Here are 5 things that may happen throughout your life, if your ex actually was actually the one for you.
1. You move on without her and always miss her, even if you’re in a happy relationship with another woman
You might be married to another woman and have a family with her, yet one day you could be walking in the mall, or watching TV and you catch a glimpse of a woman who resembles your ex.
Your heart skips a beat and you realize that after all this time, you still miss her.
You still wonder what it would have been like if you had worked things out with her and she was now your wife.
Of course, that’s not the ideal scenario.
No guy wants to spend his life wondering if another woman other than the one he’s married to is the one.
So, why risk it?
You still have a chance to re-attract your ex and get her back.
Then, even if she doesn’t turn out to be the one, you won’t have to spend the rest of your life wondering about it.
You will know for sure.
So, what should you do now?
Some of the things you can do that will re-spark her feelings of respect and attraction for you are:
- Understand her true reasons for breaking up with you (e.g. you wanted different things in life, you weren’t manly enough, you became too emotionally dependent on her).
- Begin improving those things about yourself.
- Improve your ability to attract her (e.g. make her feel relaxed and happy around you, make her feel girly and feminine), so she will definitely have some feelings for you again the next time you interact with her.
- Get to the point where you feel happy with, or without her in your life (e.g. focus on your dreams and goals, have fun with friends or other women), so she can see that even though you want her back, you don’t need her back.
Once you’ve begun to make some adjustments and improvements to yourself (you don’t have to be perfect, you just need to be at a different level from where you were when she broke up with you), call her up on the phone and let her experience the new you.
Re-attract her and get her back.
You then never again have to wonder, “What if my ex was the one?” because you will know the answer.
2. She always thinks of you and wonders why
Even if a woman moves on, if she feels that her and her ex had a special connection, she might never fully forget about him.
Yet, something a lot of guys don’t realize, is that even if a woman continues to have feelings for him, she probably won’t make a move to let him know.
There are several reasons why, including:
- She doesn’t want to make a fool of herself if she contacts him and he then rejects her and says, “Sorry. I just don’t feel that way about you anymore.”
- She doesn’t want to make herself seem too desperate and easy, especially if she’s the one who initiated the breakup.
- She doesn’t want to help him feel confident (i.e. because she wants to see that he’s able to feel that way without her encouragement).
So, rather than make it obvious that she’s open to getting back together again (e.g. by calling and suggesting a catchup), your ex will likely wait for you to take the lead in the ex back process.
If you have the confidence and courage to make the first move, she will automatically feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
She then opens up to working things out and being your girl again.
However, if you don’t do anything, she will eventually give up hope.
She then forces herself to get over you, usually by meeting, hooking up with, dating and falling in love with another man.
Yet, she may always keep the thought of you at the back of her mind and wonder why you never had the courage to re-attract her and get her back.
Don’t let that happen.
Make a move and get her back.
She could be waiting for you right now.
3. You end up becoming emotionally detached and never experiencing true love with other women as a result
If your ex really was the one, you might notice that even though you keep getting into new relationships with other women and even when those relationships start out well, eventually they just fizzle out.
In most cases, the woman gets bored and eventually cheats on you or dumps you because you’re just not making her feel the way she wants to feel (i.e. attracted, in love, desirable and wanted).
As a result, she always feels like she’s putting in way more effort to try and please you to get your attention (e.g. she does nice things for you, wears sexy clothes to make you feel attracted to her), but it never seems to work.
Instead, you continue to be closed off and possibly even cold towards her, which makes her feel the opposite of the way she wants to feel (i.e. she wants to feel loved but she feels rejected).
Unfortunately though, what you might not realize is that by constantly wondering if your ex was the one and then closing yourself off from love with other women as a result, you’re stopping yourself from finding real happiness with a new woman, or even with your ex.
You just end up making yourself unhappy.
Is that what you really want?
If the answer is “No,” then take action and get what you really want in life (i.e. your ex back in a relationship that’s even better than before).
4. You eventually forget about her, meet another ‘one’ and happily settle down with her
That might not seem possible right now because you’re probably still experiencing the pain of the breakup with your ex.
Yet, over time, you might realize that even though you and her had a unique and special connection, that doesn’t mean you can’t find another woman who is perfect for a guy like you.
In reality, there are many millions of different women across the world who can easily be the one for you.
When you find that woman and are happy with her, you will quickly forget about your ex.
If you do happen to think about her from time to time, you might laugh and say to yourself, “I can’t believe I thought she was the one. I’m so happy with my girl now. My life has turned out perfectly.”
You then live a happy, fulfilled life without any regrets and you never look back.
5. You miss your ex for years, but gradually stop feeling attracted to her as you see her age via social media
She might have been perfect for you when she was 19, in her 20s, or in her early 30s, but what about when her body changes after having a number of children?
Will you still find her attractive?
How about when she’s 50, has had a lot of life experience and no longer has the same youthful glow as she once did?
Here’s the thing…
When a woman is truly the one for you, it won’t matter how old she gets, how many wrinkles she has or even if she gets sick and needs you to take care of her (e.g. she gets cancer, has a car accident and becomes paralyzed).
In your eyes, she will maintain the beauty that initially made you fall in love with her.
She will always be young, interesting and the one woman you want to be with, no matter what.
If you can picture yourself with your ex when she’s old and wrinkled and you still feel love and attraction for her, then you shouldn’t sit around and do nothing.
You should take action and get her back, while you still can (i.e. before she gets married, or has children with a new guy and settles down).
On the other hand, if the thought of her as an old woman turns you off, then she’s not the one for you.
As a result, you can then move on and find the one, without ever doubting whether or not you made the right decision to move on without her.
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