman will initially judge a guy based on how he looks (after all, when she hasn’t met him yet there is nothing else for her to base her opinion of him on).
However, once she meets him, his superficial qualities will be less important to her than his less “visible to the eye” qualities, such as his confidence, emotional masculinity and his ability to make her feel feminine and girly in his presence.
Yes, some women only want a guy who is perfectly good looking like a male model, but most guys aren’t male models and they still get laid, get a girlfriend and get married to hot women.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man really works, which is the opposite of what you will get told by the media and even by women themselves…
When you fully understand that making a woman feel attracted to your personality and who you are as a man is the real key to triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you, you will stop looking for signs that a woman is not interested in you, and will start doing the things that make women feel automatically attracted and interested in you.
When You Trigger Her Feelings of Sexual Attraction She Will Automatically Feel Interested
If you want to get a woman to be interested in you in a sexual way, you need to make her feel sexually attracted to you based on how you interact with her…not based on how you look.
A woman’s interest towards a guy is mostly determined by what he says and does in her presence.
1. Does his conversation style turn her on or turn her off?
Guys who are nervous and insecure around women will be too serious during conversation, or will ask her too many questions in a row, making her feel like she’s in an interview rather than interacting with a potential “boyfriend.”
2. Is he able to make her feel feminine in his presence, or does he make her feel neutral or bored to be talking to him?
Some guys believe that letting a woman know they are interested in her sexually is wrong.
So, instead of flirting with her and making her feel excited to be interacting with him (e.g. attracting her and then saying something like, “You’re sexy…I like you”), he will be very polite and try to flatter her by giving her endless compliments about her beauty, which only make her think he’s trying to “suck up” to her so that she will like him as a person.
Basically, the more ways you can make a woman feel attracted to you while interacting with her, the more interested in you she will be.
Success with women is really very simple once you understand that and begin doing it.
As a guy, you can’t expect a woman to feel attracted to you just because you walked up to her and said hello, or because you’re her friend and you do nice things for her.
You’ve got to actively trigger her feelings of attraction by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm, humor, etc).
Instead of wasting your time looking for signs that a woman is not interested in you, work on actively making her feel attracted to you when you interact with her.
When you do that, this woman will feel excited to be with you and will do her best to let you know that.
However, don’t expect her to make it completely obvious that she likes you and wants to be with you.
As I explained at the beginning of this article, some women play hard to get and act like they aren’t interested because they are trying to find themselves a guy who remains confident in himself no matter what.